Ndakaenda Pamazuva Ekutanga Via Vhidhiyo Yekutaura Panguva yeCOVID-19 Quarantine-Heino Mawaniro Avakaita

Zvemukati

• Iyo Set-Up
• Vhidhiyo Yangu Yekutanga Mazuva
• Zuva 1: The Stateside Baker
• Date 2: The Local American
• Zuva 3: Iyo Inongoitika yeLondoner
• Vanotora
• Virtual Yekutanga Zuva Dos & Usaite
• Ongororo ye

Handingati ndine hupenyu hunonyanya kufambidzana hwekufambidzana. Panyaya yekubuda uye kuyedza kufambidzana nevanhu, zvakanaka, ndinoyamwa pachikamu ichocho. Kunyangwe pandinenge ndapedza maawa ndichitsvaira pamaapp ekupfimbana, ndaigara ndichinetsekana kuti ndibvume kusangana nemunhu. Pane zvakawanda noise pa dating apps. (Uye, nhau yechokwadi: Inogona kukuvadza kuzviremekedza kwako.) Kunze kwaizvozvo, ndagara ndiri rudzi rwomunhu anowira murudo netsaona—anowira shamwari, anosangana nomumwe munhu parwendo, anofirwa neshamwari. yeshamwari inenge iri muguta. Ichi chose chakagadzirwa, chakasarudzika kufambidzana chinhu chinoratidzika kutora kunakidzwa uye kuzvidzora kubva mazviri, zvirinani kwandiri.

Zvakadaro, sevanhu vazhinji, ini ndinoda iyo pfungwa yekufambidzana. Ini ndinoda kuti sarudzo iripo. Saka apo Mexico City — kwandiri kugara parizvino — payakapihwa mvumo yekugara pamba pamba muna Kurume, handina kunyanya kushushikana nezvekuguma kwehupenyu hwangu hwekufambidzana. Kune zvese zvavanokanganisa, mushure mezvose, kufambidzana maapplication ingangoita nzira yakanaka yekubuda mumba nekusangana nevanhu vanogona kuve shamwari (izvo zvaive zvakakosha kwandiri, semunhu aive nemavhiki matatu achigara muguta idzva uye hapana aiziva chero munhu). Ndaityira kuti nzanga yangu yaizokura yaizotonhora, kana yakwana, uye yaizodzikama, zvakanyanya. (Ona: Maitiro eCoronavirus Ari Kuchinja Kudanana Kwenharaunda)

Saka, ndakaronga zano: Kuti ndizvimanikidzire kuenda kunze uko (nedimikira, hongu), ndakazvidenha kuti ndiende pavhidhiyo mazuva ekutanga, ndokukanda nyaya nezvazvo (hesi, urikuiverenga), kuti undibate. unozvidavirira kuzviita chaizvo.

Nepo ruzivo, pane rwose, rwakave rwakavhenganiswa bhegi, ndakashamisika ndakazviwana ndiri mutendi.

Iyo Set-Up

Ini ndinowana iyo yekutanga sosi yekumisikidza imwe FaceTime inonetsa zvakanyanya. Hapana munhu, ini ndakasanganisira, anoita kunge ane hunyanzvi hwekuvharira mameseji ekutamba. Kufambidzana maapplication kunetsa pasi pechakanyanya mamiriro, asi kazhinji, hurukuro diki yekutanga inorwadza inongogara kwemameseji mashoma usati wabvuma kusangana kudya kwemanheru, kunwa, kana - ndapota bata mutongo - Super Chipiri yekutarisa pati ne Mexico City chitsauko chemaDemocrat Kunze kwenyika (yakaipa zuva rekutanga zano, ndinoziva. Ini ... handina pembedzo. Ini ndanga ndisingade kuona kukundwa kwaElizabeth Warren ndega, OK?).

Pfungwa yekuzeya mukati meese mameseji ekutanga anotyisa kusangana inongotora zvese zverudo kubva mairi kwandiri. Saka ini ndichifananidza neakawanda evakomana paHinge neBumble, maitiro ekusvika kune iyo "regai titaure vhidhiyo" poindi haina kufadza kwandiri zvekuti ndangoenda pamazuva matatu ekutanga evhidhiyo. Uye mumwe chete weavo aive nemumwe munhu wandakafananidza naye post-quarantine. Kunyange zvakadaro, heino muparadzi: Parizvino, zvinoita sekunge zvakakodzera kunetsa. (Yakabatana: Kufambidzana Mapurogiramu ehutano uye Vanofarira Kusimba)

Vhidhiyo Yangu Yekutanga Mazuva

Zuva 1: The Stateside Baker

Zuva rekutanga raive neshamwari yeshamwari. Ngatimudane kuti Dave. Anogara kuMaryland, nyika yandisina kuronga kushanyira. Asi ndeye quarantine, handiti? Hatifanirwe kuona vanhu vari mumaguta edu, kunyangwe vachigara mhiri kwemugwagwa, ndoda kudanana navo. Izvi zvinoreva chaizvo munhu wose hazvidiwi nenzvimbo.

Ini NdatarisanaTimed Dave kubva kuIpad yangu padenga reimba yangu yekuvaka, iyo yandaifunga kuti ichave inonakidza kumashure kupfuura iyo yakajeka chena madziro mune yangu yekurara. Asi zvinozoitika ndezvokuti, ini naDave tose tinoda kubika chingwa, uye sezvo ari mumiriri wedare neni takapedza makore akati wandei tiri mutori wenhau dzemhosva, takava nezvakawanda zvokutaura nezvazvo. Iyo hurukuro yakayerera nyore. Handizive kuti ndakatarisira kuti vhidhiyo yekutanga zuva rigare kwenguva yakareba sei, asi ini handina kufunga nezvekukurumidza kunyura kwezuva pandakafungidzira kuti kuvhenekera kwechisikigo kwaizoita kuti nditaridzike zvirinani pavhidhiyo. Sezvo ini ndakapedzisira ndapinda mumumvuri weasinga zivikanwe sosi pane yechokwadi mhosva yekuratidzira, ndakazvidimbura ndikacheka ndokuonekana. Kunyangwe isu tisati taseta zuva rechipiri, Dave airatidzika kunge mukuru, mumwe munhu wandingazoda kutandara naye muhupenyu chaihwo. Takaenderera mberi nekutumirana mameseji nezve mapurojekiti edu ekubikira ega ega, andakafarira.

Date 2: The Local American

Zuva rangu rechipiri rekutanga raive nemukomana anobva kuU.S. aigara kuMexico City. Tichamudaidza kuti Brad. Hinge mbiri yake inoti arikutsvaga "musikana asingabvumirane" uyo "asingazonyunyute nharo ine hutano." Sezvingatarisirwa, mutsetse wangu wekuvhura nerdy waive, "Hola! Aimbove mukuru wekupokana chikoro chesekondari achimhan'arira basa." Akatora chirauro, uye patakabvuma kutaura nevhidhiyo mazuva mashoma gare gare, akatumira kukoka chaiko kukero yangu yeemail neZoom link — uye nguva yekupedzisira. Iri raifanira kuve zuva remaminitsi makumi matatu. Nguva pfupi asati afona, akatumira meseji kuratidza kuti hatipedze nguva tichigadzirira kufona. "Ingouya sezvauri," akadaro, "uye tichazopa mumwe nemumwe kubatsirwa kwekusahadzika kuti isu taizowanzo tarisa 20-30 muzana zvirinani kumatunhu edu asina apocalypse aine bvudzi rakajairwa, makeup, nezvimwe." Ndakabvuma — asi ipapo ndakabva ndachinja mbatya dzese dzemumba dzakange dzakashata dzandaive ndakapfeka ndokupfeka rakapfekera, nhema tangi teki.

Takakurukura nezvebasa redu, mafambiro edu, makirasi aari kutora izvozvi. Zuva redu chairo repamutemo rakapera nepfupiso yekufona: Ndiri kufarira, Brad akazivisa, kana zvirinani kuti ndakanaka kunyepedzera kuva zvakadaro. Anondiwana ndiine chitarisiko chakanaka (ndatenda, Zoom touch-up chimiro). Tinofanira kuita magariro-kure, mu-munhu zuva, akadaro (ndakaramba nekutya kutapurirana), uye takabvumirana kutaura zvakare munguva pfupi. Brad aive akanaka. Aifadza. Akataura kuti isu tiedze psychedelic zvinodhaka pamwechete, takaparadzanisa, paZoom, seimwe nzira yekufamba famba mupaki. (Ini ndakaramba izvi, zvakare, zvakanyanya kukuodza moyo kwevamwe shamwari vakandikurudzira kuti ndiende nazvo uye ndinorekodha kufona.) Dai nguva dzaive dzakasiyana, ndingadai ndakabvuma kusangana kuzodya, kuti ndione kana paive ne-- spark yemunhu iyo Zoom yaisakwanisa kuburitsa. Asi mameseji edu anga asinga shomeke kubva kufona kwedu, izvo zvandichazvipa mhosva pachangu, uye nhaurirano yedu yanyanya kuparara.

Zuva 3: Iyo Inongoitika yeLondoner

Zuva rechitatu rave, kusvika parizvino, raiita kunge chitarisiko. Yakanga iri yaingoerekana yaitika, yakasarudzika, yakavimbisa, uye isingaite: Hatisi chete takaparadzaniswa nekuvharirwa, asiwo neAtlantic Ocean. Takabatana paHinge kumashure munaKukadzi, mavhiki maviri asati aronga kushanyira Mexico City kubva kuLondon. Asi zuva raakasvika pano ndiro zuva randakatanga kunetsekana chaizvo nezve COVID-19, zuva rakatevera rekufunga kuti ndanga ndabuda kumunhu wangu wekupedzisira soiree neshamwari (cherekedza: iro vhiki, makesi akasimbiswa muMexico anga achiripo chete mumadhijiti maviri nyika yese). Kuenda kunofambidzana nomumwe munhu akanga achangosvika achibva kunyika yakanga yawirwa nedambudziko kwakaratidzika kuva pfungwa yakaipa, naizvozvo ndakaramba kuonana naye. Akabhururuka achidzokera kuU.K. nekukurumidza, sezvakaita vafambi vazhinji svondo iroro, uye ndakafunga kuti ndizvozvo. Asi ipapo nguva yangu yekupedzisira yeiyi nyaya yakakurumidza kusvika uye ini ndakanga ndichiri zuva rimwe pfupi pachinangwa changu, uye ndakafunga, nei kwete. Pamwe iyi ingave iri hilarious flop yandanga ndichitarisira.

Kunyangwe zvangu ndaive ndaisa kwake oga-ndakamunyadzisa kuburikidza neemaimeseji epa Instagram, akabvuma, uye takangoerekana tatanga Instagram vhidhiyo yekutaura pakati pevhiki revhiki. Hurukuro yacho yakayerera kunge takanga tatoonana, uye maminitsi makumi mana nemashanu akamhanya. Takataura nezvemhuri dzedu, kufamba, zvematongerwo enyika, kubika, uye kusurukirwa panguva yekugara. Akabata runhare rwake nepahwindo London payakatanga kufara kwehusiku hwevashandi vehutano kuti ini ndinzwewo, uye zvaifadza kuona manzwiro ake achipenya paakapinda. Ndakasuwa kuti ndakadimbura runhare apo sero yangu yakanga yave kufa. foni bhatiri yakandiyeuchidza kuti ndaifanira kudzokera kubasa. Kwangopfuura vhiki gare gare, kufona kwedu kwechipiri kwevhidhiyo (zvakangoitikawo), kwakatora maawa matatu. Kubva pave nechitatu nechina. 'Handidi kushanya kuLondon kana izvi zvapera,' ndinoramba ndichifunga. 'Ndechipi chikonzero chandinogona kuwana icho?' Ndizvozvo kwete kwandaitarisira iyi vhidhiyo yekufambidzana nedambudziko kunditora.

Vanotora

Dai misangano yedu yekutanga yanga iri muhupenyu chaihwo, ini ndinogona kunge ndakaenda pane akati wandei madhiri nemumwe weava varume. Asi zvinoita sekunge zvakajeka kwandiri ikozvino kuti yakapfava gut cheki ndiyo nzira yakanakisa yekusarudza mafambiro aungaita kana uchifambidzana. Iwe unonzwa here kuti maminetsi arikupfuura, kana iwe uri musina kuchinja kuchinja hurukuro mumamiriro ekuyerera uye kuvhunduka kuziva kuti inguvai yakawanda yadarika? Iwe une shungu here kuronga rwechipiri kufona, kana iwe unozviwana iwe uchiona uchingozvisiya? Uno kuda kuzovaonazve? Zvinonzwa zviri nyore here? Kana mhinduro kumibvunzo yese iyi iri hungu, enda kutenderera maviri. (Yakabatana: 5 Zvinhu Zvese Munhu wese Anofanirwa Kuziva Nezve Bonde uye Kudanana, Zvinoenderana nehukama Therapist)

Ini handikwanise kutaura zvakadaro kuti kuisa wega kufambidzana kunozotungamira kune chero chinhu zvachose muhupenyu chaihwo. Asi pamwe bhenefiti ye "kudanana" muchivhariso ndeyekuti zvinokwanisika kuzadzikiswa nehukama hwehukama nguva refu bonde risati rawedzera huwandu hwekunetseka. Uye ndiani anoziva-pamwe, kana izvi zvapera, zvine musoro kuchengeta misi yevhidhiyo yakatenderedza. Mushure mezvose, kubuda kune akawanda madhiri emanheru kunotora nguva yakawanda, simba, uye mari (uye pamwe zvakare kuwedzera wax). Wadii kuyedza iyo mvura kutanga usati watomboveura makumbo ako?

Virtual Yekutanga Zuva Dos & Usaite

Ini handisi nyanzvi, asi ndinogona kukuudza kuti aya mashoma evhidhiyo ekutanga mazuva akandidzidzisa zvakawanda nezve sei (uye sei kwete)kuita ichi chiitiko chakakosha. Ndinovimba, zvidzidzo zvangu zvinogona kukubatsira kuti usvetuke mberi kune zvinhu zvakanaka.

1. Ita tsvaga nzvimbo yakanyarara, yakavanzika yekutaura. Kubatidza feni mukamuri mako kunogona kugadzira ruzha ruchena rwunopa kuvanzika kwakati wandei, uye kubuda uchienda kunhanho yako yepamberi, mhanza, kuseri kwemba, kupukunyuka kwemoto, kana kona yakanyarara yenharaunda yako kunogona kukupa runyararo rwepfungwa.
2. Usadaro tumira kokero yekarenda ine nguva yekupedzisira. Rongai pachine nguva nenguva uye "nzvimbo," kureva FaceTime vs. Zoom vs. Google Hangouts vs. HouseParty (ona kuti kamuri rako "rakakiyiwa" kuitira kuti shamwari dzisina kujairika dzisaburitse usina kuziviswa), asi edza kuvimbana kuti unogona kufunga maitiro ekuratidzira pasina kuda kurova "gamuchira" pane iCal kukoka.
3. Ita funga kuti kana wakagara panze, uye muchikurukura manheru, zuva rinogona kukunyura.
4. Ita funga zviitwa zviri kure zvekugarisana zvamungaite muri pamwe chete. Airbnb ine Zviitiko zvitsva zvepaInternet izvo zvinokutendera iwe kuti utore kosi yeyoga neOlympian kana kirasi yekubika ine mhuri zviuru zvemamaira kure. Google Arts & Culture ine zviuru zvemamiziyamu ayo aunokwanisa "kushanyira" kuunganidzwa kwepamusoro-soro kwemifananidzo ine mukurumbira pasi rose uye 360-kushanya kwemagarari.Kana iwe uchigara mumaguta akasiyana kana nharaunda, funga kuita kushamwaridzana kure FaceTime kufamba rwendo.
5. Usadaro chengeta vhidhiyo kudanana nemumwe munhu kunze kwekusurukirwa. Kana iwe ukazviwana uchinetseka kuti urambe uchiita hurukuro kana kutya zuva rawakatara, pamwe chiratidzo kuti inguva yekuenderera kumberi.
6. Ita teveranai pasocial media musati mataura, kana mese muri vaviri muchishanda pachikuva chakapihwa. Izvi zvinogona kukupa hwindi muhupenyu hweumwe neumwe izvo zvinotadza kuburitsa mameseji. Zvinogona kubatsira kuti imi mese munzwe makasununguka zvishoma, sekunge makambosangana pane kunge muri kupinda mukutonhora uku.
7. Ita ita chokwadi chekuti unonzwa wakasununguka mune zvaunenge wakapfeka. Kunyange vanhu vazhinji vachifarira Zooming isina bhurukwa, ini pachangu handikwanise kuzvibata zvakanyanya kana ndichinzwa sekunge ndakapfeka koshitomu, zvinova zvinoita senge kwandiri kana ndakapfeka zvinhu zvisingaite kumusoro uye pasi. Kunyangwe ini ndisingakurudzire kuenda kunetso yekuveura makumbo ako pachifuva-kumusoro FaceTime, ini ndaikurudzira kupfeka sezvaungaita dai iwe uri kunyatso buda pane zuva, kukubatsira iwe kupinda mune iyo pfungwa.

Ongororo ye