Mukadzi Uyu Akaona Kuti Aifanira Kuisa Hutano Hwepfungwa Asati Aonda

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Mukutanga kwa2016, Kari Leigh akazviwana akamira muimba yake yekugezera misodzi ichiyerera kumeso mushure mekuzviyera. Pamakirogiramu mazana maviri nemazana mana, ndiye akanyanya kuremerwa pane akange ambove. Aiziva kuti chimwe chinhu chaifanira kuchinja, asi aisaziva pekutangira.

Tichifunga nezve nhoroondo yake nekusagadzikana kwekudya, yo-yo kudhayeti, uye kutsamira pakunyaradza chikafu, Kari akaziva kuti aive nemugwagwa murefu pamberi pake. "Ndaiziva kuti ndaifanira kugadzira chirongwa chemutambo nenyanzvi kana ndaida kudzidza kuva nerunyararo mukati mepfungwa nemumuviri wangu," akadaro. Chimiro. Saka akaita musangano nachiremba wake.

Kari akasiya musangano uyu aine chirwere chekushushikana uye nemushonga wakasimba weanodzvinyirira. Chiremba akamuudzawo kuti aifanira kutanga kurovedza muviri uye kuzvitarisira zvirinani kana achinyatsoda kunzwa zviri nani kwenguva refu. "Ndicho chinhu chekupedzisira chandaida kunzwa," Kari anodaro. "Panguva iyoyo, ini handina kuziva kuti ndaifanirwa kuisa basa racho mukati zvakare, kuti piritsi raisazogadzirisa matambudziko angu."

Izvo Kari aive asati azviona ndezvekuti kurwa kwake nemuviri wake kwakadzika midzi muhucheche hwake hunotambudza uye nehupenyu hunonetsa hwevanhu vakuru.

Kari anoti yakatanga gore nyowani yechikoro chesekondari, kekutanga paakanyadziswa muviri. "Mudzidzisi wangu akange andidaidza kuti ndinyore chimwe chinhu pabhodhi, uye musikana akagara kuseri kwekirasi akatanga kuita ruzha rwekutsika sekunge ndaive nzou huru," anodaro. "Hazvina kundirova kusvika pandakanga ndiri kumusoro uye ndakanzwa munhu wese achitanga kuseka. Izvi zvisati zvaitika, handina kumbofunga kuti pane chakaipa pandiri. Asi mushure mechiitiko ichocho, ndakafunga kuti ndiri muhombe." (Zvakabatana: Vanhu Vari Kuenda kuTwitter Kugovera Kekutanga Pavaive Muviri-Kunyara)

Kubva ipapo zvichienda mberi, kusvika makore ake ekutanga makumi maviri, Kari akarwa nedambudziko rekudya, uye huremu hwake huchidonhera kumazana akaderera pane imwe nguva. “Pandakanga ndiri kuchikoro chesekondari, ndakangorega kudya ndokutanga kumhanya zvisingaite uye ndakarasikirwa nemakirogiramu 60 muchirimo chimwe chete,” anodaro. "Ipapo, mushure mokunge ndapedza kudzidza, ndakatanga kuunza zvokudya muupenyu hwangu zvakare asi ndakazviona ndadya zvakanyanya uye ndozochenesa nokuti ndainzwa kutyisa kudya pakutanga."

Izvi zvakagara kusvikira Kari ave mumakore ake ekutanga makumi matatu. Akanga ari kuyedzawo nezvikafu zvakasiyana, mapurogiramu ekurovedza muviri, anochenesa-chero chaanogona kuisa maoko ake pakurasa uremu. Asi akawedzera uremu pachinzvimbo.

Zvakatoipa, muna 2009, Kari akafirwa nemunun’una wake mutsaona yakaipisisa yakaita kuti nyika yake iparare. Kuvhunduka kwemashoko kwakatungamira mbuya vake, avo vaive varera Kari, kushushikana kwakanyanya.

"Pakangoziva gogo vangu kuti hanzvadzi yangu yafa, kwakavhenekerwa kwaari," Kari anodaro. "Zvakaita sekuti pakarepo akapenga-akarega kumuka pamubhedha, akarega kutaura, akarega kudya-akabva akanda mapfumo. Saka apa mukoma wangu akashaya uye zuva rimwe chete randakarasikirwa naambuya vangu-vaiva panyama asi vakanga varipo. haasisiri munhu mumwe chete."

Mushure meizvozvo, Kari akazove muchengeti wekutanga wasekuru vake, avo vanga vari ivo chete baba vaaiziva. Akafa asingasviki makore maviri gare gare. “Ndakanga ndisati ndambofirwa nomunhu,” anodaro. "Asi mumakore maviri chete, ndainzwa kunge ndarasikirwa nemunhu wese wandaizomboda."

"Mukati megore nehafu rapfuura, ndakadzidza kuti hakuna mapiritsi emashiripiti," anodaro. "Kunyange iwo madiki machena mapiritsi akadzikamisa isingagumi chatter kumhanya mumusoro mangu, hazvina kubatsira kugadzirisa zvaiitika mukati. Kana pasina chakanyatsochinja mushure memavhiki masere, ndakaziva kuti ndaizofanira kuiyamwa, nditarise Ndakapfuura, uye pakupedzisira ndokuva nerunyararo pamweya wangu-uye hapana aigona kundiitira izvozvo asi ini pachangu. "

Akatanga kutevera vanhu pasocial media avo vaakawana vachikurudzira uye vakanaka. Akatanga kushambadzira achiedza kunzwisisa manzwiro ake zvirinani uye kuverenga bhuku rekuzvibatsira Kuuya Kwemweya Wako.

“Kwaisava nezvechikafu kana huremu, dzaive dzenguva dzinosuwisa idzi dzandaigara ndichitakura,” anodaro. "Pandakangotanga kurega zvese izvo, ndakatanga kuzvisarudzira zvirinani." (Yakabatana: 9 Nzira dzekurwisa Kushungurudzika Kunze kwekutora Zvinodzvinyirira)

Kubva ipapo, Kari akatarisa zvakanyanya pane zvinovaka muviri uye anoshanda kumba kana kana kashanu pasvondo kuchengetedza mararamiro ane hutano. “Mukati memazuva makumi matanhatu ekutanga, ndakarasikirwa nemakirogiramu makumi matatu, izvo zvakandiwandira, kunyanya tichifunga kuti ndakaita nemazvo,” anodaro. Nhasi, areruka nemakirogiramu makumi manomwe uye ari kunzwa zviri nani kupfuura kare.

Hazvirevi kuti haana mazuva ake akaipa. Asi rwendo rwaKari kune rudo rwega rwakamubatsira kuti agadzirire kubata nguva dzakaoma idzo. "Kuchine mazuva andisingade kumuka pamubhedha-isu tese tinodaro," anodaro. "Asi ikozvino ndine simba rekumira kumanzwiro iwayo."

"Hongu, ndinoda kurasikirwa nehumwe huremu uye toni kumusoro kwese. Asi kana izvozvo zvikasaitika, zvakanaka," anoenderera mberi. "Chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuti ndiri kutarisira muviri wangu rudyi nzira, uye ndicho chinhu chandicharamba ndichiita uye ndinodada nacho."

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