5 Nzira Taylor Swift Aizoziva Kuti Abuda Mudondo

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Pakati pehusiku neChipiri, mimhanzi superstar Taylor Swift (uye cat lady extraordinaire) akapa vateveri vake rwiyo rutsva kubva kuarubhamu yake iri kuuya, 1989, yakanzi "Kubva Mudondo." Kunyange asingataure chero mazita (ahem, Harry Styles) pane synth-heavy track, T. Swift akaudza Good Morning America kuti rwiyo rwunoreva "kutora fragility uye hunhu hunoputsika hwehukama."

Nenziyo dzakaita senge "Tave kubuda musango here? Tave mune yakajeka izvozvi?" mutsindo unobata chokwadi unoenzanisira zvazvinoita kuva mukati mekutambudzika kwehukama hutsva. Ndiwo manzwiro e "mufaro, asi zvakare, kunetseka kwakanyanya uye kunzwa kwekushamisika kwekushamisika," sekutaura kwaSwift.

Inzwi rakajairika? Nesuwo. Usanetseke, Taylor-tose tavepo. Kudanana nemumwe munhu waunopenga nezvake kunonakidza asi kusagadzikana-kwetsinga panguva imwe chete. Saka tinoziva sei kana isu "takachengeteka" muhukama? Takataura naPatti Feinstein, wekufambidzana uye nyanzvi yehukama, kuti adzidze zviratidzo zvishanu zvekutaura kuti uri "mune yakajeka."

1. Hausi kushamisika kuti achafona riini.

Panzvimbo pekutarisa foni yako zuva rose uchimirira kuti zita rake riratidzike, unogona kugara pasi uye wozorora nekuti une chivimbo chekuti uchanzwa kubva kwaari-kana kuti une zvirongwa kare. "Anoti, 'Ngatiunganei neChishanu. Ndichakutora pa9," anodaro Feinstein. Kunyangwe iwe usina zvirongwa zvekongiri, iye anonyora achiti, "Riri sei zuva rako?" saka unoziva kuti ari kufunga nezvako.

2. Wakagadzikana zvachose paari.

Iwe unoziva kuti wakarova hukama lottery apo iwe uchigona kuve wega naye-pasina makeup, nekufema kwemangwanani, kana panguva yako-uye zvese zvinotonhorera naye zvakare, Feinstein anodaro. Uye kana kurukurirano yenyu yadzikama, hautangi kutaura zvisina kunanga pamusoro pemamiriro okunze—nekuti kunyange kunyarara kunokatyamadza hakunzwi zvakanaka naye.

3. Makasangana nemhuri dzevamwe.

Chinhu chikuru muhukama chero hupi zvahwo, kushanyira mhuri yake kunoratidza mukana wekuti, kuroora mariri. Uye rangarira, hausi muedzo chete kuti uone kana vachikuda, Feinstein anodaro. "Tarisa masimba emhuri yake: Vabereki vake vanowirirana sei? Vanogarisana sei?" Iwe unoda kuve nechokwadi chekuti tsika dzemhuri yake dzinoenderana neyako.

4. Wakamborwa-uye iwe wakakwanisa kuburikidza nazvo.

Zviri nyore kuwirirana mukutanga kwe fluttery kutanga, asi chinonyanya kukosha muhukama chero hupi kana iwe uine kusawirirana-uye iwe unogadzirisa nazvo. "Uchapopotedzana zvakare mune ramangwana, saka unoda kukwanisa kutaura zvakanaka uye kusvika kune rimwe divi rayo pamwe chete," Feinstein anoti. Hazvina mhosva kuti nyaya yacho yakakura sei kana idiki (kungave kuodha chiJapan chekudya kwemanheru), wakakwanisa kuigadzirisa-wakadzikama.

5. Hausisiri kubvunza mibvunzo iyi futi.

"Ichi ndicho chiratidzo chekutanga chekuti zvese zvakanaka," Feinstein anodaro. Mibvunzo yakaita "Tiri pachena here?" zvakasununguka kuenda kana iwe uchiziva mumoyo mako kuti ndiye iye, uye pane kunetseka kana kunetseka, iwe une pfungwa yerunyararo rwakazara.

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