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Zvemukati

• Nguva yakakodzera ndiyoyi
• Kuve mutsva pakukurukurirana hazvireve kuti hurukuro inyowani
• Rubatsiro rwekuziva zvekutaura…
• Mushure mehurukuro kunouya basa

Kuva nehurukuro yakatendeseka pamusoro penyaya dzatiri kuona nhasi dzinoda kusangana nezvakaoma chokwadi cheropafadzo uye kuti zvinoshanda sei.

"Zvino kutenda ndiko kusimbiswa kwezvinhu zvinotarisirwa, humbowo hwezvinhu zvisingaonekwe." VaHebheru 11: 1 (NKJV)

Iyi ndeimwe yemavhesi andinofarira muBhaibheri. Semubereki zvakare chishuwo changu kumwanakomana wangu ane makore mashanu ekuberekwa. Ndine rutendo rwekuti zvese zvandinotarisira, zvese zvandisiri kuona izvozvi munyika ino, zvichavepo kwaari. Pamusoro pechinyorwa chezvinhu zvandinotarisira hupenyu hwakareba.

Tiri vatema, uye izvo zvave pachena mumasvondo maviri apfuura, ndezvekuti kusviba kwedu imhosva. Iyo njodzi kuhupenyu hwedu, kugona kwedu kuburitsa mweya, pasina kubvunzwa kana kuurawa nekuda kwayo.

Ndichiri kunyatsoziva nezve ichi chokwadi, mwanakomana wangu haazi, uye zvakadaro rimwe zuva munguva pfupi, pane kumberi, anozofanira kuziva. Iye anozofanirwa kuziva mirau yehuviri hwake - yeakaviri-kuziva W.E.B. DuBois akatanga kukurukurwa mukupera kwezana ramakore rechi19 - anofanirwa kuramba achiedza kurarama.

Saka, ndinoita sei hurukuro? Ane chero mubereki ane sei ichi hurukuro nemwana wavo? Isu tinodzidzisa sei nyaya iri kushanduka nerufu rwese rutsva, pachiitiko chega chisina kunaka uye chisina mhosva chingazoguma nemhedzisiro dzakasarudzika kana iyo melanin iri muganda revakabatwa ikadzorwa ikave netara?

Nguva yakakodzera ndiyoyi

Vese vari vaviri Jennifer Harvey, purofesa wezvemagariro echiKristu paDrake University muDes Moines, Iowa, naDr.Joseph A. Jackson, chiremba wevana paDuke University Chikoro cheMishonga, vanotenda hurukuro iyi nezve rudzi, rusaruraganda, rusununguko, uye rusununguko rwevatema zvinotanga. pakuzvarwa.

"Dai vabereki vangu vakatanga neni pakuzvarwa, ndingadai ndakave mubatsiri munguva pfupi muhupenyu hwangu ndikakanganisa zvishoma uye ndikakuvadza vanhu vashoma murwendo rwangu rwekudzidza," akadaro Harvey kwandiri patakataura parunhare.

Kuna Jackson, iye anofanira kunge aine hurukuro nemumwe wevana vake vatanhatu. Kumwanasikana wake wemakore mana, kutarisa kwake kuri kumusimbisa mukusviba kwake, mukunaka kwake, mukugona kwake kuona runako musiyano. Kune vanakomana vake vashanu hurukuro yacho inotora chimiro chakasiyana nemwana wega wega.

"Ini chaiye ndine seti yematatu, imwe yacho ndinofunga haizive zviri kuitika kumativi ese, uyezve ini ndawana mumwe akatyoka chose pamusoro pematambudziko ari munyika," akadaro Jackson. "Saka, neidzi hurukuro ini ndinoedza kupinda mukati, nenzira yakakodzera kuti ndibvunze mibvunzo yakawanda yakavhurika kuti vataure ivo."

Asi hapana chechokwadi zera rakakodzera nezverufu rwevatema, uye kuuraya nemaune kwevanhu vatema nevaya vari musimba vanochengetedzwa nechena supremacist world order - ine rusaruro masimba masimba anga achishanda uye achimanikidzwa kubvira 1619.

"Ndinofunga chimwe chezvinhu chakanyanya kurema pamwaka uno ndechekuti pane zvinhu zviri munhau izvo chokwadi hazvindishamise," akadaro Jackson.

Kuve mutsva pakukurukurirana hazvireve kuti hurukuro inyowani

Sezvo zvakaoma uye zvichikurudzira sezvazviri kuona nguva dzekupedzisira dzehupenyu dzichinyuka kubva mumuviri wemumwe munhu mushure mekunge vateterera mweya, hachisi chinhu chitsva. America ine nhoroondo yekutarisa vanhu vatema vachitambura uye / kana kufira mutambo.

Makore zana nerimwechete mushure meRed Red Zhizha zvinoita sekunge nyika yedu iriko zvekare. Panzvimbo pekuti vanhu vatema vazvuzvurwe kubva kudzimba dzavo uye vakasungirirwa pamiti mikuru munzvimbo dzevanhu munzvimbo yemutambo we lynching, isu tave kupfurwa takafa mudzimba medu, mumachechi edu, mumotokari medu, pamberi pevana vedu, uye zvakawanda, zvakawanda zvimwe.

Zvemhuri dzevatema vane hurukuro nezve rudzi uye rusaruraganda nevana vavo pane zviyero zvine njodzi zvatinofanira kurova pakati pekuisa chokwadi uye kuyedza kusasimudza chizvarwa chinogara mukutya.

Zvevachena mhuri vane hurukuro, Unofanira kutanga wanzwisisa nhoroondo nezvimiro zvemagariro iwe zvawakazvarirwa uye ubatsirwe nazvo nekuda kweropafadzo yeganda rako. Wobva waita basa rekurara nekuyananisa zvinhu izvi usinga nyadzise, ​​kuzvidzivirira, kana kuremerwa nekuzvipa mhosva unozove nehanya - kana zvakanyanya, kushushikana haugone kutarisa kunze kwako.

Harvey akati, "Kuzvidzivirira kweVachena kwakakura, dzimwe nguva imhaka yekuti isu hatina basa uye iro idambudziko, uye dzimwe nguva inyaya yekuti hatizive zvekuita nemhosva yedu. . . [Isu] hatifanirwe kugara tichinzwa mhosva. "Tinogona kujoina totora matanho sevatsigiri muhondo dzinorwisa rusaruraganda."

Rubatsiro rwekuziva zvekutaura…

Healthline yakanyora runyorwa rweanopokana-nerusarura zviwanikwa zvevabereki nevana. Isu tinozvigadziridza nguva dzose, uye tinokurudzira vabereki kuti vaenderere mberi nedzidzo yavo yekuti vorera sei vana vanosanganisira, vakarurama, uye vanopokana nerusarura.

Mushure mehurukuro kunouya basa

Zvakadaro, panofanirwa kuve nezvinopfuura miromo-yebasa nezvehukama uye kumira mubatanidzwa. Zvese zvinonzwika zvakanaka, asi iwe uchazviratidza here?

Ropafadzo inoshumira chinangwa. Izvo zvave zvichishandiswa kusimudzira ruzhinji munyika ino kwenguva yakareba, zviri nyore kunzwisisa kuti vachena vanoita sei kuti vasaone ziso pakurwadziwa kwevanhu vatema. Ndiwo marwadzo Dr. Jackson anonzwa seake.

"Panguva ino, tese takaona vhidhiyo, uye tinoziva kuti hupenyu hwarasika, kunyanya nekuda kweruvara rweganda [raGeorge Floyd]. Pakanga paine rombo rakanaka iro vamwe vanhu vakamira vakatora panguva iyoyo uye havana kuriradzika. "

Kuva nehurukuro yakatendeseka pamusoro penyaya dzatiri kuona nhasi dzinoda kusangana nezvakaoma chokwadi cheropafadzo uye kuti zvinoshanda sei. Zvinoda kuve nehurukuro dzisina kugadzikana dzakatenderedza dzinza, rusaruraganda, kusarura, nekudzvinyirira, uye tese isu tichiedza kuita zvirinani kupfuura chizvarwa chiri pamberi pedu.

Basa racho harisi pane vanhu vatema kuti vadzidzise vanhu vachena kuti vasasarura sei. Chena chena - murume, mukadzi, uye mwana - anofanirwa kuita rakaomarara basa moyo muhupenyu hwavo hwese kuita shanduko isingaperi.

Harvey akati, "Ini ndinofunga chaizvo kana tikakwanisa kuwana vanhu vachena kuti vagare padivi, shanduko inofanirwa kuuya. Varungu vanoteererwa neimwe nzira, izvo zvisina kunaka, asi chikamu chemabatiro anoita hutongi hwevachena. "

Nepo isu sevanhu vatema tichiramba tichitakura mutoro wekutambudzika kwevanhu vedu, kushivirira uye kushivirira nevachena America handizvo chete zvidzidzo zvatinofanira kupa vana vedu. Kunyangwe nhoroondo yedu yakadzika midzi mukurwadziwa uye kushungurudzika zvakadzika midzi mumufaro, rudo, uye kutsiga.

Saka, nepo chiyero uye upamhi hwe hurukuro ichave yakasiyana kubva pamba kuenda kumba, mhuri kumhuri, uye nhangemutange kurudzi, zvakafanira.

Zvinenge zvichidikanwa kuti mhuri dzevatema dzinge dzikaenzana pakati pekurwadziwa, kutya, kudada, uye mufaro.

Zvichava zvakafanira kuti mhuri dzevachena dzinge dzikaenzana pakati pekunzwira tsitsi, kunyara, mhosva, uye nzira dzekudzivirira dzemabvi.

Asi mukutaura kwese uku, mukutaura kwese uku, hatifanirwe kukanganwa kuisa pazvidzidzo zvatinodzidziswa.

"Ndiri kuda kuti vanhu varege kungoita hurukuro asi kuti vararame," akadaro Jackson.

"Basa revarungu veAmerica izvozvi nderekutarisa tarisa uye kuona kwatinokumbirwa kubatsira uye nenzira dzipi, uye zviite izvozvo," akadaro Harvey.

Handina kukwanisa kubvumirana navo zvakanyanya.

Nikesha Elise Williams anoverengeka-nguva Emmy mubairo-anokunda mugadziri wenhau uye munyori anokunda mubairo. Iye akazvarwa uye akakurira muChicago, Illinois, uye akapinda muFlorida State University uko kwaakapedza degree neBachelor of Science degree mukutaurirana: mass media zvidzidzo uye anokudza Chirungu chinyorwa chekunyora. Nikesha's debut novel, "Four Women," yakapihwa 2018 Florida Vanyori uye Vaparidzi Association Mubayiro weMutungamiri muchikamu cheVakuru Contemporary / Literary Fiction. "Vakadzi vana" yaizivikanwawo neNational Association yeVatema Vatori venhau seYakanaka Mabhuku Ekuverenga. Nikesha munyori wenguva yakazara munyori uye kunyora murairidzi uye akazvimiririra kune akati wandei mabhuku anosanganisira VOX, Very Smart Brothas, uye Shadow uye Act. Nikesha anogara muJacksonville, Florida, asi iwe unogona kugara uchimuwana online pa [email protected], Facebook.com/NikeshaElise kana @Nikesha_Elise pa Twitter ne Instagram.