Sei Amanda Kloots Akafuridzira Vamwe Pakati Pakati peNick Cordero's COVID-19 Hondo

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Kana iwe wanga uchiteedzera nzira yekushambadzira nyeredzi Nick Cordero kurwa neCOVID-19, saka unoziva kuti yakasvika kumagumo anosuruvarisa nemusi weSvondo mangwanani. Cordero akafira kuCedars-Sinai Medical Center muLos Angeles, kwaakange arapwa muchipatara kwemazuva anodarika makumi mapfumbamwe.

Mudzimai waCordero, murairidzi wekusimba Amanda Kloots, akagovera nhau pa Instagram. "Mudiwa wangu murume afa mangwanani ano," akanyora mumutsara wemufananidzo weCordero. "Akanga akakomberedzwa nerudo nemhuri yake, achiimba uye achinamata sezvaakabva pasi pano zvinyoronyoro. Ndiri mukusatenda uye ndichirwadziwa kwese. Mwoyo wangu wakaputsika sezvo handigoni kufungidzira hupenyu hwedu pasina iye." (Zvakafanana: Amanda Kloots Akagovera Ruremekedzo rwunoshungurudza kumurume wake wekupedzisira, Nick Cordero, Akafa kubva kuCoronavirus)

Munguva yese yekurwa kwaCordero, Kloots akagovana mamiriro enguva dzose pa Instagram yake. Akatanga kuburitsa pachena kuti airwara neicho chakaonekwa sepneumonia musi waApril 1, uye Cordero akakurudzirwa mukoma akaisa mweya wekufema. Mazuva akati wandei gare gare, ake COVID-19 bvunzo mhedzisiro yakadzoka yakanaka, kunyange hazvo pakutanga akaedza asina kaviri. Vanachiremba vaCordero vakaita akawanda mapindiro mukupindura zvakateedzana zvezvinetso, kusanganisira kucheka gumbo rerudyi raCordero. Kloots akataura kuti Cordero akamuka kubva pakoma muna Chivabvu 12, asi hutano hwake hwakadzikira kusvika pakupedzisira asina kupona matambudziko ehurwere hwake.

Kunyangwe achipfuura neicho chaifanira kuve chiitiko chinorwadza, Kloots aive nezwi rakazara rine tariro uye rine tariro mune zvese zvaakatumira. Akafemera zviuru zvevasingazivi paInternet kunamatira Cordero kana kuimba nekutamba naye kuimba yaCordero "Rarama Hupenyu Hwako" panguva yevhiki nevhiki Instagram Lives. Peji reGofundme rekutsigira Kloots, Cordero, naElvis wavo ane gore rimwe chete vakakwidza mari inopfuura miriyoni imwe chete yemadhora. (Inoenderana: Kurova Kwandinoita Coronavirus Ndichirwisa Metastatic Cancer Kwechipiri Nguva)

Kloots akatsanangura maonero ake mune yekuvandudza mushure mekunge Cordero amuka kubva pakoma. “Vanhu vanganditarisa sendinopenga,” akanyora kudaro. "Vanogona kufunga kuti handisi kunyatsonzwisisa mamiriro ake nekuti ndiri kunyemwerera uye ndichiimba mumba make mazuva ese. Ini handisi kuzongotenderera nekunzwa shungu nekuda kwangu kana iye. Izvo handizvo izvo Nick angangoda ini. kuita. Handihwo hunhu hwangu. "

Kunyangwe kana kufunga kwakanaka kusingachinje mamiriro akaoma, izvozvo unokwanisa ita zvakanaka pahutano hwako. "Kufunga kwakanaka kunogona kukanganisa hutano hwepfungwa," anodaro Heather Monroe, L.C.S.W., chiremba wezvepfungwa uye ane rezinesi rekuclinic mushandi kuNewport Institute, nzvimbo yezvehutano hwepfungwa. "Patinenge tine maonero akanaka, tinogona kurarama zviri nani nemamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, tichibatsira kuderedza manzwiro ekuzvidya mwoyo, kuora mwoyo, uye kuzvidya mwoyo. Unyanzvi hwekugadzirisa zviri nani pakupedzisira hunosimudzira kusimba uye hunotibatsira kuti tibudirire kutsungirira matambudziko emangwana." Izvo hazvisi zvese. "Kutsvagurudza kwakaratidza kuti kufunga kwakanaka kunobatsira kupfuura hutano hwepfungwa - zvinogona zvakare kubatsira muviri," anodaro Monroe. "Pamusoro pekudzikira kwekunetseka kwekushushikana uye kushushikana, kufunga kwakanaka kunogona kukurudzira kukurira kwakanyanya kune zvimwe zvirwere, kupfupisa nguva yekurapa, nekuvandudza hutano hwemwoyo."

Caveat: hazvireve kuti unofanira kumanikidza pfungwa dzakanaka 24/7 uye kuyedza kuviga zvakaipa. "Kune chinhu chakadai se 'chepfu positivity,' chinova chiito chekuzviratidza sewe uri mune inofara, ine tariro mune ese mamiriro, kana kumanikidzwa tariro," anodaro Monroe. "Maonero akanaka hazvireve kuti unofuratira matambudziko ehupenyu kana kuzvivharira kune yakashata manzwiro, asi asi sangana nezviitiko zvisina kunaka nenzira inobudirira."

Kana iwe uchiziva mumwe munhu ari kutaura nezve kukomberedza ivo pachavo neakanaka vibes, vanogona kunge vari pane chimwe chinhu. "Manzwiro anogona kutapuriranwa. Iyo yakawanda nguva inoshandiswa kupedza yakanaka midhiya kana kushandisa nguva nemumwe munhu anofunga zvakanaka anogona kuumba iwo maonero emumwe munhu nenzira yakanaka," anodaro Monroe. "Vanhu vakanaka vanogona kazhinji kukurudzira, kukurudzira, uye kupa simba kune vamwe zvakare." Izvo zvinoita kunge ndizvo zvinoitika kumaKloots. Vanhu vazhinji vakatumira pamusoro pekuti positivity yake parwendo rwehutano rweCordero yakavakurudzira sei kuti vashande kuburikidza nehondo yavo neCOVID uye neimwe nzira.

"Ndanga ndichitevera @amandakloots kwekanguva- asi zvakatonyanya mushure mekunge murume wake abatwa neCCIDID, yaive ichangofa sekuru vangu kubva kuCOVID," @hannabananahealth akanyora mune Instagram post. "Kugutsikana kwake uye kupenya kwake kunyange munguva dzerima kwakandikurudzira kupfuura zvandaitenda. Ndaigara ndichitarisa zvangu Instagram mazuva ese ndichitsvaga matsva aNick, kunyangwe hazvo ndanga ndisingazive chero mumwe wavo wandainzwisisa neimwe nzira, uye ndakadzika midzi izvo zvakanyanya. " (Inoenderana: Iyi Nzira Yekufunga Kwakanaka Inogona Kuita Kuti Kunamatira kune Hutano Tsika Kuve nyore)

Mushandisi we Instagram @angybby akanyora chinyorwa nezvekuti sei avo vanotevera nyaya yaCordero vanganzwa kufemerwa kuti vagare vakanaka panguva yehondo yavo, uye kuti zvakamubata sei iyewo. "Ini ndanga ndisingazive Nick Cordero pachangu asi, sevamwe, ndiri kuchema kufa kwake nhasi," akanyora kudaro. "Zvaive nyore kwandiri kuti ndiise kurwa nehutachiona pane ino nyaya ineshungu. Maitiro masayendisiti pasi rese ari kurwa nehutachiona hukuru, vanachiremba paCedars Sinai vairwira hupenyu hwemurume wechidiki uyu. ..kana vakagona kuponesa Nick nyika ingamise hutachiona.

Mutsamba yake, akarwisana nepfungwa yezvatinogona kutora kubva pamamiriro ezvinhu akashata aya: "Nekuti [Kloots] kunyangwe nhamo isingafungidzike, akatiratidza zvazvakaita kuramba tiine tariro tichiparadzira rudo nekufunga kwakanaka," akanyora kudaro. "Nekuti mhuri yake yakatiratidza nzira yekuuya pamwe chete uye kutsigirana munguva apo zviri nyore kuneta uye kudzivirira. Nekuti kana mazana ezviuru edu anotevera nyaya yavo vakasarudza kuva nemoyo munyoro kune mumwe nemumwe mukukudzwa kwavo isu tinogona kungo ubudise nguva dzino dzerima panzvimbo iri nani. "

Kloots akaimba "Rarama Hupenyu Hwako" kekupedzisira pa Instagram Live nezuro. Asi nyaya yake yekugara akanaka uye ane tariro kusvika kumagumo yakasiya zvakajeka mucherechedzo.

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