Kupisa Tora: Kukuya Ndiwo Unonyanya Kukoshesa Bonde Mutemo

Zvemukati

• Uh, Iwe Unorevei Nekuti ... Kukuya?
• Nei Kukuya Zvepabonde Matombo
• Maitiro Ekuita Kugaya Bonde Kunzwa Kunyangwe Zvirinani
• 1. Pfeka zvechiitiko.
• 2. Wedzera lube.
• 3. Bop muchivhara.
• 4. Uyai neshamwari inopupurika.
• 5. Edza kumira uchikuya bonde.
• Ongororo ye

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Nepo munhu wese anotsvaga mafaro achigamuchirwa kune avo mafungiro uye zvavanofarira, ( * isa Carrie Bradshaw izwi *) Ini handina kukwanisa kuzvibvunza kuti: "Vanhu vari kushandura-pfupi vachinakidza mafaro avo nekusiya vachikuya kare?"

Zviripachena, ndakanga ndine hunch mhinduro yaive yakakura mafuta YES. Asi ini ndiri nyanzvi yezvebonde mutapi, saka ndakatora nzira yekuferefeta ndikataura naTaylor Sparks, mudzidzisi wezvematongerwo enyika uye muvambi weOrganic Loven, pamwe nevamwe vanotsvaga mafaro avo vakachengeta chiitiko ichi mumitezo yavo yepabonde nguva refu mushure mekunge ' d kutanga kuverenga Iyo Mubati Mune Iyo Rye.

Uh, Iwe Unorevei Nekuti ... Kukuya?

Tisati tanyura mune yangu chirevo chetsananguro (kuti kukuya ndiko kwakanyanya uye kusanyatsoita bonde-kugona), ngatitorei peji rimwe chete nezve izvo kukuya kunyange. Chaizvoizvo, kukuya chero chiito chepabonde apo munhu mumwe chete ari kukurudzira nhengo dzavo dzekunze pane chimwe chinhu kana mumwe munhu.

Inogona kunakirwa wega uchishandisa mutsamiro, ruoko rwemubhedha, makwikwi ako pachako, kana mhuka yakamonera, anodaro Spark. Kana, inogona kunakidzwa nemudiwa. Panguva yekutamba kwakabatana, kukuya kunogona kutaridzika sekukwizisana-kwepabonde-uine, kana usina kana hembe. Asi, inogonawo kutaridzika senhengo-pa-chidya, genital-on-hip, nezvimwewo, kukwesha, anodaro.

Kukuya kunogonawo kuzivikanwa sekunze, coital alignment, tribadism (vulva-on-vulva grinding), kana kupuruzira zvinorema. Kana mapato ese akabatanidzwa akapfekedzwa zvizere, inonziwo humping yakaoma, nepo kana mapato ese akashama zvizere nekukwiza nhengo dzavo dzakavandika pamwe, zvinozivikanwa sekukanganisa. Munyika ipi apo bonde risina kufanira kunakidzwa ringava nemazita akawanda kudaro? (Hazvaida!)

Nei Kukuya Zvepabonde Matombo

Mazwi maviri: Clitoral kukurudzira. Waiziva here 73 muzana yevaridzi vevhuvhi futi kudiwa clitoral kukurudzira kune orgasm kana kuve neakanakisa mashegasms ane clitoral kukurudzira? "Kukuya kunopa varidzi vemadzvinyu chikwiriso chinonyanya kuda kusangana nemhombwe," anobvuma Spark.

Ini pachangu, ndinonakirwa nekukuya nekuti ndinonakidzwa nesikarudzi yekusimudzira, asi glans yangu clitoris (ndicho chikamu chekunze) inonzwisisika. Kana iyo bhudhi diki ikakwidziridzwa zvakawandisa, nekukurumidza, nekukasira mamiriro ese anozoita dhanzi rakaomarara rekudzivirira clit yangu. Kwete chaizvo zvinonakidza. Nekudaro, kukuya - kunyanya, kupfeka kugaya - kunopa hum inowirirana yekumanikidza iyo inonzwa oh-so-yakanaka kurwisa clit yangu uye inokwanisa kuzviita pasina. pamusorokuikurudzira.

Sparks inowedzera kuti iyo G-gwapa inogona zvakare (zvisina kunangana) kusimudzirwa nekukuya. "Iyo G-spot inogara pasi uye kuseri kwepubic bone, saka kuisa kumanikidza pamurwi wepubic kunogona kukurudzira nzvimbo iyoyo uye kupa manzwiro chaiwo."

Nezve rekodhi: Kukuya kunogona zvakare kunakirwa kune vanhu vane penise, futi.Zvinonzwisisika kana iwe uchifunga nezvazvo: Chii chinoita basa remaoko, bonde remukanwa, uye kusangana pabonde zvakafanana? Zvose zvinosanganisira kukurudzira chikamu chekunze chepeni. "Nekuti kukwesha nekukuya zvinosanganisirawo kusimudzira chikamu chekunze kwenhengo yemurume, naivowo vanogona kukurudzira muridzi wemurume," anodaro Spark. Kana varidzi vemboro vasati vachecheudzwa, "kumashure nekuseri kwekugaya kunogonawo kufambisa chikanda chepamberi kumusoro nekudzika pasi pemboro nenzira inogona kunakidza zvisingaite."

Pamusoro pekunzwa zvakanaka, kugaya ndizvo zvinonzi Theo, 26, trans man "humbowo hwepabonde," ndosaka achida chinzvimbo ichi zvakanyanya. "Nguva yangu yekutora inondipa mukadzi dysphoria," anotsanangura. (Gender dysphoria ndipo apo mumwe munhu anosangana nekushushikana pamusoro pebonde rake rekubereka kana nhengo dzesikarudzi dzisina kufanana nehunhu hwavo.) Saka nekudaro, haafarire kuita chero chinhu chisina kufukidzwa pabonde paanenge ari kumwedzi. “Kukuya bonde kunonditendera kuti ndichengetedze mbatya dzangu dzose panguva iyoyo yemwedzi, uye ndigowana mufaro,” anodaro. "Uyezve, ndinowanzoita orgasm."

Dawson, ane makore makumi maviri nemana, mukadzi anochinjisa mukadzi anoremekedza chinzvimbo ichi nekumusimbisa. "Kukuya nembatya kunondibvumidza kuita bonde kana munhu (semuenzaniso, kumira kwehusiku humwe) ndisingade kuita hurukuro yepedyo pamusoro pesikarudzi yangu, zvandinoda zvinodaidzwa, zvichingodaro."

Zvichakadaro, Courtney, makumi matatu nemaviri, mukadzi wecisgender anonakidzwa nazvo nekuti chiitiko chengozi yakaderera. "Ndine herpes, uye handisi pamishonga yemaARV," anodaro. "Pandinofunga kuti ndingave ndave kuda kuita denda, kukuya nechipfeko chedu chemukati ndeimwe yenzira iyo ini nemukomana wangu tinoramba tichiita bonde."

Ari right: Kukuya ndizvo chiitiko chepabonde chine njodzi shoma - asi FTR, mune mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu, kuchine imwe njodzi yekutapurirana njovhera uye nepamuviri. Kana makapfeka mese, njodzi yekutapurirwa njovhera inenge iri zero. Kana, zvakadaro, kune kusangana kwepabonde-kune-genital zvinoita kuti njovhera dzipararire kuburikidza neganda-kune-ganda kusangana (HPV, herpes, syphilis, trichomoniasis) kana zvinwiwa zvepabonde (HPV, HSV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, HIV), futi. (Zvakafanana: Zvirwere Zvepabonde Zvinogona Kuenda Pachezvazvo Here?)

Nhumbu inogoneka chero munhu ane machende uye ane ovary nechibereko pavanosangana nemboro. Kunyangwe kukuya kazhinji hakuenzane neP-in-V, hapana mapurisa ekugaya, saka, kana iwe uchida kuyera P-in-V sekukuya - kana kushandisa kukuya seyakatangira P-in-V - Handidi yum yako yum. Ingoziva kuti nhumbu inogoneka kana izvo zvataurwa zvaitwa.

Maitiro Ekuita Kugaya Bonde Kunzwa Kunyangwe Zvirinani

Vimba, aya matipi mashanu ekukuya achashandura iwe - uye mudiwa wako (s) - kuva mafeni, zvakare.

1. Pfeka zvechiitiko.

"Mhando dzakasiyana dzejira rehembe dzinogadzira mhando dzakasiyana dzekusimudzira," anodaro Sparks. Izvo zvinonzwa zvakanaka kwauri zvichasiyana zvichienderana nezvaunoda iwe pachako. Denim uye corduroy, semuenzaniso, vanozvikweretesa zvakanaka kune kukweshana kwakanyanya, sezvinoita chero mazamu akazara ne seams. Sirika, kune rumwe rutivi, yakanakira kuti uwedzere kunzwa kwekutsvedza uchipokana nezvimedu zvako, anodaro.

Ini pachangu, ndinoda kukuya ndakapfeka makumbo akatambanudzwa kana ziya, izvo zvinondibvumidza kutambanudza nyore makumbo angu, uye kupinda mune chinzvimbo chinoita kuti kusimudzira nzvimbo dzangu dzinopisa dzive nyore.

2. Wedzera lube.

Usarega zita rayo remadunhurirwa ("dry humping") richikutadzisa kuwedzera kunyorova kwakatengwa nechitoro pakutamba kwako! Ini pachangu, ini ndoda kuwedzera dab diki ye lube pakati peangu marabi kudzikisira kusagadzikana kwekukonana pakati pemiromo yangu yepasi. (Ona: Sei Lube Ichiita Yese Yese Zvepabonde Zvirinani)

3. Bop muchivhara.

"Unogona kushandisa buti plug panguva ingangoita chero bonde - zvisinei neako murume kana murume wako, genitalia, kana kuita zvebonde," Alicia Sinclair, anodzidziswa bonde mudzidzisi & CEO we b-Vibe, anal anal play product company, yakambotaurwa Chimiro. "[Icho] chigadzirwa chinofadza kune chero muviri uye chero munhu."

Kunyange ini ndisina kuyedza kupfeka bhuti plug panguva yekugaya, Carter, 32, uye nemumwe wake Hannah vane. “Hannah anopfeka butt plug pese patinenge tichienda kumusangano weveruzhinji,” anodaro Carter. "Nenzira iyo kana isu tikaverevedza tichienda muwadhiropu yejasi kana yekugezera kuti tiipfeke, tinogona kuzviita nehembe dzedu dzese, uye achiri kukwanisa kuburuka," anodaro. Hannah, anoti, haakwanisi kubva pakusimudzirwa kweclitoral ega, asi anogona kana achizadzwa neburi. (Related: The Best Anal Sex Toys, Maererano neSexperts)

4. Uyai neshamwari inopupurika.

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Pakupedzisira, akabata mudonzvo pakati pemiviri yedu isu tichiroverana uye tichimbundirana nemiviri yemumwe yakanga yakapfeka zvizere kusvika, sekuenda kunoita Trey Songz bop, muvakidzani aziva mazita edu tose.

5. Edza kumira uchikuya bonde.

"Kumira nemumwe wako, nekukuya navo (kana kupokana navo), mumwe wenyu achizembera madziro kunogona kuita seksikäs nekugutsa," anodaro Sparks. Chaizvoizvo, iye anokurudzira kudzoreredza kumberi-kwakatarisa kukuya dhanzi nzvimbo yako yepakati neyepamusoro chikoro vadzidzisi vaisatendera.

"Kuwedzera munzvimbo inonakidza kunogona kukutora iwe kusvika padanho repamusoro rekupisa pabonde," anowedzera. Nekudaro, pamwe tora kuyedza wakamira uchikuya mune yejasi kabhodhi pane yako inotevera pati. Yambiro yakanaka: Sekutaura kunoita nyaya yambotaurwa, kukuya kunogona kuchiri kuchemedza, saka unoita zvakanaka kurangarira ruzha kana uri paruzhinji.

Ongororo ye