Zvese zvaunoda Kuti Uzive Nezve Bonde Matoyi uye njovhera

Zvemukati

• Woah, woah, woah, unogona here kuwana njovhera kubva kune yekutamba bonde?
• Ndeapi njovhera anogona kutapurirana nenzira iyi?
• Bhakitiriya vaginosis, mbiriso, uye UTI inogona zvakare kuendeswa
• Uye kana garo riripo, saka zvimwewo hutachiona
• Unogona zvakare kuparadzira njovhera (kana chimwe chirwere) kwauri
• Izvo zvinhu zvinokosha
• Izvo zvaunoda kuziva nezve inotyisa uye isingaite pabonde matoyi
• Kana iwe uchigovana yekutamba yebonde, iite iyo isingamiriri yekutamba pabonde
• Kana uchizoshandisa toy inotyisa, shandisa kondomu
• Maitiro ekuchenesa matoyi ako ebonde
• Iwe unogona zvakare kushandisa bonde toyi cleaner
• Usakanganwa kuomesa toy yako, woiisa kure nemazvo
• Nguva yekuchenesa matoyi ako
• Maitiro ekuchengetedzeka uye mutsika kugovera matoyi pakati pevakabatana
• Usashandise matoyi anotyisa
• Geza matoyi asiri emuno
• Taura nemumwe wako (s)
• Zvekuita kana iwe uchifunga kuti njovhera kuratidzwa kwaitika
• Kubata pamuviri kunogonawo kuva (zvishoma) njodzi
• Chinokosha

Isu tinosanganisira zvigadzirwa zvatinofunga zvinobatsira kuvaverengi vedu. Kana iwe ukatenga kuburikidza nehukama pane ino peji, isu tinogona kuwana diki komisheni. Heano maitiro edu.

Woah, woah, woah, unogona here kuwana njovhera kubva kune yekutamba bonde?

Mhinduro pfupi: Yup!

Asi edza kusanetseka zvakanyanya, haugone pakarepo tora chirwere chepabonde (STI) kubva kutoyi yebonde.

Kuti uwane njovhera kubva kune yekutamba bonde, inofanira kunge yakashandiswa nemunhu anga aine njovhera uye isina kunyatso kucheneswa usati waishandisa.

"Hazvirevi kuti toyi yebonde pachayo inokupa njovhera," anotsanangura chiremba wezvepabonde Megan Stubbs, EdD. "Ndicho chinhu chekutambisa bonde chiri vector yehutachiona."

Hezvino zvese zvaunoda kuti uzive.

Ndeapi njovhera anogona kutapurirana nenzira iyi?

Chero njovhera inogona kutapuriranwa kuburikidza nekuita bonde inogona kupararira kuburikidza neyakagovaniswa pabonde toyi - kusanganisira njovhera dzinopararira kuburikidza nemuviri wemvura uye idzo dzinopararira kuburikidza neganda-kune-ganda kusangana.

Kana paine ropa, urume, pre-cum, kusangana nekutsi kwemukadzi, kana imwe mvura yemuviri pane yekutambisa bonde yemunhu A ane STI inotakurirwa nemvura, uyezve toyi yebonde inosangana nemamousu emunhu B, munhu B anogona batira hutachiona.

Nepo pasina kuve nekutsvagisa pamusoro wenyaya, njovhera dzinopararira kuburikidza neganda-kune-ganda kana kusangana kwepabonde-kune-kusangana kunogonawo kupararira kuburikidza neyekutamba pabonde.

Semuenzaniso, kana mumwe wako ane herpes kuputika akashandisa toy yebonde, uyezve maminetsi mashoma gare gare iwe ukashandisa imwecheteyo yekutambisa bonde, pane mukana wekuti hutachiona hutapurirwe kwauri.

Bhakitiriya vaginosis, mbiriso, uye UTI inogona zvakare kuendeswa

Haisi chete njovhera dzinogona kutapuriranwa kuburikidza nebonde matoyi.

"Unogona zvakare kuwana mbiriso hutachiona, bhakitiriya vaginosis, kana chirwere cheweti kubva kutoyi yebonde," anodaro Stubbs.

Dzimwe nguva izvi zvinoitika nekuti iwe wakashandisa yekutambisa bonde iyo munhu ane bhakitiriya vaginosis kana chirwere chembiriso chakashandiswa pasina icho chakanatswa zvakanaka chisati chashandiswa.

Asi kunyangwe kana mumwe wacho hazviiti uine chimwe cheizvi hutachiona, kana iwe uine vagina, mabhakitiriya kubva kumabheti avo anogona kukanda yako yepasi pH uye inotungamira kuhutachiona.

Kana iwe ukashandisa toy yekutamba mubeche rako uye wozoishandisa mumukadzi wako wega (kana kutenderedza yako penile kuvhura), izvi zvinogona zvakare kukonzera imwe yeizvi hutachiona.

Uye kana garo riripo, saka zvimwewo hutachiona

Fecal nyaya uye zvakasara zvakasara ndiyo inobvumwa pese panjodzi yekutamba nekumashure.

Zvinoenderana neizvi, zvinotevera zvinogona kutapurirwa kuburikidza netsvina:

• hepatitis A, B, uye C
• utachiona, kusanganisira Giardia lamblia
• ura hwemumimba
• mabhakitiriya, kusanganisira Shigella, Salmonella, Campylobacter, uye E. coli

Izvi zvinoita kuti hutachiona uhwu huve njodzi yekuita bonde nekumashure kunobuda nako tsvina.

Uye njodzi idzi hadziendi kana kiyi yekutambisa bonde irikushandiswa kunakidza yako derrière, zvinopesana nepenisi kana chigunwe. (Kunyangwe njodzi yekushandisa toy yekutamba yakaderera kana ichienzaniswa nenjodzi yekushandisa muromo wako).

Unogona zvakare kuparadzira njovhera (kana chimwe chirwere) kwauri

Ngatiti iwe unowana hutachiona vaginosis, shandisa vibrator yako, usanyatsoichenesa, enda pamishonga inorwisa mabhakitiriya yehutachiona uye inopera, uye wozoshandisa toyi yebonde zvakare ... zvinokwanisika kuzvitapudza netoyi.

Hongu, ugh.

Izvo zvinoshandawo kubhakitiriya njovhera. Semuenzaniso, kana iwe uine gonorrhea yemukadzi, shandisa chinhu chekutambisa kusangana nekutsi kwemukadzi, uye wochishandisa ipapo kumutsiridza anus yako, zvinokwanisika kuti uzvipe gonyonora yekumashure. Ugh.

Izvo zvinhu zvinokosha

Kunyangwe kana kwete iwe kuendesa njovhera kuburikidza neyebonde toyi kunoenderana, muchidimbu, pane kuti iwe unogona here kuchenesa zvakakwana iyo toy kana iwe uchisuka iyo.

Izvo zvaunoda kuziva nezve inotyisa uye isingaite pabonde matoyi

"Matoyi ezvepabonde akagadzirwa nezvinhu zvinogadzirwa nemapundu ane maburi madiki mashoma ayo anogona kubatirira pamabhakitiriya, guruva, sipo, uye pefiyumu kunyangwe warichenesa," anotsanangura kudaro nyanzvi yezvekufara Carly S., muvambi weDildo kana Dildon’t.

Dudziro: Kunyange sipo nemvura hazvigone kuwana porous bonde matoyi zvachose 100 muzana yakachena. Yikes.

Zvinhu zvinotyisa zvinosanganisira:

• Thermoplastic rabha (TPR)
• thermoplastic elastomer (TPE)
• latex
• polyvinyl chloride (PVC)
• jelly rabha

Matoyi asiri epabonde anokwanisa - kana ukaachenesa zvakanaka - kucheneswa zvachose.

"Mutemo wakanaka… ndewekuti kana zvakakotsekana kudyira pamwe nekubika nazvo uye ukaiwana mukicheni, chinhu chakachengeteka, chisinganetsi chekutambisa bonde," anodaro Carly S.

Zvinhu zvisingaoneki zvinosanganisira:

• silicone
• pyrex
• ABS mapurasitiki
• girazi
• simbi isina ngura

Kana iwe uchigovana yekutamba yebonde, iite iyo isingamiriri yekutamba pabonde

Nenzira iyoyo iwe unogona kusuka iyo toy pakati pebato rega kurishandisa.

"Unogonawo kukanda kondomu pamusoro pechinhu chekutambisa wopfeka kondomu nyowani mumwe asati azoshandisa," anodaro chiremba wezvepabonde uye chiremba wezvekurapa Jordin Wiggins.

Usatombo kunetseka: "Haufanire kutengesa ruoko negumbo kuti uwane toy isingakoshe," anodaro Carly S. Blush Novelties, semuenzaniso, inogadzira zvigadzirwa zvemhando yepamusoro, zvemitengo yepasi.

Kana uchizoshandisa toy inotyisa, shandisa kondomu

Kunyangwe iwe uri kuishandisa uri wega kana nemumwe wako, kanda kondomu nyowani pane mukomana akaipa iyeye nguva dzese padzinenge kubata munhu mutsva - kunyanya latex, polyurethane, kana polyisoprene kondomu.

Makondomu akagadzirwa kubva paganda remhuka haadzivirirwe kubva kuzvirwere zvepabonde.

Kana iwe ukashandisa makondomu eratex, shandisa silicone kana mvura-yakagadziriswa lube seSliquid Sassy kana Uberlube - mafuta-ane mafuta anodzikisira kutendeseka kwekondomu uye kugadzira maburi mashoma.

Sezvinobvumwa, kumatoyi ebonde asina kuita semurume, kuisa kondomu pamusoro kunogona… kusanzwisisika.

"Edza kusunga kondomu pane zvaunogona kuti usanyanye kuita usimbe," anodaro Carly S. "Kana kuti unogona kushandisa gurovhisi, kana kuti isina-microwavable saran yekumonera (iyo inotakurika ine maburi madiki mairi)."

Kune mamwe matoyi ebonde akaita seanopenga-svutugadzike, zvisinei, rako rakanakisa kubheja pamwe ungangowana rakapatsanurwa toyi pamushandisi.

"Vazhinji vanokakavara vanogadzirwa neyakafukidzwa nerubber zvinhu nekuti yakanyorovera, yakapfava, uye vanhu vazhinji havangade kurova nhengo yavo nechinhu chinonzwa kunge chidhinha," anodaro Carly S.

Zvakanaka!

Nepo vakaroorana vane mvura yakasungwa - AKA vachiziva, vachibvumirana, uye nechinangwa vachigovana mvura yemumuviri - vanogona kugovana stroker pasina dambudziko, kana usiri wakasungwa wakasungwa unofanirwa kuwana matoyi maviri akapatsanurwa.

Imwe sarudzo: Edza iyo Hot Octopus Pulse Duo, stroker yakagadzirwa nesilicone uye ABS plastiki.

Maitiro ekuchenesa matoyi ako ebonde

Kunyangwe zvingave zvinhu zvekutambisa kwako, iwe unofanirwa kunge uchisuka mwana iye iye pamberi uye mushure mekushandisa kwese. Kuti unogeza sei zvinoenderana nezvinhu.

"Ita shuwa kuti sipo inyoro uye haina huremu," anodaro Wiggins. "Zvimwe zvinogadzirwa zvinogona kutsamwisa nhengo dzako dzakavandika."

Kune asina matoyi, asiri emota matoyi, kukanda chinhu chekutambisa mune yekuwachira ndiro zvakare mukana, sekureva kwaStubbs.

"Hatisi kutaura nezvekuisa toy mukati mehusiku hwekupedzisira lasagna dish," anodaro Stubbs. "Ita mutoro wezvako zvekutambisa zvepabonde."

Oo, uye usashandise sipo! Ingorega mvura inodziya ichimhanya.

"Dishwasher yekugezesa inogona kuva nemakemikari akaomarara nezvinonhuhwirira zvinotungamira mukushatirwa kana kutapukira kune vanhu vane matinji," anodaro Carly S.

Iwe unogona zvakare kushandisa bonde toyi cleaner

Sekureva kwaCarly S., "Zvinogona kunge zviri nani kushandisa mudziyo wekuchenesa wekutambisa mvura pane kugeza nesipo yauinayo, nekuti machenesa aya anowanzove akapfava kupfuura sipo zhinji dzemaoko." Zvakanaka kuziva!

Vanochenesa matoyi epabonde iye aanokurudzira:

• Babeland Toy Inosuka
• Sliquid Penya
• Isu-Vibe Yakachena

Zoe Ligon (anozivikanwa saThongria pasocial media), mudzidzisi wezvepabonde uye muridzi weSpectrumBoutique.com, chitoro chekudzidzisa zvekuita bonde, inokurudzira kana iwe ukashandisa chinosuka, sukurudza toy yacho nemvura usati waishandisa kuti usagumbuke.

Usakanganwa kuomesa toy yako, woiisa kure nemazvo

"Mabhakitiriya makoloni anoda mwando saka mushure mekuchenesa chitoyi, chiomesa zvakakwana," anodaro Stubbs. Ingo bvisa iyo toy yakaoma ne tauro yakachena kana kusiya matoyi ari kunze kuti aome mhepo.

Wobva waichengeta zvakanaka. Mazuva ano, matoyi mazhinji ebonde anouya nemabhegi e satin stowaway, saka kana toy yako ikauya neimwe, shandisa iyoyo.

Bhegi riya rinodzivirira chitoyi kubva kuunganidze guruva, marara, uye huswa hwemhuka pakati pekushandisa.

Hauna yakakosha pabonde toyi homwe? Funga nezvekudyara mune chimwe chezasi pazasi:

• Tristan Velvish Toy Bhegi
• Liberator Couture Kesi PadLock neKiyi
• Lovehoney Rakakiyiwa Bonde Reyi Case

Nguva yekuchenesa matoyi ako

Zvakanakisa, mushure uye usati washandisa.

"Kana iwe nemumwe wako makasungwa nemvura, munogona kumirira kusvikira mose maishandisa kuisuka, chero bedzi mumwe wenyu asinganyanye kuona mbiriso kana kutapukira," anodaro Carly S. "Zvikasadaro, gezai pakati pomumwe nomumwe wenyu. ”

Kuigeza usati washandisa kunogona kunzwika zvakanyanya, asi chimbofunga izvi: "Kunyangwe kana chinhu chekutambisa chakatosukwa, inogara iri pfungwa yakanaka kuchipa imwe yekuchenesa nguva yekutamba isati yatanga," anodaro Ligon.

Kuita izvi kunogona kumisa imbwa yako furhu kubva mukukwira kumusoro kwako kwese!

Maitiro ekuchengetedzeka uye mutsika kugovera matoyi pakati pevakabatana

Yep, hutano uye hunhu huri kutamba pano!

Usashandise matoyi anotyisa

Semutemo wakajairika, matoyi ane porous haafanire kushandiswa neanopfuura mumwe chete. Uye ivo vanofanirwa kushandiswa chete nevakabatana iwe waunosanganiswa nemvura.

Geza matoyi asiri emuno

Izvi zvinofanirwa kupihwa, asi kana uchizoshandisa toyi yebonde naKaren yawakangoshandisa naMary, iwe kudiwa kuchisuka pamberi penguva.

Kukundikana kuita izvi kunogona kukonzera kutapurirana njovhera.

Taura nemumwe wako (s)

"Iyi haisi nyaya yehutsanana uye yehutano chete," anodaro Carly S. "Inotemawo moyo kune vamwe vanhu, uye inodikanwa nemvumo yemapato ese."

Haisi chokwadi chekuunza sei bonde rekugovana kugovana nemumwe wako? Edza zvinotevera:

• "Ndoziva kuti takatoshandisa Hitachi yangu pamwe chete, asi tisati tazviita zvakare ndaida kutarisa nezinga rako rekunyaradza rakandikomberedza ndichishandisa toy iyoyo nevamwe vangu."
• “Ndingafarire kushandisa Womanizer yangu pauri kana chiri chinhu chaunofunga kuti ungafarire. Asi tisati tazviedza muhupenyu chaihwo, unofanira kuziva kuti ndakamboshandisa toy iya muhukama hwangu hwekare, zvakare. "
• "Ndinoziva kuti isu tese tine muunganidzwa wematoyi ebonde atakamboshandisa nevamwe vedu vekare, asi ikozvino zvatave muhukama hwega, ndinoda kutenga matoyi epabonde anongova edu."
• “Takambotaura nezvako f cking me nebhande-on pamberi. Ndinoziva kuti une jongwe, asi ndanga ndichizvibvunza kana iwe uchave wakasununguka kupatsanura mutengo weimwe nyowani yaungangoshandisa neni chete? "

Zvakanakisa iyi hurukuro ichaitika pamberi kupisa kwekanguva. Zvinoreva, ndapota pfeka zvakakwana paunounza izvi kumusoro!

Zvekuita kana iwe uchifunga kuti njovhera kuratidzwa kwaitika

Enda unoedzwa! "Taura zvawakafumurwa uye ndokumbira yakazara yakazara bvunzo kana iwe uine nzira," anodaro Ligon.

Kana iwe usingazive zvawakafumurwa, udza chiremba wako izvo, futi!

Zvino, "wongororwazve mumavhiki maviri kusvika matatu kana zvisinei kuti chiremba akaudza sei kuti umirire, nekuti zvimwe zvirwere zvepabonde hazvikwanisi kuongororwa nekukurumidza mushure mekuratidzwa," anodaro.

Yeuchidzo chiyeuchidzo: Mazhinji maSTI ari asymptomatic, saka kunyangwe kana usiri kusangana nezviratidzo, iwe unofanirwa kunge uchiongororwa kamwe chete pagore uye pakati pevakabatana, chero chinouya kutanga.

Kubata pamuviri kunogonawo kuva (zvishoma) njodzi

Kana iwe uchigona kubata pamuviri uye iwe uchigovana toy yekutamba nemunhu ane nhengo yemurume, nhumbu inokwanisa kugona kana chero pre-cum kana ejaculation iripo pane iyo toy kana iwe uchiishandisa.

Kana iwe uchida kudzivirira kubata pamuviri, taura nemumwe wako nezve sarudzo dzekuzvarwa uye usati wagovana toy. Kana, chenesa kana kushandisa kondomu nyowani usati waishandisa.

Chinokosha

Chero nguva yaunosangana pabonde nemunhu ane njovhera kana ane hutachiona hwausingazivi, kutapurirana njovhera kune njodzi. Uye izvo zvinosanganisira kushandisa kana kugovana toy yekutamba pamwe chete.

Iwe unogona kubatsira kudzikisa njodzi yekutapurirana ne:

• vachikurukura nezvenzvimbo yavo yechirwere chepabonde uye nezvenzira dzakachengeteka dzebonde dzaunoda kushandisa pamwechete
• kushandisa kondomu nyowani pamusoro peiyo toy kune wese mushandisi mutsva
• kushandisa isiri yekutamba bonde toyi uye kuichenesa pakati pevamwe
• kuva neyako wega matoyi epabonde

Gabrielle Kassel ndeye New York-based bonde uye hukama munyori uye CrossFit Level 1 Mudzidzisi. Iye ave munhu wemangwanani, akaedzwa anopfuura mazana maviri vibrator, uye akadya, akadhakwa, uye nekukweshwa nemazimbe - zvese muzita rezvenhau. Munguva yake yemahara, anogona kuwanikwa achiverenga mabhuku ekuzvibatsira uye enganonyorwa dzerudo, kumanikidza bhenji, kana kutamba matanda. Mutevere pairi Instagram.