Pese Patinotaura Nezve Kupisa Tsika, Tinofanirwa Kusanganisira Vakaremara Folk

Zvemukati

• Iko kune kwenguva refu-kumira kweanogona vanhu kukwereta kubva kune Matsi uye vakaremara tsika
• Chii chinoitika kana tikabvisa ruzivo rwehurema kubva pamidzi yaro mutsika yekuremara?
• Izvo zvakakoshawo kuti uzive chinyorwa chaPeterson chinosanganisa manzwi evanhu vane ruvara
• Pakupedzisira, pane kukosha mukukwereta kubva kuremara tsika - asi inofanira kunge yakaenzana kuchinjana

Maitiro atinoona maumbirwo epasi rose atinosarudza kuva - uye kugovana zviitiko zvinomanikidza zvinogona kuumba nzira yatinoitirana nayo, ive nani. Aya maonero akasimba.

Kufanana nevakawanda, ini ndakawana chinyorwa cheBuzzfeed chazvino naAnne Helen Peterson, "How Millennials Become the Burnout Generation," zvine mutsindo zvakanyanya. Neniwo, handina kugutsikana nenzira idzo capitalism yakatadza chizvarwa chedu. Ini, zvakare, ndinonetseka kupedzisa kutumwa uye mabasa anoita kunge anofanirwa kuve "akareruka."

Asi mukuyedza kusanganisa chiitiko chekupisa simba kwemireniyumu, rondedzero yaPeterson yakarasikirwa nekusanganisira ruzivo kubva kunharaunda yakaremara.

Iko kune kwenguva refu-kumira kweanogona vanhu kukwereta kubva kune Matsi uye vakaremara tsika

Semuenzaniso, iyo nhabvu huddle inokweretwa kubva kuGallaudet vatambi vakagumbatira kudzivirira mamwe zvikwata kuvaona vachisaina. Magumbeze ane huremu, maitiro matsva egore rino, akatanga kugadzirwa kubatsira vanhu vane autism kubata nezviitiko zvinokuvadza zvekunzwa uye kushushikana.

Panguva ino, Peterson anoshandisa kuremara sedimikira. Iye anotaura nezve izvo "zvinotirwadza" isu, nezve "kushushikana." Anotodaidza kuneta kwemireniyumu kuti "chirwere chisingaperi."

Uye apo Peterson achigadzira mienzaniso kubva kumunhu akaremara, haasanganisi maonero avo, nhoroondo, kana manzwi. Nekuda kweizvozvo, anobata vanhu vakaremara kurwira chaiko sechikamu chekupisa simba kwemireniyumu, pane kungangoita (uye zvingangoita) chiratidzo chemamiriro avo.

Vakaremara vanhu vatoona erasure izvo zvinopa kudzvinyirirwa kwedu. Nekudaro, nekushandisa ruzivo rwakaremara pasina kubvunza vanhu vakaremara, rondedzero yaPeterson inobatsira pakudzima ikoko.

Muenzaniso wekutanga unopihwa naPeterson ndewemumwe munhu ane ADHD aisakwanisa kunyoresa kuvhota munguva.

"Asi tsananguro yake - kunyangwe hazvo, sekucherechedza kwaakaita, kurwira kwake mune izvi kwakakonzerwa nechikamu neADHD yake - kwakakonzera maitiro epanguva ino ekuzvitutumadza pamireniyamu 'kutadza kupedzisa kuita kunge mabasa akakosha," anonyora kudaro Peterson. "Kura, iwo mafungiro ese anoenda. Hupenyu hauna kuoma kudaro. ”

Chiri kushaikwa kubvuma kuti kusakwanisa kupedzisa "zvakapusa" mabasa chiitiko chakajairika kune avo vane ADHD.

Vakaremara vanowanzoudzwa kuti "vazvikunde." Uye izvo hazvina kufanana neapo munhu ane nhumbu anoudzwa kuti "kukura." Kunyangwe nehurema hunowoneka kupfuura ADHD, senge vashandisi vemawiricheya, vakaremara vanoregedzwa vachinzi "ingoedza yoga" kana turmeric kana kombucha.

Kubvisa kuremara kwevanhu vakaremara 'kurwa chaiko, sekunge isu tingango bhutsira nzira yedu kuburikidza nenzvimbo dzisingasvikike, inzira yekugona - uyezve kuri kuedza kunzwira tsitsi vanhu vakaremara nekuita sekunge isu tese tinowana mhinduro imwechete.

Dai Peterson akaisa pakati chinyorwa chake zvakanyatsoitika mune zvakaremara zviitiko, aigona kutora kubva mune izvi zviitiko kuti awedzere kujekesa mararamire ehupenyu hwevanhu vakaremara. Izvi, pamwe, zvaizobatsira vamwe vaverengi kukurira hunhu hunokuvadza.

Chii chinoitika kana tikabvisa ruzivo rwehurema kubva pamidzi yaro mutsika yekuremara?

Zvakawanda zvinhu zvekupisa kwemamireniyumu izvo Peterson anorondedzera zvakafanana nezviitiko zvakajairika zvevanhu vane chirwere chisingaperi uye vasinganzwisisike.

Asi kuve nehurema kana chirwere hazvirevi pakurwadziwa, kudzorwa, kana kunzwa kuneta zvakanyanya.

Zvekare, nekusiya vakaremara kubva murondedzero, Peterson anoshaya pachikamu chakakosha: Vakaremara ndivo zvakare - uye ndave kwenguva yakareba - ndichishandira shanduko yesystem, senge kuenderera mberi kwekuedza kutsvaga hutano hwepasi rose uye Disability Integration Act.

Sangano rekuzvimiririra rakazvimirira rakaumbwa muma1960 kukwezvera kudzikisira kugadziriswa kwevanhu vakaremara uye kumanikidza maAmerican nehurema Mutemo kuburikidza neCongress. Kuti varatidze dambudziko nezvivakwa zvisingawanikwe, vanhu vakaremara vakakwidza nhanho dzeCongress.

Peterson paanobvunza kuti, "Kusvikira kana panzvimbo yechimurenga kupidigura hurongwa hwemakapitalisiti, tingatarisira sei kudzikisira kana kudzivirira - pane kungozvimbirira - kuneta?" Iye arikushaya nhoroondo iyo yakaremara nharaunda yatove nekuhwina systemic shanduko dzinogona kuve dzinogona kubatsira zviuru zvemamirioni kusangana nekuneta.

Semuenzaniso, kana kutsva kwakakonzerwa nemamiriro ehutano, vashandi vanogona kukumbira zviri pamutemo pekugara pasi pevaAmerican vane Disability Act.

Peterson anotumidzawo chiratidzo chake chekupererwa nesimba “kutadza kuoma mitezo”: “Ndakanga ndakadzika mukati mekutenderera… zvekuti ndakasvika pakudaidza 'kutadza kuoma mitezo.' Ndaizoisa chimwe chinhu pane rangu revhiki randinofanira kuita, uye ' ndinotenderera, vhiki imwe kuenda kune inotevera, zvichinditambudza kwemwedzi. ”

Kune avo vakaremara uye vane chirwere chisingaperi, izvi zvinozivikanwa sekutadza kushanda uye "hutsi hwehuropi."

Executive kusagadzikana kunoonekwa nekunetseka kupedzisa mabasa akaoma, kutanga mabasa, kana kushandura pakati pemabasa. Zvakajairika muADHD, autism, uye zvimwe zvehutano hwepfungwa nyaya.

Utsi hwehuropi hunotsanangura fog yekuziva iyo inoita kuti zvive zvakaoma kufunga uye kupedzisa mabasa. Icho chiratidzo chekusagadzikana senge fibromyalgia, chisingaperi kuneta chirwere / myalgic encephalomyelitis, kuchembera, kuora mwoyo, uye zvimwe.

Kunyangwe ini ndisiri chairchair-kuongorora Peterson nechero ipi yenyaya idzi (Executive performance inozivikanwa kuti inowedzerana nenyaya dzakadai sekushushikana uye kushaya kwekurara), anoshaya nekusaisa akaremara maonero pane dzimwe nzvimbo kuora mitezo: Vakaremara vanhu vakagadzira nzira dze kutsungirira.

Tinodaidza izvi pekugara kana nzira dzekubata kana, dzimwe nguva, kuzvitarisira.

Zvisinei, pane kuziviswa nezviitiko zvakaremara, Peterson anoshingairira kuzvichengetedza kwemazuva ano.

"Zvakawanda zvekuzvitarisira hazvina hanya zvachose: Iyo indasitiri yemabhiriyoni emadhora gumi nerimwe ane chinangwa chekupedzisira hakusi kudzora kupisa kwekutsva," Peterson anonyora, "asi kupa dzimwe nzira dzekuzvigadzirisa. Zvirinani mune yaro yazvino, inogadzirwa iteration, kuzvichengeta-yega haisi mhinduro; zvinonetesa. ”

Ini ndinobvuma, kuzvitarisira unokwanisa kunetesa. Asi zvakadaro zvinopfuura kungochinjiswa vhezheni inotsanangurwa naPeterson. Kuzvichengeta-wega Peterson anonyora nezvayo ndiyo yakadiridzwa-pasi vhezheni iyo yakabvisa vanhu, kunyanya makambani, akagadzira kubva mukuremara tsika.

Kuzvichengeta-wega kwekutadza kushanda kwakapetwa kaviri:

1. Zviitire pekugara (senge zviyeuchidzo, kurerutsa mabasa, kukumbira rubatsiro) kuti uve netariro yekupedzisa mabasa anonyanya kukosha.
2. Reka kuzvitarisira iwe pachako kuti uite zvinhu zvese, kana kuzvidaidza kuti "simbe" kana usingakwanise.

Vakaremara vane ruzivo rwakakwana kunzwa sekuti isu "tine usimbe" nekuda kwekusa "bereka." Sosaiti inogara ichititaurira isu tiri "mitoro" pasosaiti, kunyanya kana tisingakwanise kushanda kune zvimiro zvemabhizimusi.

Zvichida nekuteerera kune vakaremara pamisoro yakadaro, vanhu vakaremara vanogona kunyatsonzwisisa kana kugamuchira kwavo kusakwana. Mushure mekunge hurema hwangu hwawedzera kuremadza, zvakatora makore ekudzidzira kuti ndikwanise kuzvimhanyisa uye kwete kutarisira kukwana kwedu kwazvino capitalist nzanga inoda kwatiri isu.

Dai Peterson akasvika kunharaunda yakaremara, anogona kunge akakwanisa kudzora kuyerera kwekuneta kwake, kana kuti angasvika pamwero wekuzvitambira nezvake zvaasingakwanise.

Mukupindura kune mhosva yekunzwa "simbe," nharaunda yakaremara yadzokera kumashure, ichitaura zvinhu zvakaita sekuti "hupenyu hwangu kuramba." Isu takaona kukosha kwedu hakuna kusungirirwa mukugadzirwa, uye kusanganisira iyi rondedzero yehurema ingadai yakapa chinyorwa chekutanga icho chinonyanya kudiwa kupa simba kusimudza.

Izvo zvakakoshawo kuti uzive chinyorwa chaPeterson chinosanganisa manzwi evanhu vane ruvara

Anotsanangura kuva chiuru chemakore se “vazhinji vachena, vazhinji vevanhu vepakati nepakati vakazvarwa pakati pa1981 na1996.” Vashandi pa Twitter vakadzosera kumashure kurwisa rondedzero iyi.

Arrianna M. Planey akatumira tweet achipindura chidimbu ichi, '"Chii chiri' kukura 'kumukadzi Mutema uyo akabatwa semunhu mukuru kubva pazera remakore masere? # Kukura # kweseBlackgirlhood ndanga ndichiita rakawanda basa iro rinodaidzwa kuti' kukura ' kubvira ndisati ndava kuyaruka. ”

Pamusoro pezvo, Tiana Clark akatumira tweet kuti Peterson anoongorora "maitiro echizvarwa - chizvarwa changu - asi mabhatiri angu matema akafa haana kuiswa. Munyori anotopa tsananguro dzekuve 'murombo' uye 'simbe,' asi haamise nhoroondo dzakakomba dzezvipikisheni izvi, kunyanya maererano nekuvakwa kwerudzi munzvimbo yebasa. "

Zvimwe zvezviitiko zvakakosha izvi zvinogona kuonekwa muma hashtag akadai se #DisabilityTooWhite uye #HealthCareWhileColored.

Pakupedzisira, pane kukosha mukukwereta kubva kuremara tsika - asi inofanira kunge yakaenzana kuchinjana

Vanhu vakagumburwa havagone kuramba vachikwereta kubva kuremara tsika nemutauro ivo vachitibata se "mitoro." Muchokwadi, vakaremara vanhu vari kubatsira munharaunda nenzira chaidzo - uye izvo zvinoda kutendwa.

Pakupedzisira, uku kubviswa kwevakaremara mipiro kuvanhu. Pakaipisisa, izvi zvinomisikidza chimiro chekuti vanhu vakaremara vanoziva kuti chii kuremerwa.

Saka chii chinoitika kana isu tikarambana vakaremara zviitiko kubva kuhurema hupenyu? Kuremara kunongova dimikira, uye hupenyu hwakaremara hunove dimikira futi, pane kuita chikamu chakakosha chehunhu hwemunhu. Pakupedzisira, Peterson anosuwa zvakanyanya nekunyora "nezvedu, pasina isu."

Liz Moore anorwara nekusingaperi uye anorwira kodzero kodzero yehurema uye munyori. Ivo vanogara pasofa yavo pane zvakabiwa Pamunkey nyika munzvimbo yeDC metro. Unogona kuvawana pa Twitter, kana kuverenga zvimwe zvebasa ravo pa liminalnest.wordpress.com.