Paasina Kuti "Ndinokuda" Kudzoka

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Kana iwe wakanyungudika uchiteerera Juan Pablo mukutonga kwake kwese The Bachelor, kungava kutadza kwake kutaura kwakaita kuti ubvunze nezvekupedzisira kwemwaka wezuro manheru.

Mushure mekunge Nikki-mukadzi waakamisa kusarudza-akataura kakawanda izwi reL kune mutambi wenhabvu wekuVenezuela, akangopindura, "Ndinokuda zvakanyanya." Akamuudzawo kuti aive nemhete yekuvimbisana muhomwe-asi aive asiri kuzoishandisa. Mashoko ake chaiwo: "Handisi 100 muzana yechokwadi kuti ndinoda kukukurudzira, asi panguva imwe chete ndine 100 muzana chokwadi kuti handidi kukurega uende."

Nepo iwe usingafanire kutora zvakawandisa rudo zvidzidzo kubva pachiratidziro chinokwikwidza vakwikwidzi kutenderera pasirese kuenda kunzvimbo dzekunze uye kuvashatisa nechikafu, zvinwiwa, nemisi ine bungee kusvetuka nekutasva bhiza, vachiti "ndinokuda" uye kusazvinzwa kumashure ndicho chinhu vazhinji vedu vatinotya.

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"Zvakajairika kuti vanhu vaviri vafambe vachimhanya zvakasiyana," anodaro Tracey Steinberg, nyanzvi yekufambidzana muNew York City. Asi kana iwe uri pa "Ndinokuda," uye ari pa "Ndinokuda," mutsauko mukuru. Bata zvakasimba uye uzvipe nguva yekupedzisira-mwedzi miviri, woti-uye wozotarisa mukati: Abata here kana kuti pane mukaha mukuru mumanzwiro enyu mese? Kuita izvi kunokupa iwe mukana wekuti hukama hwacho hukure asi hunovimbisa kuti hausi kugara wakamirira chimwe chinhu chingangoitika, Steinberg anodaro.

Munguva iyoyo, teerera zviito zvake.Akakupinza iwe muhupenyu hwake here? Anoratidza here paunenge uchida iye? Unozviratidza here kumhuri yake neshamwari? "Izvi zviratidzo zvekuti murume anokuda, kunyangwe angave asina kugadzirira kuzvitaura," anodaro Steinberg. Ehe, iwe unofanirwa kuve unozvibata iwe pachako uye zvaunoda (uye angave ari murume anogona fess kusvika pamanzwiro ake), asi kana mukomana wako ari kuita murudo, ungangoda kumupa iye zvishoma zvishoma bvuma izvozvo zvinonzwika.

Wakafungei nezve Bachelor kuguma? Wakambove nemukomana asingati "ndinokuda" kudzokera kwauri? Tiudze mune zvakataurwa pazasi kana tweet isu @Shape_Magazine.

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