Vamwe Amai Vakafunga Kuti Zvakanakira Kudherera A Cold Cold Creamery Mushandi

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Justine Elwood akafunga kuti raingova zuva remazuva ose kubasa kuCold Stone Creamery, kusvikira mutengi apinda akatanga kutuka rudzi rwemuviri wake uye uremu. Zvinowedzera kuipa: zvakataurwa zvakanangiswa kumukadzi vana. "Kana uine ice cream yakawandisa, uchafanana naye," mukadzi uyu anonzi akadaro achinongedzera Justine.

Dai hunhu hwakadai hwakanga husina kukwana, mutengi akasarudzawo kusiya tsvete Yelp ane hutsinye nezvemushandi ane makore gumi nemapfumbamwe akabviswa. Ongororo inotyisa yakaverenga: "Mumwe wevashandi vavo vechikadzi Jessie? Jennifer? J chimwe chinhu, chinonyangadza, uye nguva imwe neimwe yatinopinda, kunyange zvazvo achiita basa rake, uye ane ruremekedzo, pakarepo anoita kuti chido changu chinyangarika."

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Justine, uyo ari mudzidzi wepakoreji anodzidzira kuva chiremba wokuvhiya oncologist, akataura kuti kuona mashoko akashata aya akarwadza mwoyo wake.

"Hazvina kumbobvira zvakanaka kunzwa izvo zvinhu pamusoro pako, zvirokwazvo hazvina kundiita kuti ndinzwe kugutsikana pachokwadi," akadaro KTRK. "Ini ndakangovhunduka nekuti ndinonzwa kunge hachisi chinhu chaunofanira kutaura pamberi pevana zvakadaro. Uye zvanga zvisina kunaka. Ndinoona sekunge icho hachisi chinhu chakanaka kudzidzisa vana vako, asi zvinoitika ndinofungidzira."

Nehurombo, ino haisi nguva yekutanga Justine kupikiswa zvakanyanya pamusoro pomuviri wake, achiti "Icho chinhu chechimwe chinhu chandakave nacho hupenyu hwangu hwese, saka ndatojaira, zvinova zvinotyisa, asi chimwe chinhu chandakabata nehupenyu hwangu hwese."

Asi panguva ino, zvinhu zvaive zvasiyana. Panzvimbo pekubata nekunyadziswa uye kusekwa ari ega, Justine akashamisika kuona nharaunda yemunharaunda ichisimuka uye kuratidza rutsigiro rwavo nekumuunzira mabharuni nemaruva.

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"Zvave zvakanaka kwazvo kunzwa rudo rwakawanda uye kushandura chisina kunaka kuva chakanaka," akanyora paFacebook. "Ndinotenda zvikuru rudo rwenharaunda. Ndakakomborerwa zvikuru."

Pasinei nerudo rwese uye positivity, pakanga paine vashoma vakaedza kumunyadzisa kuti anyarare, vachiti aingoedza kutariswa. Kuti arwisane nevanovenga, zvakare zvakare, wechidiki akaenda kuFacebook kuti atsanangure kuti nyaya iyi haisi yake iye chete. Ndezve vese vanhu avo vanonyara muviri uye vakaitwa kuti vanzwe kusuwa pamusoro pavo nekuda kwenzira yavanotaridzika. (Verenga: 10 Vakadzi Vakashata Vakaita 2016 Zvirinani Nekuombera Kudzokera kune Vanovenga Body-Shaming Haters)

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"Kunyangwe ndichifara chaizvo kuti ndawanikwa rutsigiro rwakanyanya, vari kushaya pfungwa huru yekuti sei ndanga ndichigovana nyaya yangu," akanyora kudaro.

"Handisi kuedza kutaura kuti 'ndakanyara,' kana kuedza kunzwirwa tsitsi neizvi. Asi ndiri kuedza kuzivisa nezvedambudziko guru iro varume, vakadzi nevana vakawanda vanotarisana naro zuva rega rega. idambudziko riri kukonzerawo zvimwe zvinhu zvakawanda zvinosangana nevanhu.Kudheerera kunouraya vanhu.Mashoko uye kushungurudzwa kunoitwa nevanhu kunoita kuti vanhu vazviuraye."

"Ndakagovana nyaya yangu kuratidza vamwe kuti havasi vega," akapedzisa. "Izvi zvinhu zvinoitika zuva rega rega kune vamwe vanhu uye hapana chimwe chandinoda kunze kwekubatsira vanhu vanobata neizvi."

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