Kubvuma Iwe Uchaenda Kufa Ungave Unonyanya Kusunungura Chinhu Chaunoita

Zvemukati

• Vanenge vanhu makumi mashanu vanopinda chiitiko ichi chinogara chakatengeswa muSan Francisco mwedzi wega wega. Uye nhasi raive zuva rangu rekuenda.
• Ipapo Ned muvambi akauya pachikuva
• YG2D yakatanga sei?
• Zita rakauya sei?
• Zvinhu zvakatanga kukura zvakanyanya apo…
• YG2D inoshanda sei?
• Ndezvipi zvinoitwa nevanhu kana uchivaudza nezvechiitiko ichi?
• Kune huchenjeri here mukudzivirira hurukuro yekufa?
• Unoyananisa sei dissonance iyi: Kana zvasvika kwatiri uye shamwari dzepedyo, tinotya kufa, zvakadaro tinogona kuenda kunotamba mutambo kana kutarisa firimu panofa vanhu vazhinji?
• Mumwe munhu angatanga sei kuchinja hukama hwavo kurufu?
• Kana tikataura nezve chimwe chinhu zvakanyanya, zvino zvichaitika kwatiri, vamwe vanhu vanoti
• Chero zvirongwa zvekuwedzera kune mamwe maguta?

Isu tinosanganisira zvigadzirwa zvatinofunga zvinobatsira kuvaverengi vedu. Kana iwe ukatenga kuburikidza nehukama pane ino peji, isu tinogona kuwana diki komisheni. Heano maitiro edu.

Vanenge vanhu makumi mashanu vanopinda chiitiko ichi chinogara chakatengeswa muSan Francisco mwedzi wega wega. Uye nhasi raive zuva rangu rekuenda.

“Chii ita unopfeka kuenda kurufu? ” Ndakazvibvunza pandakanga ndagadzirira kuenda kuchiitiko cheSan Francisco chinotengeswa nguva dzose chinonzi Uri Kuenda Kufa, akaYG2D.

Pandakatanga kunzwa nezve chiitiko ichi, ndakanzwa kukwezvana nehama uye nekukasira kamwe kamwe. Pakupedzisira kuda kwangu kwakakunda uye, pakangosvika iyo email yekuzivisa chiitiko chinotevera ikarova inbox, ndakatenga tikiti.

Ndakapfeka zvitema ndikagara kumberi - chigaro chete chakasara.

Ipapo Ned muvambi akauya pachikuva

Murume mukuru-mwana ndizvo zvandinoda kumutsanangudza. Munhu ane moyo wese. Akachema, akaseka, akafuridzira, uye akatigadzika mukati memaminitsi.

Ndakazviwana ndichichema pamwe nevateereri, "Ndofa!" Iko kutya kweshoko rekuti "kufa" kwakasiya mukamuri, kunofungidzirwa kuenda nevose kwemaawa matatu anotevera.

Mumwe mukadzi kubva kune vateereri akagovana chishuwo chake chekuzviuraya uye kuti aishanyira sei Golden Gate Bridge kazhinji. Mumwe akagovana nezve maitiro ekurasikirwa nababa vake vairwara kuburikidza neFacebook zvinyorwa zvaakatora. Mumwe munhu akagovana rwiyo pamusoro pehanzvadzi yake, waakange asina kumbonzwa kubva makore.

Kunyangwe ini ndakanga ndisina kuronga kugovera, ndakanzwa kufemerwa kuti ndiendewo pachikuva uye nditaure nezve kurasikirwa. Ndakaverenga nhetembo pamusoro pehondo dzangu nekusuwa. Pakazopera husiku, kutya kwakatenderedza kufa uye kufa kwakasiya mukamuri nepachipfuva changu.

Ndakamuka mangwanani akatevera ndichinzwa kurema kubva pamapfudzi angu. Zvakanga zviri nyore kudaro here? Kutaura nezverufu kuri pachena here tikiti redu rekutisunungura kubva pane zvatinotya zvakanyanya?

Ndakasvika kuna Ned nekukasira zuva raitevera. Ini ndaida kuziva zvakawanda.

Asi zvinonyanya kukosha, ndinoda kuti meseji yake isvike kuvanhu vakawanda sezvinobvira. Hushingi hwake uye kusagadzikana zvinotapukira. Isu tese tinogona kushandisa zvimwe - uye hurukuro kana maviri nezve kufa.

Iyi bvunzurudzo yakagadziridzwa kupfupika, kureba, uye kujekesa.

YG2D yakatanga sei?

Ndakakumbirwa neSFSU [San Francisco State University] Graduate Literature Association kuti ndiite chiitiko chakasanganisa vadzidzi nenharaunda. MunaMay wa2009, ini ndinotungamira yekutanga yakavhurika mic. Uye ndiko kwaive kutanga kwekuratidzwa.

Asi YG2D inotozvarwa kunze kwenyaya refu, yakaoma kunzwisisa muhupenyu hwangu. Zvakatanga naamai vangu uye neyakavanzika hondo yake nekenza. Akaonekwa aine kenza yemazamu ini ndaive nemakore gumi nematatu uye akarwa kenza kakawanda kwemakore gumi nematatu mushure meizvozvo. Nekurwara uku uye nerufu rwungangodaro rwakabata pamusoro pemhuri yedu, ndakasvitswa kurufu nekukurumidza.

Asi, nekuda kwekuvanzika kwamai vangu paurwere hwavo hwega, kufa zvakare kwaisave kutaura kwandakaita kuti ndiwanikwe.

Munguva iyoyo, ndakaenda kune yakawanda yekushungurudzwa kwekusuwa uye ndaive muboka regore rekutsigira vanhu vakarasikirwa nemubereki.

Zita rakauya sei?

Shamwari yangu yaive achibatsira nezviitiko akabvunza kuti sei ndaiizviita. Ndinoyeuka ndichingopindura, "Nekuti ... uchafa.”

Nei uchifanira kuchengeta mazwi ako kana mimhanzi kumwe kunhu kwakavanzwa, sezvo zvese zvichizoenda pakupedzisira? Usazvitore zvakanyanya. Iva pano uye upe zvakawanda zvako sezvaunogona iwe uchigona. Unofa.

Zvinhu zvakatanga kukura zvakanyanya apo…

Iyo showa yainyanya kutora chimiro chayo payakatamira kuViracocha, bhokisi-senge repazasi nzvimbo munzvimbo inopenya yepasi peSan Francisco. Izvo zvakare pakafa amai vemukadzi wangu, uye zvakave zvisingarambike kwandiri zvandaida kubva pachiratidziro:

Nzvimbo yekuve munjodzi uye kugara uchigovana izvo zvinhu zviri padyo nemoyo wangu, izvo zvinhu zvinonditsanangudza, kungave kurasikirwa kunorwadza kwaamai vangu naamwene vangu, kana kurwira kwemazuva ese kuwana kurudziro uye zvinoreva nekuvhura kune kufa kwangu. Uye zvinoitika vanhu vazhinji vanozvida izvo - saka tinowana nharaunda nekuzviita pamwe chete.

YG2D inoshanda sei?

Uri Kuenda Kufa: Nhetembo, Prose & Zvese Zvinoitika zvinowanzoitika wekutanga uye wechitatu China wemwedzi wega wega kuThe Lost Church muSan Francisco.

Isu tinopa nzvimbo yakachengeteka yekunyudza muhurukuro yekufa, hurukuro yatingave tisingawanzo kuva nayo muhupenyu hwedu hwezuva nezuva. Iyo inzvimbo iyo vanhu vanowana kuve vakasununguka, vanotambura, uye kuve neumwe neumwe wekushungurudzika kwemoyo.

Manheru ega ega anobatanidzwa pamwe naScott Ferreter kana Chelsea Coleman, vaimbi vanobata nzvimbo neni. Vanopinda vanogamuchirwa kusaina ipapo kuti vagovana kwemaminitsi mashanu.

Inogona kunge iri rwiyo, kutamba, nhetembo, nyaya, mutambo, chero chavanoda, chaizvo. Kana ukayambuka muganhu wemaminitsi mashanu, ndichauya pachikuva ndokumbundira.

Ndezvipi zvinoitwa nevanhu kana uchivaudza nezvechiitiko ichi?

Kuda kuziva, pamwe? Kufarira? Dzimwe nguva vanhu vanokatyamadzwa. Uye chaizvo, dzimwe nguva ndinofunga ndicho chiyero chakanakisa chekuti Uri Kuenda Kufa - apo vanhu pavanonzwa kusagadzikana! Zvakanditorera nguva kuti nditaure nechivimbo kuti chiitiko ichi ndechei zviri nyore.

Rufu chakavanzika, semubvunzo usina mhinduro, uye kubvuma icho chinhu chinoyera. Kugovera pamwe chete kunoita kuti zviite mashiripiti.

Kana munhu wese ati "ndichafa" pamwechete, senharaunda, varikudhonza chifukidziro pamwechete.

Kune huchenjeri here mukudzivirira hurukuro yekufa?

Kufa dzimwe nguva kunogona kunzwa kusingafungidzirwe. Uye kana isina kutaurwa yakanamatira. Iko mukana wekuti ichinje uye ishanduke uye ive yakakura saka ishoma. Kana paine chero huchenjeri hwekusataura pamusoro pekufa, ingangoita pfungwa yedu yekuibata zvakanaka, kuichengeta iri padyo nemoyo yedu, tichifunga, uye nechinangwa chikuru.

Unoyananisa sei dissonance iyi: Kana zvasvika kwatiri uye shamwari dzepedyo, tinotya kufa, zvakadaro tinogona kuenda kunotamba mutambo kana kutarisa firimu panofa vanhu vazhinji?

Kana kufa kusiri chiitiko chezuva nezuva chekwaunogara (senge munyika iri muhondo), saka inowanzo chengetwa. Inoshumwa nefoshoro nekukurumidza.

Pane hurongwa hwakaiswa mukutarisira zvinhu nekukasira.

Ndinoyeuka ndiri mukamuri rechipatara naamai vangu. Ivo vangadai vasina kundirega ndive nemuviri wake kweanopfuura maminitsi makumi matatu, pamwe zvishoma zvishoma, uyezve kumba kwekuviga kwemaminetsi mashanu chete, pamwe.

Iye zvino ndinonzwa ndave kuziva izvozvi nezvekukosha kwazvakaita kuti isu tive nenguva nenzvimbo yekuchema zvizere.

Mumwe munhu angatanga sei kuchinja hukama hwavo kurufu?

Ndinofunga kuverenga bhuku "Ndiani Anofa?" kutanga kukuru. Iyo ye "Griefwalker" zvinyorwa zvinogona zvakare kusangana uye kuvhura. Dzimwe nzira:

1. Ita nzvimbo yekutaura nevamwe kana kuteerera kune vamwe pavanenge vachichema. Handifunge kuti pane chimwe chinhu chinoshandura muhupenyu pane kuteerera uye kuvhurika. Kana mumwe munhu wepedyo newe akarasikirwa nemumwe munhu, ingoendako uye uvepo.

2. Buda pachena pane zvaunenge uchichema. Zvinogona kunge zviri kumashure kumashure, kumashure senge hudiki hwako, madzitateguru ako, uye nezvavakafamba nazvo uye havana kuzowana kuteura zvakakwana.

3. Gadzira nzvimbo uye kuvhurika mune iyo kurasikirwa uye iko kusuruvara. Angela Hennessy akagovana manzwiro ake ekuchema pakuratidzira kwedu panguva yeOverIDEO's Re: Fungidzira Kupera-kwe-Hupenyu vhiki.

Anoti, “Shungurudza zuva nezuva. Ita nguva zuva nezuva yekushungurudzika. Ita kuchema kubva mukuita kwemazuva ese. Paunenge uchiita chero chaunenge uchiita, taura zvauri kuchema uye utaure chaizvo. ”

4. Rangarira kuti kazhinji hazvisi zvinhu zvezuva nezuva zvauri kubata pamusoro, senge nyaya nebasa rako, semuenzaniso. Zvakawanda zvehupenyu hwangu zviitiko zvakaburitsa runako rukuru zvakazvarwa kubva pabasa rekushungurudzika nekutambura. Ndicho chinhu chekare mukati mako, pasi pezvinhu zvese zvezuva nezuva, izvo zvaunoda kusvika. Ndozvinouya kwauri kana kufa kwako kuchizarurirwa.

Rufu runopa iyo tsika, iyo kubvisa. Kana iwe ukagara muchokwadi ichocho, zvinoshandura maitiro aunoita nehupenyu. Rufu runodonhedza matanda ese uye runoita kuti iwe uone zvinhu zvakajeka.

Kana tikataura nezve chimwe chinhu zvakanyanya, zvino zvichaitika kwatiri, vamwe vanhu vanoti

Kufanana, kana ndikati, "Ini ndichafa," saka ini ndakanyatsogadzira kufa kwangu zuva rinotevera? Zvakanaka, hongu, ndinotenda uri kusika chokwadi chako nguva dzose. […] Kuchinja kwemaonero.

Chero zvirongwa zvekuwedzera kune mamwe maguta?

Zvirokwazvo. Ini ndinofunga kukura munharaunda yepamhepo kuburikidza nepodcast gore rino kuchaita kushanya kungangoita. Ndiyo imwe yematanho anotevera. Izvo zvichatanga nezvakawanda zvakajairwa kuratidzwa. Zvakare mumabasa.

Kana iwe uri muBay Area, enda kune inotevera BIG YG2D show kuGreat American Music Hall muna Nyamavhuvhu 11. Dzvanya apa kuti udzidze zvakawanda nezve chiitiko kana kushanyira www.yg2d.com.

Jessica anonyora nezverudo, hupenyu, uye zvatiri kutya kutaura nezvazvo. Akaburitswa muTime, The Huffington Post, Forbes, nezvimwe, uye parizvino ari kushanda pabhuku rake rekutanga, "Mwana weMwedzi." Unogona kuverenga basa rake pano, mubvunze chero chinhu pa Twitter, kana kumunyangira Instagram.