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Kubvira achiri mudiki, Gayneté Jones anga aine mweya wezvemabhizimusi. The Bermuda-born badass (taura kuti kashanu nokukurumidza!) "yaigara ichitsvaga nzira dzekuita kuti hupenyu hwevanhu huve nyore," anodaro - uye anoenderera mberi achiita izvozvo nhasi.

Sezvo muvambi uye CEO weWakanakisisa, Periodt., Jones ari pachinangwa chekuenda kumwedzi zvishoma zvishoma, zvakanaka, zvinosemesa uye zvemukombe makapu zvakanyanya kunakidza. Asi iye haana kutanga kupuruzira yakagadzikana nguva yekupa izvozvi kubva pabheti. Asi, akatanga kunyora bhuku rinotengeswa zvakanyanya (Lucky Code), akatanga kambani yake yekutanga, akagadzira zita rake pa Instagram (kwaanova neanoteedzera vateveri ve20.5k), uye akatanga podcast, kungo taura mashoma emabasa ake mazhinji. Uye kunyangwe vese vachinakidza kwazvo, yaive podcast yake - Freedom Slay - icho chakaita sechitubu chechisikwa chake chazvino.

"Ndanga ndichibvunzurudza Ranay Orton, muridzi weGlow by Daye, papodcast yangu uyo ​​[akavaka bhizinesi rose pa] chigadzirwa - mabhoneti ebvudzi. Izvi zvakamutsa chimwe chinhu mandiri. Ndakafunga kuti zvingava zvakanaka kugadzira chigadzirwa chinogadzirisa chinetso chaicho. Panguva iyoyo, [zvisinei], ndakanga ndisingazivi kuti zvaizova sei kana kuti kutaridzika sei, "anodaro Jones. Asi, semagumo aizove nawo, masvondo mashoma gare gare Jones akaunzwa kune mugadziri wechigadzirwa (ndizvo chaizvo zvinonzwika senge: munhu anogadzira zvigadzirwa zvepanyama zvinotengeswa). "Mushure mekutaura naye, ndaiva nemoto uyu mukati mangu. Ndaida kugadzira chimwe chinhu, zvakare, "anowedzera kudaro.

Jones akaenda kunorara usiku ihwohwo, uye paakamuka mangwanani akatevera, kutenderera kwake kwakanga kwatanga. Paakasvika pamukombe wake wekuenda kumwedzi, akawana zano rake rechigadzirwa.

Mushandisi wenguva refu wemikombe yekuenda kumwedzi, Jones aiziva paifanirwa kuve nenzira yekutora zvigadzirwa zvenguva kuenda padanho rinotevera - aida kuti vashande zvirinani nemitumbi yekuenda kumwedzi, kuve nani nharaunda, uye kuve nyore mune zvehupfumi. “Handina kumbogutsikana nemikombe yandaishandisa,” anodaro. "Vakadonha uye vakanga vasina kukwana zvakakwana [kuyerera kwangu], saka ndaifanira kugara ndichipfeka padhi navo. Zvadaro, yakadzvanya: Ndinofanira kugadzira chigadzirwa chakanaka chekuenda kumwedzi chinogadzirisa nyaya idzi, "anodaro. (Yakabatana: Yese Mibvunzo Une Chokwadi Newe Nezve Mashandisiro Ekuenda Kumwedzi Mukombe)

Kuve nekuyerera kwakanyanya inyaya kunaJones, sezvazviri kune vakadzi vazhinji vatema. “Varume vatema vanoenda kumwedzi, paavhareji, vanowanzova nemwedzi inorema uye vanowanzova ne uterine fibroids,” anotsanangura kudaro. Uterine fibroids mamota asingakanganisi ayo anokura mukati memhasuru nyama yechibereko iyo inogona kukonzeresa, zvinorwadza nguva. Chidzidzo chakaongorora vakadzi mazana maviri nemakumi mana nevatanhatu vemuAmerica vane makore ari pakati pegumi nemasere- kusvika makumi matanhatu vakawana kuti huwandu hwevakadzi vane kubuda ropa kukuru kwekuenda kumwedzi hwaive hwakakwirira kupfuura huwandu hwepakati penyika hwevazhinji muzana. Ongororo yacho yakawana kuti 38 muzana yevakadzi vakashuma kuti vakaenda kuna chiremba nokuda kwekubuda ropa kwakawanda kwokuenda kumwedzi, 30 muzana vaiva ne<em>fibroids, uye 32 muzana vakati vakarovha basa kana kuti chikoro nemhaka yokuenda kwavo kumwedzi. Kunyange mafibroids akajairika - achikanganisa makumi mana kusvika makumi masere muzana muzana yevakadzi vezera rekubereka, sekureva kweCleveland Clinic - ivo vanokanganisa vakadzi vemuAfrica. Muchokwadi, tsvagiridzo inoratidza kuti vakadzi vatema vane mukana wakapetwa kaviri kana katatu wekutambura nefibroids kupfuura vamwe vavo vachena. (Yakabatana: Nei Zvakaomarara Kune Vakadzi Vatema Kuonekwa neEndometriosis?)

Chokwadi, haana kukwanisa kumisa nguva inorema ichiyerera ichitambudza vanhu vakaita saiye, asi iye aigona gadzira chigadzirwa chinovabatsira zvirinani kubata magadhi avo kuti vasazogara padivi pehupenyu mwedzi wega wega. "Ndiri kuda kupa Best, Periodt. Vashandisi mabhenefiti nemikombe yedu kupfuura [ne] makapu andakaedza kare. Ndinodawo kuti igadzirise matambudziko andaive nawo nemikombe yekuenda kumwedzi, kusanganisira kugadzira hukuru hwemikombe."

Ine pfungwa iri kukura mumweya wake, Jones akatanga kushanda achigadzira iyo pfungwa - chete kune denda repasirese rekuunza zvese kumisidzana. Kunyangwe aida kuenda nekukurumidza, denda iri, zvinonzwisisika, rakakonzera kunonoka. Chinangwa chake chekutanga chaive chekugadzira chigadzirwa munaKurume 2020. Ichokwadi? "Takapedza [pakupera] kwaGumiguru, kutanga kwaMbudzi."

Pakupedzisira, zvakadaro, denda raive sirivha: kunonoka kwakapa Jones imwe nguva yekugadzira kapu yekuenda kumwedzi yainyatsoenderana nechiono chake. Jones akapedza mwedzi yakawanda achitsvaga, kudhirowa, uye kuyedza akasiyana mavhezheni kusvikira iye (pamwe chete nemainjiniya wake wemukombe wekuenda kumwedzi) asvika kune vanotenga zvigadzirwa vachidaidza "hupenyu-hunoshanduka."

"Kufunga kwakawanda uye dhizaini zvakapinda mukugadzira izvi," anotsanangura. Kuenzaniswa nevamwe vakati wandei pamusika, makapu aJones ane yakasarudzika, inobatika-inokwanisa hwaro uye hunde inoita kuisa uye kubvisa isina-brainer (kunyangwe yevachangotanga). Izvo zvakagadzirwawo zvemhando yepamusoro yekurapa giredhi silicone - iyo "inopa yakajeka uye yakachengeteka chiitiko kune vatengi vedu," anodaro - uye pasina latex, dhayi, uye mapurasitiki. "Makapu edu akagadzirwa neU.SA, isina chepfu, vegan, inoshandiswazve, inodhura, FDA-yakanyoreswa, uye ob-gyn yakatenderwa," anodaro Jones. Uye akabatirira pachinangwa chake chekuita makapu ekuenda kumwedzi akanakira kuyerera kwakanyanya. Saizi yedu imwe inobata 29 ml uye saizi yedu yechipiri inobata 40 ml,” vanodaro. "Ivhareji saizi mbiri mukombe kubva kune mamwe makambani inotangira pa25-30 ml."

Mumwe musiyano muduku unoenda kure? Zvakanakisa, Periodt. makapu anouya nesilicone yekutakura kesi - "iyo iri nyore uye inopesana-yakanaka kuitira kuti iwe ugone kuva nayo muimba yako yekugezera," anodaro Jones. Nepo mamwe akawanda makapu achiuya nebhegi rekudhonza "kudzivirira" chigadzirwa, Iyo Yakanakisa, Periodt. silicone kesi iri nyore kuchenesa, zvirinani kudzosera lint, uye inovimbisa kuti mukombe unogara wakachena uye uchidzivirirwa kana iri, toti, kubhururuka uchitenderera muhomwe yako mazuva anotungamira kusvika kwaFlo.

Musi waNdira 11, 2021 - chingori zvishoma pasi pegore mushure mekunge Jones atanga - Zvakanakisa, Periodt. yakatanga. Mukati memwedzi wekutanga, iyo mhando yakasimbisa nzvimbo pamashefu muzvitoro gumi neshanu zvekutengesa muBermuda uye yakatengesa angangoita chiuru emikombe yekuenda kumwedzi. (Uye kana ukapedza nguva uchiona Shark Tank, munoziva nhamba idzi dzakakwana kuita kuti Daymond John adonhe shaya.)

"5 muzana chete yevanoenda kumwedzi vanoshandisa kapu yenguva. Ndinoda kuve nechokwadi kuti ndicho chigadzirwa chinonyanya kutsvakwa, "anodaro Jones. Uye ave nekutanga kukuru - vashandisi vasiya ratidziro dzakawanda dzekunyorova uye kunyorova kwechigadzirwa, vazhinji vachivimbisa kuti ikozvino zvavakashandisa Zvakanyanya, Periodt. mukombe, ivo "havasi kuzodzokera shure."

Kunze kwekuzadzisa kurota kwaJones kwekuita kuti hupenyu hwevanhu huve nyore kuburikidza nekapu yepamusoro yekuenda kumwedzi, Zvakanakisa, Periodt. yakatsaurirwawo kudzidzisa vatengi, pamwe nekusimudzira ruzivo uye kutyora zvinyadzi zvatinazvo panguva uye zvigadzirwa. Chiratidzo hachingopi kabhuku kakazara pamusoro pekushandisa chaizvo makapu, asi Jones ari kufungawo nzira dzekudzidzisa vatengi zvakawanda pamusoro pemiviri yavo uye maitiro kuti pakupedzisira vave nekunakidzwa (* gasp *) nguva yechiitiko.

Pane icho chinyorwa, kuve wakabatanidzwa zvizere chinhu chekutanga chepamusoro, zvakare. "Tinoita shuwa kuti chigadzirwa chedu hachina kwachakarerekera sezvo tichiona kwete munhu wese anobuda ropa achizivisa semukadzi," anodaro. "Hatishandisi [mazwi] 'vakadzi' kana 'vasikana,' tinoti 'vanobuda ropa, vanochengeta kumwedzi, kana vanhu.'"

Kudzorera zvakare chikamu chikuru cheiyi mishoni yakakura. "Tinodzorera dhora rimwe kubva pakutenga kwemukombe wese. Dhora rimwe rinoenda kune rubatsiro runobatsira kupedza kutengeswa kwevana," anodaro. Vatengi vakatenga mukombe gore rose vanozovhota pane imwechete yerudo - kubva pavashanu iyo Jones 'akanyatso tsvagurudza uye akaongororwa ega - achawana mupiro wegore. Zvakanakisa, Periodt. vatengi vanewo sarudzo yekupa kapu kunzvimbo yezvishandiso inobatsira kuderedza urombo hwenguva kana vatenga pawebhusaiti yemhando. Iyo kambani inoda kuita chikamu chayo kuona izvozvo zvese vanhu vane tarisiro yakakodzera panyaya yekuenda kumwedzi. (Nechekuita: Sei Uchifanira Kunyatsoita Hanya Nenguva Yehurombo uye Kusarura)

Kunyangwe zvisiri hazvo kutanga kwaJones (musikana ane ruzivo rwakawanda rwemabhizimusi), ndezveZvakanakisa, Periodt. - uye iri kukura nekukurumidza kumhanya, ichiita mucherechedzo wayo pamusika wekuenda kumwedzi.

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