Cassey Ho Anofumura Kunetsekana Nekusavimbika Pakuroora uye Kunamai

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Cassey Ho weBlogilates anga ari bhuku rakavhurika pamwe nemauto ake evateveri. Kunyangwe achiratidzira muviri wake mifananidzo inoburitsa nenzira yakajeka uye yakajeka pane kwake kumwe kusachengeteka, iyo Instagram manzwiro akagovana akasiyana maitiro ehupenyu hwake pasocial media, kunyangwe achikurukura kekutanga nguva kuti ari kunzwa sei nezve chimwe chinhu cheramangwana rake.

Muvhidhiyo yakatumirwa kune yake Instagram peji neMuvhuro, Ho arikunakidzwa nezororo remuchato muBora Bora nemurume wake, Sam Livits, makore matatu mushure mekusunga iro banga. Ipo clip yekurota ichiratidza vaviri vacho vachirovanisa tamba neChampagne uye vachisvetukira mukati mekristaro bhuruu mvura, Ho anoshandisa vhidhiyo yerwendo rwechirimo sechikonzero chekutendeseka kwazvo pamusoro penyaya yakakosha; mune chinyorwa, anoenderera mberi achiburitsa kusahadzika kwake nezve kuroora uye kuva amai, pamwe nekuti "kutya" sei kwaakange achigovana nevateveri vake. (Zvakafanana: Cassie Ho Anogovera Nei Kunyange Iye Anonzwa Senge Akundikana Dzimwe nguva).

"Honeymoon dzinofanirwa kuva kutanga kwechikamu chinotevera chehupenyu pakati pevaviri. Uye ndinofanira kuva akatendeseka nemi. Ndinotya," akatanga Ho. "Apo @samlivits neni takaenda pazuva redu rekutanga kukoreji, akati 'Ndichaita baba vakanaka chaizvo.' 😅 Zviripachena kuti ndakanga ndisati ndagadzirira kutaura zvinhu zvakadaro pakati pematemu nemapepa ekutsvagisa. Uyezve, ndakanga ndichangopiwa 'mvumo' yekufambidzana naamai vangu!"

Sezvo hukama hwake naLivits "hwakawedzera kukura," Ho akanyora kuti "akaunza pfungwa yekuroora," asi iye "haana kunzwa kugadzirira" panguva iyoyo. Livits paakatsanangura makore mapfumbamwe gare gare, Ho akati, "Kunyangwe ndaifunga kuti ndakanga ndisina kugadzirira, hazvina basa nekuti yakavhura nhanho nyowani yerudo muhukama hwedu iyo yandakanga ndisati ndanzwa."

Iye zvino makore matatu muwanano yavo, Ho akacherekedza Muvhuro kuti "icho chinhu chakataurwa naSam kwandiri mukoreji makore gumi nematatu apfuura inyaya isingachadzivisiki."

"Mazuva ese mushure memuchato Sam aindibvunza 'saka tiri kuita mwana rini?' uye ndaiti oh makore mashoma. ' Nyaya imwe chete iyi. Ini ndanga ndisinganzwe ndakagadzirira nekuti basa rangu raisave kwandaida kuti rive, "akatsanangura Ho. "Ndiri kutya kukuudza izvi nekuti zvimwe ndezvimwe zvezvinhu zvakaomarara zvandisati ndambovhura pamusoro pazvo. Zvimwe ndezvimwe zvisingawirirane futi."

Akaenderera mberi achiti, "Kusiyana nevakadzi vese vandakakura navo, kuita mwana chinhu chavaingoziva kuti vanoda. Ini? Handizivi kuti imhaka yemakuriro andakaita here (super academic + career focused) kana . (Zvakafanana: Vakadzi ve6 Vanogovana Mabatiro Avanoita Humai uye Maitiro Avo eKushanda).

Ho akajekesa kuti haavengi vana kana kuti haadi kuve amai, asi kuti anonzwa "kushomeka kweiyo 'chaiyo yekudaidzira' yekuva amai iyo vakadzi vazhinji vanoita kunge vanayo. Kupi kwangu?"

"Zvinoshamisa nekuti ndagara ndichityaira," akanyora kudaro. "Ini ndinotevera moyo wangu uye zvinogara zvichindiratidza gwara chairo. Asi neizvi, moyo wangu hausati wataura uye handidi kuzvidemba kurasikirwa neichi chiitiko chehupenyu."

Mukupindura kutumira meseji yechokwadi, Ho nguva pfupi yadarika akaudza Chimiro iyo yaaitenda kuti vamwe vakadzi vaizowana yake positi "isingataurike," asi akashamisika zvinofadza.

"Ini pachokwadi ndakafunga kuti vamwe vakadzi vaiwana yangu positi isingaenderane, uye ini ndanga ndagadzirira kudzoka. Asi chakandishamisa ... vazhinji vakati ivo vanonzwa nenzira imwechete. Ndakashamiswa chose. Vakadzi vainzwawo kuti "kushaya simba" pakuva mai!Ndakanga ndagara ndichifunga kuti ini ndinoshamisa nokuti vakadzi vose vandakakura vaiziva kuti vanoda vana kubva vachiri vadiki.Ini nerumwe rutivi - ndaigara ndiri nyanzvi. uye kuda basa. Pamwe zvine chekuita nemarererwo andakaita," akadaro Ho.

"Kune chero munhu ari kunetsekana nevana vese nharo - ndinokukurudzira kuti utaure nemarudzi ese evakadzi uye teerera kune ese akasiyana zviitiko uye zvakasiyana maonero anaamai nevasiri amai. Ndiri kuteerera uye ndiri kudzidza. kuti ndikwanise kuita sarudzo uye kunzwa ndine chivimbo musarudzo yangu, asi parizvino handisati ndanzwa senge ndave kuziva zvakakwana," akaenderera mberi.

Ho akazovhurira vateveri vake nezve kudururwa kwerutsigiro rwaakagamuchira munhevedzano ye Instagram Nhau.

"Ndanga ndisingazive kuti vangani vamwe vakadzi kunze uko vanonzwa nenzira iyi futi," akatumira Ho. "Ndainzwa kunge paive nechakakanganisika neni ... Thanks nekuda kwekunzwisisa zvakanyanya pamusoro penyaya iyi. Ndinonzwa kushoma ndiri ndega."

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