Yekutanga Yekutungamira kune Zvepabonde Hypnosis

Zvemukati

• Chii?
• Saka hachisi chinhu chakafanana neeoticotic hypnosis?
• Ko kurapa pabonde?
• Ndiani anogona kubatsirwa?
• Chinoshanda sei?
• Zvinoitwa sei?
• Izvo zvakatsvakurudzwa zvachose?
• Pane here njodzi kana matambudziko ekuziva?
• Iwe unowana sei mupi akachengeteka?
• Ndekupi kwaunogona kudzidza zvakawanda?

Isu tinosanganisira zvigadzirwa zvatinofunga zvinobatsira kuvaverengi vedu. Kana iwe ukatenga kuburikidza nehukama pane ino peji, isu tinogona kuwana diki komisheni. Heano maitiro edu.

Viagra, kudya kwephrodisiac, kurapa, uye lube ndiyo mimwe yemishonga inozivikanwa kwazvo yekusagadzikana pabonde sekushomeka kwe erectile, anorgasmia, uye ejaculation isati yakwana.

Asi pane imwe nzira iyo, kunyange zvingave zvakadaro kurira diki woo-woo, inogona kushanda chaizvo: bonde hypnosis.

"Hypnosis inogona kunge isiri nzira yakajairika yekurapa nyaya dzebonde nhasi, [asi] hypnosis yanga ichishandiswa kurapa kwakasiyana kusagadzikana pabonde kwemakumi emakore," anodaro Sarah Melancon, PhD, nyanzvi mune zvemagariro uye chiremba wezvepabonde neveSex Toy Collective.

Asi chii chinonzi hypnosis yepabonde, chaizvo? Uye zvinonyatsoshanda here? Bhura pasi pasi kuti udzidze zvimwe.

Chii?

Iyo inozivikanwa zvakare sekurapa pabonde hypnosis, zvepabonde hypnosis inogona kubatsira vanhu kushanda kuburikidza neyakaenderera nyaya yebonde iyo inokanganisa yavo yega yega kana hwepamoyo hupenyu hwepabonde.

Semuyenzaniso:

• yakaderera libido
• anorgasmia
• kusagadzikana kwe erectile
• ejaculation isati yakwana
• vaginismus
• kusangana kunorwadza
• kunyadziswa pabonde kana bonde

Saka hachisi chinhu chakafanana neeoticotic hypnosis?

Kwete. Kunyange mazwi acho achiwanzoshandiswa mukuchinjana, pane misiyano yakasiyana.

Chinangwa cheerotic hypnosis kuseka, kufarira, uye mafaro, anotsanangura Kaz Riley, chiremba wezvekurapa hypnotherapist uyo anoshanda mukushanda pamwe nevanhu vanosangana nekusagadzikana pabonde.

"Inoshandiswa panguva yebonde kusimudzira mafaro kana kukurudzira orgasm, kana munzvimbo yeBDSM sechinhu chekutonga," Riley anotsanangura.

Zvepabonde hypnosis, kune rumwe rutivi, zvinogona kubatsira mumwe munhu kushanda kuburikidza nenyaya yepabonde yepazasi kuti vagone kuenderera mberi nekunakidzwa muhupenyu hwavo hwega kana hwepabonde hwepabonde.

Mhinduro pfupi? Eoticotic hypnosis ndeye mafaro ikozvino. Zvepabonde hypnosis ndeyekusimudzira kunakidzwa kwako mushure chikamu, kana iwe wagadzirira kune imwe "ini nguva" kana kubatana kwekutamba.

Ko kurapa pabonde?

Hypnosis inogona kunge iri kudaidzwa hypnotherapy. Asi hypnotherapy - psychotherapy.

Pane kudaro, hypnosis inoshandiswa kana sechiwedzera kurapi kana nevanhu vasina kuwana budiriro mune zvepfungwa.

Sangano nemurapi wepabonde rinotaridzika rakasiyana zvakasiyana pane chikamu nahypnotherapist uyo anoita zvebonde uye kusagadzikana pabonde, anotsanangura Eli Bliliuos, purezidhendi uye muvambi weNYC Hypnosis Center.

"Munguva yechirongwa chekurara pabonde, iwe nemurapi muri kutaura kuburikidza nenyaya dzenyu," Bliliuos anodaro. "Panguva yehypnotherapy, murapi wehope arikubatsira kuti ugadzirise pfungwa dzisingazive."

Ndiani anogona kubatsirwa?

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Sei? Nekuti kusagadzikana pabonde kunogona kuve chiratidzo chechimiro chemuviri.

Kungodudza mashoma, izvi zvinosanganisira:

• chirwere chemoyo
• cholesterol yakawanda
• metabolic chirwere
• endometriosis
• pelvic kuzvimba chirwere

Izvo zvakati, iwe unogona achiri kusarudza kuisa hypnotist muchirongwa chako chekuporesa, kunyangwe kana chiremba wako achinge aona kuti mamiriro ehutano ari kumashure kwezviratidzo zvako.

"Panoenda pfungwa muviri unotevera," anodaro Riley.

Anoenderera mberi achitsanangura kuti kana iwe uchitenda kana kutya kuti bonde rinorwadza, kana kuti iwe haugone kuwana nekuchengetedza erection, zvinonyanya kuitika izvo zvicharamba zviri zvechokwadi kunyangwe hazvo chikonzero chemuviri chagadziriswa.

"Munyengeri anogona kubatsira kudzorera subconscious kuti amise iwo mafungiro epfungwa kubva mukukanganisa mafaro mune ramangwana nekudzokorora iwo mupfungwa," anodaro Riley. Zvinhu zvine simba!

Chinoshanda sei?

Iyo chaiyo nzira iyo hypnotist inotevera inosiyana zvichibva pane chaicho kusagadzikana. Asi chirongwa chezviito chinowanzo tevera iyo yakafanana fomati.

"Kutanga, tichatanga nedzidzo nezvekuti bonde rinofanira kutaridzika sei," anodaro Riley. "Hypnosis inogona kugadzirisa glitch muchirongwa, asi tisati tatanga tinoda kuona kuti vari kuita chirongwa chaicho."

Semuenzaniso, kana iwe uchinetsekana nekuti hupenyu hwako hwepabonde haufanire nezvaunoona mu porn, izvo zvaunoda hazvisi hypnosis asi dzidzo nezve izvo zvinonyadzisira (varaidzo) uye haisi (inodzidzisa).

Tevere, muratidziri achazotaura newe nezve izvo zvinangwa zvako chaizvo. Vachabvunzawo nezve chero dambudziko rakapfuura kuti vaone mazwi kana madingindira anogona kunge achikonzera.

Chekupedzisira, iwe unozopinda mune iyo hypnosis chikamu chechikamu.

Zvinoitwa sei?

Mazhinji masekisheni e hypnosis anotanga nekuzorora uye kurovedza muviri kunobatsira kudzikisira muviri wako. (Funga: Femera mukati kuverenga matatu, wozobuda uchiverenga 3.)

Ipapo, iye hypnotist anokutungamira iwe mune ye hypnotic nyika.

"Iye hypnotist aigona kushandisa nzira inozivikanwa yekuchinjisa wachi nekumberi," Bliliuos anodaro. "Asi kazhinji, muratidziri anozokutungamira mumamiriro ezvinhu akaita seane hope achishandisa mubatanidzwa wekuraira kwemazwi uye nehunyanzvi hwekufema."

Kunyatso kujekesa: Pane zero (0!) Inobata inobatanidzwa.

"Mukati mehutano hwepabonde isu tiri kubata nemitezo yekumutsa uye dzepabonde, asi hapana zvachose chinhu chepabonde chiri kuitika muchirongwa," anodaro Riley.

Paunenge iwe uri mune ino trance-senge mamiriro, muratidziri anozokubatsira iwe kuona chikamu chepfungwa dzako dzisinganzwisisike ndiyo "limiter," wobva washandisa rairo-inotungamirwa nezwi kukubatsira kuti uigadzirise zvakare.

"Dzimwe nguva zvinotora chikamu chimwe chemaawa maviri-kuita, dzimwe nguva chinotora zvikamu zvemaawa akawanda," anodaro Riley.

Izvo zvakatsvakurudzwa zvachose?

"Hypnosis ine chimiro chakakura kwazvo chakabatanidzwa pairi, nemasayendisiti mazhinji achifungidzira kuti ingori hunyengeri hwemhemberero," anodaro Melancon. "Zvisinei, pane zvimwe zvidzidzo zvidiki zvinoratidza kuti pane bhenefiti, uye zvisingaite vanhu vazhinji vakazviona zvichibatsira pakufamba nekusungwa pabonde."

Imwe ongororo ya1988 yakaburitswa mupepanhau reSexology yakagumisa kuti kushandiswa kwe hypnosis yekusashanda pabonde kuri kuvimbisa.

Uye ongororo ya2005 yakaburitswa muAmerican Journal of Clinical Hypnosis inopedzisa ichiti: "[Zvepabonde hypnosis] zvinopa varwere kuziva kutsva kwemukati kunovagonesa kubata kwavo bonde kubva mukati, zvakasikwa uye vasina simba rakawandisa, nesarudzo huru uye nerusununguko kupfuura nakare kose."

Izvi zvidzidzo zvakanyorwa here? Ndizvozvo! Pane kumwe kutsvagurudza kunodiwa? Iwe unotengesa!

Asi tichifunga kuti hypnosis yebonde inoroora misoro miviri - hypnosis uye zvebonde - izvo zvinoita zvisingaite kuwana mari, chokwadi chinosuwisa ndechekuti zvingangoitika chero nguva pfupi. Gomera.

Pane here njodzi kana matambudziko ekuziva?

Hypnosis pachayo haina njodzi.

"Haurasikirwe nekuzvibata pahunhu hwako uri pasi pekunyepedzera," Riley anotsanangura. "Iwe haugone kuita chimwe chinhu uchinyengererwa icho chako chisina-hypnotised chako chaisazobvuma."

Zvakadaro, zvinofanirwa kuitwa nachiremba akarovedzwa uye ane hunhu!

Hypnosis unokwanisa kuve nenjodzi kana ichiitiswa nemunhu asina hunhu hypnotist. (Ehe, izvozvowo zvinogona kutaurwa nezvevasina tsika psychotherapists uye vezvechiremba zvakare.)

Iwe unowana sei mupi akachengeteka?

Pasina mubvunzo, kutsvaga "hypnosis yepabonde" paGoogle kunounza mamirioni emhedzisiro. Saka unoita sei kupokana kuti ndiani ane kodzero (uye akachengeteka!) Maringe nevasiri?

Bliliuos anoti pane zvinhu zviviri zvekutarisa mumupi:

1. kubvumidzwa, kunyanya kubva kuNational Guild yeHypnotists kana iyo International Association of Counsellors uye Therapists
2. ruzivo

Paunenge iwe wawana mumwe munhu ane izvo zviviri zvinhu, nyanzvi zhinji dzinopa runhare rwekubvunzana kuti uone kana chakaringana.

Pane iyi kufona iwe yaunoda kudzidza:

• Chii ichi hypnotist chinoita? Vane ruzivo rwekushanda nevanhu neangu chaiwo kusagadzikana pabonde?
• Ini ndinonzwa kugadzikana nenyanzvi iyi here? Ndinonzwa ndakachengeteka here?

Ndekupi kwaunogona kudzidza zvakawanda?

Riley yeYouTube chiteshi, "Kutengesa mumaSpredishiti," inzvimbo yakanaka kutanga.

Muchokwadi, iye ane episode imwe chete, "The Big O," uko iwe kwaunogona kumutarisa achitungamira mumwe munhu ane anorgasmia kune orgasm kuti uwane pfungwa yeizvo chaizvo chikamu chinosanganisira.

Zvimwe zviwanikwa zvinosanganisira:

• "Kugadzirisa Kushungurudzwa Pabonde: Solution-Focused Therapy uye Ericksonian Hypnosis yeVakuru Vakapona" naJvonne Dolan
• "Inotungamirwa Yega-Hypnosis: Kukunda Vaginismus" naAnna Thompson
• "Tarisa Mumeso Angu: Mashandisiro Aungaita Hypnosis Kuburitsa Zvakanakisa Muhupenyu Hwako Bonde" naPeter Masters

Gabrielle Kassel ndeyeNew York-yakavakirwa pabonde uye hutano munyori uye CrossFit Level 1 Mudzidzisi. Iye ave munhu wemangwanani, akaedzwa anopfuura mazana maviri vibrator, uye akadya, akadhakwa, uye nekukweshwa nemazimbe - zvese muzita rezvenhau. Munguva yake yemahara, anogona kuwanikwa achiverenga mabhuku ekuzvibatsira uye enganonyorwa dzerudo, kumanikidza bhenji, kana kutamba matanda. Mutevere pa Instagram.