Kukura Mhuri Yako Kuburikidza neGestational surrogacy

Zvemukati

• Nei uchisarudza kuberekera?
• Mhando dzekuzvimiririra
• Maitiro ekuti uwane wekutsiva
• Maitiro ekuti abvumirwe
• Zvinoitika sei, nhanho-nhanho
• Izvi zvichaita marii?
• Kubhadhara kwese
• Kuongorora
• Mari dzemutemo
• Zvimwe zvinodhura
• Zvakadiniko nezvevabereki vechinyakare?
• Inishuwarenzi yehutano inovhara chero mutengo?
• Nyaya dzemitemo dzekufunga nezvadzo
• Dzisingafungidzirwe nyaya ne surrogacy
• Tsamba kune avo vanofunga kuve vanobatirira
• Kutora

David Prado / Kubatana

Chii chakafanana naKim Kardashian, Sarah Jessica Parker, Neil Patrick Harris, naJimmy Fallon? Ivo vese vane mukurumbira - ichokwadi. Asi ivo zvakare vashandisa vese gestational surrogate kukura mhuri dzavo.

Sekuzivikanwa kwevanhu vanozivikanwa, kune nzira dzakawanda dzekuva nevana mazuva ano. Uye sezvo tekinoroji ichifambira mberi, saizvozvowo sarudzo. Vanhu vazhinji uye vazhinji vari kutendeukira kune surrogacy.

Kunyangwe iwe uchigona kubatanidza ichi chiito nenyeredzi dzemamuvhi nevapfumi, hezvino izvo zvaunogona kutarisira - kubva pane zvakajairika kuita kune yakazara mutengo - kana iwe uchifunga kuti nzira iyi inogona kunge iri yakanaka mutambo wemhuri yako.

Nei uchisarudza kuberekera?

Chokutanga kunouya rudo, kwozouya muchato, kwouya mwana mucheche yengoro. Rwiyo rwekare chokwadi runosiya zvakawanda kunze, handizvo here?

Ehe, surrogacy inogona kubatsira kuzadza mamwe eaya iwo gumi e12 kusvika ku15 muzana yevakaroora vanosangana nenyaya dzekushaya mbereko - pamwe nevamwewo vanoda kuve nevana vekubereka uye vari mune mamwe mamiriro.

Kune zvikonzero zvakawanda vanhu vanosarudza kuberekera vamwe:

• Hutano nyaya dzinodzivirira mukadzi kubva pakubata pamuviri kana kutakura nhumbu kusvika panguva.
• Nyaya dzekushaya mbereko dzinodzivirira vakaroorana kubva pakubata kana kugara nepamuviri, senge kudzokororwa kwepamuviri.
• Vakadzi-bonde vakaroorana vanoshuvira kuve nevana. Izvi zvinogona kuve varume vaviri, asi vakadzi vanowanawo iyi sarudzo inokwezva nekuti zai uye inokonzeresa embryo kubva kune mumwe mudiwa inogona kuendeswa nekutakurwa neumwe mudiwa.
• Vanhu vasina murume vanoda kuve nevana vekubereka.

Inoenderana: Zvese zvaunoda kuti uzive nezve kushaya mbereko

Mhando dzekuzvimiririra

Izwi rekuti "surrogacy" rinowanzo shandiswa kutsanangura zviitiko zvakasiyana.

• A wekutakura inotakura nhumbu yemunhu kana vaviri vachishandisa zai risiri rekutakura. Izai rinogona kubva kune angave amai vakatarisirwa kana mupi. Saizvozvowo, urume hunogona kubva kuna baba vaida kana mupi. Kubata kunowanikwa kuburikidza ne in vitro fertilization (IVF).
• A chinyakare kuberekera vese vanopa zai rake uye vanotakura nhumbu yemunhu kana vaviri. Iyo nhumbu inowanzozadzikiswa kuburikidza ne intrauterine insemination (IUI) ine urume kubva kuna baba vakatarisirwa. Urume hunopa hunogona zvakare kushandiswa.

Sekureva kwesangano reSouthern Surrogacy, vatakuri vezvekuita zamu zvave kujairika kupfuura zvevabereki vechinyakare. Nei izvi? Sezvo munhu wechivanhu akazvipa ega zai rake, iye nehunyanzvi zvakare ndiye zvipenyu mai vemwana.

Kunyangwe izvi zvichinyatso kuitika mushe, zvinogona kuumba nyaya dzakaomarara dzemitemo nedzemirangariro. Muchokwadi, nyika dzinoverengeka dzine mitemo inopesana nekuberekerwa kwechinyakare nekuda kwezvikonzero izvi.

Maitiro ekuti uwane wekutsiva

Vamwe vanhu vanowana shamwari kana nhengo yemhuri iyo iri kuda kushanda seyakavharirwa. Vamwe vanotendeukira kumasangano ekuberekera mumwe mukadzi - muUnited States kana kunze - kuti vawane mutambo wakanaka. MaAgency anotanga kukwikwidza screen kuti vaone kuti vanosangana nematanho anoenderana nemaitiro acho. Vanobva vayambuka-kuenzanisa zvako zvaunoda / zvinoda kutsvaga yakanakira mamiriro emhuri yako.

Hauzive pekutangira? Asingabatsiri boka reSocial for Ethics muIzai Kupa uye Kuzvidzivirira (SEEDS) rakagadzirwa kuti riongorore uye chengetedze nyaya dzetsika dzakakomberedza kupiwa kwezai uye kuzvitakura. Iri boka rinochengeta dhairekitori renhengo rinogona kukubatsira iwe kuwana vamiririri munharaunda yako.

Maitiro ekuti abvumirwe

Iwo hunhu hwekuva gestational surrogate anosiyana ne agency, asi zvinosanganisira zvinhu zvakaita se:

• Zera. Vadzidzi vanofanira kunge vari pakati pemakore makumi maviri nemana nemakore makumi mashanu nemashanu. Zvekare, iyo yakasarudzika renji inosiyana nenzvimbo.
• Kubereka kumashure. Ivo zvakare vanofanirwa kunge vakatakura kamwechete kubata - pasina matambudziko - kusvika temu asi vane mashoma pane mashanu echikadzi kuburitsa uye zvikamu zviviri zvekusiyiwa.
• Mararamiro. Vanoberekera vamwe vanofanira kugara mumusha unotsigira, sekusimbiswa nechidzidzo chepamusha. Kushandisa zvinodhaka uye doro zvisina kukodzera ndezvimwe zvinhu.
• Miedzo. Pamusoro pezvo, vangangozvimiririra vanofanirwa kuve nehutano hwepfungwa kuongorora, kwakakwana kwemuviri - kusanganisira kuongororwa kwehutachiona hwepabonde (STIs).

Vabereki vane chinangwa vane zvimwe zvinodiwa kuti vasangane zvakare. Izvi zvinosanganisira:

• kupa nhoroondo dzakakwana dzehutano
• kuva nemiedzo yepanyama kuti vaone kuti vanokwanisa kubudirira kubudikidza ne in vitro fertilization yekudzosera macircuit
• kuongororwa kwezvirwere zvinotapukira
• kuyedza zvimwe zvirwere zvinokwanisa kupfuudzwa kumwana

Kuraira kwepfungwa kunokurudzirwa zvakare kuti ufukidze zvinhu zvakaita sekutarisirwa kubva pakuberekera, kupindwa muropa, kushungurudzwa, uye zvimwe zvinhu zvepfungwa.

Inoenderana: Iyo 30-zuva gwara rekubudirira IVF

Zvinoitika sei, nhanho-nhanho

Kana uchinge wawana chibereko, kuita nhumbu kunosiyana zvichienderana nekuti unoshandisa rudzi rwei.

Nevatakuri vezvekuita, maitiro anotarisa chimwe chinhu seichi:

1. Sarudza anoberekera mumwe mukadzi, kazhinji kuburikidza nesangano.
2. Gadzira chibvumirano chepamutemo uye uite kuti chiongororwe.
3. Enda nenzira yekudzosa mazai (kana uchishandisa mazai amai vakatarisirwa) kana kuwana mazai evanopa. Gadzira mazai achishandisa urume hwababa hwakagadzirirwa kana hurume hwekupa.
4. Chinjana mazai kumberi kweanotakura (surrogate) uyezve - kana zvikanamatira - tevera nhumbu. Kana ikasashanda, vabereki vakatarisirwa uye vanoberekera mumwe mwana vangateedzerazve imwe IVF kutenderera.
5. Mwana anozvarwa, panguva iyo vabereki vakatarisirwa vanowana chengeto yepamutemo yakazara sezvakataurwa muchibvumirano chepamutemo.

Vanochengetwa vechinyakare, kune rimwe divi, vari kupawo mazai avo, saka IVF haiwanzo kuve nechekuita.

1. Sarudza anoberekera mumwe.
2. Gadzira chibvumirano chepamutemo uye uite kuti chiongororwe.
3. Enda kuburikidza neiyo IUI maitiro uchishandisa iyo yakatarwa baba baba urume kana donor urume.
4. Tevera nhumbu kana - kana iyo yekutanga kutenderera ikasashanda - edza zvakare.
5. Mwana anozvarwa. Wokuzvitorera anogona kutora mutemo kubvumidza zviri pamutemo kodzero dzevabereki kumwana, uye vabereki vakatarisirwa vangangoda kupedzisa kurera kwevabereki kuwedzera kune chero chibvumirano chepamutemo chakamiswa mumatanho ekutanga ehurongwa.

Ehezve, maitiro aya anogona kunge akatosiyana zvichienderana nedunhu raunogara.

Izvi zvichaita marii?

Iyo mitengo inosanganisirwa ne surrogacy zvinoenderana nerudzi uye nekwaunogara. Muzhinji, mitengo yemutakuri wekutakura inogona kuwira kumwe pakati pe $ 90,000 ne $ 130,000 kana iwe uchifunga nezve muripo, mari yehutano, mari yepamutemo uye zvimwe zviitiko zvingamuka.

Iyo West Coast Surrogacy Agency, yakavakirwa muCalifornia yose, inonyora mutengo wayo zvakadzama pawebhusaiti yayo uye inotsanangura kuti idzi fizi dzinogona kuchinja pasina ziviso.

Kubhadhara kwese

Base mubhadharo i $ 50 000 yea new surrogate uye $ 60,000 kune vane ruzivo ma surrogate. Panogona kunge paine mari yekuwedzera futi. Semuyenzaniso:

• $ 5,000 kana nhumbu ikakonzera mapatya
• $ 10,000 yemitatu
• $ 3,000 yekuendesa carearean

Iwe unogona zvakare kuwana mari (iyo inosiyana) yezvinhu zvakaita se:

• mvumo yemwedzi nemwedzi
• akarasikirwa mibairo
• inishuwarenzi yehutano

Mariro inogona zvakare kusanganisira yakasarudzika mamiriro, sekukanzurwa IVF maekisheni, kuwedzera uye kurapa, ectopic nhumbu, kudzikisa fetus, uye mamwe mamiriro asingatarisirwe.

Kuongorora

Vanotarisira vabereki vachabhadharawo madhora chiuru ekuvhenekwa kwehutano hwepfungwa ivo pachavo, wekuzvitorera, uye mumwe weavo vanobatirana naye. Kuongorora mhosva kune mapato ese kuri kuita kuri pakati pe $ 100 ne $ 400. Kuongororwa kwechiremba kunoenderana nezvinokurudzirwa nekiriniki yeIVF.

Mari dzemutemo

Iko kune chaiko mari yakati wandei yemutemo inobatanidzwa, kubva mukunyora uye kuongorora chibvumirano ($ 2 500 uye $ 1 000, zvichiteerana) kumisikidza vabereki ($ 4,000 kusvika $ 7,000) kuvimba manejimendi account ($ 1,250). Iyo yakazara huwandu pano iri kumwe pakati pe $ 8,750 kusvika $ 11,750.

Zvimwe zvinodhura

Izvi zvinosiyana nekiriniki uye agency. Semuenzaniso, West Coast Surrogacy inokurudzira kuraira kwepfungwa kuvabereki vayo uye vanoberekera vamwe pamaminetsi makumi mapfumbamwe pamwedzi uye mushure mematanho akasiyana, sekuchinjiswa kwemumbriri. Pakazara, zvikamu izvi zvinogona kuita madhora zviuru zviviri nemazana mashanu - zvisinei, rutsigiro urwu runogona kana kusakurudzirwa nemamwe masangano.

Zvimwe zvinodhura zvinogona kusanganisira inishuwarenzi yehutano inishuwarenzi ($ 25,000), inishuwarenzi yehupenyu ($ 500), uye kugara kwehotera / mari yekufambisa inosanganisirwa neVIV cycles ($ 1,500). Vabereki vanogona zvakare kuronga kune yega yehutano inishuwarenzi ongororo ($ 275).

Zvakare, kune mamwe mamiriro akasiyana, senge mishonga yeIVF uye kuongorora kana kurasikirwa nemubairo nekuda kwekunetseka kwepamuviri, izvo zvinogona kusiyana nemutengo.

Zvakadiniko nezvevabereki vechinyakare?

Mari yako inogona kunge yakaderera neyechinyakare surrogacy nekuti hapana IVF inobatanidzwa. Mutengo weIUI ishoma uye unowanzove uine mashoma marapirwo ekurapa.

Inishuwarenzi yehutano inovhara chero mutengo?

Zvichida kwete, asi zvakaoma. Sekureva kwesangano reConceiveAbility, kwakatenderedza makumi matatu muzana ehurongwa hweinishuwarenzi yehutano hunosanganisira verbiage inonyatsotaura kuti ichaita kwete kufukidza mutengo wemukadzi pakuzvarwa. Dzakakomberedza 5 muzana inopa kufukidzwa, asi mamwe makumi matanhatu neshanu muzana ane mumvuri pane iyi nyaya.

Muchidimbu: Kune akagadzwa mazhinji, maitiro, uyezve kuzvarwa pachako kufunga nezvako. Iwe haudi isingatarisirwi uye inodhura inishuwarenzi yehutano bhiri.

Mazhinji masevhisi achakubatsira iwe kuongorora chirongwa cheinishuwarenzi hutano inishuwarenzi kuona kufukidzwa. Ivo vanogona zvakare kukurudzira kuti iwe utenge kunze kweinishuwarenzi kune anobatirira uchishandisa yakazara surrogacy inishuwarenzi zvirongwa kuburikidza nemasangano akaita seNew Life kana ART Risk Solutions.

Nyaya dzemitemo dzekufunga nezvadzo

Iko hakuna chero mitemo yemubatanidzwa yakatenderedza surrogacy. Pane kudaro, iyo mitemo inoshanda inoenderana nedunhu raunogara. Nyaya dzemitemo dzinogona kumuka kana mumwe mubereki aine hukama nehukama nemwana uye mumwe wacho asiri - kunyangwe mukadzi wekuberekera asina hukama nehupenyu.

Tsika yekuzvimiririra - kana mukadzi wekuberekera ariwo mai vekubereka - inogona kunyanya kuomarara. Pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, ungangoda kuchengetedza izvo zvinonzi pre-birth order kuti unyorwe semubereki pagwaro rekuzvarwa kana mwana achinge azvarwa. Dzimwe nyika dzinogona kusatendera izvi, kunyangwe kana vasina mitemo inorambidza kuberekera vechinyakare. Izvi zvinoreva kuti asiri-wekubereka mubereki (s) angangoda kuenda kuburikidza nekutora nzira.

Zvisinei nemamiriro ezvinhu, iyo American College of Obstetricians uye Gynecologists inokurudzira kuti mwana wekuberekera mumwe uye vabereki vakatarisirwa varonge vamiriri vezvemutemo vakazvimiririra nemagweta ane ruzivo rwekuzvarwa.

Inoenderana: Mhosva yakamhan'arwa naamai vanozvimiririra inomutsa nyaya nyowani dzemitemo, yetsika

Dzisingafungidzirwe nyaya ne surrogacy

Paunenge uchironga kuberekera mwana, zvese zvinogona kutaridzika kunge zviri nyore. Zvisinei, zvakakosha kuti uzive kuti sezvazvakaita nezvinhu zvakawanda muhupenyu, pane mikana yezvinhu zvinomuka uye kuita kuti zvinhu zviome.

Zvimwe zvekufunga:

• IVF kana IUI haisi vimbiso yekuzvitakura. Dzimwe nguva maitiro aya haashande pane yekutanga kana kunyange inotevera inotevera kuyedza. Iwe ungangoda akati wandei macircuit kuti uwane nhumbu.
• Hatidi kureva kuve Debbie Downer pano. Asi kumwe kufunga kuri kuti kunyangwe kana nhumbu ikaitika, nhumbu dzinogona.
• Sezvakangoita nenzira yechinyakare yekuzvitakura-kusvika-kubereka nzira, panogara paine mukana wezvehutano nyaya nemwana kana matambudziko neanoberekera mumwe kana kuzvarwa chaiko.
• Kubata nhumbu neIVF uye IUI kunogona kukonzera kuwanda - mapatya kana matatu.
• Nepo zvidzidzo zvemumba uye kuongororwa kwepfungwa zviri chikamu chekuongorora, ivo havagone kuvimbisa kuti vanoberekera vamwe havapindire mune hunhu hwaungafunge kuti hune njodzi. (Kune rimwe divi, vazhinji vanoberekera vamwe vana vanotakura vacheche kunze kwechishuwo chekuunza mufaro wekuva mubereki kune vanhu vangangodaro vasina kuzviona neimwe nzira.)

Tsamba kune avo vanofunga kuve vanobatirira

Kune nzira dzakasiyana dzekuti kuve mubati wechikadzi kunogona kuita zvine musoro muhupenyu hwako. Iwe unogona kuwana mari yacho ichikwezva kana kunzwa unogutsikana uchipa vaviri vaviri chimwe chinhu chavangatadze kuwana pasina rubatsiro rwako.

Zvakadaro, chisarudzo chakakura. Mhuri Inceptions Agency inoratidzira zvinhu zvishoma zvekutarisa usati waisa kunyorera.

• Iwe unozofanirwa kuzadzisa zvese zvidiki zvinodiwa - zvinosanganisira izvo zvine chekuita nezera, hutano mamiriro, nhoroondo yekubereka, uye mamiriro epfungwa - izvo zvinogona kusiyana nesangano.
• Iwe unozofanirwa kuve wakanaka nekurega kudzora panguva yepamuviri. Kunyange uri muviri wako, zvinoitika panguva yekuzvitakura hazvisi kwauri zvachose. Izvi zvinosanganisira zvinhu zvakaita sekuyedzwa zvaungasazvisarudzira wega asi izvo izvo vabereki vakatarisirwa vangangoda kuitiswa.
• Iwe zvakare unofanirwa kufunga nezve maitiro acho pachawo. Kubata pamuviri kuburikidza neIVF kunotora nzira dzinoverengeka uye mishonga. Funga kuti unonzwa sei nezvekutora jekiseni uye nemuromo zvinodhaka uye mahormone.
• Iwe uchazoda kufunga kana yako wega mhuri yakakwana. Iwe unoda vamwe vana here? Nzwisisa kuti nhumbu yega yega uye nezera rekukura, dzimwe njodzi dzezvinetso dzinogona kumuka dzinogona kukanganisa kubereka kwako.
• Unofanira kuwana mazano kubva kune vamwe vemhuri yako zvakare. Mumwe wako anonzwa sei nezve surrogacy? Ko vana vako?

Iko hakuna chaizvo mhinduro dzakarurama kana dzakashata kumibvunzo iwe yaunofanirwa kuzvibvunza iwe - izvi zvinongova zvinhu zvekufunga nezvazvo. Kuzvidzivirira kunogona kuita inoshamisa maitiro uye chipo.

Inoenderana: Kusabereka mushure mekupa mazai

Kutora

Nepo kuberekera mwana kusingawanzo kuve kuri nyore kana kujeka, vanhu vazhinji vari kusarudza iyi nzira.

Muna 1999 makanga muchingotaurwa kuUnited States. Muna 2013, nhamba iyi yakakwira kusvika pa3 432, uye iri kuramba ichikwira gore rega rega.

Icho chiitiko chakabatanidzwa asi zvirokwazvo chakakodzera kuongororwa. Kana kuberekera vamwe kuchiita sekunge kungave kuri kukodzera mhuri yako, funga kutaura nesangano riri padyo newe kuti uende pamusoro penguva, mutengo, uye chero zvimwe zvingangotariswa parwendo rwako. Kune nzira dzakawanda dzekuve mubereki - uye iyi ndeimwe yadzo.