Maitiro Ezvemagariro Evanhu Akandibatsira Sei Kupfuura neCancer Rwendo Rwangu

Uri wega. Isolated. Kukundwa. Aya ndiwo manzwiro ayo chero munhu akagashirwa chirwere chekenza angango sangana nacho. Aya manzwiro zvakare anokonzeresa ekuda chaiko, hukama hwehukama nevamwe vanonzwisisa zvavari kupfuura nazvo.

Isu tatoziva kubva ku Nyika yeCancer Cancer kuti huwandu hwakawanda - {textend} 89 muzana - {textend} vanoenda kune internet mushure mekuonekwa kuti vane cancer. Uye nekuti munhu wepakati achapedza anopfuura makore mashanu ehupenyu hwavo pasocial media, zvakanaka kufunga kuti vanhu ava vari kutendeukira kuFacebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, uye YouTube kune mazano, rutsigiro uye kurudziro.

Zvemagariro enhau zvinogona kuva mapfumo anocheka nekwose, uye vazhinji vanoona kuti kupinda mukati kunogona kukuvadza kupfuura kubatsira mushure mechiitiko chinotyisa.

Ehezve, kuva nehupenyu hwemagariro hakungogumira pane zvemagariro enhau chete. Kuenda kuboka revarwere vegomarara, kuyedza kirasi nyowani yeyoga munharaunda yako, kana kutobata kofi neshamwari inonyatsoita hanya inzira dzese dzekushamwaridzana uye kuwana tariro nekurudziro zvisinei nezvauri kusangana nazvo. Pakupedzisira, ndezve kugadzira kubatana - {textend} zvisinei kana vari online kana vari munhu.

Kune vanhu vana vanotevera, chirwere chegomarara chaireva kutendeukira kunzira dzavo dzezvemagariro kwete kure navo. Verenga zvavo nyaya dzinokurudzira pazasi.

Kuwana rutsigiro pasocial media kwaive kusingadzivisike kuna Stephanie Seban paakaonekwa makore anopfuura matanhatu apfuura.

"Google neinternet zvakawonekwa zvaityisa," akadaro. "Zvandakaonekwa kuti ndine gwere rechina remazamu remazamu, chero kutsvaga kwakaburitsa nyaya dzisina kunaka uye dzisina kuvimbisa uye chokwadi chine chekuita nemukana wangu wekupona."

Facebook ne Instagram zvaive nzvimbo mbiri dzaaigona kuenda kunosangana nevamwe vakadzi vaive vachifamba nerwendo irworwo. Yaive nzira yekuti anzwe kusasurukirwa.

“Kuva nenharaunda kunogona kupora zvikuru. Ndakasangana nevanhu vasinganzwisisike avo vandingati shamwari pamasocial media, ”akadaro.

Asi pakanga paine chinokanganisa kutsvagurudza kwaSeban munharaunda: Akaona zvichinetsa kuwana rutsigiro kuvakadzi vadiki vane gomarara rechina. "Havasi vanhu vazhinji vanotaura nezve nhanho yechina metastatic chirwere, ndoda kutumira nezvazvo," akadaro.

Ichi chaive chikonzero chake chikuru chekutanga yake webhusaiti.Basa rake rakave rekudzidza zvese zvaaigona nezvekudzivirira uye kurapwa kwekenza, uye kupa zviwanikwa zvinobatsira kune vechidiki vechidiki vanobata nezvirwere zvemastastatic.

“Mamiriro ezvinhu uye kuongororwa kwangu zvakatosiyana. Izvi zvakandikurudzira kuti ndiite hupenyu hwangu chinangwa kusimudzira isu varwere veMBC uye kuti vanhu vazive kuti gomarara repazamu harisi 'saizi imwe inokodzera zvese' chirwere. Zvakatora nguva kuti ndiendese nyaya yangu kunze uko nekuti handiratidzike ‘sekurwara,” akadaro.

Dzidza zvakawanda nezvaSeban paFacebook ne Instagram, pamwe neblog rake.

Dickinson akavhiyiwa kenza kekutanga pazuva rake rekuzvarwa rechi19. Kwete chimwe chinhu icho chero wechidiki angade, asi chaive chinhu icho Dickinson aifanira kutarisana nacho nekukasira mushure mekugamuchira chirwere chekenza kuongororwa mazuva matatu chete apfuura.

Panzvimbo pekushandukira mukati uye kuvanzika nezvechirwere chake, akatendeukira kune yake yaive yakakurumbira YouTube chiteshi kutumira mavhidhiyo nezverwendo rwake.

"Ini ndaida kuti munhu wese ainditevera azive kuti sei paisazove nemavhidhiyo akasimba uye ehutano panzira yekusimbisa uye yehutano," akadaro. "Ini ndaida kuve muenzaniso uye nekupa vanhu ruzivo rwezvinoitika kana vaine kenza yakafanana neni kana vari kurapwa chemotherapy seni."

Kuva akavhurika nezve gomarara rake repamazamu kwaive kushinga kwekushinga. Mushure mezvose, chete mumwe chete pavane makumi maviri nevatanhatu vechirume ndivo vanozoita rudzi urwu rwegomarara panguva yeupenyu hwavo. Uye chete 7 muzana yeavo vanoonekwa ndivo vana kana vachiri kuyaruka.

Dickinson akawana pasocial media ichibatsira kuunza ruzivo rwakanyanya nezvechirwere ichi, uye kuchengetedza mhuri yake - {textend} kunyanya vanasekuru vake - {textend} yakagadziridzwa. Chaasina kutarisira kutarisira huwandu hwevatorwa vakadurura moyo yavo vachiratidza kumutsigira.

"Munhu mumwe ainditumira makotesheni anokurudzira zuva rega rega apo ndaive nekenza kwemwedzi mitanhatu," akadaro Dickinson.

Pamusoro peizvi, wake waanoda YouTuber uye akasimba musimba akafambisa anopfuura maawa maviri nehafu kusangana naDickinson mangwanani ekemotherapy yake.

Semunhu akapona nekenza, Dickinson ave kutarisisa paYouTube fitness chiteshi zvakare uye achitenda avo vakamubatsira mugore rakaoma iri. Iwe uchamuwanawo pa Instagram.

Kuna Cheyann Shaw, zvakangotora maawa makumi maviri nemana mushure mekubatwa nechirwere chegomarara rake kuti aongorore nhepfenyuro yerubatsiro.

"Ini ndanga ndatova nehutete hudiki zvichitevera pasocial media, asi ndaiziva kuti ndaive nehondo nerwendo zvaida kunyorwa," akadaro.

Akadhinda vhidhiyo danda rake achinyora gomarara rake rekuziva uye akaritumira kuchiteshi chake cheYouTube. Kubva iro vhidhiyo yekutanga pamusoro pegore rapfuura, Shaw akaenderera mberi nekutumira matsva pamushonga wake wemakemikari pamwe nemamwe mavhidhiyo ekurudziro senge matipi ekugara uine tariro, maitiro ekurwisana nematambudziko, uye nehunyanzvi hwekugwinya.

"Chikonzero ini ndashandura pasocial media ndikachinja magariro enhau kumakaneti anonyora rwendo rwangu nekuti ndaida kuve izwi," akadaro.

Pamusoro peYouTube, Shaw akashandisa Instagram neFacebook kubatanidza kune vamwe vaive vachirwarawo nekenza. Haana kugara aine rombo rakanaka pane idzi chiteshi, zvakadaro.

"Ndakatendeukira kuna Instagram kunyanya kuti ndisvike kune avo vairwisa kenza uye ndione kana vaine chero matipi kana mazano, asi pandakaenda ku Instagram, handina kukwanisa kuwana vanhu vaida kutaura nezve kurwa kwavo nekutambura, " akati.

Zvakadaro, haana kurega izvi zvichimuburutsa pasi. Akaona kuti nharaunda yaakavaka yaive yakakwana kuti arambe achienda.

"Kuzvichengeta iwe pfungwa dzakasimba kwakangofanana nemuviri wako kurwisa kenza," akadaro. "Pfungwa ye'munharaunda" yakandibatsira murwendo rwangu nekenza nekuti handina kumbonzwa kusurukirwa. Ndakaziva kuti paigara paine mumwe munhu wandinogona kutendeukira kwaari ane ruzivo rwakafanana nerwandakaita uye aigona kundipa rairo. ”

Dzidza zvakawanda nezve chiitiko chaShaw pa Instagram, uye tarisa vhidhiyo yake danda pane yake YouTube chiteshi.

Zvakatora anopfuura makore maviri Jessica DeCrisofaro asati aonekwa zviri pamutemo aine nhanho 4B Hodgkin's lymphoma. Vanachiremba vazhinji vakaona zvisirizvo zviratidzo zvake, uye vakatoburitsa zvaakange achisangana nazvo sema allergies kana acid reflux. Paakagamuchira kuongororwa kwake, akaenda online kuti awane mhinduro.

"Pakutanga kwekuongororwa kwangu, ndakabva ndatendeukira kuGoogle kuti ndiwane mhinduro dzekuti hupenyu hwangu hwaizovei uye kuti ndaizogona sei kubata neiyo panguva iyoyo yaiita senjodzi inotyisa yandakaitirwa," akadaro. "Zvaisaratidzika kuva zvakanaka, uye ndakaona kuti pakanga pasina bhuku chairo rinotungamira gomarara."

Akawana akawanda emapoka eFacebook, asi mazhinji acho aive asina kunaka, uye zvainge zvakamuomera kuti averenge zvinyorwa nezvekusazviita kana kusatenda kurapwa. Uku kwaive kutanga kwechaizove rwendo rwake rutsva: Kubatsira uye kukurudzira vamwe varwere vegomarara kuburikidza neayo blog uye Instagram account.

"Ndiri fan guru re Instagram, nekuti unogona kutarisa hashi tag yekenza yako chaiyo, uye uwane 'shamwari dzegomarara,' akadaro. “Zvinoshamisa kuti ndakasangana nedzimwe shamwari dzangu dzepedyo pa Instagram. Tese takaongororwa uye kurapwa pamwe chete. ”

Akaona kuburikidza nezvose izvi kuti nzanga yegomarara inonyatsoiwana, saka akafunga kunyora bhuku rake, "Taura Cancer Kwandiri," kune vamwe vachipfuura nezvaaisangana nazvo.

"Kunyangwe mhuri yako neshamwari vachida kukubatsira, havanzwisise zvazvakaita kunze kwekunge vari mushangu dzako," akadaro. "Nzanga yegomarara yakazvionera zvese, kurwadziwa, kusvotwa, kurasikirwa nebvudzi, kutarisa mugirazi uye kutadza kuzviziva iwe, kushushikana, kushushikana, PTSD ... zvese."

Verenga zvakawanda nezve rwendo rwaDeCristofaro pane rake blog uye Instagram.