Kuenzanisa Muurayi. Zvigure.

Kubva pane chimiro chemasero edu kusvika pakuzungunuka kweminwe yedu, munhu wega wega zvakadzama, anenge asinganzwisisike akasiyana. Mumaeon ese enguva, pakati pemamirioni emazai evanhu akaisirwa mbeu uye akachonyorwa ... pane imwe chete iwe: inoshamisa microscopic, inoshamisa isingadzoreke, yekutanga, uye ... isingaenzaniswi.

Mienzaniso yokutevedzera inobatsira. Idzo dzimba dzekuvhenekera kana kurota-kudzingirira kuchinge kwave nemakore; izvo humbowo hwe simba uye mashiripiti. Asi kutevedzera inzvimbo inonyengera. Ndine shamwari, anoshuva munyori wenhau uye munyori akangwara ari ega, uyo akataura kwandiri kamwechete kuti aida kuve "weCanada Anne Lamott. ” Ndikati, "Sei usingave iwe wepasi rose Iwe?"

Isu tinofanirwa kuve neushingi hwekusava chinhu asi isu pachedu kana tichizoziva kuti isimba rechokwadi chii.

Kuenzanisa kupenga-kugadzira. Iyo inoratidzira pane zvingangoitika uye chokwadi uye zvese zvakanaka zvinhu iwe ungadai watove uchitokuendera iwe dai iwe wanga usiri wakabatikana zvakanyanya mumabhokisi ekubhokisi nevanhu vaunofunga kuti vanazvo zviri nani. Ungafananidza chando nechando here kuti usarudze kuti nderipi rakanaka uye rakasiyana nemamwe? Hapana maviri echando echando akafanana.

Kufananidza inotsvedza inotsvedza kugodo uye, kune chikamu chikuru, shanje inoparadza simba rinogona kuiswa mukuwana izvo zvaunoda kana kugadzirisa zvaunazvo. Musungo. Ini ndaishuvira trust-fund vacheche uye shamwari dzangu nevabereki vakapfuma. "Ini murombo ... hapana gumbo-kumusoro, akaberekerwa mumhuri yepakati, anofanira kuzvigadzira." Yuck. Iko kutambisa kwepfungwa nzvimbo - {textend} nzvimbo inogona kuzadzwa nehunyanzvi neunyanzvi.

Saka heino tsika inogadzira rusununguko yekubatsira iwe kurega kuenzanisa uye nyunguduka godo:

1. Panzvimbo pekuenzanisa, fungidzira. Fungidzira iwe pachako uchinzwa nenzira yaunoda kunzwa: kubudirira, kupenya, hunyanzvi wakasununguka, ivhu, hutano, hwakabatana. Ndizvo. Iwe hausi kuzviita uri pasi kana kupfuura kupfuura chero ani zvake - iwe uri nyore kuzvipa mvumo kuda zvaunoda.

2. Ropafadzai vanhu vamunonzwa kuchiva. Vapfumi, vakaonda, vane rudo, vane chivimbo, vanhu vane simba. Kurumidza kupfuura zvaungati "ndinoshuva dai ndaiva nazvo," iti wega, kana - {textend} zvakatonaka - {textend} kwavari, "Nzira yekuenda ... unoratidzika zvakanaka ... ndinokuyemura."

Negodo kunze kwenzira, iwe unenge uine imwe nzvimbo yehukuru hwako kuti upfuurire mberi.

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