Katrina Scott Anopa Vafudzi Vake Rakajeka Kutarisa Mune Izvo Zvechipiri Kusabereka Kunotaridzika Senge
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Tone It Up mubatsiri-muvambi Katrina Scott haana kumbobvira arega kubva pakuva anotambura pamwe nevateveri vake. Akavhurika pamusoro pekukosha kwekukoshesa hutano hwepfungwa uye anga achibuda pachena nezvechokwadi chekuva amai vatsva. Iye zvino, ari kugovera chimwe chinhu chakatonyanya kukosha: kurwisana kwake nekushaya mbereko kwechipiri.
Scott nguva pfupi yadarika akaenda ku Instagram kugovera chinyorwa chinoshungurudza pamusoro pekuti sei akanyarara pasocial media semazuva ano. "Ichi chinguva chidiki chezvaive zvakaita nyika yedu nguva pfupi yadarika," akagovana padivi pechiridzwa chinoratidza kunyatsoedza kwave kuita kubata pamuviri zvakare.
Chikwata ichi mubatanidzwa wemavhidhiyo uko Scott ari kutonga zvinoita kunge IVF majekiseni ehomoni mudumbu make, angave iye kana nerubatsiro rwemhuri neshamwari. Pane imwe nguva, kunyange mwanasikana wake Isabel ane makore maviri anoonekwa achimunyaradza uye achitsvoda mudumbu make maachangobva kubaiwa jekiseni. "Rwendo urwu rwange rwuri zvese kubva pakurwadzisa moyo kusvika pakuvhiringidza, uye nerima rakanaka," Scott akanyora padivi peiyo reel. "Asi zvakandiratidza runako rwetariro, muhunhu, uye kuporeswa. Zvechokwadi ndingadai ndisina kuva neushingi hwekuramba ndichipinda pasina imi mose, mhuri yangu, shamwari, uye vanachiremba nemanesi vanoshamisa." (Yakabatana: Kwete, iyo COVID Mushonga Haikonzere Kusabereka)
Kusabereka kwechipiri, kana kusakwanisa kubata pamuviri mushure mekusununguka mwana wako wekutanga nyore nyore, hazvitaurwi pamusoro pekushaya mbereko kwekutanga - asi kunobata vakadzi vanofungidzirwa mamiriyoni matatu muUnited States (Cherechedza: Kunyange Scott asina kumbobvira ataura kuti kubata pamuviri kekutanga yaive mhepo, haanawo kunyora chero rudzi rwerwendo rwekuzvara pamuviri uya.)
"Kushaya mbereko kwechipiri kunogona kuvhiringidza uye kuvhiringidza vaviri vakabata pamuviri nekukurumidza munguva yakapfuura," Jessica Rubin, ob-gyn anogara muNew York akamboudzwa. Chimiro. "Ini ndinogara ndichiyeuchidza varwere vangu kuti zvinogona kutora zvakajairika, zvine hutano vaviri gore rakazara kuti vabate pamuviri, kuti vasashandise iyo nguva yenguva yavakaedza kubata nhumbu kare sedanda rekuyera, kunyanya paive nemwedzi mitatu kana zvishoma." (Zvakafanana: Izvo Ob-Gyns Vanoshuvira Vakadzi Kuziva Nezve Kubereka Kwavo)
Muna Kurume 2021 posvo pane yake blog, Rarama Makanaka, Scott akataura kuti akanga abvisa pamuviri kaviri muna 2020. Pashure pacho, "takanga tasarudza kusaita IVF chete.zvakadaro, "akanyora muchinyorwa." Takapotsa taenda nenzira iyoyo muna Ndira, asi chiremba wedu akatikurudzira kuti timboyedzazve. "Ipapo, akasangana nepamuviri nhumbu, izwi rekiriniki rekusununguka kwekutanga, kunoitika kana iwe uri vhiki mbiri kana nhatu dzave nepamuviri. Zvinoratidza kuti, kubvira ipapo, vakasarudza kuedza IVF. "Akanyora mu Instagram post." Asi pandakangotarisa-tarisa mumba yekumirira, ndakaona kuti hatisi toga. "Zvinogona kusarudzika kana takabata zvinhu mukati ... asi chaizvo, tiri tese mune izvi pamwe chete."
“Handizivi kuti ramangwana remhuri yedu rakamira sei, asi zuva rimwe nerimwe ndinobatisisa tariro, kutenda, uye rudo,” akaenderera mberi achidaro. (Yakabatana: Maitiro Ekudzidza Kwangu Kuvimba neMuviri Wangu Mushure mekusununguka.
Achiziva kuti hurongwa hwave hwakaoma sei, Scott akashandisa chikuva chake kupa mamwe mazwi ekutsigira kune vamwe varwi vekushaya mbereko, achivazivisa kuti havasi vega. "Kune ani zvake arikurasikirwa, kushungurudzika, matambudziko ekubereka ... kana kusava nechokwadi mukukwanisa kwavo kukunda zvipingamupinyi, ndinoda kuti uzive kuti panogara paine mwenje pauri," akadaro. "Ramba wakasimudza moyo wako, uye usambokanganwa kuti wakakodzera nyaya yakanaka. Zvakanaka kukumbira rubatsiro uye kuti unoda rubatsiro."
Ndichiri kuchengeta izvo zvisina kujeka, Scott akasiya mafeni ake aine diki diki yezviri kutevera murwendo rwake. "Kutora kwangu zai nhasi, saka ndinenge ndichizorora uye ndichipora," akanyora kudaro. ICYDK, panguva yeIVF maitiro, mazai anotorwa kubva mumazai ako, akasangana nembeu murabhoritari, uye ipapo mazai akaomeswa anoendeswa muchibereko chako, sekureva kweMayo Clinic. “Ndinongoda kuti muzive mese kuti ndinotenda zvikuru neminamato yenyu nerutsigiro,” vakaenderera mberi. "Brian neni tinozvinzwa uye zvinotipa simba rakawanda kupfuura zvatingamboisa mumashoko."
Mukupindura mukusagadzikana kwake, nhengo dzakawanda dzenharaunda yekusimba dzakagovana rudo rwavo.
Anogwinyisa hunhu Anna Victoria, uyo amene akatambura nekuzvara, akapa Scott rutsigiro rwake muchikamu chemashoko. "Saka ndinodada newe nekugovana izvi," akadaro mudzidzisi. "Tariro yako yekudzosa zai yakaenda zvakanaka uye iyo yekudzosa-yekudzosa haina kunyanyoipa kana kurwadza. Izvo zvese zvichave zviripo !!!" (Yakabatana: Anna Victoria's Postpartum Rwendo Rakamukurudzira Kuti Atange Mapurogiramu Matsva PaAkasimba Fitness App)
Mumwe mudzidzisi, Hannah Bronfman akagoverawo mamwe mazwi emutsa achinyora: "Kugovera nyaya yako pachako kuchabatsira vakadzi vakawanda. Kudada nerwendo rwako uye ini ndakabata nzvimbo iwe nevarwi vose veIVF kunze uko!"