Maitiro ekutsigira mumwe wako mudambudziko, Kim uye Kanye Style

Zvemukati

• Iva mhando chaiyo yemuteereri.
• Usafunge kuti vanoda nzvimbo.
• Zvichengete iwe pachako, zvakare.
• Ongororo ye

Kunze kwekunge wanga uchirega kubva kune ese enhau enhau kwemazuva akati wandei apfuura (nerombo iwe!), Ungangodaro wakanzwa kuti Kanye West akaiswa muchipatara nekuda kwekuneta svondo rapfuura mushure mekudzima zvakasara zvake. Mutsvene Pablo tour. Kunyangwe isu tisingazive iyo chaiyo ruzivo rwezvakaitika-kunyangwe celebs vanokodzera kumwe kuvanzika kana zvasvika kune hutano hwavo-Isu Vhiki iri kutaura kuti West ichiri muchipatara isina zuva rekuburitswa rakasimbiswa.

Kanye mukadzi waKim Kardashian anga ari parutivi pake nguva yese, sekureva kwemumwe munhu akataura nemagazini iyi. Kunyangwe iwe uri fan yemhuri yeKardashian kana kuti kwete, hazvirambike kuti Kim akaita zvese musimba rake kubatsira Kanye kuwana zororo nekutarisirwa kwaanoda. "Kim aisazobva parutivi rwake kunze kwekunge aona vana," akadaro mumwe mubvunzurudzo. "Anga ari kuchipatara nguva dzose. Kim anga achimutarisa zvakanyanya uye asingatenderi vanhu kumuvhiringidza. Vanhu vemarudzi ose vakafona nekutumira maruva, asi ari kunyatsochenjerera kuti arege kukuvadzwa uye kuita chokwadi chekuti azorora uye apora." Zvinonzwika chaizvo kunge ari mumaoko akanaka. (Pano, Kim anovhura nezve kunetsa kwake kwazvino nekushushikana.)

Saka kana mumwe wako akambopfuura nechimwe chinhu chakadai, kunyangwe ivo vakaputsika, vaneta, kana kungo pfuura panguva yakaoma zvakawandisa, ungavatsigira sei zvakanyanya? Isu takave nenyanzvi nhatu dzinoyera kuti ungavepo sei kune yako S.O. neimwe nzira ine tsitsi uye inoshanda.

Iva mhando chaiyo yemuteereri.

Kunzwa zviri kutaurwa nemumwe wako kwakakosha, asi kuve nechokwadi kuti uri kuteerera kufungisisa yakakosha, anodaro Erika Martinez, Psy.D, chiremba wepfungwa ane rezinesi muMiami. Chii chinonzi reflexive kuteerera, iwe unobvunza? Chaizvoizvo, apo iwe paunoteerera kune izvo mumwe wako ari kutaura, iwe unofanirwa kupindura nekudzokorora zvavakakuudza iwe sekuzvinzwisisa kwako, kuratidza kuti iwe unonzwira tsitsi nezvavari kunzwa uye zvavari kupfuura nazvo. "Zvinosuruvarisa, vanhu vazhinji vanozvidzivirira pavanoteerera uye vachifunga zvinhu zvataurwa sekurwiswa kwavo," anodaro Martinez. "Kuti izvi zvishande, muteereri anofanira kutarisa hunhu hwavo pamusuwo." Zvakakodzera kucherechedzwa.

Izvo zvinobatsirawo kubvunza mumwe wako chaizvo zvavanoda kubva kwauri panguva iyoyo. "Bvunza kuti ungabatsire sei kudzikamisa nhamo. Pane here zvaunogona kuita kana kutaura kuti zvinhu zvive nani / nyore / kudzikama kwavari?" inoratidza Martinez. Ipfungwa zvakare yakanaka kukumbira mvumo usati wapa mhinduro kana mazano pane zvaunofanira kuita zvinotevera, anodaro. "Mushure mekuteerera, vamwe vanhu vanopinda mukati nemhinduro. Panzvimbo pekuyedza chimwe chinhu chakadai," Ndingagone kuona here? "Kana" Ungade here pfungwa yangu kana iwe waifanira kutaura? '"Uyezve, izano rakanaka kudzivisa mazwi uye zvirevo zvakaita sekuti "'zvinofanirwa," "zvakaringana," uye "zvinofanirwa kudaro," nekuti zvine izwi rekutonga-kunyangwe hazvo chisiri icho chinangwa chako.

Usafunge kuti vanoda nzvimbo.

Hunhu hwevanhu hwakawanda kutora nhanho kumashure kana ivo vachiziva kuti mumwe munhu ari kukuvadza kuitira kuti uvape "nzvimbo." Asi sekureva kwaAnita Chlipala, murume ane rezinesi rekuroora uye murapi wemhuri uye muridzi weRelationship Reality 312, iyoyo haisiyo nguva dzose nzira yakanaka yekuita."Kana ukavapa nzvimbo vasina kuikumbira, unogona kuisa pangozi ivo vachikuona sekuvasiya panguva yavo yekushaiwa." Mushure mezvose, hauzoziva kuti S.O yako chii. inonyatsoda kana inoda kusvikira iwe uchitaura nezvazvo. "Vaviri vese vakasiyana uye chakakosha ndicho chinoshanda kune vese vari vaviri," anowedzera. "Kana dambudziko rikarova, dzimwe nguva kunenge kuri kuedza-uye-kukanganisa kuyedza kuona kuti chii chinoshanda kune vaviri ava. Chinhu chakakosha kuchengeta dialog yakavhurika kuti imi mose mugone kuchinjika." (FYI, aya ndiwo masere ehukama anotarisa Vese Vakaroorana Vanofanirwa Kuva neHupenyu HweRudo Hupenyu.)

Zvichengete iwe pachako, zvakare.

Zviri nyore kukanganwa nezvezvaunoda iwe kana uchinetseka nezvemumwe munhu waunoda, asi haufanire kuregeredza hanya yako pachako mune aya mamiriro ezvinhu. "Unofanira kutora kuwedzera Uzvichengete iwe paunenge uchibatsira mumwe munhu panguva yedambudziko, "anodaro Audrey Hope, nyanzvi yehukama hwehukama uye mupi wezano rekupindwa muropa. kuita zvinhu zvishoma zviri nyore kuti uzvichengetedze panguva yedambudziko: Tora nguva yekugeza nekuchinja hembe, kuwana mhepo yakachena uye chiedza chezuva nguva nenguva, uye mbozorora padivi pemumwe wako kuti udye nekufamba-famba. Zvinhu zvidiki zvinogona kuita mutsauko mukuru.

Ongororo ye