Nyowani Nyowani Inoratidza Vakadzi Vanosarudza Dadbod kuSitan-Pack

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Sezvo izwi rakaumbwa makore mashoma apfuura, "dadbod" yave chimwe chinhu chetsika chiitiko. ICYMI, baba vanoreva mukomana asina kunyanya kufuta asi asina huremu hwakawanda. Chaizvoizvo, baba baba vanofanirwa kunzi "zvakajairika." Sezvatakataura payakatanga kuva *chinhu*, zvinoshamisa kuti varume vave kukurudzirwa kuti vanzwe vakasununguka nemuviri une hutano asi usina kunyatsogadzikana.

Asi zvakadiniko nezve mombods? Zvinosuruvarisa, kunyangwe makore gare gare, takamirira iyo yevakadzi yakaenzana kuti iite yekupinda kwayo kukuru.

Vatambi vakadai saLeonardo DiCaprio, Jason Segel, naJon Hamm vanorumbidzwa nekugona kwavo kugadzikana vaine chitarisiko chakapfava, chine tsandanyama shoma, uye zvechokwadi havasi kunetseka kuwana basa muHollywood. DiCaprio anotokwanisa kuzvitenderedza aine senge isingaperi yevadiki, inopisa modhi kunyangwe yake dadbod chinzvimbo. Asi Rihanna paakatanga kutaridzika zvishoma, aive akanyara-akanyara. (Neraki, Twitter yakabvisa iyo sexist a-gomba ane mhosva.)

Uye muongororo yakaitwa nevavariro yakanaka asi inokatyamadza yakaitwa mukukudza Zuva raBaba nePlanet Fitness, jimu inodada nekugona kusvikika uye isingatyisidzirwe nevanhu vemarudzi ese emuviri (zvinova, chokwadi, basa rinotyisa), vaongorori vakawana. kuti vakadzi vakanaka chose chose nechitarisiko chebaba. Muchokwadi, zvavakawana zvinoratidza kuti vakadzi vanogona kunyange sarudza iyo kune imwe nyama yemhasuru. Ongororo iyi yaisanganisira vanhu vangangosvika zviuru zviviri, uye zvikamu makumi manomwe nezvinomwe kubva muzana zvevakadzi vakatora chikamu vakati vakawana baba vanodakadza. Uye 47 muzana yevakadzi vakaongororwa vakatoti ivo vanofunga kuti dadbod ndiyo "itsva nhanhatu-pack." Zvimwe zvezvakawanikwa zvakatoratidza kuti vakadzi vaifunga kuti varume vane dadbods vanoita zviri nani "marriage material." (Iwe unofanirwa kutora iyo yekupedzisira dzidziso ine tsanga yemunyu.)

Heano mudiki: Vatatu muvashanu (vangangoita makumi matanhatu muzana) evarume vanozvizivisa sevanababa havanzwe sekuti vanotongwa nekuda kwekusave vakakwana. Iwe unogona here kufungidzira kuti nhamba iri kuve yakakwira kune vakadzi vasingatariswe sevanemuviri "wakanaka"?

Tinogona here kungowana inowedzeredza WTF?! Hongu, ndizvo hukuru kuti varume vanogona kunzwa vakasununguka kuva zvavari vasingatyi kurasikirwa nevavanogona kuroora-ndiko kufambira mberi chaiko. Uye zvinoshamisa kuti nhamba yakakosha yevakadzi vanoziva kuti rock-hard abs haiwanikwe nemunhu wese. Asi iwe unogona here kufungidzira iyo yakafanana nhamba yevakomana vachisarudza mukadzi ane dumbu risiri rakatsetseka? Kana kutaura kuti ivo vangasarudza kuroora mumwe munhu akapfava padhuze kumucheto pane mukadzi anotaridzika sem supermodel? Zvinotyisa kune varume zvekuti ruzhinji rwevakadzi vanowana iro rakapfava dumbu rakabatana nababa baba kuti riite seksikä (sekureva ichi ongororo zvakadaro), asi chakanyanya ndechekuti, haiendi nenzira mbiri. Semuenzaniso wekuwedzera-saizi, amai, nemumiriri wemuviri, Tess Holliday, munguva pfupi yapfuura akataura, "Vakadzi vane mafuta saamai vanobirwa hupombwe hwedu."

Uye zvinotopfuura izvozvo, ndizvo zvatinoita chaizvo vanoda kunge vachipemberera kuti zvinhu zvinoshamisa sei kumifananidzo yemuviri wevarume izvozvi, panguva iyo kuwanikwa kwekudzivirira kubereka kuri kuderera, vakadzi vazhinji havagone kutora zororo rekusununguka, uye zvinoita sezvisingabviri kuenda ku dating app. pasina kusangana nemafuta anonyadzisa?

Kunyangwe izvo zvambotaurwa Leonardo DiCaprio vs.Rihanna mamiriro ari muenzaniso wakanaka wekuti mwero wakapetwa uyu unotamba sei, iko kuushandisa kwakanyanya kuri chaizvo munyika chaiko. Vakadzi vakafuta havasati vawana mukana wekuwana basa pane vakadzi vakaonda. Asi kana zvasvika kune varume vari pabasa rekuvhima, kufutisa hakuvadzorere kumashure zvakanyanya, sekureva kwechidzidzo che2016 chakaburitswa mu Miganhu muPsychology. Inokumbira iwo mubvunzo: Nei America ichivenga vakadzi vane mafuta zvakanyanya? Chimwe chinhu chinofanira kuchinja, uye chinoda kutanga nekubvuma kuti miviri yevakadzi yakafuta yakanaka, zvakare. Isu tinofara nekuda kwenyu kuti makagadzirira kugamuchira miviri yenyu, varume, asi inguva yekufunga nezvekugamuchira yedu, zvakare-zvisinei nechimiro kana saizi.

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