Mukadzi Uyu Anobvuma Akabvunza Kuti Sei Mukomana Wake ane "Muviri Wakakwana" Akakwezva Kwake

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Tarisa uone Raeann Langas 'Instagram feed uye iwe uchakurumidza kuona kuti fashoni blogger uye curve modhi ndiyo epitome yekuvimba kwemuviri uye positivity yemuviri. Asi izvi hazvireve kuti haatyi kugovana zvinoita kuti ave panjodzi. Akatombotaurwa nezvekuti sei zvisina kunaka kuti usade muviri wako dzimwe nguva kunyangwe iwe uchitsigira muviri positivity, uye kuti akazosvika sei pakuziva kuti muviri positivity haugari nezve nzira yaunotarisa. Iye zvino, ari kuvhura nezve imwezve nzira yaanotambura nayo nemufananidzo wemuviri: muhukama hwake.

"'Nei uchikwezvwa neni?' Ndiwo mubvunzo wandakabvunza Ben rinenge gore mushure mekutanga kudanana, "achangobva kunyora pa Instagram padivi nemufananidzo wake nemukomana wake. "Ini ndaisakwanisa kunzwisisa kuti munhu ane 'muviri wakakwana' angakwezve sei kwandiri. Haangave anofara zvakanyanya nemumwe munhu akaonda uye achimhanya zvakanyanya saiye?" (Zvakafanana: Sei Mukadzi Uyu "Akanganwa Bikini Yake" PaZuva Kumahombekombe)

Achitarisa kumashure, Langas anoti anoona kusviba kwakaita hukama hwake nemuviri wake. "Panguva iyoyo ndaive ndisina kuchengeteka zvisingaite," anodaro Chimiro. "Ini handina kuzviwana ndichiyevedza saka ndaisanzwisisa kuti murume angandiwana sei ndinokwezva. Mumusoro mangu, ndaitenda kuti mukadzi aive mutete kana kumhanya kupfuura ini aive nane pane ini nekuti kukura isu tinodzidziswa ndizvo izvo zvinoonekwa sezvakanaka uye zvinodikanwa. "

Mukomana wake Ben Mullis, zvisinei, akamutsanangurira kuti hongu, akanga achikwezvwa norudzi rwake rwomuviri. "Ndakanga ndisati ndambosangana nemurume akange awana vakadzi vanokanganisa vachikwezva saka ndaitadza kuzvinzwisisa," anodaro. "Akandiudzawo kuti isu hatifanirwe kuve ma clones emumwe nemumwe, anofarira chokwadi chekuti isu tine zvatinofarira zvakasiyana muhupenyu-zvake zvinongoitika sekusimudza uye kushanda kunze." (Zvakabatana: Katie Willcox Anoda Kuti Iwe Uzive Kuti Iwe Wakanyanya Kupfuura Zvaunoona Mugirazi)

Muchidimbu, Langas anopomera kushomeka kwekumiririrwa kwemhando dzakasiyana dzemuviri munhau nekuda kwenyaya yake ine muviri muviri. “Makore gumi apfuura, kwakanga kusina ma<em>curve model kana kuti marudzi akasiyana-siyana emuviri anomiririrwa mumagazini makuru,” anodaro. "Vakadzi vanoratidzwa mumabhuku aya ndizvo zvandaitenda kuti varume vaishuvira: Mumwe munhu aive akaonda nemagaro mahombe. Kwandiri, zvaive zvakapusa ndizvo zvandakarongerwa kuti ndifunge." (Yakabatana: Katie Willcox Anoda Vakadzi Kurega Kufunga Ivo Vanofanira Kuderedza Kurema Kuti Vave Vanodiwa)

Kunyange Langas achishanda nguva dzose uye achidzidzira kudya zvine hutano, Mullis anga ari mutambi wehupenyu hwake hwese, akatamba tenesi kukoreji, uye parizvino mubatsiri mudzidzisi kuPepperdine University. Saka, hongu, miviri yavo vari yakavakwa zvakasiyana-asi zvakamutorera makore kuti anzwe akasununguka nepfungwa iyoyo, anodaro."Akandibatsira kunzwisisa kuti hazvisi zvekuti muviri wako unotaridzika sei, ndezvekurarama hupenyu hune hutano-uye hutano hunotaridzika hwakasiyana kune wese munhu."

Sezvo Langas akawana chivimbo chake uye akachengetedzeka nemuviri wake kuburikidza nebasa rake semudhiraivho uye murevereri ane muviri wakanaka, chitarisiko chemukomana wake chakaita kuti anzwe akaderera, anowedzera kudaro. “Ndinofunga kana uchinge uchifara iwe pachako, zvinokuitira nyore kuti ufare kune vamwe,” anodaro. "Kuna Ben, kushanda kunomuunzira mufaro wakanyanya, saka ndinoda kumutsigira mune izvo nekupemberera zvaakawana naye."

Kune vamwe vakadzi vanogona kusahadzika nezvehukama hwavo zvichibva parudzi rwemuviri wavo, Langas anoti izvi: "Saka vakadzi vazhinji vanonzwa sekuti havana kukodzera mumwe munhu zvichienderana nekutaridzika kwavo nekuti sevakadzi tinotarisana nekumanikidzwa kukuru kuti titarise neimwe nzira. "Ndosaka ndiri mutendi akasimba mumadzimai achiwana kuvimba kwavo uye kuvhurika kuti vagamuchire zvese zvavanokodzera muhupenyu."

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