Mukadzi uyu Anodemba Kurasikirwa Nehuremu Pamuchato Wake

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Vazhinji vevaroora-kuve-vari #sweatingforthewedding mukuyedza kuratidzika kwavo kugona pazuva ravo guru. Asi musimboti wemuviri akasimba Alyssa Greene ari kuyeuchidza vakadzi kuti vasazvitore zvakanyanya. (Yakabatana: Nei Ndafunga Kuti Ndisatapudza Kurema Kwemuchato Wangu)

Mune ichangoburwa Instagram post, Greene akatarisa kumashure maitiro ekuronga muchato uye anoshuva kuti dai asina kuzviomesera. "Makore maviri apfuura ndanga ndichironga muchato wangu. Ini ndaive ndakanetsekana zvekutadza kudya, ndaive ndisina appetite. Ini ndaizochema dai ndaifanirwa kutora zuva rekuzorora ndisina kuronga," akanyora kudaro. "Muchato wako chiitiko chinoshamisa chehupenyu; uye neimwe nzira isu takagadziriswa kuti titende isu [zvidiki] zvatiri ... zvakanakisa uye zvakafanira kupfeka rokwe isu tave. Asi ndiani akatoisa mwero iwoyo?!?"

Greene kubva ipapo awana huremu hwese kumashure uye akawana mufaro, hutano hwakaringana. Uye iye mutsigiri mukuru wemuviri-positivity, achinyevera vateveri vake nezve njodzi dzekudya kunodzivirira.

"Ini ndinofunga nguva zhinji vakadzi vanozviisa zvakanyanya pavari kuti vaorese huremu hwemuchato ivo vatove vakanaka sezvavari," anodaro. Chimiro. "Zvinoita kunge chikafu chekupunzika. Iwe unoenda mwedzi nemwedzi uchirambidza uye zvozodii? Vakadzi vanofanirwa kurangarira kuti pane musiyano pakati pekudzikira uremu, kuwana 'kukwana' nekuenda kure zvakanyanya, uchizvimanikidza kurasikirwa pondo yega yega yekupedzisira. Hapana chinhu kukanganisa nekuda kutaridzika zvakanaka, asi unofanirwa kuzvibvunza, nemutengo wei?"

Rangarira: "Unofanirwa kunzwa semunhu akanaka kwazvo mukati nekunze pazuva remuchato wako, uye usanzwa kusakwana nekuda kwenhamba yaunoona."

Saka kunyangwe iwe uri kuyedza kuumbiridza yako hombe chiitiko, ake manzwiro chiyeuchidzo chakanaka chekuisa hutano hwako uye mufaro chekutanga.

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