Fembera chii? Vanhu vane nhumbu havadi kuti iwe utaure nezvehukuru hwavo

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• Izvi ndizvo zvaungataura

Kubva "Iwe uri mudiki!" kuti "Wakakura!" uye zvese zviri pakati, hazvina basa chete.

Chii chiri nezve kuve nepamuviri chinoita kuti vanhu vafunge kuti miviri yedu inogamuchirwa kuti vataure nezvayo uye kubvunza?

Kubva kune vandisingazive vachindiudza kuti ndaive mudiki sei mukati meyangu yepiri trimester, kune mumwe munhu wandinoyemura zvikuru achindiudza kuti ndaive "hombe" zvinotyisa mutatu trimester, kune murume wechikuru wandinopfuudza mangwanani ega ega ndichinyevera, "Iwe uchave handina kugadzikana munguva pfupi iri kutevera! ” makomendi pamitumbi yedu iri kuchinja inogona kubva kumativi ese uye masosi.

Kubata pamuviri inguva yekukuvara kukuru. Haisi chete matumbu edu ari kukura, asi mwoyo yedu, saka zvinosuwisa kuti izvi zvakare apo patinova tarisiro tsika kune vamwe vanhu kushushikana.

Pakutanga, ndaifunga kuti ndainyanya kunetseka. Ndine nhoroondo yekusagadzikana kwekudya, uye isu takatambura kurasikirwa nepamuviri nepamuviri pedu pekutanga, saka chero zvataurwa zvine chekuita nemuviri wangu zvakakonzera kunetseka.

Nekudaro, kutaura kune vamwe vane nhumbu, ndakatanga kuona vashoma vedu tisina chekuita nematauriro asina kufunga aya.Kwete chete zvinokuvadza, asi zvakare zvinomutsa kutya sezvo ivo vachiwanzosungwa kune kugara zvakanaka kwevana vedu.

Apo ini nemurume wangu takabata pamuviri kechipiri, mumvuri wekurasikirwa nepamuviri pekutanga wakamira pamusoro pangu. Isu takarwara ne "kurasikirwa nepamuviri" panguva yedu yekutanga nhumbu, uko muviri unoramba uchiratidza zviratidzo kunyangwe mwana amira kukura.

Izvi zvaireva panguva yangu yepamuviri yepamuviri ndakanga ndisingachagoni kuvimba nezviratidzo zvepamuviri kuratidza kukura kwakanaka. Panzvimbo iyoyo, ndakamirira miniti yega yega yemazuva ese chiratidzo chakajeka chekukura kwemwana wedu - bundu rangu.

Ndakanga ndisina ruzivo rwekuti iwe haugone kuratidza nemwana wako wekutanga kusvika mukati memu trimester yako yechipiri (kana chechitatu sezvazvakaitika kwandiri), saka pakapera mwedzi 4, 5, ne6 uye ini ndanga ndichiri kungo tarisa kufufutirwa, zvainyanya zvichikonzera kuti vanhu vataure pachena kuti "ndaive mudiki sei." Ndakazviwana ndichifanira kugutsa vanhu, "Mwana ari kuyera zvakanaka. Ndangoenda kwachiremba ”- uye zvakadaro, zvakadaro ndakazvibvunza mukati.

Mashoko ane simba uye kunyangwe iwe uine humbowo hwesainzi hwemufananidzo we ultrasound wakagara padhesiki rako, kana mumwe munhu akabvunza aine hanya zvakanyanya kana mwana wako akagwinya, haugone kubatsira asi kushamisika.

Shamwari yaive zvakare yakatakura diki mune nhumbu yazvino, zvisinei kusiyana neni, mwana wavo anga asiri kuyera mushe. Yakanga iri nguva inotyisa kwazvo kumhuri yake, saka vanhu pavakaramba vachinongedzera saizi yake kana kubvunza kana aive kure sezvaaive, zvaingomutsa kunetseka kwake.

Izvi ndizvo zvaungataura

Sezvo shamwari, mhuri, neruzhinji mune izvi zviitiko, kana uine hanya nehutano hwemwana weumwe munhu zvichienderana nehukuru hwedumbu rake, pane kuvatyisidzira mberi, pamwe tarisa naamai uye ubvunze zvakanyanya kuti sei ' kunzwa zvakare. Kana vakasarudza kugovana, teerera. Asi hapana chikonzero chekunongedzera saizi yemumwe munhu.

Vane pamuviri vanhu vanopfuura kuziva chimiro chedumbu ravo, uye kune zvikonzero zvakawanda zvakasiyana zvatakatakura nenzira yatinoita. Ini zvangu, ndiri murefu. Muchiitiko cheshamwari yangu, mucheche aive zvechokwadi panjodzi. Neraki, mwana wake ava noutano uye akakwana - uye hazvisi izvo zvakakosha kupfuura kukura kwedumbu rake?

Kumwe kunhu mumwedzi wechinomwe, dumbu rangu rakakura zvisingaite uye kunyangwe ndaive ndichiri kufunga kuti ndaive mudiki kana ndichienzaniswa nevamwe vakadzi vane nhumbu muvhiki imwechete, iko kutsva kutsva kwesarudzo kubva kune vamwe kwaive "kukura" Ini ndanga ndichishuvira dumbu nhumbu yese, saka iwe waizofunga kuti ndingafare, asi pachinzvimbo nhoroondo yangu yekudya yekukanganisa yakabva yangomutswa.

Chii icho nezve izwi "rakakura" rinokuvadza kudaro? Ndakaona ndichinetsana nevasingazive kuti ndaive nemwedzi kana miviri yakanaka kubva pakuzvara. Zvakadaro, vakasimbirira kuti ndakagadzirira kuzvara chero miniti.

Kutaura kune vamwe vabereki, zvinoita kunge kwakajairika kuti vanhu vausingazive vanofunga kuti vanoziva zuva rako rekutarisirwa zvirinani kupfuura iwe kana kuti vane chokwadi chekuti uri kuva nemapatya, sekunge kuti ndivo vaisaririra chiremba wako.

Kana iwe uine shamwari yepamuviri kana nhengo yemhuri iyo yakura zvishoma kubva pawakapedzisira kuvaona, pane kuvaita kuti vanzwe zvakashata nekushandisa mazwi akaita se "hombe" kana "hombe," edza kuvarumbidza pane zvinoshamisa feat zvekukura munhu kuva. Mushure mezvose, izvi ndizvo zviri kuitika mukati meya bump iwe yaunowana zvichishamisa. Pane munhu mudiki imomo!

Kana, nokutendeseka, mutemo wakanaka ungave wekuti kunze kwekunge iwe uchizotaurira munhu ane nhumbu kuti akanaka sei, pamwe usataure chero chinhu zvachose.

Sarah Ezrin anokurudzira, munyori, iyo yoga mudzidzisi, uye iyo yoga mudzidzisi mudzidzisi. Yakavakirwa muSan Francisco, kwaanogara nemurume wake nembwa yavo, Sarah ari kuchinja nyika, achidzidzisa kuzvida-rudo kune mumwe munhu panguva. Kuti uwane rumwe ruzivo nezvaSara ndapota shanyira webhusaiti yake, ww2w.chaponde.com.