Ichi Chitsva 'Nguva Dzese' Zvekutengesa Chichaita Kuti Udade Nekutamba #LikeAGirl

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Kuchembera chingori chigamba chisina kugadzikana chevanhu vazhinji (mhoro, nhanho inonetsa). Asi ongororo nyowani yaigara Yakawanikwa kuti ine chinotyisa pamabasa epashure pechikoro. Panguva iyo vasikana vanopedza kuyaruka uye vasvika makore gumi nemanomwe, hafu yavo yakange yachinjanisa mabhasikiti nebhurosi, uye vakarega kutamba mitambo zvachose.

Um...sei? Hazvina kuita senguva uye kutamba mitambo inodyidzana. Kukura kwebhobho hakuiti zvemashiripiti kuti ushatise pakukanda bhora nyoro, uye kubuda ropa kamwe chete pamwedzi hakuite kuti usanyanye kusimudza masimbi. Chikonzero chaicho vasikana vechidiki vari kurega mitambo hachinei nechekuita nemuviri kugona, asi zvese zvine chekuita nekuona. Vasikana vanomwe pagumi vanonzwa sokuti havasi vemitambo, uye 67 muzana vanofunga kuti nzanga haivakurudziri kutamba mitambo, maererano nezvinoitwa munguva pfupi yapfuura. Nguva Dzose Ruvimbo & Kuyaruka Ongororo.

Chimbofunga nezvese matimu echirume enyanzvi (uye asiri nyanzvi!) anowana kutariswa, uye matimu ese emitambo echikadzi ayo anorumbidza uye anobhadhara akachenuruka kana achienzaniswa neawo evarume vavo. (Ndicho chikonzero timu yebhola yevakadzi yeUSA yakataura nezvekusaenzana mubhadharo mushure mekuhwina mukombe wepasirose muna 2015.) Funga nezvezvinhu zvese zvinonzi nevanhu vasikana havafanirwe kuita kana kuva-tsandanyama, vane simba, vane hasha, vane hukasha, nezvimwe - izvo inowanzobatanidzwa nekuve mutambi. (BTW, isu tinofunga zvese izvo zvinhu zvinotyisa-ingo tarisa yedu #RudoMyShape mushandirapamwe.)

Kukosha kwekuchengeta vasikana vadiki mumitambo-uye kuvaratidza kuti vakadzi vane nzvimbo pakati pevatambi vechirume-kupfuura mwero wekuchengetedza muzvikwata zvemitambo zvechikoro chesekondari. Kana iwe wakabatanidzwa mumitambo uchikura, unoziva kuti inogona kuva yakakosha sei pakukura kwako semunhu; a 2015 US mutengi data ongororo yakawana kuti vakadzi vane makore 18 kusvika 24 vane mukana wakapetwa kaviri wekuzvishingisa kana vachitamba zvemitambo nguva dzose kupfuura avo vasingatambe zvachose, sekureva kwaAll Always.

Ndosaka vaigara vachitanga yavo #LikeAGirl mushandirapamwe-kukurudzira vasikana kuti varambe vachitamba mitambo, kunyangwe chii chero munhu anotaura pamusoro pezvinofanira kana kusafanira kuitwa nevasikana.

"Mukana wekupa vasikana chiono chitsva, kushandura nhaurirano uye kuvaratidza kuti hongu, vasikana vanobatanidzwa mumitambo," anodaro Dr. Jen Welter, murairidzi wechikadzi wekutanga muNFL uye mumiriri weAlways' #LikeAgirl campaign.

"Kutamba mitambo kwakandidzidzisa zvidzidzo zvakawanda zvehupenyu pamunda uye muhupenyu. Kungotamba mitambo, iwe unodzidza zvakawanda nezve izvo basa rakaoma rinogona kukuitira iwe semunhu. Iwe unodzidza kutora muridzi we" zvawakaisa, ndizvo zvaunowana,” anodaro. “Kuona zvaunoita nenzira yokunyama inzira huru yokuvaka nayo chivimbo. "Uye hazvisi zvemakwikwi, ndezvekuti vasikana vanozviona sevane mukurumbira kuburikidza nekutora chikamu."

Uye izvi zvinopfuura kupfuura vane makore gumi nemashanu-vane makore vanonzwa sekunge vanoda kusiya lacrosse kuti vave "girly zvakakwana." Vakadzi vechikuru, zvakare, vanogona kutora kurudziro kubva pamushandirapamwe uyu kuti vakunde maindasitiri enyanzvi anotungamirwa nevarume, zvemitambo, uye zvekusimba, #LikeAGirl. Nekuti munyika medu, "semusikana" zvinoshandura ku "kunge sabhuku anozvibata." (Verenga kuti mumwe mukadzi akambundira sei muviri wake wakasimba, wakakombama paakava mupurisa wechikadzi.)

Asi zvine musoro, kukosha kwevanhu mukati nekunze kwemunda hakuzotsanangurwe nehukadzi, asi nekugona.

Kubva kune mumwe munhu akapfuura nemairi kutanga-ruoko: "Iyo nhamba yekutanga meseji yandakawana pandakanga ndichienda kuNFL yaive 100% chaiyo," anodaro Welter. "Hazvireve kuti ndiani mumwe ari muindasitiri, ndizvo zvaunounza mazviri. Kana tiri isu tichipesana navo, munhu wese anorasikirwa. Chinangwa ndechekuti uve wakanaka mukati-uye-wega, uye uunze izwi rakatosiyana pane hurukuro. ."

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