Kunyemwerera Kwake Kunogona Kuona Kana Ari Mukomana Wezvinhu

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Vakomana vakaipa, chenjerai-vakadzi vanotenda kuti vakomana vanopenya kunyemwerera kunopenya vanoita kunge vanokodzera hukama hwenguva refu kupfuura avo vanofungidzira, ongororo ichangobva kuitwa Evolutionary Psychology inoshuma.

Saka chii chiri pamusoro pekunyemwerera ikoko kunoita kuti tivhare pane mumwe munhu seanokurumidza-kuva-mukomana? Vatsvagiri vekuEurope neAsia vakaita kuti vakadzi vatarise vakomana sechirume chinobatika kana chikochekero-zvese zvichibva pachiso chavo chete. Varume vakapenya varungu vavo vekare vakauya sevanofara zvakanyanya uye vakavimbika kupfuura avo vasina kwavakarerekera kutaura, avo vaiwanzoonekwa sevanhurume uye vakura, vachivaisa muboka revanhuwo zvavo.

Izvi zvinopindirana nedzidziso dzakasimbiswa dzedzidzo dzatinowanzo kukwevera kune varume vane majini akanakisa (verenga: kutaridzika kwakanaka) kana tichitsvaga hoko-up-up, nekuti uropi hwedu hwakagadzirirwa kubereka. (Kana iwe uri muchikepe ichi, tarisa Zvandakadzidza kubva ku10 Makore eUmwe-Husiku Kumira.)

Asi kunyangwe hazvo chinhu chisinganzwisisike chemurume chingaite senge chinokwezva kwehusiku humwe kana mazuva mashoma, vakadzi muchidzidzo chitsva vakataura kuti vanoda kutendeseka nekusvikika mune yavo tsvarakadenga yenguva (kunyangwe hazvo chiso chakanakisa hachina kukuvadza). Vakomana vanonyemwerera vaigara vachitaura nezvekuchengeteka uku, izvo zvinonzi nevashanduri vezvepfungwa zvinonakidza nekuti zvinoratidza kuti akakodzera kurera mhuri newe.

Saka nguva inotevera yaunobata kunyemwerera kubva mhiri kwebhawa, usamunyore pakarepo seanofinha Mr. Nice Guy. Anogona kupedzisira ave iye wauri kutsvaga! (Ndiani Waunofambidzana naye Anochinja Zvauri?)

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