Zvese Zvemurume Bonde Dhiraivha

Zvemukati

• Stereotypes nezvechirume bonde dhiraivha
• Varume vanofunga nezvebonde zuva rese
• Varume vanoita bonhora kazhinji kupfuura vakadzi
• Varume vanowanzo tora 2 kusvika 7 maminetsi kuita orgasm
• Varume vanovhurika kuita bonde zvisina kujairika
• Ngochani varume vakaroora vane bonde rakanyanya kupfuura vanoita ngochani
• Varume havana rudo zvakanyanya kupfuura vakadzi
• Zvepabonde kutyaira uye huropi
• Testosterone
• Kurasikirwa kwe libido
• Outlook

Pfungwa dzevanhurume pabonde kutyaira

Kune akawanda mafungidziro anoratidzira varume semichina inofungidzirwa nezvebonde. Mabhuku, zvirongwa zvepa terevhizheni, uye mabhaisikopo zvinowanzo kuve nevatambi uye mapoinzi anofungidzira kuti varume vanopenga nezvebonde uye vakadzi vane hanya chete nerudo.

Asi ichokwadi here? Chii chatinoziva nezvechirume bonde dhiraivha?

Stereotypes nezvechirume bonde dhiraivha

Saka ndedzipi stereotypes nezvechirume bonde dhiraivha ichokwadi? Varume vanofananidzwa sei nevakadzi? Ngatitarisei idzi ngano dzakakurumbira pamusoro pekusangana pabonde kwevanhurume.

Varume vanofunga nezvebonde zuva rese

Imwe ongororo ichangoburwa paOhio State University yevadzidzi vanopfuura mazana maviri vanotaura nhema dzakakurumbira dzekuti varume vanofunga nezvebonde mumasekonzi manomwe ega ega. Izvi zvaizoreva pfungwa zviuru zvisere mumaawa gumi nematanhatu ekumuka! Varume vechidiki vari muchidzidzo vakataura pfungwa dzebonde ka19 nguva pazuva paavhareji. Vakadzi vechidiki vari muchidzidzo vakashuma avhareji yemifungo gumi nezve bonde pazuva.

Saka varume vanofunga nezve bonde zvakapetwa kaviri kupfuura vakadzi? Zvakanaka, chidzidzo chakaratidzawo kuti varume vakafunga nezvekudya uye kurara kakawanda kupfuura vakadzi. Zvinogoneka kuti varume vanogarika kufunga nezve bonde nekumhan'ara pfungwa dzavo. Terri Fisher, munyori anotungamira wechidzidzo ichi, anoti vanhu vaiti vakasununguka pabonde mubhuku remibvunzo yekudzidza vaigona kufunga nezve bonde nguva zhinji.

Varume vanoita bonhora kazhinji kupfuura vakadzi

Mune ongororo yakaitwa muna2009 pavanhu vakuru mazana matanhatu muGuangzhou, China, 48.8 muzana yevakadzi uye 68.7 muzana yevanhurume vakashuma kuti vakaita bonyora. Ongororo iyi yakaratidzawo kuti huwandu hwakakura hwevakuru hwaive nemafungiro asina kunaka nezve bonhora, kunyanya vakadzi.

Varume vanowanzo tora 2 kusvika 7 maminetsi kuita orgasm

Masters naJohnson, vaviri vakakosha vatsvagiri vebonde, vanopa iwo mana-Phase Model yekunzwisisa iyo yekuita bonde kuita

1. mufaro
2. bani
3. orgasm
4. chisarudzo

Masters naJohnson vanotaura kuti vanhurume nevanhukadzi vese vanoona zvikamu izvi panguva yepabonde. Asi iyo nguva yechikamu chimwe nechimwe inosiyana zvakanyanya kubva kumunhu kumunhu. Kusarudza kuti zvinotora nguva yakareba sei murume kana mukadzi kunhengo yemurume kunonetsa nekuti chikamu chemafaro uye chikamu chemawere chinogona kutanga maminetsi akati wandei kana maawa akati kuti munhu asati asvika pamugumo.

Varume vanovhurika kuita bonde zvisina kujairika

inoratidza kuti varume vanodisisa kupfuura vakadzi kuita bonde zvisina kujairika. Muchidzidzo ichi, varume vatanhatu uye vakadzi vasere vakasvika kuvarume zana nemakumi maviri nevaviri nevakadzi makumi mapfumbamwe nevapfumbamwe kungave kubhawa rehusiku kana kukoreji koreji. Vakapa kukoka kwekuita bonde zvisina kujairika. Chikamu chakanyanya kukwirira chevarume chakabvuma kupihwa kupfuura vakadzi.

Zvakadaro, muchikamu chechipiri cheongororo imwechete yakaitwa nevaongorori ava, vakadzi vakaonekwa vachidisa kugamuchira kokero dzebonde zvisina kujairika kana vari munzvimbo yakachengeteka. Vakadzi nevarume vakaratidzwa mifananidzo yevanopfimba uye vakabvunzwa kana vaizobvuma kuita bonde zvisina kujairika. Musiyano wechikadzi mumhinduro wakanyangarika vakadzi pavakanzwa kuti vaive mumamiriro akachengeteka.

Musiyano uripo pakati pezvidzidzo zviviri izvi unoratidza kuti zvetsika nemagariro zvakaita semagariro zvinogona kukanganisa zvakanyanya nzira iyo varume nevakadzi vanotsvaga hukama hwepabonde.

Ngochani varume vakaroora vane bonde rakanyanya kupfuura vanoita ngochani

Iyi nhema inonetsa kuratidza kana kuita debunk. Varume ngochani uye vakadzi vane ngochani vane dzakasiyana siyana dzezvepabonde sevamwe varume nevakadzi vanoita zvepabonde. Varume vasina murume ngochani vanogara mumaguta emadhorobha vane mukurumbira wekuve nehuwandu hwakakura hwevadikani. Asi ngochani varume vanoita mumhando dzese dzehukama.

Lesbian couples vanogona zvakare kuve netsananguro dzakasiyana pamusoro pekuti "bonde" zvinorevei kwavari. Vamwe vaviri vevabonde vanoshandisa matoyi epabonde kuti vapinde mune zvepabonde. Vamwe vanoita ngochani vanofunga bonde sekubatana bonyora kana kupuruzira.

Varume havana rudo zvakanyanya kupfuura vakadzi

Sezvakakurudzirwa naMasters naJohnson's Four-Phase Model, kufara pabonde kwakasiyana kune wese munhu. Zvitubu zvekumutsa zvinogona kusiyana zvakanyanya kubva pamunhu kuenda kumunhu. Tsika dzezvepabonde uye zvidhori zvinowanzo gadzira nzira iyo varume nevakadzi vanoona nezvebonde uye zvinogona kukanganisa nzira yavanomhan'ara nayo muongororo. Izvi zvinoita kuti zviome kuratidza nesainzi kuti varume havana zvipenyu vasingade kumutsa rudo.

Zvepabonde kutyaira uye huropi

Zvepabonde dhiraivha inowanzo tsanangurwa se libido. Iko hakuna kuyerwa kwenhamba ye libido. Panzvimbo iyoyo, bonde kutyaira rinonzwisiswa nenzira dzakakodzera. Semuenzaniso, yakaderera libido zvinoreva a zvakaderera kufarira kana kuda pabonde.

Iyo yemurume libido inogara munzvimbo mbiri dzehuropi: iyo cerebral cortex uye limbic system. Izvi zvikamu zvehuropi zvakakosha kune murume bonde dhiraivha uye kuita. Ivo vakakosha kwazvo, muchokwadi, zvekuti murume anogona kuve nehurume nekungofunga kana kurota nezve chiitiko chebonde.

Iyo cerebral cortex ndiyo grey nyaya inogadzira iyo yekunze chikamu chehuropi. Icho chikamu chehuropi hwako icho chinokonzeresa kumabasa epamusoro sekuronga uye kufunga. Izvi zvinosanganisira kufunga nezve bonde. Paunomutswa, zviratidzo zvinotangira mucerebral cortex zvinokwanisa kusangana nezvimwe zvikamu zvehuropi nemitsipa. Dzimwe dzetsinga idzi dzinomhanyisa kurova kwemoyo wako uye kuyerera kweropa kunhengo dzako dzakavanzika. Ivo zvakare vanoratidzira maitiro anogadzira erection.

Iyo limbic system inosanganisira akawanda mativi ehuropi: iyo hippocampus, hypothalamus uye amygdala, nevamwe. Izvi zvikamu zvinobatanidzwa nemanzwiro, kukurudzira, uye bonde kutyaira. Vatsvagiri vakaona kuti kuona mifananidzo inosimudzira pabonde kwakawedzera chiitiko muamygdalae yevarume kupfuura zvaaiitira vakadzi. Nekudaro, kune zvakawanda zvikamu zvehuropi zvine chekuita nekuita zvepabonde, saka izvi hazvireve kuti varume vanomutswa zviri nyore kupfuura vakadzi.

Testosterone

Testosterone ndiyo hormone inosanganisirwa zvakanyanya nemurume pabonde drive. Yakagadzirwa kunyanya mumachende, testosterone ine basa rakakosha mumabasa mazhinji emuviri, kusanganisira:

• kukura kwenhengo dzechirume
• kukura kwebvudzi remuviri
• bone uye mhasuru kukura
• kudzika kwezwi pakuyaruka
• kugadzirwa kwourume
• kugadzirwa kwemasero matsvuku eropa

Akadzika masosi e testosterone anowanzo sungwa kune yakaderera libido. Masero e testosterone anowanzo kuve akakwirira mangwanani uye achiderera husiku. Muhupenyu hwemurume, huwandu hwake hwe testosterone huri pakakwirira zvakanyanya mumakore ake ekuyaruka, mushure meizvozvo ivo vanotanga kudzikira zvishoma nezvishoma.

Kurasikirwa kwe libido

Zvepabonde kutyaira kunogona kudzikira nezera. Asi dzimwe nguva kurasikirwa kwe libido kunosungirwa kune chiri pasi pechimiro. Izvi zvinotevera zvinogona kukonzera kudzikira kwepabonde kutyaira:

Outlook

Ko murume wepabonde anotyaira anombopera here? Kune varume vazhinji, iyo libido haizombofa yakanyangarika zvachose. Kune vazhinji varume, libido inozochinja nekufamba kwenguva. Maitiro aunoita rudo uye kunakidzwa nebonde angango shanduka nekufamba kwenguva futi, sezvinoita kuwanda. Asi bonde uye kudanana kunogona kuve chinonakidza chikamu chekweguru.