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Zvemukati

• "Muviri wangu wakaita kunge ura hwangu hwanga hwangoburwa ndokukandirwa mukati zvisina basa."
• "Paive nemimhanzi pawairesi uye vanachiremba nemanesi vaiimba pamwe chete nenziyo dzakabatana sekunge taive pane imwe seti yemamuvhi."
• "Zvakanzwa zvisinganzwisisike kusanzwisisika kusanzwa chero kurwadziwa asi kuvanzwa vachifambisa zvemukati mangu kutenderera."
• "Ndanga ndaneta, ndanetseka, uye ndasuwa. Manesi akandisimbisa kuti handina kukundikana."
• "Kuvhiyiwa kwacho kwaive kushoma kwekutambudzika kwandiri."
• "Kunyange ndanga ndave nechiveve, uchiri kunzwa mitsindo, kunyanya kana madoctor akupwanya mvura."
• "Ndinoyeuka kunhuhwirira kwakasiyana panguva yekuvhiyiwa, kwandakazoziva kuti kwaiva kunhuwa kwenhengo dzangu uye ura."
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Kunyange chikamu cheCesarean (kana C-chikamu) chingave chisiri chiitiko chevamwe amai vekurota, kunyangwe zvakarongwa kana kuvhiyiwa kwechimbichimbi, kana mwana wako achida kubuda, chero chinhu chinoenda. Vanopfuura makumi matatu muzana ekuberekwa vanoguma mune chikamu cheC, sekureva kweWorld Health Organisation. Chero ani achiri kubvunza kana amai vakabereka kuburikidza neC-chikamu vangoriwo "amai chaivo" sevaya vakabereka nzira yechinyakare vanofanirwa kuteerera.

Mukuremekedza Chikamu cheKesariya Chikamu Chekuzivisa, ngachizonzwisiswe kamwechete uye zvachose: Kuva neC-chikamu kuri kwete nzira iri nyore yekubuda nayo. Icho chiseko chemagariro chinofanira kupera pano uye ikozvino. Verenga pamusoro penyaya kubva kune mamwe magamba ehupenyu chaiwo akararama mazviri. (Yakazara: Fed Fed Up Amai Vanozivisa Chokwadi Nezve C-Zvikamu)

"Muviri wangu wakaita kunge ura hwangu hwanga hwangoburwa ndokukandirwa mukati zvisina basa."

"Ini ndaive nemwana wangu wechitatu uye anga achiyera hombe, kunge 98th percentile hombe. Ndakaonekwawo kuti ndine polyhydramnios pamasvondo makumi matatu nemana, zvinoreva kuti ndaive nehumwe huremu, saka zvakandiita nhumbu ine njodzi huru. kubva panguva yangu yekusununguka kechipiri (kubereka kwemukadzi) ndakapedzisira ndave kubuda ropa ipapo uye ndichida kuvhiyiwa nechimbi-chimbi, ndaingoda kuti ndidzivise mamiriro aya ekuda kufa panguva ino. chipatara chisina kupunzika, kusatyoka mvura, kusava nezviratidzo zvekushanda.Kurara pasi patafura yekuvhiya wakamuka kwakanaka surreal.Vanokupa iwe chirwere, saka iwe unoziva iwe haugone kunzwa chero chinhu, asi iwe uchiri kunzwa iko kukwevera kunoenderera mukati iwe. Ndinoyeuka meno angu achitaurisa uye ndisingakwanise kumira kuzunza nekuti kwaitonhora kwazvo. Ivo vanoisa keteni pachipfuva chako chaipo, uye apo ini ndichitenda izvozvo, zvakandiita kuti nditye kusaziva izvo zvaiitika. kudhonza nekukweva uyezve raingova rimwe hofori rinosundira padumbu rangu-raiita kunge munhu asvetukira pariri uye wangu 9-paundi-13-ounce mwana musikana akabuda! Uye icho chaive chiri chikamu chiri nyore. Maawa makumi maviri nemana akatevera kwaive kutambudzwa chaiko. Muviri wangu waiita kunge ura hwangu hwabvarurwa ndokukandwazve mukati. Kubuda pamubhedha muchipatara kuenda kuchimbuzi kwaive kuita kweawa. Kungogara pamubhedha kugadzirira kusimuka kwaitoda kushinga. Ndaifanira kufamba ndakabata mapiro maviri padumbu kuti ndiedze kuvhara marwadzo. Kuseka kunorwadza, futi. Kuumburuka kunorwadza. Kurara kunorwadza. "-Ashley Pezzuto, 31, Tampa, FL

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"Paive nemimhanzi pawairesi uye vanachiremba nemanesi vaiimba pamwe chete nenziyo dzakabatana sekunge taive pane imwe seti yemamuvhi."

"Pandakaziva kuti ndaida kuita C-chikamu nemwana wangu wekutanga, mwanasikana wangu, ndakakatyamadzwa. Takazoona kuti ndine chibereko chakaita semoyo, zvichireva kuti chakatenderedzwa, ndosaka akatyorwa. vaive nemazuva gumi ekufunga nezvazvo uye kugadzirisa nhau.Amai vangu vaive vasununguka zvakasununguka kuvanasikana vatatu, uye izwi rekuti 'C-chikamu' raionekwa sezwi rakasviba, kana kungofanana nerekuti 'kutora nzira iri nyore' Kuva nechikamu cheC-chikamu chaisava chimwe chinhu chandanga ndambofunga kuti chingaitika kwandiri. Chero ani aiziva kuti ndaive neyakarongwa akanzwa kuda kundiudza nyaya dzavo dzinotyisa. handina kana kumborara muchipatara husiku.Saka kana kumbonzwa munhu mumwe achiuya achiti,'hey it was not so bad' hazvina kundigadzirira zvakanaka.Zuva rekuvhiyiwa kwangu rakaita sendisina kunyatsogadzikana. kusvika padanho rekuti chiremba wangu aifanira kugara achindiyeuchidza kutora mweya wakadzika kudzikama nekuti BP yangu yakarova zvakakwirira kudaro. Pandakangove patafura yekuvhiya ndakanzwa kunge ndiri kuhope. Paive nemumhanzi pawairesi uye vanachiremba vangu nemanesi vaiimba pamwe chete nenziyo dzakabatana sekunge taive pane imwe bhaisikopo. Ini ndichagara ndichifunga nezve 'Ndosaka Vachiidaidza Iyo Blues' naElton John zvakasiyana zvakanyanya izvozvi. Sezvo ichi chaiva chiitiko chikuru muupenyu kwandiri, ndaitarisira kuti zvinhu zvose zvichange zvakaoma uye zvakakomba pandiri, asi ndakaona kuti raingova rimwe zuvawo zvaro kune vamwe vose. Iyo vibe iri mukamuri yakanyatso kurerutsa kutya kwangu nekuti ndakaona kuti iyi yakanga isiri se 'emergency' sezvandaifungidzira kuti ive. Chokwadi handina kana kumbonzwa kurwadziwa nekubatwa nechiveve nemushonga wese, asi ndakanzwa kudhonzwa nekudhonzwa, kunge munhu arikuda kundikwenya nemukati zvisingaite. Pakazara ndinonzwa ndakaropafadzwa kuve ndakave neruzivo rwakadai. Ini ndinofungidzira zvakandiita mumwe weavo vakadzi vanogona kupfuudza dzimwe nyaya dzakanaka. "Inogona kutyisa zvakanyanya kana ichiitika kwauri, asi hazvizove zvinotyisa sezvazvinowanzoitwa." -Jenna Hales, 33, Scotch Plains, NJ

"Zvakanzwa zvisinganzwisisike kusanzwisisika kusanzwa chero kurwadziwa asi kuvanzwa vachifambisa zvemukati mangu kutenderera."

"Ndakave nevana vaviri kuburikidza neakarongwa C-chikamu nekuti nhoroondo yangu yekurapwa kweGI kuvhiya kurapa ulcerative colitis yakandiita murombo mukwikwidzi wekubereka kusangana nekutsi kwemukadzi. Kuwana iyo epidural ndicho chikamu chinonyanya kunetsa cheichi chiitiko - sezvo ichi chichifanira kunge chiri kudai steril process, uri wega patafura iyoyo ivo vachikupinza mboro refu zvisinganyaradzi.Vanokuradzika pasi vapedza nekuti chiveve chinoitika nekukasira.Kumwana wangu wechipiri, chiveve. ndakatanga kudivi rangu rekuruboshwe chete ndokuzopararira nekurudyi-zvaityisa kungova nedivi rimwe chete rainge rakaita chiveve.Panguva yekuvhiyiwa ndainyatsoona kudhonzwa uye kubatwa-batwa kwaiitika mukati memuviri wangu kuti mwanasikana wedu abude.Zvaishamisa zvikuru. Weird kusanzwa chero kurwadziwa asi kuti ndinzwe vachifambisa mukati mangu mukati.Pakaiswa mwana wangu handina kumunzwa achichema izvo zvaiita semaminetsi, asi ndakazomuona asati aendeswa kukireshi. -up maitiro hainzwe chero chinhu sekutakura. Hapana kudhonza kana kukweva, kungogeza nekumonera paunenge wakarara zvakatsetseka patafura uchigadzirisa zvese zvakangoitika. Chisina akandinyevera pamusoro pacho, kunyanguvezvo, kwaiva kuzvimba kwapashure pekusununguka kwaiitika pose pandaiyamwisa. Zvikurukuru, kuyamwisa kunoita kuti chibereko chibatane uye kuchibatsira kuti chidzokere pakukura kwepashure pemwana. Kwandiri, zvakaitika anenge maawa maviri mushure mekunge ndatanga kuyamwisa mwanasikana wangu mukupora. Vanamukoti vanoda kuti epidural yako ipere kuitira kuti ugone kutanga kufamba-famba, sezvo izvo zvinobatsira chaizvo maitiro ekupora. Asi pandakangopararira nedenda ndakanzwa kupunzika uye ndikafunga kuti ndichafa-zvakaita sekunge munhu aityaira banga mukati memuviri wangu. Kwakanga kusiri kungozvisunga kwandakanga ndisati ndambonzwa nekuti ndakanga ndisati ndamboenda kubasa rechokwadi, asi kwaiitika chaiko kwandaive ndakachekwa. Zvaityisa uye zvakauya nemafungu pandaizoyamwa kwemwedzi unotevera kana zvakadaro. Kufamba mushure meC-chikamu kwainetsawo kwemazuva mashoma. Sezvo ini ndiri murapi wepanyama, ndinogona kushandisa hunyengeri kudzikamisa marwadzo-zvinhu sekuumburuka kudivi rako usati wasimuka kuti udzivirire kukanda kwako uye kusunungura tsandanyama dzako dzemudumbu. Zvakadaro, kumonera nekumuka pamubhedha pakati pehusiku kwemavhiki matatu ekutanga kunogara kuchindinetsa. "" -Abigail Bales, 37, New York Guta

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"Ndanga ndaneta, ndanetseka, uye ndasuwa. Manesi akandisimbisa kuti handina kukundikana."

"Kubata kwangu kwaive nyore. Hapana kurwara kwamangwanani, kusarutsa, kusarutsa, kushaya zvekudya. Mwanasikana wangu aive akatsikitsira akatarisana nemusana wangu, chinzvimbo chakakodzera chekutakura. Saka ndakafunga kuti kuzvara kwaizove kuri nyore zvakare. Ipapo ini yakashanda kwemaawa angangoita 55. Pakupedzisira zvakafungidzirwa kuti chikamu cheC chaive chakakosha sezvo muviri wangu wanga usiri kufambira mberi. Ndakachema. Ndakange ndaneta, ndakanetseka, uye ndakaodzwa mwoyo. Vanamukoti vakandisimbisa kuti handina kukundikana. mwana uyu kwete semazuva ese andaifungira.Handina basa nazvo kuti munhu anoti kudii, C-section is a major surgery.Kurara kana kusvinura urikuchekwa.Ndakatadza kuzungunutsa pfungwa iyi. Ndinotenda kuti handina kumbonzwa kurwadziwa panguva yekuvhiyiwa.Zvichida kwaiva kusanganiswa kweanesthesia yandanga ndichiwana kuburikidza ne epidural kwemaawa gumi nemaviri kana kuwedzera kweanesthesia yakaitwa ndisati ndavhiyiwa, asi hapana chandakanzwa. yekudhonza zvinyoro-nyoro, kukweva, kana kudzvinyirirwa nachiremba akandiudza kuti ndaizo-kana kuti handisi kuyeuka nekuti izvo zvandaigona kutarisa pairi kwaive kunzwa kwake kwekutanga kuchema. Uye akazodaro. Asi handina kukwanisa kumubata. Ini handina kukwanisa kumutsvoda kana kumumbundira. Ndakatadza kuva munhu wekutanga kumudzikamisa. Ndipo pakabva parwadza. Kuti ndisakwanise kusangana neganda-ganda zvairwadza moyo. Pane kudaro, vakamubata pamusoro peketeni ndokubva vamusundira kure kuti vaone hutano uye kumuchenesa. Nekuneta nekusuwa, ndakarara pa tafura yekuvhiya ivo vachipedza kundivhara. Pandakamuka ndichipora ndakazosvika pakumubata. Ndakazoona kuti mukoti akaedza kumupa kumurume wangu muOR asi akaramba kumutora. Aiziva kukosha kwazvo kwandiri kuti ndive wekutanga kumubata. Akagara padivi pake, akafamba padivi pebassinet yake kubva pane imwe kamuri kuenda kune inotevera, uye akabva andipa nguva yangu yandaifunga kuti ndakanga ndarasika. " -Jessica Ruoko, 33, Chappaqua, NY

"Kuvhiyiwa kwacho kwaive kushoma kwekutambudzika kwandiri."

"Ndakanga ndine chikamu cheC nevana vangu vose. Mvura yaiva mudumbu remwanasikana wangu yakanga yakaderera kusvika pakupera kwemimba yangu, saka ndaifanira kunyengedzwa mavhiki maviri mangwanani. Uye mushure memaawa ekusundidzira, takasarudza C- Kupora kwainzwa kurebesa uye kunorwadza uye ndakanga ndisina kugadzirira mupfungwa nokuda kwechimwe chazvo, kusanganisira kusununguka mavhiki maviri akanga apfuura kupfuura zvandaironga. asi panguva ino mvura yangu yakatyoka pamasvondo makumi maviri nemanomwe apo ndairarisa mwanasikana wangu ane mwedzi gumi nemasere.Ndakabva ndaiswa muchipatara kuitira kuti vanachiremba vazame kutadzisa mwanakomana wangu kuti azvarwe nekukurumidza. vhiki nhatu, aifanira kubuda.Ndakaziva kuti ndinenge ndiine chikamu cheC.Uye kunyangwe kekutanga nguva kutenderera senge chamupupuri chakadai, panguva ino ndanga ndichingonzwa pfungwa yekuzorodzwa kuti kusungwa kwangu pamubhedha wechipatara handirangariri zvakawanda zvekuvhiyiwa, asi ndakafara kuti chirongwa ichi chakazopera. Uye nekutenda, kunyangwe kunyange zvazvo mwanakomana wangu akaberekwa mavhiki gumi kare, akanga ane simba 3.5 pounds, iyo inonzi yakakura kune preemie. Akapedza vhiki shanu muNICU asi nhasi ane hutano hwakakwana uye ari kubudirira. Kuvhiya kwacho kwaive kushoma kwekushungurudzika kwandiri. Ndakanga ndine mamwe matambudziko mazhinji zvekuti chimiro chemuviri chakajeka kana tichienzanisa nemanzwiro akatenderedza kusununguka." -Courtney Walker, 35, New Rochelle, NY

Inoenderana: Kuwanazve Kwangu Kwesimba Simba Pashure Kuva neC-Chikamu

"Kunyange ndanga ndave nechiveve, uchiri kunzwa mitsindo, kunyanya kana madoctor akupwanya mvura."

"Vanachiremba vaifanira kundikurudzira kuti ndiputse mvura yangu nemwana wangu wekutanga, uye mushure memaawa ema contractions akasimba nekushanda, vanachiremba vangu vakadaidzira emergency-C chikamu nekuti kurova kwemoyo wemwanakomana wangu kwakadonha nekukurumidza. Vakadaidza chikamu cheC-chikamu na12: 41. pm uye mwanakomana wangu akazvarwa na12: 46pm Zvakazoitika nekukurumidza zvekuti murume wangu akaripotsa pavakange vachimupfekedza.Zvese izvi zvaive kumeso, asi kurwadziwa kwakazotevera kwaive kwakanyanya kupfuura zvandaigona kufungidzira. chipatara asi kurwadziwa kwakanyanya uye ndakazopedzisira ndave nefivhiri yakakura.Zvinobuda kuti ndakanga ndabatirwa hutachiona uye ndaifanirwa kuiswa pamishonga inorwisa mabhakitiriya. mwana achangoberekwa. muromo wechibereko uye zvinogona kukonzera kubuda ropa . Nekuda kwekuti iyo placenta yaive munzvimbo ine njodzi, ini ndaifanirwa kuve neC-chikamu chakarongwa pamasvondo makumi matatu nemana. Kunyangwe nhumbu yangu pachayo yaityisa, chechipiri C-chikamu chaizorodza kwazvo! Chakanga chiri chiitiko chakasiyana kudaro. Ndakaenda kuchipatara, ndikachinja kuita giya-sezvakaita murume wangu panguva ino futi! -Uye vakandipinza mukamuri rekuvhiyira. Chinhu chaityisa pane zvose chakanga chiri chechirwere. Asi ndakambundira pepiro kuti ndigadzikise tsinga dzangu, ndikanzwa kutsamwa, uye zvadaro zvapera. Mushure meizvozvo, vanamukoti vakandibvunza mimhanzi yandaida uye chiremba akapinda nguva pfupi yapfuura kuzondifambisa pane zvese. Murume wangu nemumwe chiremba vaigara nemusoro wangu nguva yese, vakataura neni, uye vakaita chokwadi chekuti ndakanga ndakanaka nhanho imwe neimwe yenzira-zvaingove zvinosimbisa. Kunyangwe ndaive ndakabatwa nechiveve, uchiri kungonzwa ruzha, kunyanya kana vanachiremba vachikuvhuna mvura! Ini ndainzwa kukweva kwemukati mangu, uye ndicho chakange chiri chikamu chinoshamisira. Asi kunzwa zvese uye nekudzikama uzive zviri kuitika kwaive kunzwa kwakanaka kudaro. Mwanakomana wangu wechipiri akasvika ndikasvika ndikamubata pavakandivhara. Kupora hakuna kushata kechipiri. Ndaiziva zviri nani panguva ino, saka ndakatanga kufamba pandakangokwanisa uye ndakaedza kusatya kufamba kwega kwega. Kusundidzira kudiki ikoko kwakaita kuti kupora kuve neutano uye nekukurumidza. Chokwadi kuvhiyiwa kukuru, asi kunouya nemubairo wakanakisa."-Danielle Stingo, 30, Long Island, NY

"Ndinoyeuka kunhuhwirira kwakasiyana panguva yekuvhiyiwa, kwandakazoziva kuti kwaiva kunhuwa kwenhengo dzangu uye ura."

"Ini nachiremba wangu takaita sarudzo yekuti ndive neC-chikamu nekuda kwenjodzi yematambudziko nekuda kwekukuvara musana kwandakaita ndichiri kuyaruka. Kuzvara kwemukadzi kunogona kutsvaira dhisiki rangu kunze kwenzira yese, iyo Chaigona kuzopedzisira chaita kuti uome mitezo. Chaive chisarudzo chiri nyore kutora uye ndainzwa kurerukirwa kuti ndisazvidya moyo pamusoro pekuti ndaizosununguka riini uye kana murume wangu achizenge aripo kuti andibatsire- handina kugumbuka zvachose kuti ini “Mangwanani ekuvhiyiwa kwangu ndinoyeuka ndichitya zvikuru.” Chinhu chaityisa kwandiri kwaiva pavakaudza murume wangu kuti abude mumba kuti vazokwanisa kundiisira chirwere chepidural ipapo. Ndakaziva kuti chaive chokwadi.Ndakange ndichidedera uye kuita dzungu .Kana ma meds paakatanga kushanda ndakanzwa kushamisika nekuti kekutanga mukati memakore anopfuura makumi maviri ndakanga ndisinganzwe nemarwadzo ekumusana zvachose! zvinoshamisa uye ndichiona manurse achipeta makumbo angu uye achifambisa muviri wangu kuisa ca theter was just awkward. Ndakanzwa kuzvishingisa, asi pandakabatanidzwazve nemurume wangu ndakadzikama. Munguva yeC-chikamu, zvaiita senge kunze-kwemuviri chiitiko nekuti ini ndainzwa kudhonza uye kudhonza, asi kwanga kusiri mune chero kurwadziwa. Chidzitiro chakange chakasimudzwa saka ini ndaisakwanisa kuona chero chinhu pazasi pechipfuva changu, futi. Ndinoyeuka hwema hwakasiyana hwandakazonzwa hwaive hwema hwenhengo dzangu uye ura. Ndine hunhu hwekupenga hwechokwadi uye hwaingokwidziridzwa panguva yepamuviri, asi uku kwaive kunhuhwirira kusanzwisisika kwezvose. Ndainzwa kurara zvakanyanya asi zvisina kukwana zvekuti ndaigona kuvhara maziso nekurara. Ipapo ndakatanga kuita svosve uye ndichifunga kuti ichave yakareba sei.Vakabva vabuda nemwana wangu mukomana vachibva vandiratidza. Zvaishamisa. Zvaive pamoyo. Yakanga yakanaka. Pavaimuchenesa uye vachiongorora mazita ake, vaitofanira kuendesa rukuvhute uye kundisona. Izvi zvakatora nguva yakareba kupfuura zvandaitarisira. Yakareba kupfuura kuendesa kwemwanakomana wangu. Ndakazoona kuti chiremba wangu aitotora nguva yake achindisona kuti asiyane netattoo yangu. Ndakafadzwa kwazvo sezvo ini ndakanga ndisati ndambomuudza kuti ndaida kuigadzirisa! Pakazara, ini ndingati yangu C-chikamu chaive chakanakisa chikamu chenhumbu yangu. (Ini ndaive nemukadzi ane nhumbu ane nhamo!) Handina zvichemo uye ndaizozviita zvakare mumoyo.-Noelle Rafaniello, 36, Easley, SC

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