Kushungurudzwa pabonde muvana - zvekuziva

Chinyorwa chino chinokuudza zvekuita kana uchifungidzira kuti mwana akabatwa chibharo.

Mumwe muvasikana vana uye mumwe muvakomana gumi anoshungurudzwa pabonde vasati vasvitsa makore gumi nemasere.

Kushungurudzwa kwevana pabonde chero chiitiko chinoitwa nemushungurudziri kuti amuke pabonde, kusanganisira:

• Kubata sikarudzi yemwana
• Kukwiza nhengo dzakavandika dzemubati paganda kana zvipfeko zvemwana
• Kuisa zvinhu muchibereko kana mumukadzi
• Rurimi kutsvoda
• Zvepabonde nemuromo
• Kusvirana

Kushungurudzwa pabonde kunogona kuitikawo pasina kusangana panyama, senge:

• Kufumura nhengo dzemunhu pachake
• Kuva nemwana pozi yekuona zvinonyadzisira
• Kuva nemwana tarisa zvinonyadzisira
• Kuita bonhora pamberi pemwana

Fungidzira kushungurudzwa pabonde kana vana:

• Kukuudza kuti vari kushungurudzwa pabonde
• Une dambudziko rekugara kana kumira
• Hazvichinje zvekurovedza muviri
• Iva nezvirwere zvepabonde kana kuita nhumbu
• Ziva nezve uye taura nezve bonde
• Tiza
• Iva nevanhu vakuru muhupenyu hwavo izvo zvinovatadzisa kusangana nevamwe vanhu vakuru
• Zvichengete ivo pachavo uye woita kunge une zvakavanzika

Vana vanoshungurudzwa pabonde vanogona kunge vaine:

• Matambudziko ekudzora ura, sekuzvinyudza (encopresis)
• Kudya kusagadzikana (anorexia nervosa)
• Matambudziko epamuviri kana eremukati, akadai sekurwadziwa kana uchienda kuchimbuzi, kana kusangana nekutsi kwemukadzi kana kubuda
• Kutemwa nemusoro
• Zvinetso zvekurara
• Dumbu kurwadziwa

Vana vanoshungurudzwa pabonde vanogona zvakare:

• Shandisa doro kana zvinodhaka
• Pinda muzviitiko zvine njodzi zvakanyanya pabonde
• Wana mamakisi mashoma kuchikoro
• Iva nekutya kwakawanda
• Havadi kuita zviitwa zvavo zvakajairika

Kana iwe uchifunga kuti mwana akashungurudzwa pabonde, ita kuti mwana aongororwe nemupi wezvehutano.

• Tsvaga mupi anoziva nezvekushungurudzwa pabonde. Vazhinji vana chiremba, vanopa mishonga yemhuri, uye vanopa makamuri ekukurumidzira vakadzidziswa kuongorora vanhu vakashungurudzwa pabonde.
• Ita kuti mwana aongororwe ipapo ipapo kana mukati memazuva maviri kusvika matatu ekuona kushungurudzwa. Zviratidzo zvekushungurudzwa pabonde hazvigare kwenguva refu, uye mupi anogona kutadza kutaura kana iwe ukamirira kwenguva refu.

Munguva yebvunzo, mupi anozo:

• Tarisa zviratidzo zvekushungurudzwa mumuviri uye pabonde. Anopa anotarisa muromo wemwana, huro, anus, uye nhengo yemurume kana mukadzi.
• Ita ongororo yeropa kuti utarise zvirwere zvepabonde uye nhumbu.
• Tora mifananidzo yekukuvara kupi zvako, kana zvichidikanwa.

Tora mwana chero kurapwa kunodiwa. Tora zvakare kuraira kwehutano hwepfungwa kumwana. Anoshanda ekutsigira mapoka anogona kubatsira anosanganisira:

• Childhelp - www.childhelp.org
• Kubata Chibharo, Kushungurudza & Incest National Network - www.rainn.org

Ziva kuti vanopa, vadzidzisi, uye vanochengeta vana vanodikanwa nemutemo kuti vataure kushungurudzwa pabonde. Kana kushungurudzwa kuri kufungidzirwa, masangano anodzivirira vana nemapurisa achaferefeta. Mwana anofanira kuchengetedzwa kubva mukushungurudzwa. Mwana anogona kuiswa pamwe nemubereki asiri kushungurudza, imwe hama, kana mumusha unorerwa.

Kushungurudzwa pabonde - vana

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Dhipatimendi reU.S. rehutano neveVashandi vewebhu Yevana Hutano Ruzivo Gedhi. Kuzivikanwa kwekushungurudzwa pabonde. www.womenwelfare.gov/topics/can/identifying/sex-abuse. Yakasvika munaNovember 15, 2018.

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