Zvinorevei Kuva Pansexual?

Zvemukati

• Zvinorevei kuti pansexual?
• Zvepabonde ≠ polyamory
• Pansexual vs. bisexual
• Zvakajairika sei pansexuality?
• Ndinoziva sei kana ndiri pansexual?
• Ongororo ye

Dzimba dzekuzvigadzirira dzakagadzirwa naTess Holliday, Janelle Monea, Bella Thorne, Miley Cyrus, naKesha vari kuzunza maficha ako enharaunda uye nhanho nehuipi hwavo, chokwadi, tarenda uye ... pansexual kudada! Yep, iwe unoverenga izvo chaizvo. Vese ava vacheche vari kushandura nyika vanozivisa senge pansexual.

Izwi rekuti 'pansexual' rave riripo uye richishandiswa kwemazhinji-mazhinji-mazhinji makore, zvinoenderana nezvechikadzi, zvebonde, uye muongorori wemakwikwi Della V. Mosley, Ph.D., mutevedzeri purofesa wezvepfungwa kuYunivhesiti yeFlorida. Asi kana iwe uchingoerekana uchinzwa zvakanyanya uye uchishamisika kuti pansexual zvinorevei, hausi kuzvifungidzira. Mosley anofungidzira kuti, nekuti pange paine "huwandu huri kuwedzera hwevanoshamwaridzana vekunze vanozviratidza vari pansexual, kwave nekukwira mukuratidzwa kwetemu." Kunakidza chokwadi: Kune kunyange chairo pansexual mureza iyo inosanganisira yepingi, yero, uye yebhuruu mutsetse.

Zvakadaro, kuve nekukwanisa kunyora mamwe epansexual vakakurumbira kwakasiyana nekunyatso kuziva zvazvinoreva. Kana iwe uchikwenya musoro wako uchinetseka, "chii chinonzi pansexual?" wauya panzvimbo chaipo. Pazasi, Mosley naJamie LeClaire, mudzidzisi wezvepabonde anoshanda nebonde uye murume kana murume, pindura mibvunzo yako yese, kusanganisira: Chii chinonzi pansexuality? Ndeupi musiyano uripo pakati nepansexual uye bisexual? Unoziva sei kana uri pansexual?

Zvinorevei kuti pansexual?

Muchidimbu, tsananguro ye "pansexual" zvinoenderana nekuti ndiani waunobvunza. Imhaka yekuti hapana imwe, asi piri tsananguro-inogamuchirwa-yakawanda yepansexual, anodaro Mosley.

"Dzimwe nguva pansexuality inotsanangurwa sekukwezva kune mumwe munhuzvisinei nezvehunhu hwavo kana hunhu, "anodaro." Dzimwe nguva zvinotsanangurwa sekukwezva kunezvese hunhu kana murume kana murume, "anodaro, izvo zvinonyatsoratidza pane" pan- "chivakamberi, zvinoreva kuti" zvese. "

Tsanangudzo mbiri dzepansexual dzinobvuma kuti kuzivikanwa kwechikadzi kuripo pane chakatarisana. Zvinoreva, pane kungogumira kune chete murume uyemukadzi, hunhu hwemumwe munhu hunogona kuvewo agender, androgynous, bigender, kana gadzi-fluid, gadzi-queer, kana asiri-mabhinari (kungodoma mashoma). Uye pansexuality zvinoreva kuti iwe unogona kukwezva kune vanhu vanozivisa se / nechero yeaya mazita ehunhu. (Ona zvimwe: Zvazvinonyatsoreva Kuve Gender Fluid kana Kuziva Seasiri-Bhinary)

Saka, zvichitaurwa zviri nyore, chii chinonzi pansexual? "Kuita zvepabonde pabonde kunongoreva kuti unokwanisa kukwezva kune mumwe munhu uye kuti hazvinei nehunhu kana sikarudzi," anodaro LeClaire. Mukukosha, pansexual vanhu vanogona kuenda moyo-ziso-emoji kune mumwe munhu chero wepabonde, kuzivikanwa kwevakadzi, kuratidzwa kwevakadzi, kana bonde (aka nhengo dzesikarudzi).

Uye, kwete, kuve pansexualhazviiti zvinoreva kuti iwe ucharara nemumwe munhu.

Kana ukaverenga izvozvo sokuombera-kutaura, unoverenga zvakanaka. "Nharaunda yepansexual inotarisana nenhema iyi zvakanyanya pavanoburitsa hunhu hwavo kuvanhu vasingazive zvazvinoreva," anodaro Mosley. Asi pansexuality haina kufanana nehupombwe kana hupombwe. (Zvakafanana: Kangani Munhu wese Anonyatso Kuita Bonde?)

Zvepabonde ≠ polyamory

Mosley anoti imwe ngano yakajairika yaanonzwa nezvehupombwe ndeyekuti rinongova rimwe izwi kune polyamory. Hazvisi.

"Polyamory ine chekuita nekuvhurika kwekuva kana kuve neanopfuura murume mumwe panguva - zvinopesana nemurume mumwe chete, kuri kuva mune imwechete kudanana kudanana panguva," anotsanangura. Kuve pansexual hakutauri rudzi rwehukama huchaitwa nemunhu. Mumwe munhu ari pansexual anogona kusarudza kuve, uye kufara mukati, ingave ye polyamorous kana monogamous hukama, anodaro. (Ona Zvizhinji: Hezvino Icho Chaicho Chemhando Yehukama Chaicho Chaicho-uye Izvo Icho Chisiri)

Pansexual vs. bisexual

Kuda kuziva kuti musiyano wepansexuality uye bisexuality chii? Vanhu vazhinji vari. Zvakajairwa kuti vanhu vavhiringe vanhu vasiri monosexual (aka kukwezvwa nerudo kune anopfuura bonde uye murume kana murume) kuzivikanwa, anodaro LeClaire. (Iyi LGBTQ+ Glossary ichajekesa mamwe akawanda mazwi, zvakare.)

Ichokwadi: Aya mavara ane mamwe anopindirana, anodaro Mosley. Uye sekungoita zvepabonde kune tsanangudzo shoma, saka kuita bonde.

Kutanga, chii chinonzi bisexuality?

Nhoroondo, bisexuality yakatsanangurwa sekukwezva kwerudo, kukwezva kwepabonde, kana kufarira zvepabonde kune varume nevakadzi. "Tsanangudzo zhinji dzebondexual dzauchazowana mumabhuku dzakagadzirwa panguva iyo tsika nevanhuwo zvavo zvaive zvichiri kunzwisiswa kuti murume nemukadzi senge bhinari," anotsanangura kudaro LeClaire.

Nekudaro, sekunzwisisa kwevakadzi kwakachinja, ndizvo zvakaitawo tsananguro yebondexuality.Zvino, sekureva kweThe Bisexual Resource Center, bisexuality ikozvino zvinoreva "kukwezva kudanana uye / kana zvepabonde kune vanopfuura murume mumwe." Vamwe vanhu vanozvitsanangura sevanhurume nevanhukadzi vanozvitsanangura sekukwezvwa nevakomana kana vasikana 1) sevowo uye 2) kusiyana nezvavo, Leclaire anodaro, achigutsurira musoro wekutanga "bi" (zvinoreva kuti vaviri). (Heano gwara rakazara kune zvinoreva bisexual uye maitiro ekuziva kana iwe uchigona kuva bi.)

Mira, saka ndeupi musiyano uripo pakati peanopabonde uye bisexual?

Heino nzira yakanakisa yekufunga nezvazvo: Pansexuality ndiko kukwezva kune mumwe munhu zvisinei yavo yechikadzi, nepo bisexuality iri iko kukwezva kune anopfuura mumwe murume.

Kana iwe uri kufunga "ko kana ndiri vaviri?" hausi wega; vamwe vanhu vanoziva seBiPan (kanazvese bisexual uye pansexual). Nekudaro, kazhinji, avo vanozivisa senge pansexual vanozviita nekuti zvinongoenderana navo zvirinani pane mamwe asiri e-monosexual kuzivikanwa, senge bisexual.

Sezvineiwo zvakakwana, pane zvakare chinhu chakakura chetsika pakushandiswa kwemazwi aya, anodaro Mosley: "Zvinhu zvakaita sezera, dzinza, nenzvimbo zvinogona kutora chinzvimbo chikuru mune izwi rinosarudzwa nemunhu." Anecdotally, akacherekedza kuti vanhu vari pazera rekuyaruka uye makumi maviri vane mukana wekuti vashandise izwi rekuti 'pansexual' zvichienzaniswa nevaya vava mumakore avo ekupedzisira makumi matatu uye kumusoro, vane mukana wekuti vazive se 'bisexual.'

"Izvo zvinosvika, chaizvo, ndezvako zvaunofarira iwe, uye kodzero yako wega kuratidza hunhu hwako nemaonero aunoona zvakakodzera," anodaro LeClaire. "Ini pachangu ndinozvizivisa senge pansexual, asi ndinozviona sezviri pasi peamburera yakakura yebi + yezvepabonde." Vazhinji vanhu vanozviratidzira nevasiri-monosexual identities vanobvuma kuti pane nzvimbo yekuti zvese / zvese zvitupa zvivepo panguva imwe chete. (FYI, pane nyowani-ish yekusangana pabonde izwi, skoliosexual, izvo zvinopokana, asi zvakanaka kuziva zvakare.)

Ziva izvi: Kunyangwe mumwe munhu achizivisa sewe bisexual kana pansexual (kana chero chiziviso chechinhu ichocho), isarudzo yavo. Semutemo wenguva dzose, kana mumwe munhu akati vanoona sechinhu, vatende. Kana mumwe munhu achizivisa sepansexual / bisexual / nezvimwe. asi haiti 'kutarisa' kana kuita matarisiro aunotarisira kuti munhu ane chitupa aonekwe kana kuita, ndizvo Imi dambudziko. Kupurisa hunhu hwemumwe munhu hakutonhore pasi pechero mamiriro ezvinhu. (Zvakafanana: Sei Kubvunza Zuva Rako Kana Ari "Queer Enough" Hazvina kunaka)

Zvakajairika sei pansexuality?

Mubvunzo uyu unogoneka kupindura, anodaro Mosley. "Iko hakuna kukwana kwakaringana nezve pansexuality kuziva kuti zvakajairika sei, uye kashoma kutsvagurudza kunopa sarudzo kune vatori vechikamu."

Imwe 2018 rondedzero yeHuman Rights Committee yakawana kuti gumi nemana muzana ye LGBTQ + vechidiki vanozviona senge pansexual, iyo yakanyanya kukwirira kupfuura yakafanana shumo kubva muna 2012, iyo inoratidza kuti pansexuality iri kuwedzera kuwanda. Nekudaro, hapana yakajeka data pane izvo zvikamu zvevagari vese zviri pansexual.

Ndinoziva sei kana ndiri pansexual?

Iko hakuna Yepamutemo Pansexual Bvunzo iyo iwe yaunofanirwa kutora uye kupasa kuti uzive ine chitambi, uye hapana bvunzo iyo inogona kukuudza zvakajeka kana iwe uri pansexual kana kwete. Kunyangwe iwe uchiita bonde kana kudanana kana kukosheswa nevanhu vevanhukadzi vakasiyana hazvireve kuti iwe unofanirwa kuziva seanapansexual. Iwe unongova pansexual kana hunhu hwacho uchinzwa zvakanaka (kana uchinzwa iyo kunyanya kurudyi) kwauri. (Yakabatana: Sei "Kubuda Kunze" Kuvandudza Hutano Hwangu uye Mufaro)

Vamwe vanhu vanoona kuti kuva netemu kana hurongwa hwezvavari kurarama uye zvavari kusangana nazvo zvinogona kusunungura, anodaro Mosley. "Mukurapa kwangu kwese nekutsvagisa nepan / queer / bi + vanhu, ini ndinowanzo kunzwa kuti kuve nemavara uye mutauro unozvibatanidza munharaunda, kunodzora kuzviparadzanisa, kuvabatanidza kune zviwanikwa, uye kunogona kuwedzera kuve kwavo," anodaro. LeClaire anobvuma, achiwedzera kuti "kuwana chitupa chaunonzwa sekunge unogona kutaura nenzwi guru uye nekuzvikudza kunogona kupa simba uye kusunungura." Asi zvakare, zviri pane yako nguva. Vimba, nharaunda yako ichave iripo kwauri kana wagadzirira. (Yakabatana: Zvinorevei Chaizvo Kuva Queer?)

Kana iwe uchinetseka kana iwe ungave uri pabonde, Mosley anoti kutarisa kwevakadzi unicorn idanho rekutanga rakanaka. "Inopindirana chaizvo uye ichakutendera kuti ufunge nezvezvinhu zvako zvakasiyana (zvepamoyo, zvemuviri) padivi pehunhu hwako, kuratidza vakadzi, uye bonde."

LeClaire anoti Bisexual Resource Center uye bhukuHow Queer! Zvinyorwa zvemunhu kubva kune bisexual, pansexual, polysexual, zvepabonde-fluid, uye mamwe maonero asiri e-monosexualnekutenda Beauchemin zvakare zviwanikwa zvakanaka.

Ramba uchifunga: "Mafaro nematambudziko aungasangana nawo senge pansexual hazvisi kuitika mukuzviparadzanisa nevamwe," anodaro Dr. Mosley. "Saka, ndinoda kukurudzira vanhu kuti vachere zvishoma kuti vawane masosi anokodzera zvavanoda panguva ino [uye mamwe mazita avo sevakadzi, rudzi, kirasi, uye chinzvimbo chevatorwa]." Uye kune izvo, Twitter, Tumblr, uye Instagram zviri pamusoro. Zvakakomba, ma hashtag anogona kuve nezvimwe zvakakomba zvekushandisa.

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