James Van Der Beek Anogovana Nei Tichida Imwe Nguva Yekuti "Kuenda Pamuviri" Mune Yakasimba Simba

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Pakutanga zhizha rino, James Van Der Beek nemukadzi wake, Kimberly, vakatambira mwana wavo wechishanu munyika. Vaviri ava vakatora vezvenhau kakawanda kubva ipapo kuti vagovane mufaro wavo. Munguva ichangopfuura, zvisinei, Van Der Beek vakagovera rutivi rwenyaya yavo iyo yakanga isina munhu akambonzwa-imwe yekurasikirwa kukuru uye kusuruvara.

Mukutumira kunoshungurudza, baba vatsva vakaburitsa pachena kuti vasati vagamuchira mwanasikana wavo, Gwendolyn, vaviri vacho vakatambura nemarwadzo ekurasikirwa nepamuviri- kwete kamwe chete, asi kakawanda. Aida kutora chinguva kuti ape meseji kune avo vakasangana nemarwadzo akafanana, achivaudza kuti havasi vega.

"Aida kutaura chinhu kana zviviri nezve nhumbu dzakaputsika ... dzayo isu takave nhatu pamusoro pemakore (kusanganisira chaipo pamberi pekanaka kadiki aka)," mutambi uyu akanyora padivi nepikicha yake nemukadzi wake nemwana wavo achangozvarwa. (Yakabatana: Heino Chaizvo Chaizvo Chakaitika Pandakave Nenhumbu)

"Kutanga kubva-tinoda izwi idzva pazviri," akaenderera mberi. "'Motokari,' nenzira inonyengera, inoratidza kukanganisa kuna amai-sokunge vadonhedza chimwe chinhu, kana kuti vakundikana 'kutakura.' Kubva pane zvandadzidza, mune zvese asi zviri pachena, zviitiko zvakanyanyisa, hazvinei nechinhu chakaitwa naamai kana chavasina kuita. Saka ngatipukutei mhosva dzese patafura tisati tatombotanga. " (Zvakaenderana: Madzidzisiro andakaita Kuvimba NeMuviri Wangu Zvakare Mushure meMimba)

Zvinosuruvarisa, chiitiko chinorwadza ichi hachiwanzoitika: "Inenge makumi maviri neshanu muzana muzana yemakiriniki anozivikanwa ekuzvitakura anokonzeresa kurasikirwa," Zev Williams MD, mukuru wedhipatimendi rekubereka endocrinology uye kushaya mbereko uye purofesa wehukama hwekubereka uye gynecology kuColumbia University Medical Center. anoudza Chimiro. "Kazhinji zviitiko zvekurasikirwa nepamuviri zvinokonzerwa nedambudziko rechromosomal mumucheche, zvichikonzera kuti ive nema chromosomes akawandisa kana mashoma. Asi, zvinhu zvakawanda zvinofanirwa kuenda kuti nhumbu ibudirire uye dambudziko nechero ripi zvaro rinogona kukonzera. kurasikirwa. "

Kwete izvozvo chete, asi vakadzi vanowanzo shungurudzika zvakanyanya mushure mekusangana nepamuviri kurasikirwa, pamwe nenguva yekuchema iyo inowanzotora gore, inoshuma Vabereki. “Vakawanda zvikurusa vavakadzi navaroorani vanonzwa vane mhaka zvikuru uye kuzvipa mhaka pashure pokurasikirwa napamuviri,” anodaro Dr. Williams. "Kushandisa izwi rekuti "miscarriage" hazvibatsiri, uye zvinogona kutoita kuti manzwiro aya ave nekutaura kuti nhumbu yakabviswa. Ndinonyanya kuda izwi rekuti "kurasikirwa kwepamuviri" nekuti ndiko kurasikirwa zvechokwadi uye hapana kupihwa mhosva.

Sekutaura kwaVan Der Beek mune yake posvo, iko kurwadziwa "kuchakubvarura kuvhura sechimwe chinhu."

"Zvinorwadza uye zvinoshungurudza pamatanho akadzika kupfuura zvaungave wakambosangana nazvo," akatsanangura.

Ndicho chikonzero, nekutaura pamusoro penyaya iyi, anotarisira kuzivisa pamusoro pekuti kurasikirwa kwepamuviri hakuna mhosva, uye kuti zvinhu zvinonyatsoita nani nekufamba kwenguva. "Saka usatonga kusuwa kwako, kana kuedza kururamisa nzira yako," akanyora kudaro. "Ngaiyerere mumasaisai mainouya, uye ibvumidze nzvimbo yayo yakakodzera. Uyezve, kana uchinge wagona, edza kucherechedza runako mumaitiro aunozviisa pamwe chete zvakasiyana nezvawaive kare." (Zvakafanana: Shawn Johnson Anovhura NezveKubva Kwepamuviri Kwake Muvhidhiyo Yepfungwa)

Ndiko kungangodaro kukuru kutorwa kubva kumharidzo yaVan Der Beek: Runako uye mufaro zvichiri kuwanikwa mukurapa.

"Dzimwe shanduko tinoita tichiratidzira, zvimwe tinoita nekuti pasi rose ratipwanya, asi chero nzira, shanduko idzi dzinogona kuve zvipo," akanyora. “Varoorani vakawanda vanova pedyo zvikuru kupfuura nakare kose. Vabereki vakawanda vanoziva chishuvo chikuru chomwana kupfuura nakare kose. Uye vazhinji, vazhinji, varoorani vazhinji vanopfuurira kuva navana vanofara, vane utano hwakanaka, vakanaka pashure (uye kazhinji kazhinji nokukurumidza zvikuru pashure pacho—unenge watova nevana vanofara, vane utano hwakanaka, vakanaka. yambiro). "

Kunyangwe kutsungirira kusuruvara kwacho kungave kwakaoma, Van Der Beek anoti kutenda avo vangangove vacheche, "kuzvipira parwendo rudiki urwu kubatsira vabereki," kunomupa pfungwa yerunyararo. Akapedzisa chinyorwa chake nekukurudzira vamwe kutsvaga uye kugovera chimwe chinhu chakanaka chavakabatirira pachiri kuburikidza nechiitiko chakafanana.

Kana iwe kana chero mumwe wenyu achiziva ari kunetseka nekufirwa nepamuviri, Dr. Williams ane rairo inotevera: "Zviri muropa kuti unzwe uri wega mushure mekurasikirwa. Sezvazvakaita nezvinhu zvakawanda mukurapa, ruzivo runogona kubatsira zvikuru. ”

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