Sei Kugovera Zvinyorwa Zvake Zvingakanganisa Hukama Hwako

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Kana zuva rako "Chii chiri?" mameseji anofunga WTF, hausi wega.

Nyaya iripo: kukurumbira kuri kukura kweHeTexted.com, webhusaiti paunogona kurodha skrini yemifananidzo yako uye wobvumira vanopindura kuti varemekedze pane zvaanoda. chaizvo kureva. Iyo saiti parizvino ine inodarika miriyoni 1.2 pamwedzi yakasarudzika kushanya, pamwe nerichakurumidza kuburitswa bhuku rinofambidzana, Akanyora Mameseji: Iyo Yekupedzisira Nhungamiro Yekufambidzana MuDigital Era, gwara rekuzvibatsira rakagadzirirwa kubatsira vakadzi vasina varume kufamba munyika iri kuramba ichioma ye Instagram moyo, Facebook inoda, uye emoji-yakazadzwa zvinyorwa.

Nepo saiti yekukubatsira iwe kufamba nedhijitari yekufambidzana nyika inonzwika kupenya, isu tichiri kushamisika, papi painogumira pane overanalysis? Vanamazvikokota vanobvuma kuti hapana chakaipa neapo neapo uchitsvaga imwe pfungwa yepiri kuti udecode zuva rako du jour, asi vanoyambira kuti kuvimba zvakanyanya nekunze kwekunze kunogona kukanganisa hukama hwenyu.

"Wese munhu anopa maonero ake pahukama hwako ari kuuya kubva mumaonero ake uye achiunza yake nhumbi," anodaro Jordan Harbinger, nyanzvi yehukama uye muridzi weThe Art of Charm. Mune munhu iwe unotora shamwari yako yepamoyo girazi-hafu-isina chinhu maonero neiyo tsanga yemunyu nekuti iwe unoziva kuti ari kuuya kubva kwakashata kurambana. Asi nekuda kwekuti iwe hauna kana ruzivo rwekuti vazivikanwi vanotaura varikubvepi, unogona kupa maonero avo uremu hwakawandisa kana zvasvika pakuraira kwavo pahupenyu hwako hwekufambidzana. [Tita izvi chokwadi!]

Uye kunyangwe kana munhu wese anopindura achiti iwo mameseji awakarodha anonzwika seakanaka, anogona kuramba achinetsa mhinduro, Harbinger anodaro. Paunonyanya kutaura uye kuongorora murume wauri kuona, zvishoma iwe unozofunga nezvake semunhu. Kana iwe uchipedza masikati uchimufadza nekuda kwevose "ndiye murume wako wemangwana!’ makomendi awakawana, ipapo unogona kuzogumbuka kana ukamuwana achiita kunge… munhu wenguva dzose uyo akakanganwa kuti iwe waisadya nyama (kunyangwe iwe ukamuudza izvozvo pazuva rako rekupedzisira) uye ndokubvunza kana iwe uchida kupatsanura ndiro yemapapiro ehuku.

Chekupedzisira, iyo nguva yese yawakapedza uchitarisisa pamusoro pezvinyorwa zvake zvinodimbura munguva chaiyo yekutaurirana naye. Ndosaka vanamazvikokota vachibvumirana kuti zvakanaka kuti kana wavhiringika wangonanga kutsime. "Kusvetukira kumhedziso kunouya sekushaiwa, kutsiva, kana kupenga," anodaro Jay Cataldo, wekufambidzana uye murairidzi wehukama muNew York City. "Asi kana usina chokwadi, mubvunze kuti chii chiri kuitika."

Semuenzaniso, iti iwe unowanzo tumira mameseji maawa mashoma asi akangoerekana abva radar kwezuva rese. Pane kuti ufunge, taura chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Pausina kupindura mameseji angu nezuro, zvakandiita kuti ndinzwe sokuti ndiri kukunetsa. Ndiwo manzwiro aunoita here, kana kuti wakangorohwa?"

Chance ndeye, iye aisaziva kuti yaive nyaya, Cataldo anodaro. "Izvi zvinokupa mose mukana wekugovana zvaunotarisira uye kuzivana zviri nani." [Tita matipi aya!]

Asi dzimwe nguva chinyorwa chinongofunga-kwazvo, chiri kukumbira kune vekunze maonero. Kana zvakadaro, shandisa meseji yake-yekukwenya senge yekumutumira tsamba inokumbira imwe nguva yakatarisana munguva pfupi iri kutevera.

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