Maitiro Ekuzeyesa Pamhepo Kufambidzana Mapikicha Mapikicha: Ndiani Muchengeti?

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Paunoita kudzidza kwehukama basa rako sezvandinoita, unozopedzisira wataura zvakaipa nezve kudanana. Saka hapana chaive kunze kweyakajairika kana mukadzi mutengi mune ake 20s akauya kuzondiona nekuti iye akafuridzirwa nekukuvadzwa nemukomana waaida kwazvo.

"Ndakaona mapikicha ake, uye ndinofungidzira kuti ndinofanira kunge ndaona mireza mitsvuku," akadaro achisuruvara sezvaaitamba ne zipi pane hoodie yake yepingi. Mutengi wangu, wandichati Abby, aizvirova nekuti aive asina kuona kubva pekutanga kuti mukomana waakambobuda naye kaviri aive "mutambi." Abby akaenderera mberi achindiratidza mashoma emamwe emifananidzo yake.

"Batisisa zvishoma!" Ini ndakaratidzira sezvaaipfuura nepakati pevaviri vaive, uh, vaine matambudziko. Ndakatarisa pamufananidzo wemurume ane hura-akasvibira ari mune yekurovedza muviri, aine pikicha yakaswededzwa mukati me bicep mhasuru yake sezvaakaita curl. Kubva ipapo (yikes), takaenda kune inotevera, iyo yakanga isina munhu mairi zvachose-ingori Mercedes itsva yakamira pamberi pegaraji risingazivikanwe. Mamwe ese echikamu mhando akamhanya pachawo, unogona kufungidzira.

Iko hakuna kungoramba kuti iwe unogona kuverenga zvakawanda mumafoto munhu anotumira online. Chikamu che craziest ndechekuti murume nemukadzi havaratidzike kunge vane basa, nekuti vese varume nevakadzi zvakafanana vanotumira mifananidzo inotumira meseji zvisirizvo kana chinangwa chavo ndechekuwana mudiwa akanaka.

Varume, Muri Kufungei?

Chokwadi, ndiri chiremba wepfungwa, asi ndiri munhuwo. Ndinonzwisisa kuda kuisa mufananidzo unoyevedza kunze uko kukwezva akanakisa anogona misi. Ungwaru, kukwezva, uye kugona kwehunyanzvi zvese zvinoshanduka-shanduka, saka zvine hungwaru kuvhurika pamusoro pesimba rako. Kuzvirumbidza, zvakadaro, imwe nyaya zvachose.

Chinangwa nemapikicha ako chinofanirwa kunge chiri chekuratidza vanhu hunhu hwako. Iwe uri mwana wemusango here kana unopfuura wekutanga? Munhu anofarira zvemitambo kana, zvichida, motokari aficionado? Chii chinhu chako? Semuenzaniso, kutumira mapikicha ako kushambira, tsiva, kana kutosimudza masimbi kunotaurira nyika kuti iwe unofarira iko iko kuita kwemitambo uye kuti iwe ungangove wakanaka muviri- uye hutano-unoziva futi. Kune rimwe divi, kutumira mapikicha iwe pachako unowana mubairo kana kuzvirova pamusoro pemabiceps ako kunoudza nyika kuti iwe unokoshesa zviratidzo zviri pachena zvesimba nerumbidzo. (Ini handizive nezvako, asi mukomana wekutanga anonzwika kunge dambudziko rakanyanya kwandiri.)

Vakadzi, Nemiwo!

Ndinoshuva dai ndaigona kupomera mutongo wakashata kudanana neumwe murume kana murume, nekuti izvo zvinogona kureva kuti kune vashoma vanhu kunze uko vanoita kuzviparadza-kuita sarudzo dzerudo. Asi vakadzi, zvakare, vanogara vachitumira mapics avo ari kunetsa zvakanyanya. Iwe unonyatsoziva zvandiri kutaura nezvazvo: musikana senge anoda zvinhu, musikana senge wekudyidzana, zvichingodaro.

Nekuti vezvenhau vakazara nemifananidzo yakawanda inoshungurudza yevakadzi nechekare, vakadzi vanofanirwa kungwarira kutumira mufananidzo wakanaka wepamhepo wavo sevakangwara, vanokwanisa, uye vakasimba. Chii chimwe, varume vazhinji vanowana vakadzi vakadai vanopisa zvakanyanya mukufamba kwenguva zvakadaro. Saka kana iwe uine muviri mukuru, zvinotyisa. Sanganisira pikicha yako neye shamwari pamhenderekedzo yegungwa, asi usatumira iyo iri mune yeanopisa pose iyo inoswededza mukati muchipfuva chako uye zvirimwa kunze kwechiso cheshamwari yako!

Chii Chinoita Kuti Vanhu Vatumire Mapikicha Asina Kukodzera?

Kana usiri mumwe munhu angade-e, e-v-e-r-post pics izvo zvinoita kuti iwe utarisike sehupombwe, boozy, kana zvepamusoro, iwe unogona kunge uine dzidziso yekuti nei mumwe munhu angaite chinhu chakadai. Kana iwe wafungidzira "kusachengeteka," ding, ding! Unenge wakarurama. Kana iwe uine hutano hwechokwadi ego, zvichireva kuti iwe unozvida iwe zvakakwana uye hauna matambudziko ekugara akanaka kune iwe kana vamwe, haungangoda kuratidza masimba ako. Nechivimbo chakadaro, iwe une hanya zvakanyanya nezvaunofunga pamusoro pako kupfuura zvinofungwa nemumwe munhu pamusoro pako, uye iyo vibe inokwezva zvinokwezva vamwe mumapoka!

Pakupera kwezuva, zvakanyatsonaka kutumira mifananidzo yako inokukanda muchiedza chinoyevedza, chinonakidza uye chinonakidza. Kana iwe usina chokwadi kuti ndeapi maitiro ekusimudzira kuburikidza neako epamhepo mafoto, fungisisa pane izvo zvinoita kuti usiyane kubva kune wese munhu akakukomberedza. Chero chii chiri chako-pamwe iko kunzwisisika kwekuseka kana kupenga kwako neicho chaicho terevhizheni-ndicho chikamu cheuri zvauri, uye haufanire kutsanangura kana kuzvipembedza.

Kana zvasvika pakutumira mapikicha, chakavanzika hachisi kuedza zvakanyanya. Usanetseke nekukasika kubatanidza chero munhu mukati pavanotanga kuenda kune yako nhoroondo. Nyika izere nevarume nevakadzi vanotyisa, uye iye wauchazopedzisira naye achakusarudza iwe nekuda kwekuti iwe uri wepakeji-kwete nekuda kweimwe yakapusa pikicha.

Pakupedzisira, hunhu hwako hunofanira kunge iri yako yakanyanya kutengesa nzvimbo, saka itore ichokwadi mumifananidzo yako. Pakupedzisira, ndapota chengetedza nyika yemifananidzo yemota dzako dzinopenya, nhengo dzemuviri, uye maakaundi ebhengi!

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