7 Yakamira Bonde Nzvimbo Iyo Inozoita Kuti Mabvi Ako Abvute - Nenzira Yakanaka

Zvemukati

• Chii chiri Chichemo cheBonde Rakamira, Zvisinei?
• Kumira Bonde Nzvimbo Kuedza
• Gumbo-Kumusoro
• Kumira Oral yeVulvas
• Kumucheto kweTafura
• Bathroom Sink chete
• Iyo Yogi
• Ndakamira Blowjob
• Anoshambira
• Ongororo ye

Kumira pabonde nguva dzose inonzwa seyakanakisa pfungwa munyika kusvika iwe uchinetseka kuedza kupinza chimwe chinhu mugomba risingaenderane nemuviri wako. Nguva zhinji, inopedzisira yava imwe yeavo "yaiita senge zano rakanaka panguva iyoyo" mhando yebonde.

Zvakanaka, sundidzira iwo pfungwa padivi, nekuti kumira pabonde chaiko kunogona kuitika - sekureba sekuziva iwe kuti unganyatsoishandisa sei. Mberi, kumwe kunzwisisa kubva sexperts pamusoro sei kuita kumira pabonde nyore, inopisa, uye zvakazara zvinoshamisa kwamuri.

Ramba uchifunga kuti kana usiri kuzvinzwa, kana chimwe chinhu chisiri kunakidza, kana iwe uri, iwe uchiziva, wakaneta, unogona kugara uchienda kumubhedha, pasofa, chero kupi. Kudzvinyirira uye kushushikana kunouraya maboners (ezvese clit uye kukwezva kwepenisi) nekukurumidza kupfuura chero chinhu chipi zvacho.

Heano mamwe eakanakisa akamira ebonde chinzvimbo chekutungamira kuti akubatsire kuita kuti fungidziro ive yehupenyu, panzvimbo yekufa pakusvika.

Chii chiri Chichemo cheBonde Rakamira, Zvisinei?

Kana tichiti "kumira pabonde" tinowanzoreva nezvekupinda pabonde. Chinhu chacho ndechokuti, kuitira kuti uve akanaka pakuita zvepabonde - uye kuti unakidzwe - danho rokutanga nderokugadzirisa zvakare pfungwa yako ye "bonde." Haasi bonde rese rinoda kupinda mukati uye, kutaura zvazviri, kana zvasvika pakumira pabonde, nemuromo, ruoko-bonde, kana general dry-humping inogona kunakidza chaizvo. Saka rasa pfungwa dzekuti iwe unofanirwa kuve rubber bhendi, unokwanisa kuzvipesanisa panhengo yemurume kana dildo yemumwe munhu (pamwe) asina kureba sewe uye vhurika kuita zvimwe zvinhu zvepabonde wakamira.

"Rangarira, zvese izvi zvinoshanda kune bonde remukanwa futi. Usatya kumira pakati uye upe mumwe wako zvakanakisa zvepasirese," anodaro Julieta Chiaramonte, blogger yebonde uye nyanzvi yekutamba pabonde. (Yakabatana: Akanakisa Oral Bonde Nzvimbo dzeVulvas)

Chaizvoizvo, kumira pabonde kunonakidza (uye zvinhu zvese zvisiri-mamishinari pamubhedha) nekuti isu tinoda hutsva. Inobhuya kune kuda kuziva, kuyedza zvinhu zvitsva, uye nekuchengetedza hupenyu hwako hwepabonde hutsva. Uyezve, "kumira pabonde kunoita kuti bonde riitwe munzvimbo dzingave zvisingaite," anodaro Ryn Pfeuffer, munyori wezvepabonde uye hukama munyori uye munyori we 101 Nzira dzeRock Online Dating (Tenga Izvo, $ 10, amazon.com). "Funga: nzvimbo dzakasimba senge dzimba dzekugezera, uye kana iwe uri kuita zvepabonde neruzhinji, wakatsikirirwa kumotokari kana muti."

Kumira pabonde kunogona kunge kusiri izvo zvauri mumood, asi zvakanaka kuti uve nazvo pane yako yepabonde menyu - pamwe nezvimwe zvinonakidza zvinhu secheya bonde uye tabhu yekugezera.

Kumira Bonde Nzvimbo Kuedza

Gumbo-Kumusoro

Maitirwo acho: Wakamira wakatarisana, ita kuti mumwe wako abate rimwe remakumbo ako mudenga opinda mauri wakatarisana. Kana kuchengetedza gumbo rako rakatwasuka kusingafadzi, rikotamise pamabvi. Ichi chinzvimbo chinokutendera kuti uchengetedze muyero wako panguva isina kudzika kupinda, uye haimanikidzi mumwe wako kuti abate huremu hwako hwese (hunotyisa kune chero munhu).

The perks: Iyi chinzvimbo inoita kunge yemuvhi-senge uye inotaridzika kunge yakaoma, asi hazvisi izvo zvakaoma kuti ubvise. Iyo ndiyo OG yakamira pabonde chinzvimbo. Izvo zvakanaka kune zviitiko senge bonde rekunze. Ichi zvakare chinzvimbo chikuru pasina kupinda. Unogona kukwikwidzana, kushandisa maoko ako, uye woita kuti moto uende (uye ropa richiyerera).

Nzira yekuigadzirisa: Kugadzirira musiyano wehurefu, shandisa chero mabhureki akasimba aunayo mumba mako. Masitepisi anogona kuita hunyengeri. Iva nechokwadi chekuti musana wako wakatarisana nemadziro. Chinhu chekupedzisira chaunoda kuwira pamusoro. "Edza kuisa vibrator mumusanganiswa seSatisfyer Strong One Vibrating Cock Ring (Buy It, $ 40, amazon.com), iyo inogona kurebesa nguva yekuita ichipa kukurudzira kwesimba," anodaro Chiaramonte. (Zvimwe pano: Mashandisiro eJongwe Mhete - Uyezve 8 Sarudzo dzekuyedza)

Kumira Oral yeVulvas

Maitirwo acho: Mumwe anomira, mumwe achipfugama pamberi pavo. Anogamuchira anogona kutambanudza makumbo avo mu "V" chimiro, kana kuisa tsoka imwe pafudzi remumwe wavo. Izvi zvinogona kutora kumwe kugadzirisa, saka ive shuwa kutora nguva shoma kuti uwane zvinoshanda kwauri.

The perks: Ichi chinzvimbo chinopemberera hutongi hwevakadzi uye zvepabonde. Uyezve, bonde remukanwa inzira yakatendeseka kune vazhinji varidzi vevhavha kuva nehurume. Uyezve, Kenneth Play, mudzidzisi wepasi rese uye musiki weBonde Hacker Pro Series, anonongedza kuti, "nekuti vazhinji varidzi-vevaridzi vanokura vachiita bonhora nemakumbo avo akatwasuka, kana kutomira mushawa, vakadzi vazhinji orgasm zviri nyore makumbo. Nzvimbo iyi inodzokorora kuti, kana akamira nemakumbo akati twasu uye akaparadzana."

Maitiro ekuti tweak it: Kana kupfugama kusiri nyore kune iye ari kupa, tora mutsago (pamwe kunyange piro yebonde) kune rumwe rutsigiro. Tora mbiri, kunyangwe! Kana izvi zvisati zviri kuvashandira, zvichengetedze zvakamira. Bend pachiuno. Kuti zvive nyore zvakare, tora chigaro uye gara pasi kuti upe muromo.

Kumucheto kweTafura

Maitirwo acho: "Iwe unogara pakaunda kana tafura ivo vanomira. Kuva nerutsigiro rwenzvimbo yakati sandara uye kugadzikana kunopa anosundira mumwe wake mukana wekupinda mukati.Putira makumbo ako muchiuno kuti uswededze padyo nekubatirira, "anotsanangura kudaro Taylor Sparks, mudzidzisi anokwezva uye muvambi weOrganic Loven, chimwe chezvitoro zvepamhepo zvepamhepo zveBIPOC.

The perks: "Pane zvinhu zvishoma zvinopisa pane kurara kumashure patafura, uchitambanudza makumbo ako nevulva yako yakamira kumucheto chaiko, uye kuve nemudiwa wako achipinda mauri, kungave nepeni kana tambo," anodaro Pfeuffer. "Position iyi inoshanda zvakanaka kana pakaita kusiyana kwehurefu pakati pevadikani. Ihwo husefo hwese hwese hunotapurwa-gondo nekufumurwa kudai." Ichi chinzvimbo chinobvumirawo kupinza kwakadzika - saka, kana chiri chinhu chako, uchachida.

Maitiro ekuti tweak it: Nzvimbo iyi haina kungogumira kumatafura. Chero nzvimbo inobvumira miviri yako kuenderana ichaita zvakakwana. Iyi chinzvimbo inogona zvakare kuve yakanaka kumuromo. Gara pachigaro uye mumwe wako (ari kukupa) apfugame kana kugara pamberi pako. Zviite zvako, boo.

Bathroom Sink chete

Maitirwo acho: Anogamuchira anomira akatarisana nesingi, achiishandisa kutsigira. Iwe unogona kana kumira wakamira kana kukotama pamusoro pekushambidza, chero ipi inonzwa kusununguka. Mupi anobva apinda mureceiver nekumashure.

The perks: Zvakanaka, chekutanga pane zvese, iwe unosvika kuti uzvitarise pachezvako mugirazi yekugezera inova * chefs kutsvoda. "[Mumwe wako] anogona kubata chiuno chako, kurova mbongoro yako, kana kusvika kutenderera matinji ako," anodaro Pfeuffer.

Maitiro ekuti tweak it: Kana izvi zvisiri izvo, rova ​​kupinda. Iyi inzvimbo huru yebonde yemumukanwa bonde, zvese kune vulva-havers uye varidzi-vevarume. Haukwanise kukotama? Ndiani anoti anobatsira ane imwe sink yekutsigira yabva patafura, shamwari? Iva nazvo.

Iyo Yogi

Maitirwo acho: Anopa "anotora mumwe wavo kumashure, uye anoita kuti vatsigire maoko avo kumadziro," anodaro Chiaramonte. Ivo ipapo vanofanirwa "kukotamisa [mugashiri] kumberi uye vagadzire rakakombama kumashure kwavo." Mupi anofanirwa kutaridzika seari kuita iyo "katsi" yoga chinzvimbo - saka izita.

The perks: "Izvi hazvingogadziri musana nepafudzi zvinoshamisa, asi zvinokatyamadza chiuno chavo mukati nekupinda nepanhengo yechikadzi kana anal nekumira," anotsanangura Chiaramonte. "Funga [nezve] kuita izvi kwese kwese: Imba yekurara, kicheni, yekugezera yako." Pane zvakawanda zvakasiyana-siyana neiyi. (Yakabatana: Akanakisa Shower Bonde Nzvimbo)

Maitiro ekuti tweak it: Nyaya huru iyo vanhu vangave nayo nechinzvimbo ichi kushanda nekusiyana kwehurefu. "Vaviri vese vanogona kuwedzera mamwe bend mumabvi kuti vawane kona yakarurama. Tamba nekuva nemaoko ako pamusoro pemusoro wako, kana kuti zvakananga kumativi echifuva chako, se cobra pose mu yoga, "anowedzera kudaro. Iwe unogona zvakare kuunza matoyi (sezvaunogona nesese pabonde), senge wand vibrator seLe Wand (Tenga Izvo, $170, lewandmassager.com), clit toy seZumio (Tenga Izvo, $115, amazon. com) kana Fin (Tenga Iiri, $ 85, dameproducts.com) kana anal plug. Matoyi anogara achiita kuti zvese zviwedzere kunakidza.

Ndakamira Blowjob

Maitirwo acho: Zvakafanana nokumira nemuromo pabeche, mugamuchiri anomira akafuratira kumadziro (kana kuti imwe nzvimbo yakati sandara), apo mupi anopfugama kana kugara (pamwe pauriri kana kuti chigaro) kuti avape bonde romuromo.

The perks: "Kupfugama pamberi peumwe murume akamira ane nhengo yemurume kuti ape murume bonde ndeimwe yemasimba andinofarira uye inonyatsoita zvido zvangu zvekuzviisa pasi," anodaro Pfeuffer. "Kuchinjana kwakanyanya, uko kunokutendera kuti utarise f * ck mumwe wako" vachiri pasi ipapo. Kana iwe uri mukutamba kwakanyanya senge kumeso f * cking, kudzika kwakadzika, etc. Asi usazviita zvakamonyoroka, izvi zvinogona zvakare kuve zvine rudo uye zvepedyo simba kuchinjana, kana zviri izvo zvakanyanya jam yako. (Inoenderana: Iyo Yekutanga Inotungamira kuBDSM)

Maitiro ekuti tweak it: Mudiwa akamira anogona kugara patafura yekubikira kana imwe nzvimbo, kana vachida kusamira. Iyi nzvimbo ine zvese zvinokwezva zvekumira pabonde, pasina kumbomira. Zvinogona kuve zvinyengeri zvishoma pamuswe (nzvimbo dzakaoma, ouch), saka edza kuisa piro kana tauro rakapetwa pasi pebutt remugamuchiri kuti uwedzere kunyaradza.

Anoshambira

Maitirwo acho: Zvakanaka. Nekudaro, ichi chinzvimbo chekupedzisira ndechevaya vepamberi vanoita bonde pakati pedu - kwete hazvo nenzira yechirobheti, asi nenzira yemari. Sei? Nekuti iwe unoda kurara pabonde. Kana izvi zvichinzwika zvakanyanya kwauri, usazvidya moyo nezvazvo.

"Kuita bonde kunogona kushandiswa munzvimbo dzakasiyana siyana, asi ipa mukana wakanaka wekukomberedza mudiwa wako chero waungade uchipinda kana kupa bonde nemukanwa wakamira," anodaro Chiaramonte. Chaizvoizvo, iye anogamuchira anogara mukutenderera (kana kurara pamusoro payo) uye mupi anopinda mazviri kana anovapa bonde remukanwa.

The perks: Chikonzero chakanakisa chekuva neyepabonde famba ndeyechokwadi chavo. Imwe yacho ndeyekuti ivo hella erootic. Kufanana, ndiani asingade kuve Samantha Jones mune iyo imwechete episode ye Bonde neGuta kwaanowana mushure mazvo mukutamba pabonde kwemudiwa wake? Ingova nechokwadi chokuti uri kutenga zvinhu zvakakodzera. "Kunyange zvazvo dzimwe nyaya dzepabonde dzichigona kunetsa, ini ndinosarudza dzakareruka dzinofamba zvakanaka uye dzinogona kusungirirwa pamusuwo sePeepshow Toys Shots Door Swing (Tenga, $35, peepshowtoys.com)," anodaro Chiaramonte. (Pano pane zvakawanda pamusoro pekuchinja kwepabonde, maitiro ekuishandisa, uye nzira yekusarudza imwe.)

Maitiro ekuti tweak it: "Kushandiswa kwemhando yepamusoro yekuchinja pabonde kunogona kuita mutsauko wese kune vanhu vehurefu hwakasiyana, mazera kana kugona kwemuviri," anodaro Tiana GlittersaurusRex, mudzidzisi ane polyamorous uye co-muvambi weThe Sex Work Survival Guide, sangano risiri purofiti rinokurudzira kodzero nekuchengetedzeka kwevanoita zvepabonde. Izvo zvakasarudzika zviri kwauri. Nakidzwa nazvo, farira kuziva, uye ona izvo zvinoshanda zvakanyanya kumuviri wako.

Gigi Engle inyanzvi yezvepabonde, mudzidzisi, uye munyori weAll The F*cking Mistakes: Gwara reBonde, Rudo, neHupenyu. Mutevere pa Instagram uye Twitter pa @GigiEngle.

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