Sia Cooper Akagovana Chiyeuchidzo Chakakosha Nezve Kurema Kuchinja

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Mushure mekusangana nemakumi emakore asina kutsanangurwa, autoimmune hosha-senge zviratidzo, musimboti wefitness Sia Cooper akabvisirwa mbichana mbichana muna2018.

Mumwedzi yakatungamira pakuvhiyiwa kwake, hutano hwaCooper hwakaderera zvakanyanya. Pamwe pamwe nekusangana nekuneta kwakanyanya, kurasikirwa nevhudzi, uye kushushikana, iye akawedzera uremu, izvo zvakamusiya achinzwa "kunyara," iye achangogovana pa Instagram.

"Kuve mumeso eruzhinji hakuna kuita kuti izvi zvive nyore sezvo ndaive nekutaura kwakawanda kwairatidza kurema kwangu kuri pachena," Cooper akanyora. "Vamwe vakatondiudza kuti ndinofanira kuchinja mubato wangu ndiite 'diaryofafatmommy.' Vanhu vaifunga kuti ndakanga ndangozvirega ndichienda uye ndakabatwa semurairidzi wega, ndingadai ndisina kubvumidzwa kuita izvozvo. "

Vazhinji vanhu vaisaziva kuti Cooper "airwara zvikuru panguva" yemufananidzo "usati" akatsanangura. "... nguva pfupi mushure mokunge mufananidzo 'wasati watorwa, ndakavhiyiwa zvikuru kubvisa ma implants angu uye ipapo rwendo rwangu rwekudzokera kuhutano rwakatanga," akanyora kudaro. (ICYMI, pane humbowo hwakaomarara hwekuti kudyara kwemazamu kwakanangana nenzira yakasarudzika yekenza yeropa.)

Kunyangwe achinzwa kusanetseka nekushomeka kwemashoko akashata, Cooper akagovana nyaya yake nevateveri vake kuti vazive kuti kuwedzera huremu kune zvakasikwa uye zvakajairika, zvisinei kuti uripi murwendo rwako rwekusimba. "Zvakaoma uye hazvina musoro kuti ugare pahuremu hwakareba 24/7," akanyora kudaro. "Hupenyu hunoitika, varume."

Cooper anodawo kuti vateveri vake "vamire uye vatore kechipiri kuti vafunge kuti sei mumwe munhu anga arasikirwa kana kurema" asati ataura nezvemuviri wemunhu. "Kumunhu iyeye waunoti 'warasikirwa nehuremu!' kusvika, anogona kunge achirwara negomarara kana chimwe chirwere ... kana kuti zvimwe vari kuchema nekuda kwekufa kwemudiwa.Kumunhu iyeye waungave waona kuti ‘vazvirega vachienda,’ zvichida vari kurambana kana kuti vane dambudziko reutano ravanenge vasina kudzora.” (Ona: Sei Kunyadzisa Muviri Kwakakura Kwakadaro. Dambudziko uye Zvaunogona Kuita Kuti Uzvimise)

Nhasi, Cooper anonzwa "zvirinani kupfuura zvandaimboita kare," zvese nekuti akateerera nekutaura zvaidiwa nemuviri wake. "Zvinhu zvakawanda zvachinja: Ndakasiya doro, ndakabvisa maimplants angu andainzwa kuti ari kundirwarisa (zviratidzo zvangu zvese zvakanyangarika), ndakatanga yoga, ndakachinja anti-depressant yangu, uye ndakawana chikonzero changu zvakare, "akatsanangura.

Asi pfungwa huru yaCooper ndeyekuti kushanduka kwehuremu chikamu che munhu wese rwendo, zvichireva kuti hapana nyadzi mairi. "Kungoti ndiri mudzidzisi wega anozivikanwa hazvireve kuti ndinodzivirirwa nekuchinja kwehuremu," akanyora kudaro. "Ndiri munhu. Muviri wangu hauna kukwana uye unogara uri rwendo, basa riri kuenderera mberi. Ndiri nani nazvo."

Pakupera kwezuva, hapana nzira yekuziva zviri kusangana nemumwe munhu, uye kutaura pamusoro pomuviri wemumwe munhu hazvina kumbobvira zvakanaka. "Isu tinoisa kukosha kwakawanda uye kukoshesa huremu uye chitarisiko kana kukosha kwechokwadi kuri muhutano hwako uye manzwire aunoita," Cooper akanyora. "Mashoko ane huremu hwakawanda saka chenjera uye sarudza mazwi ako nehungwaru."

Hatina kukwanisa kubvumirana zvimwe.

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