Yangu Sarudzo Yekutora Mhuno Jobho Aive Pamusoro Pakawanda Kupfuura Kutarisa

Zvemukati

• Zano rangu kana zvasvika pakuvhiya kwekuzora
• 1. Chengetedza zvaunotarisira
• 2. Hakuna chinhu chinonzi 'kukwana'
• 3. Ita tsvagiridzo yako
• 4. Zvipe nguva yekunaya
• 5. Ipa mhinduro dzako nguva

Sekudzoka shure kwandinogona kurangarira, ndakavenga mhino dzangu. Akazvishora.

Hese kusagadzikana kwemuviri wangu uye nyaya dzekuzvivimba dzakasungwa neimwe nzira kune rino buda bundu riri pakati pechiso changu. Izvo hazvina kukodzera kumeso kwangu, zvakakurira mamwe maficha angu. Ndainzwa sekunge pese pandaipinda mukamuri, mhino dzangu ndicho chinhu chekutanga chakaonekwa nevanhu nezvangu.

Ndakaedza chaizvo kugamuchira mhino yangu sechikamu changu. Ini ndaitoita majee nezvazvo. Asi ini handina kukwanisa kubatsira asi kunzwa hupenyu hwangu hwaizove hwakasiyana zvakanyanya dai ndisina ichi chimwe chimiro chechiso chakatora zvachose. Ndaienda kumazororo neshamwari dzangu uye nemhuri uye ndinova nenguva yakanaka - asi kuona mapikicha kubva parwendo rwakandibata muchimiro kwaizondiunza misodzi.

Saka na21, ndanga ndaringana. Asi iniwo ndakasiya basa ini pachokwadi chekuti kuvhiya kwaive kunze kwemubvunzo. Zvirokwazvo icho chaive chinhu chaingoitwa nevanozivikanwa chete kana vanhu vakapfuma? Izvo zvaisungirwa kutadza pane munhu "akajairika", handiti? Zvakadaro, ini handina kukwanisa kubatsira kana kutarisa mukati maro. Uye pakupedzisira, ini ndakanyatsopedza chikamu chakakura chegore rangu rechipiri kuyunivhesiti ndichiwana makotesheni kubva kuvhiya vega vakazvimirira kubva pasirese. Asi vese vakadzoka vanodarika $ 9,000, iyo mari yemudzidzi yangu yaisakwanisa. Uye ini ndanga ndisingade kubhadharisa chibvumirano kana chiri chimwe chinhu pachiso changu chandinofanira kugara nacho nekusingaperi.

Asi rimwe zuva manheru, zvinhu zvese zvakachinja.

Ndakaona posvo kubva kune imwe shamwari bhurogu shamwari iyo yainge yaitwa rhinoplasty maitiro nekiriniki yeLondon-based cosmetic kuvhiya kiriniki, Shanduko. Mhedzisiro yake yaitaridzika kunge yakasikwa zvakanyanya uye paive nesarudzo dzakasiyana siyana dzemari dzaiwanikwa. Ini ndakabhuka musangano.

Mwedzi mitanhatu gare gare, vhiki mushure mekunge ndapedza bvunzo dzangu, ndakanga ndichivhiyiwa.

Kufamba ndichienda kutafura yekushandisa ndichiziva kuti ndaizomuka nemhino dzakasiyana ndicho chiitiko chakanyanya kuita surreal. Kufunganya, kutarisira, kufara.

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Zvakanaka, chaizvo - zvese zvakachinja. Mukati memwedzi wekutanga wekuita maitiro, ndakanzwa chivimbo chakaringana kuyedza kugadzira, uye ndakawana mukana wakakura webasa! Ndakagurawo vhudzi rangu kekutanga mumakore matanhatu. (Ini ndaida kuikura kureba sezvinobvira kuti ndibvise kutarisisa kubva mumhino dzangu.) Uye, ndasangana nekurambana, ndakaedza kufambidzana zvakare. Kwenguva yekutanga, ini ndakatora mukana wekufambidzana nemunhu wandisina kumbobvira ndasangana naye -mberi, ini ndaingoenda kumadheti nevanhu vandakasangana navo kuburikidza neshamwari.

Mukufunga kumashure, handigone kutenda kuti ndakasiyana sei semunhu uye nekuzvivimba kwandakaita ndakanamatira pamhino dzangu. Mushure mekuvhiyiwa, chivimbo changu chakakwira. Ndainzwa sekunge ndaigona kuzvikanda mukati mebasa randaida kudzingirira, ndisingadzorwe nekunyadziswa kwandainge ndakasunga mumhino dzangu.

Ndainzwa sekunge ini pakupedzisira ndaive nechiso chandaigara ndichifanirwa kuve nacho, nezvangu zvese maficha achishanda pamwe nemumwe pane kuita zvinokuvadza izvo zvese.

Ndakanga ndasununguka kubva pakuzvivimba-kwekunyima mutoro. Asisiri kuvanda kuseri kwayo.

Zano rangu kana zvasvika pakuvhiya kwekuzora

Kuvhiya kwekuzora zviri pachena sarudzo hombe uye imwe iyo isingafanire kutorwa zvishoma. Uri kushandura muviri wako - zvachose. Uye mhedzisiro yacho haisi yepanyama chete, ndeyemweya, futi. Kana iwe uri kufunga nezve chero rudzi rwekuvhiya iwe pachako, ndinokukumbira kuti uverenge izvi kutanga:

1. Chengetedza zvaunotarisira

Ini ndinofunga chinhu chimwe chakanyanya kukosha kana uchiitwa chero rudzi rwekuvhiyiwa ndeyekugadzirisa zvaunotarisira, nekuti ndipo panogona kuvhiyiwa zvakanyanya. Chinhu chimwe chete chandainyanya kufarira nezvechiremba wangu wekuvhiya ndechekuti akandivimbisa kuti chiratidzo chake chikuru ndechekuona kuti mhino dzangu dzakakodzerana nechiso changu. Izvo zvine njodzi kupinda uye kubvunza "mhino yaAngelina Jolie," semuenzaniso, kana kutarisira kutevedzera mumwe munhu. Kuvhiya ndekwekusimudzira izvo zvauinazvo kare, kwete kukupa iwe chimwe chinhu chitsva zvachose. Nezve kutaridzika kwepanyama, iwe unoda chimwe chinhu chichave chakaenzana nezvimwe zvako maficha uye ushande mukuwirirana nazvo - saka chiremba wako anovheneka anofanira kuita icho chinangwa chavo, futi.

2. Hakuna chinhu chinonzi 'kukwana'

Kuvavarira kukwana ndechimwe chakajairika kana zvasvika pakuvhiyiwa, uye izvozvo zvine njodzi. Nekuti, kutaura chokwadi, kukwana hakupo. Kana iwe ukavavarira "yakakwana mhino" iwe zvinosuruvarisa kuti unenge uchizogadzika iwe pachako nekuda kwekuodzwa mwoyo. Chinangwa chemhino (kana chimiro) chinoshanda mukuwirirana zvirinani nevamwe vese. Rangarira, hazvisi zvekuteedzera chero munhu - ndezveWE!

3. Ita tsvagiridzo yako

Handikwanise kusimbisa izvi zvakakwana. Kuti unzwe kusimbiswa kuti iwe uri mumawoko akanaka uye uchazowana zvakasikwa mhedzisiro yaunoda, iwe unofanirwa kuve nechokwadi chekuti waita yakawanda yekutsvaga. Kurudziro yako pachedu inobatsira nguva dzose, nekuti iwe unogona kuona mhenyu, kufema, kufamba, kutaura mhedzisiro yako. Uye kana iyo isiri sarudzo, Google. Vanachiremba vazhinji vanoongorora online nemifananidzo yepamberi nepashure, uye kana usingaiwane, iva nechokwadi chekubvunza mubatsiri wechiremba. Usatya kubvunza mibvunzo uye usanzwe uchimanikidzwa kumhanyira mune chero chinhu. Rangarira, ichi chisarudzo chakakura uye chinofanira kunzwa chakakukodzera. Ndakamirira makore gumi ndisati ndaenderera mberi nekuvhiya kwangu, izvo zvakandipa yakawanda nguva yekunyatsofunga nezve kana chiri chinhu chandaida kuita zvechokwadi.

4. Zvipe nguva yekunaya

Hechino chimwe chakakosha zano. Nepo kuvhiyiwa kwekushongedzerwa kuri kwekusarudza, iwe unogona kunge uchirwadziwa zvakanyanya, uye unogona kunge uchizvimba uye kupwanya. Ndakazvipa mavhiki maviri ndisati ndadzokera kumabasa angu enguva dzose, uye iyi yaive nguva inopfuura yakaringana kuti nditange kunzwa sevanhu zvakare.

5. Ipa mhinduro dzako nguva

Zvinotora nguva kupora chaizvo. Nepo mhedzisiro yekuvhiya kwekuzora iri yekukasira, kuzvimba uye kupwanya kunogona kuvhara mhedzisiro yekupedzisira. Semuenzaniso, rhinoplasty maitiro inotakura yakanyanya kuzvimba uye kupwanya nayo (kunyanya kana iwe uchinge wapwanywa mhino yako kugadzirisa septum yakatsauka, seni ini). Nepo kuzhinji kwekuzvimba kwakadzika nemwedzi-mumwe mucherechedzo, ini ndingangoti yaive mwedzi mitanhatu gare gare ndisati ndatanga kuona mhedzisiro yekupedzisira yandinayo izvozvi. Kusara kwekuzvimba kunogona kutopfuurira kumusoro kusvika kune gumi nemana-mwedzi mucherechedzo, saka iva nemoyo murefu!

Mhino yangu nyowani yakandinakira, uye yakandipa chivimbo chekuve ini. Ndakapedza makore ndichifunga nezve izvo zvaive nezvechitarisiko changu chandakanzwa kuti chaindidzora. Ndakaongorora mashandiro uye ndikafunga nezvese zvinoitika muhupenyu hwangu. Kuvhiya kunochinja muviri hakuzi chinhu chero munhu chaanofanira kungonyura mukati, uye ndinofara kuti ndakatora nguva yekunyatsofunga nezvangu.

Nekuti mhino - kana chero chinhu - hachisi chinhu chinosungirirwa kune wese muviri wako. Icho chikamu chako chaicho.

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