Kusurukirwa Kunoita Zviratidzo zveCold Kunzwa Kwakaipisisa
Zvemukati
Kufemba, kuhwihwidza, kukosora, uye kurwadza hazvisirizvo pamusoro pemafaro emunhu wese. Asi zviratidzo zvechikosoro chinogona kutowedzera kana wakasurukirwa, maererano neongororo itsva yakabudiswa mukati Hutano Psychology.
Chii chako cheboka renzanga chine chekuita nehutachiona hwako? Zvakawanda kupfuura kungogovana hutachiona hwakaita kuti urware pakutanga, zvinoitika. "Ongororo yakaratidza kuti kusurukirwa kunoisa vanhu panjodzi yekukurumidza kufa uye zvimwe zvirwere zvemuviri," akadaro munyori wekudzidza Angie LeRoy, mudzidzi akapedza kudzidza mune zvepfungwa paRice University, mukuburitswa kwenhau. "Asi hapana chakaitwa kutarisa chirwere chakakomba asi chenguva pfupi icho tese tiri panjodzi neyakajairika".
Mune zvinonzwika sedzimwe dzedzidzo dzisinganyanyi kunakidza dzakamboitika, vaongorori vakatora vangangoita vanhu mazana maviri ndokuvapa pfapfaidzo yemumhino izere nehutachiona hunotonhora. Zvadaro, vakavakamura mumapoka zvichienderana nehuwandu hwehukama hwavakashuma muhupenyu hwavo uye vakavatarisa muhotera kwemazuva mashanu. (Zvichida vakawana tambo yemahara pamwe chete nekutambura kwavo?) Inenge 75 muzana yezvidzidzo zvakaguma nedzihwa, uye avo vakashuma kuti ndivo vakasurukirwa vakashumawo kunzwa kwakaipisisa.
Yakanga isiri iyo chete huwandu hwehukama hwaikanganisa kuoma kwezviratidzo. Iyo mhando yehukama ihwohwo hwakatamba chinzvimbo chikuru. "Unogona kunge uri mukamuri rakazara uye uchinzwa kusurukirwa," LeRoy akatsanangura. "Maonero iwayo ndiwo anoita seakakosha kana zvasvika kune zviratidzo zvinotonhora." (Cherechedza: Ongororo yapfuura yakaratidzawo kuti kunzwa kusurukirwa kunogona kuita kuti udyise uye kukanganisa kurara kwako.)
Kusurukirwa? Kunzwa uri wega zvinosiririsa kwakajairika mazuva ano kunyangwe nzanga yedu yakabatana zvakanyanya. Rangarira kusangana neshamwari IRL kazhinji sezvaunogona, kana (tinoziva izvi kupenga) chaizvo tora foni uye ubate vanhu vanogara kure. Uye yeuka, kunyangwe iwe uri munhu anokwanisa kukura, zvinogamuchirwa zvakakwana kufonera amai vako kana uchirwara. Kupora kunofadza.