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Zvemukati

• 1. Tarisa uone rudzi rwetoyi yebonde yaunoda.
• 2. Tsvaga zvishoma.
• 3. Isa nzvimbo yako yemutengo.
• 4. Ita shuwa kuti chinhu chakachengetedzwa nemuviri.
• Inotyisa
• Zvishoma porous
• Non-porous
• 5. Wedzera zvishongedzo kungoro!
• Une mimwe mibvunzo nezve kutenga bonde toyi?
• Ongororo ye

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Asi unotangira papi? Here. Bhura pasi pasi kuti uwane zvinhu zvepamusoro zvaunoda kuti urambe uchifunga usati waendesa toy yekutamba kumba, zvinoenderana nepabonde - kusanganisira rudzi rwechi toy chakanakira munhu wese kana mamiriro, matipi ekunhonga chakachengeteka mumuviri, uye nemabatiro aunofanira kuita tarisira kubhadhara kune chinofadza chigadzirwa. Ramba uchifunga nezve yako yekutanga kutenga matoyi epabonde, uye kune chero anouya mushure!

1. Tarisa uone rudzi rwetoyi yebonde yaunoda.

Kubva pane clit suction toys kusvika kune vibes inoita kunge maikorofoni, butt plugs kune prostate massagers, kune dzinenge dzakawanda mhando dzebonde-matoyi sezvo paine mahwendefa paCheesecake Factory menyu. Usati watanga kutarisa, ita zvekumwa zverudzi rwemhando yekutamba pabonde iwe yaunoda kutenga. Iri gwara pane gumi nembiri Marudzi Ekutamba DzeBonde inzvimbo yakanaka yekutanga.

2. Tsvaga zvishoma.

Iwe unobatanidza kuburikidza neReddit uye wongororo usati wanyura pane chitsva chekuchengetedza ganda chigadzirwa - nei kutenga matoyi epabonde kuchifanira kuve kwakasiyana? Kuverenga mamwe epamhepo bonde toyi wongororo uye/kana kupinda muchitoro chebonde IRL inofanira kunge iri chikamu chemaitiro, zvakare.

"Ndinokurudzira kuverenga ongororo pamhepo sezvaungaita usati waverenga Airbnb," anodaro Dominnique Karetsos, nyanzvi yekugara pabonde paMysteryVibe. Kudzidza pamhepo kunokupa iwe mukana wekutsvaga zviri kunze uko, dzidza nezvevamwe vanhu ruzivo, uye kukupa iwe ~ yekusaona jasi ~ kana iwe uchitya nezvekugovana zvaunoshuva (kunyangwe neyakadzidza nyanzvi kuchitoro chebonde), anodaro .

Zvakadaro, kuverenga muchitoro kune zvimwe zvinhu. "Vashandi vane ruzivo vanogona kupindura mibvunzo ipapo ipapo uye nekukubatsira kusarudza," anodaro Karetsos. Mazuva ano, vazhinji vevatengesi vanobatana pazvitoro zvebonde vane hushamwari, vane hutano-hwepabonde, uye vane ruzivo rwechokwadi nezve zvigadzirwa zvinopihwa. Kana uchida kuziva kuti vibe X kana vibe Y iri nani kwauri? Bvunza mushandi. Unoda kuziva kana toyi yacho yakachengeteka mumuviri pasina kuverenga kumashure? Bvunza mushandi wacho. Uyezve, vanowanzove nehunyanzvi hwekunyengera paruoko kukwidziridza ruzivo rwako netoyi, anodaro.

Pakupedzisira, pane kukosha kwakawedzerwa kwekukwanisatouch matoyi. Zvitoro zvebonde kazhinji zvine tester matoyi ari kuratidzwa. Bata vacheche ivavo muruoko rwako. Dhinda mabhatani ese. "Zvipe iwe mvumo yekurega yako yekuchinja inotungamirira nzira pakusarudza zvaunoda kutenga. Tsvaga chimwe chinhu chaunogona kuona uchinzwa zvakanaka uye chinokuunzira mufaro, "anodaro Karetsos.

3. Isa nzvimbo yako yemutengo.

Usakanganisa mutengo wemhando. Iyo yepamusoro mutengo poindi hazvireve hazvo kuti inoratidza yepamusoro-mhando uye / kana yakawanda orgasmic toy. Semuyenzaniso, iyi 24K $2,500+ butt plug naLelo inogona kunge iri sexy AF asi, nekushanda, ingangoshanda chero imwe plug-yakachengeteka yebutt plug. Uine izvozvo mupfungwa, hapana chikonzero chekudonhedza toni yemari patoyi yako yekutanga pabonde. Pazasi, Amy Boyajian, co-muvambi uye CEO weWild Ruva, yepamhepo bonde toy boutique, inotyora zvaunogona kutarisira kubva kwakasiyana mitengo mapoinzi.

Matoyi pasi pemadhora makumi mashanu: Aya matoyi makuru ekutanga, asi angangodaro haazogare anopfuura makore akati wandei. "Kune kumwe kushevedzera kukuru mumutengo uyu wemitengo unogona kushanda seyakaunza kutsva," anodaro Boyajian. (Nezvekureva, vibrator yangu yandaida ndeye $ 50.)

Matoyi ari pakati pe $ 50 ne $ 100: Pano, iwe unowana yakasimba toy iyo inogara iwe makore mashoma. "Uchawana matoyi emhando yepamusoro ane maficha akanaka, pasina mutengo wepamburu," anodaro Boyajian. (Iyo Enby, isina divi revarume nevakadzi iri mukati memutengo uyu pamadhora makumi manomwe nemashanu uye ndizvo zvakaita Pom naDame, iri madhora makumi mapfumbamwe nemashanu.)

Matoyi ari pamusoro pe $ 100: Iye zvino wave kupinda mu ~ umbozha ~ matoyi epabonde. "Aya matoyi anowanzove aine mawaranti akawedzerwa, kuwanda kwezvinhu zvakakura senge remotes, maBluetooth akabatana maapplication, uye makesi ekuchengetera," anodaro Boyajian. Kana iwe uchiziva mhando yemanzwiro aunoda, kuisa mari mune yepamusoro-toyi iyo inozogara kuburikidza nemakore ekushandisa chinhu chikuru kufamba. Wakasimbiswa kuti unofarira matoyi ekudhonza? Tarisa uone iyo Sona naLelo (Tenga Izvo, $ 149, lelo.com). Kuda simbi dzekutambisa zvepabonde? Zviedze iwe nesimbi isina simbi Eleven Dildo naNjoy (Tenga It, $ 300, wildflowersex.com).

Matoyi ari pamusoro pe $ 1000: Yep, iyo yambotaurwa yegoridhe karat butt plug haisi iyo * * chete * hombe-spender toyi. Kune iyo $15K vibrator Inez naLelo (Tenga Izvo, $15,000,lelo.com) yakagadzirwa ne24-karat goridhe ndiro uye iyo $1,500 The Cowgirl (Tenga Iyo, $1,500, ridethecowgirl.com) iri muchina webonde wakagadzirirwa kutevedzera kupinda. .

4. Ita shuwa kuti chinhu chakachengetedzwa nemuviri.

PSA: Nekuti ivo vanoiswa se "zvinhu zvitsva," matoyi ebonde haasi FDA anotongwa. Izvi zvinoreva kuti zviri kune vatengi (iwe!) Uye makambani kuona kuti vakachengeteka mumuviri. Uyezve, kuchengeteka kwemuviri chidiki chechikamu chisina kutsanangurwa; zvazviri, zvinoreva kuti chinhu chekutambisa chakagadzirwa nechinhu iwe chaunogona kuwana chakachena chose. (Yakabatana: Yako Bonde Toy Inogona Kuve Inotyisa)

Matoyi ezvepabonde anowanzo gadzirwa nemapoka matatu makuru ezvigadzirwa: porous, non-porous, uye zvishoma porous. Nhau dzakaipa ndedzekuti iwe unogona chete kuwana imwe yadzo inogona kuzereyyyyy yakachena. (Yikes.) ICYDK, porous ndiyo imwe nzira yekutaura "mabhakitiriya anogona kupinda agare mukati." Nechikonzero ichocho, sarudzo yako yakanakisa itoyi rakagadzirwa neasina porous zvinhu. Shandisa gwara pazasi kuziva kuti ndezvipi zvinhu zvekutarisa kunze.

Inotyisa

Zvekushandisa: Polyvinyl chloride (PVC), thermoplastic rubber (TPR), thermoplastic elastomer (TPE), jelly rabha, uye latex

Zvine hungwaru kusaenda kune izvi—kunyanya matoyi erabha ejelly, ane maphthalates anokuvadza muviri. "Matoyi aya anowanzo kupfava uye sejelly, uye ane hwema hwakasiyana," anodaro Boyajian. "Iwe haugone kuchenesa matoyi aya zvizere, saka anogona kubatirira pane hutachiona hunogona kukonzera hutachiona kana kutsamwa pasi pemutsara." Nehurombo, zvimwe zvezvinhu izvi zvichiri kushandiswa nemakambani ematoyi ebonde nekuti zvakachipa kugadzira.

Zvishoma porous

Zvishandiso: Leather, sekristaro, uye elastomer

"Izvi hazvina njodzi kuti zvishandiswe wega, asi zvinoda kushandiswa nehungwaru kana nechivharo panguva yekutamba kwekudyidzana kana usiri kunyungudika," anodaro Boyajian. (FYI: Fluid bonded zvinoreva kuti iwe nemumwe wako makaita sarudzo yekutsinhana zvinwiwa zvemuviri.) Kazhinji, matoyi aya ndeevanhu avo iyi isiri yavo yekutanga yebonde rodeo. (Zvakabatana: Zvese Zvaunofanira Kuziva NezveOral STDs).

Semuenzaniso, vamwe woo-woo vanoda zvekutambisa bonde vanoti vanonzwa kukwirisa ~ vibration ~ (senge, pamweya) kana vachiita bonhora nekristaro yebonde matoyi, nepo vamwe vanhu vanofarira tambo-pabonde vangangoda kuyedza neyeganda harness. Asi kwekutanga kushandisa, namatira kune zvisiri-porous matoyi uye dzoka kune izvi zvinhu zvakafanana, mitanhatu-pamwe mwedzi. K? (Dzidza zvakawanda nezve tambo pakutamba pano.)

Non-porous

Zvekushandisa:Silicone, simbi isina girazi, girazi, Pyrex, uye ABS mapurasitiki

Ngatitaurei zvakare: Iwe unoda isina-porous toy. Ndezvipi zvisina-porous zvinhu zviri nani? Vazhinji sexperts vachati silicone. Chokwadi, zvinoenderana nezvauri kutsvaga. Silicone ichave ine silky kunzwa kwairi uye iine smidge pricier kupfuura ABS plastiki, iyo zvakare ine muviri-yakachengeteka asi isinganyanye kupfava pakubata.Zvekare, girazi nesimbi zvichava pricier, asi friction-isina.

Kutora kuno: "Kunyangwe iwe uine bhajeti, usambokanganisa kuchengetedzeka kwako. Kune akawanda akatemerwa mutengo, akachengeteka mumuviri, matoyi asina porous anowanikwa," anodaro Boyajian.

5. Wedzera zvishongedzo kungoro!

"Usakanganwa accessories!" anodaro Boyajian. "Lube, makondomu, uye kuchengetedza zvinhu zvakakosha zvekufunga kuwedzera pakutenga kwako paunenge uchinhonga toy yako."

Lube, kunyanya, inogona kuve mutsauko pakati pechiitiko chakanaka netoyi yako uye hombe. "Zvinogona kuita kuti chero chiitiko chepabonde chiwedzere kunakidza," anodaro mudzidzisi wezvepabonde uye hukama Sarah Sloane, anga achidzidzisa makirasi ematoyi epabonde paGood Vibrations uye Pleasure Chest kubvira 2001. (Hei, pane chikonzero ~ the wetter the better ~ yakava bonde chirevo chekubata.)

Zvekutamba nekumashure, silicone-based lube yakanyanya kunaka nekuti inowanzo gara kwenguva yakareba. zvisinei, haigone kushandiswa nesilicone-based matoyi. "Mazhinji ma-silicone-based lubes anozobatana nechitoyi, uye nekuchinjisa chimiro chacho," anodaro Boyajian. Izvo zvakati, kune mamwe emhando yepamusoro uye emvura-silicone-hybrid lubes ayo anogona kushandiswa nesilicone-based matoyi. "Sekuedza, isa chiduku chiduku pane chikamu chetoyi chausingazoshandisi zvakananga (senheyo) uye rega igare kwemaminitsi mashomanana. Kana pasina kuchinja, iwe wakanaka kuenda."

Kana, sarudza mvura-yakavakirwa lube, iyo inogara ichienderana nematayipi esilicone, uye zviri nyore kuchenesa pamashiti nembatya, anodaro Boyajian. (Ona zvimwe: Zvese zvaunoda Kuti Uzive Nezve Lube).

Iko kune zvakare aloe-based lubes uye mafuta-based lubes. Aya haana kufarirwa uye anogona kuoma nekukasira kupfuura silicone lube, asi zvinouya pasi kune zvaunofarira. Ingoyeuka kuti mafuta-based lubes (kusanganisira kokonati mafuta!) Haaenderani ne latex, uye anogona kuita kuti latex zvipingamupinyi (semakondomu) zvisanyanya kushanda. Yikes. (Zvakabatana: Chii Chaunofanira Kuziva Usati Washandisa Kokonati Mafuta SeLube)

Kana iri yekuchengetedza? Hazvina chaizvo nyaya. Ingo ramba uchifunga kuti kana iwe ukasatenga hombodo yakakosha kana bhegi rechako chekutamba, uchanyatsoda kupa iyo toyi sukurudza nemvura inodziya nesipo zvese pamberi uye shure kwekuishandisa, futi. (Inoenderana: Nzira Yakanakisa Yekuchenesa Matoyi Ako Epabonde)

Une mimwe mibvunzo nezve kutenga bonde toyi?

Enda kune yako yekutengesa bonde shopu kana iwe unayo! Uye kana usingakwanise kusvika kuchitoro, unogona kugara uchivafonera. Imwe yenyanzvi dzavo ichave yakanyanya kuda kukubatsira kunze. Edza Kwakanaka Vibrations, Iyo Inofadza Chest, uye Babeland kuti utaure kune wekutengesa kushamwaridzana zvakananga, uye Unbound Vacheche kana Wild Ruva kune email rutsigiro.

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