Kupfeka Masokisi Kunokubatsira Iwe Orgasm?

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• Iko Iko Masokisi & Orgasm Tale Yakatanga
• Ok, Saka Ndiyo Dzidziso Yegwara Here?
• Zvinoshanda Chaizvoizvo here?
• Ongororo ye

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Pandakagovana hushamwari hwake hwekupfeka masokisi pamubhedha neshamwari, akandiudza kuti, "zvinofungidzirwa," kushandisa yake chaiyo izwi sarudzo, masokisi akaita chinzvimbo mukukwanisa kuita orgasm. Ndakairasa sengano yeguta. Ini ndanga ndatoudzwa kuti varume vaigona kusunga tsinde rerudzi nerurimi rwavo vaive vakanaka pakupa bonde nemukanwa uye, kunge vanga vari panogamuchirwa izvo ngano, akakwanisa kuibvisa pakarepo. (Yangu clit iri maviri inches kuchamhembe, ndapota.)

Asi sekune yenyaya dzekare dzemukadzi, ngano yemumaguta, uye runyerekupe runowanikwa kuburikidza nemutambo wetsika nhare, zvinowanzoenderana chimwe chinhu. Uye mune icho chimwe chinhu, pane kanenge kadiki kechokwadi.

Iko Iko Masokisi & Orgasm Tale Yakatanga

Mudzi wemazuva ano werunyerekupe unodzokera kune imwe orgasm yekudzidza yakaitwa muna 2005 neYunivhesiti yeGroningen kuNetherlands. Chidzidzo ichi, icho chaisanganisira gumi nematanhatu-dzinozivisa vaviri vari pakati pemakore gumi nemapfumbamwe nemakumi mana nepfumbamwe, dzaive diki uye dzepedyo. Munharaunda inodzorwa, vaviri vaviri vaiita majana ekukurudzirana, nepo huro hwavo hwakavhenekwa kuratidza kuti ndedzipi zvikamu zvaibhenekerwa, sezvakataurwa neBBC.

Chimwe chezvakakosha zvakawanikwa pachidzidzo chaive chinongedzo pakati pekunyaradza uye kugona kuita orgasm. Vakadzi, kunyanya, vanogona kuguma zviri nyore kana kutya kwavo uye kuzvidya mwoyo zvanyaradzwa. "Kana iwe uchitya, zvakaoma zvikuru kuita zvepabonde," purofesa Gert Holstege, mutungamiri anotungamira wekudzidza, akaudza BBC. "Zvakaoma kuregedza." Chidzidzo chacho chakawana kuti varume, kune rumwe rutivi, kazhinji vanowana nyaradzo mukuziva kuti vanozokurudzirwa. Saka pavanosimudzirwa, kusvika pamhedzisiro (kazhinji) hakudzivisike.

Izvi zvese zvinobatana sei nemasokisi? Chidzidzo chacho chakacherechedzawo kuti tsoka dzinotonhora dzakamira munzira yegasm: Makumi mashanu muzana evakaroorana vakakwanisa kuita orgasm vasina masokisi, asi vachiri vakapfeka masokisi, iyo muzana yakakwira kusvika ku80 muzana. Nehurombo, chidzidzo ichi chakangopaza mhedzisiro nevaroora (uye kwete nehukadzi), saka hazvizivikanwe kuti ndiani, chaizvo, akawedzera kuita masokisi. Zvisinei, sezvo Holstege akashuma kuti vakadzi, kunyanya, vanoda kunzwa kuchengetedzwa uye kunyaradzwa kuitira kuti vazorore zvakakwana kusvika pakuguma, zvine musoro kuti mhedzisiro iyi inogona kunyanya kuratidza vakadzi. (Inoenderana: 7 Hutano Mabhenefiti eOrgasms)

Ok, Saka Ndiyo Dzidziso Yegwara Here?

Zvese izvo zvakati, kuomarara-kutsvaga kutsvagiswa kwakaitwa nevane gumi nevaviri vakaroorana haisi iyo chaiyo chiratidzo chesainzi humbowo. Nekudaro, kumwe kutsvagurudza, nyanzvi dzebonde, uye vezvepabonde vakanaka pabhodhi nekushandisa masokisi kuwedzera mukana weiyo orgasm.

Kune imwe, Holstege aive pane chimwe chinhu chine "nyaradzo" yese. Nekuwedzera rukoko rwekunyaradza - chaiko, kuburikidza nemasokisi - iwe unogona kuwedzera manzwiro ekuchengetedza uye kudzikisira kushushikana, anodaro Alex Fine, CEO uye mubatsiri-muvambi weDame Zvigadzirwa.

Muna 2016, boka revatsvakurudzi muFinland rakaburitsa zvavakawana kubva kuongororo shanu dzenyika dzebonde dzakaitwa mukati memakore akati wandei kuti vaone kuti ndezvipi zvinhu zvakabatana nechiitiko chakawedzera chevakadzi orgasming. Mhedzisiro yacho yakawana kuti, kune vazhinji vevakadzi, kufanana kwavo kweyegasm kwakanyura mukuchengetedza kwepamoyo; orgasms dzaiwanzoitika kana vakadzi vaive mumamiriro nemumwe munhu "akanzwa zvakanaka" kana "akashanda zvakanaka pamoyo."

Ehezve, nyaradzo ndeyepanyama sezvazviri mupfungwa - kunyangwe kunze kwechiitiko chebonde, vanhu vazhinji vanogona kuenderana nenyaya yekuti kudziya kunounza kunzwa kwekuchengetedzeka kwepanyama uye kwepamoyo, anodaro murairidzi wepabonde nehukama Irene Fehr.

"Pamwero wekupona kwehupenyu, kutonhora kunoonekwa senjodzi mumuviri, izvo zvinoita kuti ive kurwa kana kupindura kwendege - uye ndizvo zvinopesana nemhinduro yekuzorodza iyo inodikanwa kune orgasm," anodaro Fehr. Kana paine njodzi-yekuzivisa zvinokurudzira, iyo amygdala, iyo yekutya-kugadzirisa chikamu chehuropi, inorovera mukati otomatiki kuongorora nharaunda uye kuunganidza ruzivo kuti uone kana wakachengeteka. Zvino, "senge mune chero kurwa kana kupindura kwendiza, ropa rinomhanya kubva panhengo dzakavanda nekunanga kune dzimwe nhengo huru dzemuviri dzinodiwa kuti urarame, zvichimutsa kumutsa uye zvichikanganisa nzira yekuenda kunopera," anodaro.

Nekudaro, kana muviri uchinge wakasununguka - kungave kubva mukudziya zvakakwana kana munzvimbo yakagadzikana - iwe unonzwa wakachengeteka, anodaro Fehr. "Tsandanyama dzikama, pfungwa dzinodzikira, ropa richiyerera kuenda kunhengo dzakavandika - zvese zvichimutsa kumutsa uye zvichiwedzera mukana wekupenga."

Carol Queen, Ph.d., munyori, nyanzvi yezvemagariro evanhu, uye Good Vibrations vashandi vezvepabonde, anotsinhira manzwiro aya. "Tsoka dzinotonhora dzinogona kukanganisa vamwe vanhu nekuva meseji inoramba ichikanganisa kusangana pabonde," anodaro. "Kazhinji, masimba emuviri anoshanda pamwechete kana munhu akatenderedzwa achienda kunhengo yemuviri. Kudzivirirwa kubva pamakumbo anotonhora nekupfeka masokisi kunogona kudzikamisa kukanganisa uku."

Ehezve, tsoka dzinotonhora handiyo chete yekuvhiringidza kana kukanganisa munhu angangosangana nazvo, anodaro Queen. Kugogodza kamwe kamwe pamusuwo, semuenzaniso, kunogona kukurudzira kumwe kurwira-kana-kubhururuka, zvichiisa kunzwa kwekuchengeteka mungozi.

"Inovira kunyaradza nekutenderera," anobvumirana naGigi Engle, SKYN bonde uye nyanzvi yehukama, mudzidzisi wezvebonde anozivikanwa, nyanzvi yezvepabonde, uye munyori we Ese maF cking Mistake: Gwara reBonde, Rudo, uye Hupenyu. "Kana iwe uri kufunga nezve zvigunwe zvako zvakagwamba nechando, zvinokutorera iwe kubva mundangariro yemafaro arimo - izvi zvakakosha kune orgasms sezvo orgasm iri huropi uye ruzivo rwemuviri. Kuva wakasununguka uye kunzwa wakachengeteka panguva yepabonde chikamu chikuru cheinofadza. "Uye kuva netsoka dzinodziya chinhu chinonyaradza ichocho." (Yakabatana: Kinky Bonde Inogona Sei Kuti Iwe Uwedzere Kufunga)

Zvinoshanda Chaizvoizvo here?

Ndakabvunza shamwari uye vandaishanda navo, kutanga, kana vakambonzwa nezve izvi, uye chechipiri, kana vakambozviona. Kunyangwe vanhu vazhinji vanga vanzwa nezve hunyengeri uhu, avo vakambozviedza - makumi mana neshanu muzana, asi izvi zvinobva pasarudzo ye Instagram yevanhu ~ makumi masere, mufunge - vese vaive mune hutano hwepabonde uye munda wekudzidzisa nezvebonde.

"Ndaiwanzofunga kuti kuitira bonde waifanirwa kunge usina kupfeka zvachose," anodaro Melissa A. Vitale, mutori wenhau uye muvambi weVice PR Agency, iyo inoshanda nemakambani ezvidhori zvebonde nemakirabhu ezvepabonde, kusanganisira NSFW. "Ini ndainzwa ngano yevakadzi vekare pamusoro pemasokisi ekuita bonde zvirinani nenzira iyo kana iwe ukapfeka magurovhosi hautonhori. batsira kuti uve nechimwe chinhu chinovhiringidza panguva yekutamba. "

Chirevo chekare chinoti kudziya kwemuviri wakaenzana nemuviri unodziya hakuna kunyatsojeka, zvichienderana nezvimwe zvidzidzo zvakawana kuti maoko anotonhora haakonzeri kupisa kwedumbu. Zvisinei, pepa rekushanda ra2015 neNational Bureau of Economic Research rakacherechedza kuti kushanduka kwemamiriro ekunze kwaiva nemigumisiro pakuberekwa kwekuberekwa, ichitaura kuti "kunyanya kutonhora kunogona kukanganisa coital frequency." Zvichireva, miviri vari inokanganiswa nekupisa kana tasvika pabonde.

Asi chiitiko chaVitale chinodzokera kuongororo yakabuda muUniversity yeGroningen: kunzwa wakasununguka, wakachengetedzwa, uye hunhu hwakachengeteka kune fungidziro yakagadzirira chiringo. Chokwadi, anoti zvese izvo pamwe zvakamuita iye masokisi-panguva-yebonde anotendeuka. Engle anobvumirana: "Ini kashoma pabonde ndisina masokisi pairi nekuti zvinondibatsira orgasm zviri nyore nekuti, zvakanaka, handisi kufunga nezve kutonhora kwetsoka dzangu."

Izvi zvinoreva here kuti munhu wese anopfeka masokisi maviri nguva inotevera pavanozoita bonde anovimbiswa zemo? Zvirokwazvo kwete. Asi kana usati waedza - kana kugara uchitonhora - saka zvakakodzera kupfurwa.

Mushure mezvose, hauna kana chaunorasikirwa nacho; tsvedza pamasokisi iwe aunotova nawo, kana investa mune inoshamisira, chidya-chakakwira peya inokupinza iwe mune yekunzwa. Iwe unogona kuona kuti izvo zvawakanga uchishaya nguva yese iyi inguva inodziya yemasokisi kuisa pfungwa dzako kurerukirwa, kudzikamisa iwo mazinga ekuzvidya mwoyo, uye ingorega iwe uchinyungudika uchienda kune orgasmic ecstasy.

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