Tess Holliday Akayamwisa Mwanakomana Wake Munguva yeVakadzi yaKurume uye Aifanira Kuzvitsanangudza
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Senge mamirioni evakadzi kutenderera nyika, Tess Holliday-nemwanakomana wake ane mwedzi minomwe, Bowie, nemurume-vakapinda muWomen's Kurume 21. Pakati pechiitiko muLos Angeles, iyo yekuwedzera-saizi modhi yakasarudza kuyamwisa mwana wake, uye semhedzisiro, zvakamushamisa kusangana nekukatyamadza pasocial media. (Chiverengo: Tess Holliday Ichangobva Kushambadza Iyo Indasitiri Yehotera Yekuitira Vaenzi Vadiki)
"Handina kunzwa kusagadzikana kana kushamisika-vanhu havana kana kunditarisa," ane makore makumi matatu nematatu akaudza VANHU. "Vanhu vanga vachingokanganwa nezvayo nekuti iMarch yaVakadzi."
Asi mushure mekunge aisa pikicha yekuyamwa kwake pachena, vanhu vakati wandei vakati hazvina kukodzera uye hazvina kuchengetedzeka kumucheche, zvinova zvinosetsa nekuda kwemamiriro ezvinhu.
Mumashoko ake, Holliday akatsanangura chisarudzo chake chokuyamwisa nokutaura kuti mwanakomana wake "ane nzara uye ... achipopota nokuti akanga akanyanya kuneta uye boka revanhu rakazadza pfungwa dzake." Asi nokutendeseka, haafanire kana kumbozvitsanangura pakutanga.
"Ini ndinongofunga kuti mashoko acho ndeeupenzi, nekuda kwepandiri uye nokuti ndakadzivirirwa pasi pemutemo muCalifornia uye dzimwe nyika dzakawanda kuti ndiyamwise," akaenderera mberi achiudza VANHU. "Ini ndanga ndisingadi kuti nditaure chirevo, asi pandakaona iyo foto ndakaona kuti yaive nesimba rakadii, kunyanya navo vachicheka mari kuzvirongwa zvakawanda zvakadaro zvinotsigira vakadzi nanamai."
Uye kunyangwe zvingave zvakanaka dai taigara munyika umo vakadzi vaisafanirwa kupa tsananguro yekusarudza kuyamwisa mwana wavo, Holliday akavimbisa vavengi vake kuti haana kuisa mwanakomana wake munjodzi uye kuti aisatarisira kuvhota kuve kwakakura sezvazvaive. Vanoronga vaive vafungidzira vafambi makumi masere makumi masere muLa, asi huwandu hwacho hwaive hwakatenderedza mazana manomwe nemakumi manomwe ezviuru.
"Ini ndaida chaizvo kutora Bowie nekuti yaive nhoroondo, uye ndaida kuti ave chikamu chayo," anodaro. "Akanga asiri munjodzi chero nguva. Yaive yakachengeteka, yaive nerunyararo, handina kumbonzwa kutya."
Sezvineiwo, zvinoita sekunge mwana waHolliday akashamisa vanhu vaifamba, avo vanonzi vaive vasina chimwe chinhu kunze kwezvakanaka zvekutaura.
"Ini handina mwana iwe, Bowie anga akaita senyeredzi yechero nzvimbo yataive," akadaro Holliday. “Vanhu vaiti, ‘Nhai mwari wangu, mwana akatanga kupikisa! Ndinofunga kuti ndakanzwa izvozvo kazana. Paive nevakadzi ipapo mune yavo 60s vachiti, 'Isu takaitira izvi Roe v. Wade semakore makumi mana apfuura.' Kwanga kuchitonhorera chaizvo. "
"Munhu wose aitsigira, uye vanhu pavakaona Bowie zviso zvavo zvakavhenekera. Ndaizozviita zvakare, uye ndaizoita chinhu chimwe chete zvakare. "