Sia Cooper Akafumura Hutano Hwake Hwakanyanya Kunetsekana Mutsamba Yake Yemudiki

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Kana iwe ukakwanisa kudzoka shure nenguva uye ugoudza wako wemakore mashanu ekuzvarwa nezve ramangwana rakachengeterwa, ungadaro? Ungati kudii? Mubvunzo wakaoma kupindura, asi mutsigiri wekusimba Sia Cooper akaburitsa mune yepamusoro-yemunhu positi kuti aizoudza mudiki wake kuti akanaka, zvisinei nemashoko ane muchetura aaizoudzwa, kunyangwe neavo vari padyo naye. (ICYMI, heino nyaya yaCooper nezvekuti sei akabvisa zvipenga zamu.)

Cooper, uyo anomhanyisa Diary raMai Vakakodzera, akatumira mufananidzo wehudiki uye akatora mifananidzo akati wandei kumashure kwemufananidzo. Mashoko anorwadza akadai sekuti “Zvidya zvako zvinotaridzika zvakakura,” “Rega kudya zvakanyanya,” uye “Pfeka makeup yakawanda” anonyatsoenderana nekunyemwerera kwake. Pamusoro pemufananidzo, chirevo mune ese makapisi chinoti: "Mashoko ako ane basa," achiratidza chinangwa chechinyorwa. (Yakabatana: Uyu Akakodzera Amai Ari Pane Mission Kuti Aratidze Kuti VANHU VANOGONESESA Mune Bikini)

Mune chinyorwa, Cooper anotaura zvakananga kune iye ane makore mashanu ekuberekwa: "Anodiwa Sia ane makore mashanu Sia," akanyora kudaro. "Ndinoda kukuudza kuti wakanaka sezvauri. Zvisinei, iwe uchakura uchinzwa zvinhu zvisina mwana kana pwere isingambokodzeri kunzwa."

Akaenderera mberi nekutsanangura kuti amai vake "vakabvarura" sei kuzviremekedza kwavo pamwe nemashoko ane chepfu nezvechitarisiko chake. "Haazive zvishoma," Cooper akanyora, "mashoko iwayo anotakura uremu uye anokutungamirira munzira ine rima."

Nzira iyo yaisanganisira chirwere chekudya pamakore gumi nemana, pfungwa dzekuzviuraya pamakore gumi nemasere, uye kushungurudzwa mupfungwa mumakore ake ekutanga makumi maviri, kunyanya panguva yewanano yake yekutanga, Cooper inogovera. Achangorambana nemurume wake wekutanga, akati ainetseka kuti awane mwero muupenyu hwake. "Uchapinda chikoro chevanamukoti uye unodzidza kudya zvaunonzwa izvo zvinokutungamira kune yako yekutanga nguva chaiyo yekurema," Cooper anodaro. "Nekudaro, iwe unokurumidza kurasikirwa nehuremu mukati megore uchidonhedza pasi kungori ma100lbs uye uchida zvimwe." (Zvakafanana: Mukadzi Uyu Anoda Kuti Iwe Uzive Kuti Kurasikirwa Kwehuremu hakuzoite Nemashiripiti Kuti Ufare)

Mushure memakore ekurwisana zvese nepfungwa uye nemuviri, Cooper akawana chiyero uye tariro inokodzera. Akasangana nomurume “waaida kuva naye,” anonyora kudaro, uye vari kurera pamwe chete vana vaviri vakanaka.

Cooper akaburitsa pachena zvakawanda nezvake mune iyi posvo, asi haana kuzviita kuti awane tsitsi kana kutarisisa. Anoda kuti vanhu vazive kuti, zvisinei kuti inguva yakareba sei inopfuura, "aya mazwi madiki anonamatira." Mazwi senge "akanyanya mafuta," kana "kutinhira zvidya," kana "yakakora nguruve" haana just mashoko. "Vana vakaita sewe vanonyudza mazwi aya sechipanji," Cooper akanyorera iye mudiki, "uye zvinogona kutungamira kuhupenyu hwekugutsikana kana kuhupenyu hwekushungurudzika uye njodzi." (Zvakafanana: Zvatinonyatsoreva Kana Tichiti Vanhu Vakakora)

Pasinei nokuti hupenyu hunobuda sei, pfungwa yaCooper ndiyo iyo iwe ndivo vari kutarisira rwendo rwako. Kuti zvichave nekukwira nekudzika, uye vanhu vanogona kuyedza kukurwadzisa, asi ibasa rako "kurega hupenyu hwako huve nyaya kune vamwe munzira," akadaro. Kuomerwa kwako kunogona kukudzidzisa zvidzidzo zvakakosha, uye zviri kwauri kuti upe uchenjeri hwako kune vamwe uye kuti "urambe uchirwa," akanyora kudaro Cooper. "Nerudo, Sia ane makore 29."

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