Kurwisa Kwakaita Sei Kubatsira Paige VanZant Cope neKudheerera nekushungurudzwa pabonde

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Vashoma chete vanhu vanogona kubata yavo muOctagon zvakangofanana neMMA murwi Paige VanZant. Asi, badass ane makore makumi maviri nemasere isu tese tinoziva ane zvakapfuura izvo vazhinji vasingazive: Akatambura zvakanyanya kuti apedze chikoro chepamusoro uye akatofunga zvekuzviuraya mushure mekushungurudzwa zvakanyanya nekubatwa chibharo aine makore gumi nemana chete.

"Kupfuura nemhando ipi neipi yekushusha pazera chero ripi zvaro kunogona kukuvadza uye kushushikana mupfungwa," VanZant anoudza Chimiro. (Zvakafanana: Uropi Hwako Pakudheerera) "Ndichiri kubata nezvimwe zvezvakasara zvinokanganisa muhupenyu hwangu hwezuva nezuva. Ndakadzidza kurarama nemarwadzo uye ndakatsvaga nzira dzekuenderera mberi nehupenyu hwangu."

VanZant, anova mumiriri weReebok, akatsanangura zvaakaona nekushungurudzwa mune yake memoir, Simuka. "Ndinovimba kuti bhuku rangu rinogona kukanganisa vanhu pasi rose uye kuratidza kuti kudheerera kunogona kukanganisa hupenyu hwemumwe munhu," anodaro. "Ndinovimba kushandura vanodheerera kubva mukati nekuratidza vakaurayiwa kuti havasi vega."

Nepo VanZant anga achitaura pachena nevateveri vake nezvekushungurudzwa, kutaura nezve ruzivo rwake nekushungurudzwa pabonde hakuna kumbove kuri nyore kwaari. Zvikuru zvekuti iye akapotsa asina kugovana ruzivo rwake mubhuku rake.

"Ndanga ndichishanda pabhuku rangu kwemakore angangoita maviri, uye panguva iyoyo, #MeToo kufamba kwakazobuda," anodaro. "Kutenda kushingi kwevakadzi vazhinji, ini handina kunzwa kusurukirwa murwendo rwangu uye ndainzwa chivimbo chakakwana chekugovana zvanga zvaitika. Ndakawana nyaradzo yakawanda pakuziva kuti kune vamwe vakaita seni. Ndinodada nevese ava vakadzi vachiuya mberi uye ndinovimba manzwi edu nenyaya dzinoshandura ramangwana uye kuti zvive nyore kuvakadzi kutaura."

Vakadzi vesangano re #MeToo vangangodaro vakapa VanZant simba rekugovana nyaya yake, asi kurwa ndiko kwakamubatsira kupfuura muzvikamu zvinoshungurudza zvehupenyu hwake. “Kuwana kurwa kwakaponesa upenyu hwangu,” anodaro. "Ndakanga ndiri munzvimbo ine rima yakadaro mushure mekushungurudzika kwandakapinda nako. Zvakatora nguva yakareba kwazvo kuti ndinzwe ndakasununguka mune chero rudzi rwechinzvimbo apo pfungwa dzaive pandiri. Ndaida kusanganisa zvakanyanya sezvandaigona. Kunyange "pamakore gumi nemashanu, ndaigona kutya nekuti ndaitya kuenda kuchikoro ndega." (Yakabatana: Chaiyo Nyaya dzeVakadzi Vakashungurudzwa Pabonde Pavaishanda Kunze)

Yakanga iri panguva ino iyo baba vaVanZant vakamukurudzira kuti aedze kurwa-achitarisira kuti zvaizomubatsira kumupa simba neimwe nzira. Uye nokufamba kwenguva, zvakaita izvozvo chaizvo. "Baba vangu vaifanira kujoina MMA yekurovedza muviri kwemwedzi uye kuenda kukirasi yega yega neni kusvika ndainzwa kusununguka ipapo," VanZant anodaro. "Zvishoma nezvishoma ndakawana chivimbo changu kumashure uye ndakaguma ndiri pachinhanho chandiri nhasi. Zvakatora nguva yakareba, asi ndakazopedzisira ndanzwa zvirinani uye ikozvino handina tsinga dzapinda mukamuri ndichishamisika kuti vanhu varikufungei nezvangu." " (Pane chikonzero nei supermodel Gisele Bündchen achipika neMMA yemuviri wakasimba uye kunetseka mupfungwa.)

Zvisinei nezvauri kusangana nazvo, VanZant anonzwa kuti kudzidza kuzvidzivirira, mune chero chinzvimbo, kunogona kuve sosi hombe yekupa simba. "Kupinda munzvimbo yekurovedza muviri kana yekirasi yekuzvidzivirira, kunyangwe isiri yekudzidza kurwisa vanhu chaiko, zvinokupa kuvimba kwakanyanya mauri uye nekukupa iwe neboka rakanaka revanhu kuti uvepo," anoti. (Heano zvimwe zvikonzero zvishoma nei uchifanira kupa MMA pfuti.)

Iye zvino, VanZant arikushandisa chikuva chake kukurudzira vakadzi kuti vawane kuvimba uye kuzvikoshesa, kunyangwe mune rima nguva. “Ndinoshuvira chaizvo kuti vanhukadzi, kunyanya, vachaverenga bhuku rangu nekuteerera nyaya yangu,” anodaro. "Vakadzi vanonetseka zvakanyanya nekuzviremekedza uye nyaya dzekuvimba. Uye kana iwe ukawedzera kudheerera mumusanganiswa, hupenyu hunogona kusviba. Ndiri kungoda kuti vanhu vazive kuti havasi vega uye pane nzira dzekushandira kusuruvara."

Maprops makuru kuVanZant ekuwana hushingi hwekugovana nyaya yake uye kukurudzira vakadzi vazhinji mukuita.

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