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Paunowana kukokwa kuti uende kumafaro pane yakasarudzika igloo-themed bar muNew York City, zvakaoma kuramba. Ndozvandakazviwana ndasungirirwa mupaki nemagirovhosi, ndakamira padivi peshamwari yangu yepamoyo uye ndichibvunda zvishoma pataikweva cocktails kubva mumikombe yakagadzirwa neaizi. Isu takakomberedzwa nevakadzi vazhinji vakapfeka zvakanaka vane makore makumi maviri nemakumi matatu, vese vakaita mudungwe kutora mifananidzo mu Mutambo weZigaro-style chigaro chakakoshwa mune icicles. Asi hwakange husiri usiku hwekuvhura bhawa, uye isu takange tisipo kwemafashoni vhiki rapfuura. Isu takanga tiripo kuti tidzidze nezve mazai echando.

Ndakanga ndisiri mumusika wekuomesa mazai-Ndinongova nemakore 25. Asi ndakanga ndanzwa nezvemapati ekuomesa mazai, uye, semupepeti wezvehutano, ndakafadzwa nekudzidza nezvenzira itsva dzesainzi dzaikurudzira iyi biological clock-defying. teknolojia. Uye ndakanga ndisiri ini ndega; vamwe mazana maviri evarume nevakadzi vaive vasaina online kuenda kumafaro akaitirwa naNeway Fertility. (Tsvaga Icho Chokwadi Nezve Kubereka uye Kukwegura.)

Mazai echando auya nenzira yakareba kubva pakaunzwa nzira nyowani-inotonhora inonzi vitrification (maitiro ekuyedza kusvika 2012) -inotisa mazai nekukurumidza zvekuti hapana nzira yemakristani echando kuumba. Izvi zvinoita kuti zviite kubudirira kupfuura nzira yapfuura inononoka kutonhora, nekuti pane kukuvadza kushoma kuzai. Uye mwero wepamusoro wekubudirira unoreva kuti vakadzi vazhinji kupfuura nakare kose vari kusvetukira mubhodhi.Muchokwadi, mazai anotonhorera-mapato epoizhinji evakadzi nevaroorani vanofarira maitiro-ari kubuda munyika nemumaguta ane huwandu hwakanyanya hwevakadzi vane pfungwa dzebasa.

Sezvo vatambi vacho vakatiendesa kure nechando chigaro uye kupinda mune imwe kamuri kuti tinzwe kubva padanho revatauri, ndakafunga, 'Apa ndipo pavanotiudza isu tiri mukutanga kwehupenyu hwedu uye isu tese tinofanira kufisa mazai edu, regedza kuva nevana, uye tiise pfungwa dzedu pachedu.' Kwete chaizvo.

"Ndiri pano kuzotaura newe nezve simba rekubereka," akadaro Janelle Luk, MD, director director kuNeway Fertility, mutauri wedu wekutanga.

Zvakanaka, ndinogona kugara ndichitsvaga kupiwa simba kwevakadzi! Luk akaenderera mberi achitsanangura kuti chinangwa chake chikuru kudzidzisa vakadzi nezve yavo miviri zvisati zvanyanyisa, nekuti kunyangwe paine kusaenzana kwakawanda vakadzi vachiri kutarisana nako, imwe inguva yedu yehupenyu. Asi kutonhora kwezai kunobatsira kuyera nhandare, zvichiita kuti zvive nyore kune vaviri vane makore ekupedzisira makumi matatu kubata pamuviri. Sekutaura kwaLuk, chibereko hachina zera, asi mazai ane mazuva ekupera - kutaura zvazviri, zera revabereki rakakura rinotsanangurwa sekukura kupfuura makumi matatu nemashanu, apo vakadzi vane njodzi yakawedzera yekubata nhumbu isina kujairika. Mazai matsva nemazai akaomeswa nechando zvese zvinozoita hunyengeri kana zvasvika pakusangana, vanongoda kuve vadiki.

Uye mune dzimwe nhau vangadai vakakudzidzisa mukirasi yehutano… Waizviziva here kuti mumakore ako ekutanga makumi matatu, unongova nemakumi maviri muzana mukana wekubata nhumbu imwe neimwe, maererano neAmerican Society for Reproductive Medicine? Izvo zvinonzwika zvinotyisa, asi zvazvinoreva ndezvekuti iwe unogona kubata pamuviri mukati memwedzi mishanu yekuedza. Nhamba iyoyo, zvisinei, inodonha mukati memakore mashanu, uye unenge wakaderera zvishanu kubva muzana pamakumi matatu.

Mushure mokunge Luk ave nesu tese tichinzwa kuburitswa kunze (stats will do that to you), akatiudza kuderera kwemaitiro echando ezai. Pfupiso inokurumidza: Mushure mekuonana nachiremba uye kuongororwa kunoverengeka nekuongororwa, unobaiwa mavhiki maviri ekubaya majekiseni kuti ukurudzire kugadzirwa kwemazai mashanu kusvika gumi nemaviri maringe neakajairika aunogadzira pachiyero; ipapo chiremba anotora mazai nekuisa tsono mukati memukadzi wako (iwe wakagadzikana) uye kushandisa teknolojia ye ultrasound kutungamirira tsono ku ovary uye kubvisa mazai kubva mufollicles. Ipapo mazai acho ari echando-akachengetwa kusvikira iwe wafunga kuashandisa.

Isu takanzwawo kubva kumurwere uyo achangobva kumomesa mazai ake-akatsanangurira boka kuti mushure mekunyoroveswa, iwe unomuka uine zvishoma zvekurwadziwa mudumbu, zvakafanana nezvaungasangana nazvo munguva yako. Akativimbisa kuti mukadzi wake wainge wakanyatsonaka shure kwaizvozvo. (Chinhu chakanyanya kuipa? Majekiseni acho anogona kukonzera kuzvimba. “Budisa marokwe ako, nekuti ungasada kupfeka bhurugwa,” akanyevera kudaro.

Mubatsiri wezvekurapa director kuNeway Fertility, Edward Nejat, MD, akatipa imwe nhanho yechokwadi: Imwe ongororo inoratidza kuti mazai anogona kungoomeswa nechando kusvika kumakore mana, saka kana iwe uri kufunga izvi, taura nachiremba wako nezve zera ripi zvakakunakira-kunyangwe makore makumi maviri ari bheji rakanaka uchifunga nezve kudonha kwekubereka mushure memakumi matatu. Kubudirira kwehuwandu kunogona kubva pane zvakawanda zvinhu, zvinosanganisira nguva yekuchengetedza, huwandu hwemazai akaomeswa, uye zera. (Psst ... Hezvino Zvese Zvaunoda Kuti Uzive Nezve mazai Kutonhora.)

Iye zvino zvatakange tave nezvose zvakazara? Kudzokera kubhawa, kwataigona kutaura nevatauri pamusoro pe spiked hot chocolate. Vazhinji vanhu vaiita kunge vakapiwa simba neruzivo, kunyangwe pamwe vasina kugadzirira kusaina ipapo. Uye mukupedzisira, izvo zvakanzwa sekuvavarira-kuve nechokwadi kuti vakadzi vanoziviswa. Yakanga iri yakawanda info yekunyudza mukati, asi kungoziva kuti mazai echando yaive sarudzo yaitaridza kuita kuti vanhu vanzwe kugadzikana (uye kuzorora zvakakwana kune chimwe chinwiwa).

Uye mutengo weusiku: mahara! Asi kune avo vanopfuura neaya chaiwo mazai echando, kumwe kutenderera kuchavamhanyisa vakakomberedza $ 6,500. Hapana akamboti vana vakachipa!

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