Zvinorevei Kuva Zvese Zvinonhuwirira uye Zvepabonde?

Zvemukati

• Ivo vakafanana here?
• Zvinorevei kuva munhuwi?
• Zvinorevei kuita asexual?
• Zvinorevei kuziva nezvose zviri zviviri?
• Kune here zvimwe zvitupa pasi peasexual / anonhuwirira amburera?
• Izvi zvinoita sei pakuita?
• Izvi zvinorevei kune hukama hwakabatana?
• Zvakanaka here kusada hukama zvachose?
• Ko bonde?
• Unoziva sei kuti apa ndipo paunokwana pasi pemamburera ece, kana zvachose?
• Ndekupi kwaunogona kudzidza zvakawanda?

Ivo vakafanana here?

"Aromantic" uye "asexual" hazvireve zvakafanana chinhu.

Sezvinoratidzwa nemazita, vanhu vanonhuwirira havawani kukwezva kwerudo, uye vanhu vanoita zvepabonde havawani kukwezva pabonde.

Vamwe vanhu vanoona sezvese anonhuwirira uye asexual. Nekudaro, kuzivisa neimwe yeaya mazwi hazvireve kuti iwe uzive imwe yacho.

Hezvino izvo zvaunoda kuti uzive nezve kunhuhwirira, asexual, kana zvese zviri zviviri.

Zvinorevei kuva munhuwi?

Vanhu veAromantic vanoona kushoma kune kukwezva kwerudo. Kukwezva kwezverudo kuri pamusoro pekuda hukama hwekudanana nemumwe munhu.

Tsananguro ye "hukama hwehukama" inogona kusiyana kubva pamunhu kusvika pamunhu.

Vamwe vanhu vane hwema vane hukama hwepabonde zvakadaro. Ivo vangangoda kudanana pasina kunzwa kukwezvana kune mumwe munhu chaiye.

Izvo zvinopesana neanonhuhwirira - kureva kuti, mumwe munhu anokwezva nerudo - ndiye "alloromantic.“

Zvinorevei kuita asexual?

Vanhu vanoita bonde vanoona zvishoma kukwezva pabonde. Mune mamwe mazwi, ivo havanzwe kudiwa kwekurara nevamwe vanhu.

Izvi hazvireve hazvo kuti havamboite bonde - zvinokwanisika kuita bonde nemumwe munhu usinganzwe kukwezva pabonde kwaari.

Izvo zvinopesana neasexual - ndiko kuti, mumwe munhu anowana kukwezva pabonde - ndiye "wese ngochani."

Zvinorevei kuziva nezvose zviri zviviri?

Havasi vese vanhu veasexual vanonhuwirira, uye havazi vese vanhu vanonhuwirira vari asexual - asi vamwe vanhu vese vari vaviri!

Vanhu avo vese vane hwema uye asexual vanoziva zvishoma kusave nekukwezva pabonde kana kudanana. Izvi hazvireve kuti havapinde muhukama hwepabonde kana kuita bonde.

Kune here zvimwe zvitupa pasi peasexual / anonhuwirira amburera?

Kune mamwe mazwi mazhinji anoshandiswa nevanhu kutsanangura hunhu hwavo hwepabonde uye rudo.

Mamwe emazita ari pasi peasexual kana anonhuwirira amburera anosanganisira:

• Izvi zvinoita sei pakuita?

  Wese munhuwi anonhuwirira asexual munhu akasiyana, uye munhu wega wega ane zvakasarudzika zviitiko kana zvasvika kune hukama.

  Nekudaro, kana imi mese muchinhuhwirira uye asexual, unogona kuziva necimwe kana zvimwe zvezvinotevera:

  • Wanga uine chishuwo chidiki chehukama hwepabonde kana hwehukama nemumwe munhu chaiye.
  • Unonetseka kufungidzira kuti zvinoita sei kuva murudo.
  • Unonetseka kufungidzira zvinoita ruchiva.
  • Kana vamwe vanhu vachitaura nezvekunzwa kuita bonde kana kudanana nekukwezvwa nemumwe munhu, haugone kunyatso rondedzera.
  • Unonzwa kusarerekera kana kunyangadzwa nepfungwa yekuita bonde kana kuve murudo.
  • Iwe hauna chokwadi kana iwe uchingonzwa chete kuda kuita bonde kana kuve muhukama nekuti ndizvo zvinotarisirwa kwauri.

  Izvi zvinorevei kune hukama hwakabatana?

  Aromantic asexual vanhu vanogona kunge vachiri nerudo kana hukama hwepabonde, zvinoenderana nemanzwiro avo.

  
  

  Kune, shure kwezvose, zvakawanda zvinokurudzira kuita zvepabonde nemumwe munhu kana kupinda muhukama - hazvisi zvese nezvekukwezva kwavari.

  Rangarira kuti kuva aromantic uye asexual hazvireve kuti mumwe munhu haakwanise rudo kana kuzvipira.

  Kunze kwekukwezva pabonde, vanhu vangangoda kuita bonde kuitira kuti:

  • kubata vana
  • kupa kana kugamuchira mufaro
  • kubatana nemumwe wavo
  • ratidza rudo
  • kuyedza

  Saizvozvo, kunze kwekukwezvana nerudo, vanhu vangangoda kuve nehukama hwehukama kuitira kuti:

  • mubati-mubereki nemumwe munhu
  • zvipire kune mumwe munhu wavanoda
  • kupa uye kugamuchira rutsigiro rwepfungwa

  Zvakanaka here kusada hukama zvachose?

  Ehe! Iwe haufanire kunge uri murudo kana hukama hwepabonde kuti ufare.

  Rutsigiro rwemagariro rwakakosha, asi iwe unogona kuwana izvo kubva mukukudziridza hushamwari hwepedyo uye hukama hwemhuri - izvo zvatinofanira kuita tese, tingave tiri muhukama kana kwete.

  "Ukama hweQueerplatonic," izwi rakaumbwa nevanhu vanonhuwirira uye vemagariro, rinoreva hukama hwepedyo husiri hwekudanana kana hwebonde. Ivo vari padyo kupfuura hushamwari hwepakati.

  Semuenzaniso, hukama hweplateonic hunogona kusanganisira kugara pamwe chete, kubatana mubereki, kupanana rutsigiro rwepamoyo uye rwemagariro, kana kugovana mari nemabasa.

  Ko bonde?

  Ehe, zvakanaka kuti usade kuita bonde. Hazvireve kuti chimwe chinhu chakakanganisika newe kana kuti inyaya yaunofanirwa kugadzirisa.

  Vamwe vanoita zvepabonde vanoita zvepabonde, uye vamwe vanoita bonhora. Vamwe havaite bonde.

  Vanhu vanoita zvepabonde vanogona kunge vari:

  • Zvepabonde-averse, zvichireva kuti havadi kuita bonde uye vanowana iyo pfungwa isingafadzi
  • Zvepabonde-zvisina basa, zvichireva kuti havanzwi zvakanyanya nezve bonde chero nzira
  • Zvepabonde-zvinofadza, zvichireva kuti vanonakidzwa nezvimwe zvebonde, kunyangwe kana vasina kusangana nemhando yekukwezva

  Vanhu vanogona kuona kuti manzwiro avo pabonde anochinja nekufamba kwenguva.

  Unoziva sei kuti apa ndipo paunokwana pasi pemamburera ece, kana zvachose?

  Iko hakuna bvunzo yekuona yako pabonde kana kudanana maitiro - uye izvo zvinogona kuita kuti zvive zvakati omei kuti uzive.

  Kana usina chokwadi kuti unokwana pasi pemaambura / anonhuwirira amburera, unogona kufunga zvinotevera:

  • Joinha maforamu kana mapoka - senge maAVEN maforamu kana maReddit maforamu - uko iwe kwaunogona kuverenga nezve vamwe 'zviitiko seasexual uye anonhuwirira vanhu. Izvi zvinogona kukubatsira iwe kuona ako manzwiro.
  • Taura neshamwari yaunovimba nayo inonzwisisa chinonzi asexuality uye aromanticism.
  • Joinha asexual- uye inonhuhwirira-inoshamwaridzika LGBTQIA + mapoka kuti ubatanane nevanhu vane pfungwa dzakafanana mumunhu.
  • Ita zvishoma fungidziro uye funga zvaunonzwa nezvebonde uye kudanana kukwezva.

  Pakupedzisira, iwe chete ndiwe unogona kuona kuti chitupa chako chii.

  Rangarira kuti munhu wese weasexual kana munhuwi anonhuwirira akasiyana uye munhu wega wega ane ake akasiyana zviitiko uye manzwiro kana zvasvika kune hukama.

  Ndekupi kwaunogona kudzidza zvakawanda?

  Kune akati wandei epamhepo zviwanikwa kune vanhu vanoda kudzidza zvakawanda nezve asexuality uye aromanticism.

  Heano mashoma.

  • Asexual Visibility uye Dzidzo Network, kwaunogona kutsvaga tsananguro dzemazwi akasiyana ane chekuita nezvebonde uye maitiro
  • Iyo Trevor Project, iyo inopa kupindira kwekutambudzika uye kutsigira kwepamoyo kune vechidiki vechidiki, kusanganisira vechidiki vanoita zvepabonde uye vanhu vanonhuwirira
  • Asexual Mapoka, webhusaiti iyo inonyora asexual mapoka pasi rese, sezvinoita Aces & Aros
  • emunharaunda asexual kana anonhuwirira mapoka uye Facebook mapoka
  • maforamu senge iyo AVEN foramu uye iyo Asexuality subreddit

  Sian Ferguson munyori wekuzvimiririra uye mupepeti anogara muCape Town, South Africa. Zvinyorwa zvake zvinofukidza nyaya dzine chekuita nerunyararo, cannabis, uye hutano. Unogona kusvika kwaari zvichienda mberi Twitter.