Uropi Hwako Pamusoro: Rudo

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Rudo rutsva runogona kukuita kuti unzwe kunge urikuenda kupenga. Haukwanisi kudya kana kurara. Unoda kuitora pa...zvese nguva. Shamwari dzako dzinokanda mazwi akadai se "kufemereka" (uye iwe hauvarambe). Asi kunyangwe wanga uine mumwe munhu kwemakumi emakore, rudo runoramba ruchikurudzira uropi hwako nenzira dzinoshamisa, tisingarevi Kuti Hukama Hwako Hunokanganisa Hutano Hwako Zvakasimba Sei. Kutaura chokwadi, rudo runonanga kumusoro wako-chaiko. Tsvaga kuti uropi hwako hunobatanidzwa sei mukudanana kwako.

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Vamwe vanoridaidza kuti "ruchiva danho." Asi dzimwe nzira dzerudo rutsva dzinokanganisa huropi hwako dzicharamba dziripo sekureba iwe uine mumwe wako-kunyangwe kana hukama hwenyu hwakagara makore makumi mashanu, anodaro Helen Fisher, Ph.D., an biological anthropologist uye munyori we Chikonzero Nei Tichida.

Panguva ino yekutanga, Fisher anoti nzvimbo huru yehuropi-inoenderana nerudo chiitiko ndiyo ventral tegmental nzvimbo (VTA). Iyo inodzora hurongwa hwako hwemubairo, uye inoita basa rakakura mumanzwiro ako echishuwo, kugona kwako kutarisa, uye mazinga esimba rako. Sei? VTA yako inokurudzira kugadzirwa kwe dopamine-inosimudzira yakasikwa iyo inofashama mamwe matunhu emusoro wako uye inoburitsa zvinodhaka-sepamusoro, Fisher anodaro. "Unonzwa kufara uye kufara, uye pamwe ungatonyanyisa kufunga nezve mumwe wako," anotsanangura.

Anoti pane zvakare chiitiko munzvimbo yeuropi yako inonzi insular cortex, iyo inogadzirisa manzwiro ekuzvidya mwoyo. Izvi zvinotsanangura iyo dzimwe nguva-yakaoma, ingori-diki-diki-diki yekunyanyisa divi rerudo rutsva izvo zvinogona kuita kuti zviome kwauri kurara kana kudya zvakajairwa, Fisher anowedzera.

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Yako insular cortex yakanyungudika, zvinoreva kuti iwe uri mudiki nutso pane zvawaive apo rudo rwako rwakatora bapiro. Iwe ungangozonzwa kusazvidya mwoyo uye kunamatira kupfuura zvawaiita kare, uye havi yako nehope zvingangove zvakagadzikana mumigero yavo yakajairika, Fisher anodaro.

Pachine kuwedzera kwehuropi hwako kugadzirwa kweinosimudzira dopamine pese paunofunga nezve mumwe wako. Asi anogona kusadzora pfungwa dzako sezvaakaita pawakatanga kudanana, Fisher anoratidza.

Tsvagiridzo kubva kuUK inoratidza hormone inodzora mazinga ehuropi hwecortisol-iyo spike kana uchinge wakashushikana-inowanzoita kumira kana usipo nemumwe wako. Fisher anoti zvine musoro kuti iwe unzwe kusachengeteka zvishoma uye kushushikana zvakanyanya kana iwe uri parutivi nerudo rwako. (Izvi zvimwe 9 Zvebatsiro Zvehutano zveRudo zvinogona kuuya sechishamiso futi).

Yakareba-Nguva Rudo

Kunyangwe vamwe vachiti zvimwe, ongororo yaFisher inoratidza yako VPA ichiri kupisa kana iwe uchifunga nezvemurume wako. "Kunyangwe mushure memakore mazhinji, takaona iyo imwechete iyo dopamine kuburitswa uye mufaro apo vanhu vakafunga nezvevamwe vavo," anodaro. Uye chiitiko chiri mu ventral pallidum yako chakawedzera zvishoma-iyo nzvimbo inogona kuve yakabatana nemanzwiro ehukama hwakadzika, Fisher anodaro.

"Kune zvekare chiitiko mumatunhu maviri akabatana nekunzwa kudzikama uye kurwadziwa," anotsanangura, achitaura nezve raphe nuclei uye periaqueductal grey. Iye anoti pane kunyange tsvagiridzo inoratidza vanhu muhukama hune rudo vanogona kutsungirira kurwadziwa kwakawanda kupfuura kwevamwe.

Saka kunyangwe rudo rwako ruchiri nyowani kana mushe-mushe, pfungwa dzemumwe wako dzinokanganisa uropi hwako munzira dzinoshamisa. "Rudo harushanduke zvakanyanya sekufunga kwevanhu, kunyangwe mushure memakore mazhinji," anodaro Fisher. Uye iwe unogona kunyatso kutonga iyo nyowani-rudo inomutsa uye kusimudzira yako orgasm nekuyedza imwe yeaya matanhatu Naughty Bonde Zvigadzirwa mubedroom .... kana chaizvo chero kupi (ingoedza kuti usabatwe!).

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