Kudzidza Kuda Muviri Wako Kwakaoma - Kunyanya Mushure meKenza Yemazamu

Sezvo isu tinokwegura, isu tinotakura mavanga uye anotambanudza mamaki anotaurira iyo nyaya yehupenyu hwakararama zvakanaka. Kwandiri, iyo nyaya inosanganisira kenza yemazamu, mbiri mastectomy, uye hapana kuvakwazve.

Zvita 14, 2012, raive zuva raizoshandura hupenyu nekusingaperi sekuziva kwangu. Ndiro zuva randakanzwa mazwi matatu anotyiwa zvakanyanya chero munhu anoda kunzwa: UNE CANCER.

Izvo zvaive zvisingaite - {textend} Ini ndainzwa kunge makumbo angu achapera. Ini ndaive nemakore makumi matatu nematatu, mukadzi, uye amai vevakomana vaviri vadiki kwazvo, Ethan zera 5 naBrady vasina makore maviri. Asi pandakangokwanisa kujekesa musoro wangu, ndakaziva kuti ndaida chirongwa chekuita.

Kuongororwa kwangu kwaive chikamu 1 giredhi 3 ductal carcinoma. Ndakaziva padhuze nepadiki kuti ndaida kuita bilateral mastectomy. Izvi zvaive muna 2012, pamberi paAngelina Jolie achizivisa pachena kurwa kwake nekenza yemazamu uye kusarudza nyika mbiri mastectomy. Pasina mubvunzo kutaura, munhu wese aifunga kuti ndirikutora danho rakanyanya. Nekudaro, ndakaenda nematumbu angu uye ndakave nachiremba anovhiya anoshamisa uyo akabvuma kuvhiya, uye akaita basa rakanaka.

Ndakasarudza kunonoka kuvakwazve zamu. Panguva iyoyo, ini ndanga ndisati ndamboona kuti mabatital mastectomy aitaridzika sei chaizvo. Ndakanga ndisingazive chaizvo zvandaizotarisira pandakabvisa mabhandeji kekutanga. Ndakagara ndega mubathroom mangu ndokutarisa mugirazi, ndokuona munhu wandisina kuziva. Handina kuchema, asi ndakanzwa kurasikirwa kukuru. Ndakanga ndichine zano rekuvakazve mazamu kumashure kwepfungwa dzangu. Ndakanga ndiine mwedzi yakati wandei yekemotherapy yekurwisa nayo kutanga.

Ndaiti ndikapedza chemo, vhudzi rangu raizokura zvakare, uye kuvakazve zamu raizove "mutsetse" wangu. Ndingadai ndakave nemazamu zvakare uye ndaizokwanisa kutarisa mugirazi zvakare ndione chembere ini.

Pakupera kwaAugust 2013, mushure memwedzi yekemotherapy uye kumwe kuvhiya kwakawandisa pasi pebhandi rangu, ndakanga ndave ndagadzirira kuvakwazve mazamu. Izvo vakadzi vazhinji vasingazive - {textend} zvandisina kuziva - {textend} ndeyekuti kuvakwa kwemazamu inzira refu, inorwadza. Zvinotora mwedzi yakati wandei uye kuvhiiwa kwakawanda kuti kupedzwe.

Chikamu chekutanga kuvhiyiwa kuisa zvinowedzera pasi pemhasuru yemazamu. Izvi ndizvo zvakaoma mafomu epurasitiki. Vane zviteshi zvesimbi mavari, uye nekufamba kwenguva, vanozadza vanowedzeresa nemvura kuti vasunungure mhasuru. Mushure mekunge masvika padanho repazamu raunoda, vanachiremba vanoronga kuvhiyiwa uko "kwavanobvisa" uko kwavanobvisa zvinokudziridza uye nekuzvitsiva nezvinoisirwa zamu.

Kwandiri, iyi yaive imwe ye
nguva idzodzo - {textend} kuwedzera imwe vanga, "tattoo yakawanikwa," kune yangu runyorwa.

Mushure memwedzi yakati wandei neanowedzera, anozadza, uye kurwadziwa, ini ndanga ndave padhuze nekuguma kwenzira yekuvakazve zamu. Mamwe manheru, ndakatanga kunzwa kurwara zvakanyanya uye kuita fivha. Murume wangu akasimbirira kuti tiende kuchipatara chedu, uye panguva yatakasvika kuE ER kurova kwangu kwakasvika mazana maviri nemaviri. Tichangosvika, tese nemurume wangu takaendeswa neamburenzi kuChicago pakati pehusiku.

Ndakagara muChicago kwemazuva manomwe uye ndakasunungurwa pazuva rekuzvarwa rechitanhatu remwanakomana wedu mukuru. Mazuva matatu gare gare ndakave nekuwedzera mazamu ekuwedzera.

Ndakaziva ipapo kuti kuvakwa kwemazamu kwaisazondishandira. Ini handina kuzomboda kupfuura chero chikamu cheichi chiitiko futi. Izvo zvaive zvisina kukodzera kurwadziwa uye kukanganisa kwandiri uye nemhuri yangu. Ini ndaizoda kushanda kuburikidza nemuviri wangu nyaya uye kukumbundira zvandakasiiwa nazvo - {textend} mavanga uye zvese.

Pakutanga, ndainyara nemuviri wangu usina zamu, nemavanga mahombe aimhanya kubva kune rumwe rutivi rwefuremu yangu achienda kune rimwe. Ndakanga ndisina kuchengeteka. Ini ndaive nekutya kuti chii uye nemurume wangu ainzwa sei. Kuva murume anoshamisa zvaari, akati, "Iwe wakanaka. Ini handina kumbobvira ndave mukomana wechibharo, zvakadaro. ”

Kudzidza kuda muviri wako kunonetsa. Sezvo isu tichikwegura uye tichiita vana, isu zvakare tine mavanga uye anotambanudza mamaki anotaurira nyaya yehupenyu hunorarama zvakanaka. Nekufamba kwenguva, ndakakwanisa kutarisa mugirazi ndokuona chimwe chinhu chandakanga ndisati ndamboona: mavanga andaimbove ndakanyara nawo akange ave nerevo nyowani. Ndakanzwa kudada uye ndakasimba. Ini ndaida kugovana nyaya yangu uye mifananidzo yangu nevamwe vakadzi. Ndaida kuvaratidza kuti tiri zvimwe kudarika mavanga atakasara nawo. Nekuti kuseri kwemavanga ese, kune nyaya yekupona.

Ini ndakakwanisa kugovera nyaya yangu uye mavanga angu nevakadzi munyika yese. Pane chisungo chisingataurwe chandinacho nevamwe vakadzi vakapfuura nekenza yemazamu. Gomarara repazamu i zvinotyisa chirwere. Inobira zvakanyanya kubva kune vakawanda.

Uye saka, ndinozviyeuchidza izvi kakawanda. Mashoko akataurwa nemumwe munyori asingazivikanwe: “Takasimba. Zvinotora zvakawanda kutikunda. Mavanga haana basa. Ndiwo mucherechedzo wehondo dzatakunda. ”

Jamie Kastelic mupukunyuki wecancer yemazamu, mukadzi, amai, uye muvambi weSpero-tariro, LLC. Akaonekwa aine gomarara repazamu aine makore makumi matatu nematatu, akaita chinangwa chake kugovana vamwe nyaya yake pamwe nemavanga. Akafamba mumugwagwa panguva yeNew York Fashoni Vhiki, akaverengerwa paForbes.com, uye muenzi blogged pane akawanda mawebhusaiti. Jamie anoshanda naFord seMuenzaniso weKushinga Murwi muPink uye neKurarama Beyond Breast Cancer semumiriri wechidiki we2018-2019. Ari munzira, akasimudza zviuru zvemadhora ekutsvaga kenza yemazamu nekuziva.