Shawn Johnson Akawana Chaiye Nezve 'Amai Mhosva' Mushure meKusarudza Kusamuyamwisa

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Kana paine chero chinhu Shawn Johnson nemurume wake Andrew East, vakadzidza mumwedzi mitatu kubva zvavakagamuchira mwana wavo wekutanga munyika, ndiko kuti kuchinjika kwakakosha.

Mazuva matatu vabereki vatsva vauya nemwanasikana wavo Drew, kumba vachibva kuchipatara vakaremerwa nekupopota kwake kusingaperi. Akanga asiri kuseka, kufamba iye had nyanzvi pachipatara, uye aishandisa tambo dzake diki diki kuti ave nechokwadi chekuti vese vari mumba vanozviziva. “Aive akafanana, Ini handichadi kuita izvi futi, ”Johnson anoudza Chimiro.

Vaviri ava vaive vakagadzwa pakuyamwisa, asi zvisinei nekuti vakaedza sei kudzora uye varairidzi vavakaunza kuti vabatsire, Drew akange asina izvozvo. Nguva pfupi yapfuura, vakadana munzvimbo dzakakodzera-pombi yemazamu nebhodhoro. "Ndinoyeuka ndichipomba kekutanga, ndichimupa bhodhoro, uye akafara pakarepo," anodaro Johnson. "Unogona kuziva kuti ndizvo zvakamunakira."

Kudyisa mabhodhoro kwaishanda zvakanaka kusvika, mavhiki maviri gare gare, zvakava pachena kuti Johnson akanga asiri kuburitsa mukaka waamai wakakwana. Pahumwe husiku hwakaoma, hwakazara misodzi, East anoti akapinda-muzere baba maitiro uye akatanga kutsvaga nzira dzakanakisisa dzemukaka wemukaka. Akasvika paEnfamil Enspire, uye vaviri ava (vave vatauriri vechiratidzo) vakazofunga kuwedzera mukaka waJohnson nefomati.

Havasi ivo chete vabereki vatsva vari kuita sarudzo iyi, futi. Kunyangwe paAmerican Academy of Pediatrics 'kurudziro yekuyamwisa chete kwemwedzi mitanhatu yehupenyu, isingasviki hafu yevacheche vanoyamwa chete mumwedzi mitatu yekutanga, uye huwandu uhu hunodonha kusvika pa25 muzana pamwedzi mitanhatu, maererano Nzvimbo dzeDziviriro Kudzora uye Kudzivirira. Uye, kufanana naJohnson, vamwe vanaamai vangasarudza kuwedzera kana kuti kudyisa nomukaka bedzi kana vasiri kubudisa mukaka wakakwana, vaine zvimwe zvirwere, vachidzokera kubasa, kana kuti kuva nomwana ari kurwara kana kuti anoberekwa nguva isati yakwana. (ICYMI, Serena Williams akarega kuyamwisa kugadzirira Wimbledon.)

Kuna Johnson, kutsauka kubva pakufunga kuti "zamu rakanakisa" nekudyisa mwanasikana wake mukaka wemukaka uye fomula kubva mubhodhoro yaive sarudzo chaiyo, asi zvakaramba zvichimunetsa nemhosva. “Ndinonzwa sekuti kune chiseko chakadaro kunze uko zvokuti kana usiri kuyamwisa, neimwe nzira unenge uchitotadza kumwana wako,” anodaro Johnson. "Kunzwa kunotyisa saamai, kunzwa sekunge urikupfupika, uye handifunge kuti amai vanofanirwa kunzwa saizvozvo nekuti havasi."

Iko kumanikidza kuve "akakwana" amai hakuwire chete kune maOlympic menduru yegoridhe. Hafu yavanaamai vatsva inozvidemba, kunyara, kuva nemhaka, kana kuti hasha (zvikurukuru nemhaka yezvinetso zvisingakarirwi uye kushaikwa kwetsigiro), uye vanopfuura 70 muzana vanonzwa vachidzvinyirirwa kuita zvinhu neimwe nzira, maererano nenzvero yavanaamai 913 yakatumwa na NGUVA. Kuna Johnson, izvi zvinouya nenzira yemashoko ezuva nezuva kubva kuvanhu pasocial media - kana shamwari - vachimuudza kuti anogona kuramba achiedza kuyamwisa kana kubvunza kana anga ayedza kudzosera Drew pachipfuva chake kuti aone kana achizorora. (Related: Kureurura Kwemukadzi Uyu Zvinorwadza Nezvekuyamwisa Ndeye #SoReal)

Kunyangwe hazvo Johnson neEast vakaverenga online critiques yesarudzo yavo yekuva mubereki, ivo vakadzidza kutora ganda gobvu. Vanoedza kuzviyeuchidza ivo pachavo kuti vanofanirwa kunge vari munzira chaiyo kana mwanasikana wavo achifara, akagwinya, uye achiguta - asiri kuzhamba nekuchema. KuEast, kusuduruka kubva kuchirongwa chavo chekutanga chekudyisa kwave kutoita kuti imba yavo isimbe: Nekutora pane yakawanda mutoro, anokwanisa kuratidza Johnson kuti akaisa mari uye anoda kuita chero chaanogona, anodaro. Uyezve, Mabvazuva ave kukwanisa kuva nenguva dzepedyo nemikana yekubatana nemwanasikana wake waangadai asina.

Uye kuna vanaamai vanonzwa vachimanikidzirwa kurera mwana wavo neimwe nzira kana kuti kutongerwa kusiyana nechimiro chazvino, Johnson anongova nezano rimwe chete rezano: Ratirira iwe nemwana wako. “Ndinofunga kuti, sevabereki, hamugoni kuteerera vamwe vanhu,” anodaro. “Vari kuparidza zvakavabatsira, saka vanofunga kuti zvakarurama. Asi iwe unongoda kuona izvo zvakakunakira iwe. Ndiyo chete nzira yauchapona nayo. "

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