Nzira yekutaura sei kana Iye ari "Iye"

Zvemukati

• Iyo Chivalry Bvunzo
• Muedzo Woushamwari
• Kuedzwa Kwemari
• Kuongorora Kwemhuri Kukoshesa
• Muedzo werudo we "Titanic"
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Anogona kusiya masokisi ake akasviba pasi, asi zvirinani anokuvhurira musuwo. Kana zviri zvehukama, unotora zvakanaka nezvakaipa. Asi kana iwe uchifambidzana nemukomana iwe waunofunga angangove Mr. Kurudyi, unoona sei kana ari iye chaiye iwe wawakagadzirirwa kupedza hupenyu hwako hwese?

Takaenda kune nyanzvi kuti tione kuti tingaziva sei kana mukomana ari Mr. Right-kana kuti VaMr. Right Now. Heano miedzo mishanu mweya wako waunofanira kupfuura.

Iyo Chivalry Bvunzo

Patti Stanger

, Millionaire Matchmaker, munyori, uye Bravo TV star, anoti chivalry haina kufa-zvishoma kwete kana zvasvika kune 'yakanaka' avo.

"Zvinhu zvakadai sokuvhura gonhi remotokari kana kuti pakarepo kukupa chikamu chako chezvokudya paunenge uchitsemura ndiro paresitorendi-izvi zvose zviratidzo zvinokosha zvekutarisa kuziva kana pakupedzisira achakubata zvakanaka," anodaro Stanger.

Uye mune ino kesi kunyanya, zviito zvinotaura zvinonzwika kupfuura mazwi. "Mazwi anowanzoshandiswa kutsiva zviito zvekudanana, asi haana chinhu pasina kutevedzera," anodaro mushandi wezvemagariro uye nyanzvi yezvinodhaka Andrew Spanswick.

Muedzo Woushamwari

Hukama hwakanaka hunoda zvese pfungwa dzakasimba uye kubatana kwemuviri. "Uchiri kuda kumbotandara nemunhu uyu kunyangwe vanga vasiri kunakidzwa newe pabonde?" inobvunza 'hukama hwehukama' Lindsay Kriger.

Uye iwe unofanirwa kutora mumwe wako pane zvinopfuura kumeso kukosha. "Kutaridzika kunopera, asi hunhu husingagumi," anowedzera. California-based psychologist Colleen Long anobvumirana. "Unogona kunakidzwa nekungomirira mumutsara naye kuDMV?" Anobvunza. "Hukama hwakanakisisa vanhu vanogona kuve shamwari dzepedyo," anodaro Stanger.

Kuedzwa Kwemari

Hazvishamisi kuti nhamba dzinoratidza kukakavadzana pamusoro pemari chinhu chinoputsa muwanano dzakawanda. Saka, Stanger anopa zano kuti uone paumire usati waita mhiko idzodzo. "Unoshandisa mari yako sei? Anoshandisa mari yake sei? Makasiyana here? Unobvumirana uye unorerutsa kunyangwe iye ari saver uye iwe uri muridzi? Iyi mibvunzo yese yakakosha kubvunza paunenge uchitanga chero hukama hwakazvipira. ," Stanger anodaro.

"Kusatarisika mune zvemari kunounza kushushikana kwehupenyu uye kushaya," anodaro South California-based psychotherapist Tina Tessina. "Kana akabheja mari achienda kure kana kutongoishandisa kumatoyi eechizvino apo iwe uri kutsvaga kuchengetedza ramangwana rako remari, hukama hahuzoshanda," anowedzera.

Kuongorora Kwemhuri Kukoshesa

Imi mose munoda nhamba imwe chete yevana, kana iripo here? Ari kutarisira kuti iwe uchinje kubva muchiKaturike uchienda muchiJuda? "Kubva muchitendero kusvika pakuchengeta mhuri, zvepabonde, uye vana, munofanira kugoverana tsika dzakafanana nezvitendero kana zvasvika pakuzvipira," inodaro nyanzvi yehukama hwemukurumbira Kailen Rosenberg.

"Zvizhinji zvinokonzeresa kukakavara muhukama ndezvekuti vanhu vane hunhu hwakasiyana hwakasiyana pazvinhu zvakakosha uye hazvikurukurwe pachine nguva," Kriger anodaro.

Muedzo werudo we "Titanic"

Stanger anoti kufungidzira chiitiko ichi chekufungidzira: Ngarava inodzika uye iwe uri mumvura, ichitonhora. Anokupa here chimedu chehuni kuti uponese upenyu hwako? Zvinonzwika basa rinorema asi iro "Titanic Love" sekudanwa kwazvinoitwa naStanger, ndizvo zvinotora kuchengetedza hukama hwehupenyu hwese. "Kana achikuda zvakanyanya zvekuti iwe ndiwe chete waanoitira hanya, chiratidzo chekuti ndiwe wekutanga kuisa pamberi," anowedzera kudaro.

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