Munyori: Robert Simon
Zuva Rekusika: 19 Chikumi 2021
Gadziridza Zuva: 10 Chikumi 2024
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Let’s Chop It Up (Episode 27) - Saturday April 17, 2021
Vhidhiyo: Let’s Chop It Up (Episode 27) - Saturday April 17, 2021

Zvemukati

Ini ndaida kuda mwana wangu ipapo ipapo, asi pachinzvimbo ndakazoona ndave kunyara. Handisi ndega.

Kubva panguva yandakabata dangwe rangu, ndakafadzwa. Ini ndakakwesha dumbu rangu raiwedzera nguva zhinji, ndichifungidzira kuti mwanasikana wangu angave akaita sei uye aizove ani.

Ndakabaya midsection yangu nechido. Ini ndaida nzira yaakapindura nayo pakubata kwangu, nekiki apa nejabhani ipapo, uye sezvaakakura, ndozvakaitawo rudo rwangu kwaari.

Ini handina kumirira kuti ndiise muviri wake wakanyorova, uchimonyoroka pachipfuva changu - uye ndione kumeso kwake. Asi chinhu chinoshamisa chakaitika paakazvarwa nekuti pachinzvimbo chekudyiwa nemanzwiro, ndakanga ndisisipo.

Ndakatetepa pandakanzwa achichema.

Pakutanga, ndakakanda chiveve kusvika pakuneta. Ndakange ndashanda kwemaawa makumi matatu nemana, panguva iyo ini ndaive ndakasungirirwa kuma monitors, kudonha, uye meds asi kunyangwe mushure mekudya, kugeza, uye mashoma mashoma mapfupi, zvinhu zvakange zvadzimwa.


Mwanasikana wangu akanzwa kunge mweni. Ndakamubata kunze kwebasa uye kusungirwa. Ndakadyisa nekuzvidza.

Ehe, ndakanyara nemhinduro yangu. Mafirimu anoratidzira kubereka sekwakaisvonaka, uye vazhinji vanorondedzera chisungo chamai-vacheche sedzose-chakazara uye chakakomba. Kune vazhinji zvakare zviri zvenguva pfupi - zvirinani zvaive zvemurume wangu. Maziso ake akapenya kechipiri paakamuona. Ndaiona moyo wake uchizvimba. Asi ini? Hapana chandakanzwa uye ndakavhunduka.

Chii changa chakakanganisika neni? Ndakanga ndakamonana here? Kuva mubereki kwaive kukanganisa kukuru, kukuru?

Wese munhu akandivimbisa kuti zvinhu zvaizoita nani. Iwe uri wechisikigo, vakati. Unenge uri amai vakanaka - uye ini ndaida kuve. Ndakapedza mwedzi mipfumbamwe ndichishuvira hupenyu hushoma uhu uye apa anga ari: anofara, akagwinya, uye akakwana.

Saka ndakamirira. Ndakanyemwerera kuburikidza nemarwadzo pataifamba mumigwagwa inodziya yeBrooklyn. Ndakamedza misodzi kana vanhu vandisingazive vachida mwanasikana wangu muWalgreens, Stop & Shop, uye nekofi shopu yemuno, uye ini ndichimukwiza kumusana pandakamubata. Zvaiita senge zvakajairika, kunge chinhu chakakodzera kuita, asi hapana chakachinja.


Ndakanga ndakatsamwa, ndainyara, ndaizeza, ndaifarira, uye ndaive nehasha. Sezvo mamiriro ekunze akatonhorera, ndizvo zvakaita moyo wangu. Uye ndakanonoka mune ino mamiriro kwemavhiki… kusvikira ndaputsa.

Kusvikira ndisisagone kutora imwezve.

Manzwiro angu anga akazara panzvimbo

Iwe unoona, apo mwanasikana wangu aive nemwedzi mitatu, ndakadzidza kuti ndaive nekutambudzika kwekusununguka mushure mekusununguka. Zviratidzo zvaivapo. Ndainetseka uye ndakashushikana. Ndakachema zvinorema, kuchema kuchema murume wangu paakaenda kubasa. Misodzi yakadonha iye achifamba achidzika nemukoto, kunyangwe iro risati ratombopinda munzvimbo.

Ndakachema kana ndikadurura girazi remvura kana kana kofi yangu ikatonhora. Ndakachema kana paiva nendiro dzakawandisa kana kana katsi yangu yakakanda, uye ndakachema nekuti ndanga ndichichema.

Ndakachema maawa mazhinji emazuva mazhinji.

Ini ndaive ndakatsamwira murume wangu neni - kunyangwe iyo yekutanga yaive yakarasika uye yekupedzisira yaive yakarasika. Ndakakwenenzvera murume wangu nekuti ndaive negodo uye ndakazvituka kuti ndiri kure uye ndakadzvanywa. Ndakatadza kunzwisisa kuti sei ndaive ndisingakwanise kuzvidhonza. Ini zvakare ndaibvunza "hunhu hwangu hwaamai" nguva dzose.


Ndakanzwa ndisina kukwana. Ini ndaive "amai vakaipa."

Nhau dzakanaka ndedzekuti ndakawana rubatsiro.Ndakatanga kurapa uye mishonga uye zvishoma nezvishoma ndakabuda muhuhu hwepashure pekusununguka, kunyangwe ini ndakanga ndisati ndanzwa chero chinhu kumwana wangu ari kukura. Iye gummy grin akakundikana kuboora yangu inotonhora, yakafa moyo.


Uye handisi ndega. Zvakawanikwa zvakajairika kuti vanamai vawane "musiyano uripo pakati pezvinotarisirwa uye chokwadi, uye pfungwa yekuzvisunungura kubva kumwana," zvichikonzera "mhosva uye kunyara."

Katherine Stone, iye mugadziri wePostpartum Progress, akataura mafungiro akafanana mushure mekuzvarwa kwemwanakomana wake. "Ndakamuda nekuti aive wangu, chokwadi," akanyora kudaro Stone. “Ndaimuda nekuti aive akanaka uye ndaimuda nekuti aive akanaka uye akanaka uye ari mutete. Ndaimuda nekuti aive mwana wangu neni had kumuda, handiti? Ndakaona sekunge ndaifanira kumuda nekuti kana ndikasadaro ndiani mumwe angadaro? … [Asi] ndakave nekugutsikana kuti ndakanga ndisingamude zvakakwana uye paive nechakakanganisika neni. ”

"[Uyezve,] amai vese vatsva vandakataura navo vaizoenderera nekuenderera mberi nekuenderera mberi nekuenderera mberi nezvekuti vangani kudiwa mwana wavo, uye sei nyore zvaive, uye sei zvakasikwa zvakanzwa kwavari… [asi kwandiri] zvakange zvisati zvaitika nehusiku, ”akadaro Stone. "Saka zviri pamutemo ndaive munhu anotyisa, akashata, ane humbimbindoga hwemunhu."


Nhau dzakanaka ndedzekuti pakupedzisira, amai vakadzvanya, kwandiri uye kwaDombo. Zvakatora gore, asi rimwe zuva ndakatarisa mwanasikana wangu - ndakamutarisa chaizvo - ndikanzwa mufaro. Ndakanzwa kuseka kwake kwakanaka kwenguva yekutanga, uye kubva panguva iyoyo zvichienda mberi, zvinhu zvakave nani.

Rudo rwangu kwaari rwakakura.

Asi kuva mubereki kunotora nguva. Kubatana kunotora nguva, uye nepo isu tese tichida kuwana "rudo pakutanga pakuona," manzwiro ako ekutanga haana basa, zvirinani kwete mukufamba kwenguva. Izvo zvakakosha ndeyekuti iwe unoshanduka sei uye kukura pamwe chete. Nekuti ndinokuvimbisa, rudo runowana nzira. Ichapinda mukati.


Kimberly Zapata ndiamai, munyori, uye mumiriri wehutano hwepfungwa. Basa rake rakaonekwa pane akati wandei masosi, anosanganisira iyo Washington Post, HuffPost, Oprah, Vice, Vabereki, Hutano, uye Amai Vanotyisa - kutumidza vashoma - uye kana mhino yake isina kuvigwa kubasa (kana bhuku rakanaka), Kimberly anoshandisa yake yemahara nguva achimhanya Mukuru Kupfuura: Kurwara, Sangano risingabatsiri rinovavarira kupa simba kuvana nevakuru vechidiki vanotambura nemamiriro ehutano hwepfungwa. Tevera Kimberly on Facebook kana Twitter.


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