Matsi haisi 'Tyisidziro' kune Hutano. Kukwanisa Ndiko

Zvemukati

• Paakazondisiya - {textend} achichema, achinyara, uye ave kuda kunonoka kukirasi yangu inotevera - {textend} ndakafunga nezve zvazvinoreva kuva 'wakanaka.'
• Dambudziko nderekuti, kuunza nyaya idzi sedzisingachinjike kubva kuva matsi kana kuoma-kwekunzwa kusanzwisisa kukuru kwekusanzwa uye kwehurongwa hwehutano hweAmerica.
• Asi kune zvekare Matsi vanhu vasina kana ruzivo urwu zvachose, zvichitipa nzwisiso yezvinobvumidza matsi kuti dzibudirire
• Yasvika nguva yekutarisa nyaya dzine systemic dzinokanganisa kugara kwedu uye hupenyu hwehupenyu - {textend} pane kufunga kuti matsi pachayo idambudziko
• Uye ndiwo mudzi wedambudziko, chaizvo: kusada kuisa pakati pezviitiko nemanzwi evanhu d / Matsi

Utsi hwave "hwakabatanidzwa" kune mamiriro akaita kushushikana uye kuora mwoyo. Asi ndizvo chaizvo here?

Maitiro atinoona maumbirwo epasi rose atinosarudza kuva - {textend} uye kugovana zviitiko zvinomanikidza zvinogona kuumba nzira yatinoitirana nayo, kuti ive nani. Aya maonero akasimba.

Mavhiki mashoma apfuura, ndiri muhofisi yangu pakati pehurukuro, mumwe wandaishanda naye akauya pasuo rangu. Hatina kumbobvira tasangana kare, uye handicharangariri kuti sei akauya, asi chero zvakadaro, paakangoona katsamba pamusuwo wangu kanozivisa vashanyi kuti ndiri Matsi hurukuro yedu yakatora nzira inopinza.

“Ndiri mukuwasha matsi!” akadaro mutorwa pandakamutendera kuti apinde. Dzimwe nguva, ndinorota ndichidzosera kune ichi chirevo. Wow! Zvinoshamisa! Ndine blonde cousin! Asi kazhinji ndinoedza kugara ndichifara, nditaure chimwe chinhu chisingaitwi senge "zvakanaka."

"Ane vana vaviri," akadaro mutorwa. “Vakanaka, hazvo! Vanonzwa. ”

Ini ndakachera nzara dzangu muchanza changu apo ndaifungisisa chirevo chemutorwa, kutenda kwake kuti hama yake - {textend} uye kuti ini - {textend} yanga isina kunaka. Gare gare, sekunge sekuziva kuti izvi zvinogona kunge zvagumbura, akadzokera kumashure kuti andirumbidze "nemataurire andakaita."

Paakazondisiya - {textend} achichema, achinyara, uye ave kuda kunonoka kukirasi yangu inotevera - {textend} ndakafunga nezve zvazvinoreva kuva 'wakanaka.'

Ehe, ini ndatojaira mhando dzekutuka idzi.

Vanhu vasina ruzivo nehusimbe kazhinji ndivo vanonzwa vakasununguka kutaura zvavanofunga nezvazvo: vanondiudza kuti vanofa vasina mimhanzi, kana kugovana nzira dzakawandisa dzavanobatanidza matsi nekusava nehungwaru, vanorwara, vasina kudzidza, varombo, kana kusakwezva.

Asi nekuda kwekuti zvinoitika zvakawanda hazvireve kuti hazvikuvadze. Uye zuva irori, zvakandisiya ndichinetseka kuti sei mumwe akadzidza pamwe neni purofesa angasvika sei pakunzwisisa kwakamanikana nezvechiitiko chevanhu.

Midhiya inoratidzira matsi zvirokwazvo haibatsire. The New York Times yakaburitsa nyaya yekuvhundutsa gore rapfuura, ichiti matambudziko mazhinji epanyama, epfungwa, uye ehupfumi akaunzwa nekurasikirwa kwekunzwa.

Yangu yakajeka gumo semunhu Matsi? Kushungurudzika, kuora mwoyo, pamusoro-paavhareji kushanya kweE ER nekuvharirwa muzvipatara, uye zvikwereti zvepamusoro zvekurapa - {textend} zvese zvinotambudzwa nematsi uye kuoma-kwekunzwa.

Dambudziko nderekuti, kuunza nyaya idzi sedzisingachinjike kubva kuva matsi kana kuoma-kwekunzwa kusanzwisisa kukuru kwekusanzwa uye kwehurongwa hwehutano hweAmerica.

Kuratidzira kuwirirana pamwe nekukonzeresa kunokonzera kunyadziswa uye kunetseka, uye kutadza kugadzirisa midzi yezvinetso, zvisingaite zvichitungamira varwere nevarapi vezvehutano kure nemhinduro dzinoshanda kwazvo.

Semuenzaniso, matsi uye mamiriro akaita sekuora mwoyo uye kushaya moyo zvinogona kubatanidzwa, asi fungidziro yekuti inokonzerwa nekusanzwa iri kutsausa zvakanyanya.

Fungidzira munhu akura uyo akura achinzwa uye zvino achizviwana avhiringidzika mukutaura nemhuri uye neshamwari. Anogona kunge achinzwa kutaura asi asinganzwisise - {textend} zvinhu hazvina kujeka, kunyanya kana paine ruzha rwemashure senge muresitorendi.

Izvi zvinogumbura vese iye neshamwari dzake, avo vanogara vachifanira kuzvidzokorora. Nekuda kweizvozvo, munhu anotanga kurega kubva mukubatana munharaunda. Anonzwa kusurukirwa uye kushushikana, uye kushamwaridzana kushoma kwevanhu kunoreva kushomeka kwepfungwa kurovedza muviri.

Chiitiko ichi chinogona kumhanyisa kutanga kwekutadza kuora mwoyo.

Asi kune zvekare Matsi vanhu vasina kana ruzivo urwu zvachose, zvichitipa nzwisiso yezvinobvumidza matsi kuti dzibudirire

Nharaunda yeAmerican Matsi - {textend} avo vedu vanoshandisa ASL uye vanoziva mutsika neUkutu - {textend} iboka rinotarisana nevanhu zvakanyanya. (Isu tinoshandisa iro guta D kuratidza mucherechedzo wetsika.)

Idzi hukama hwakasimba hwehukama hunotibatsira kufamba mukutyisidzira kwekushungurudzika uye kunetseka kunokonzerwa nekuzviparadzanisa kubva kumhuri yedu isiri kusaina.

Nekuziva, zvidzidzo zvinoratidza avo vanotsetsenura mumutauro wakasainwa vane uye. Vanhu vazhinji Matsi vanotaura mitauro miviri - {textend} muASL neChirungu, semuenzaniso. Isu tinokohwa ese mabhenefiti ekuziva emitauro miviri mune chero mitauro miviri, kusanganisira dziviriro kubva kuAlzheimer's-inoenderana nedementia.

Kutaura kuti matsi, pane kugona, zvechokwadi kutyisidzira hupenyu hwemunhu, hakungoratidzi zviitiko zvevanhu Matsi.

Asi, hongu, iwe unofanirwa kutaura nevanhu Matsi (uye teerera zvechokwadi) kuti unzwisise izvozvo.

Yasvika nguva yekutarisa nyaya dzine systemic dzinokanganisa kugara kwedu uye hupenyu hwehupenyu - {textend} pane kufunga kuti matsi pachayo idambudziko

Nyaya dzakaita senge dzakakwira zvehutano mutengo uye nhamba yedu yekushanya kweEER, kana yabviswa kunze kwechimiro, isa mhosva ipapo iyo isiri yayo.

Masangano edu azvino anopa kutarisirwa kwakawanda uye tekinoroji senge zvekunzwa zvisingawanikwe nevazhinji.

Kuwanda kwebasa kusarura kunoreva vazhinji d / Matsi vane inishuwarenzi yehutano husina tsarukano, kunyange hazvo kunyatso kuzivikanwa inishuwarenzi kufukidza kazhinji isingazovhare zvinobatsira zvekunzwa. Avo vanowana rubatsiro vanofanirwa kubhadhara zviuru zvemadhora muhomwe - {textend} ndosaka mari yedu yepamusoro yehutano.

Matsi vanhu pamusoro-avhareji kushanya kuE ER hazvishamise kana zvichienzaniswa nechero vanhu vakasarudzika. Misiyano muhutano hweAmerican hwakavakirwa parudzi, kirasi, murume kana murume, uye zvakanyorwa zvakanaka, sezvakangoita kusarongeka kwechiremba.

Matsi, uye kunyanya avo vari pamharadzano yezviratidzo izvi, vanotarisana nezvipingamupinyi pamatanho ese ehutano hwekuwana.

Kana kurasikirwa kwekunzwa kwemunhu kukasarapwa, kana kana vanopa vachitadza kutaurirana zvinobudirira nesu, kuvhiringidzika uye kutadza kuziva zvisizvo kunoitika. Uye zvipatara zvinozivikanwa nekusapa vashanduri veASL kunyangwe zvichidikanwa nemutemo.

Vaya vakwegura matsi uye vakaoma-kunzwa-varwere avo ita ziva nezve kwavo kurasikirwa kwekunzwa vanogona kunge vasingazive maitiro ekutsigira muturikiri, live-captioner, kana FM system.

Zvichakadaro, kune vane tsika nematsi Matsi, kutsvaga kurapwa kunowanzoreva kutambisa nguva kudzivirira hunhu hwedu. Pandinoenda kwachiremba, kunyangwe zvodii, vanachiremba, vanachiremba vezvechikadzi, kunyangwe vanachiremba vemazino vanoda kukurukura nezvehusimbe hwangu kwete chikonzero chekushanya kwangu.

Hazvishamise, saka, kuti d / Matsi uye vanhu vakaoma-kunzwa vanotaura danho repamusoro rekusavimbika mune vanopa hutano. Izvi, zvinosanganiswa nehupfumi zvinhu, zvinoreva kuti vazhinji vedu tinodzivisa kuenda zvachose, tinopedzisira tave muEER chete kana zviratidzo zvikave zvinotyisidzira hupenyu, uye nekutsungirira kugara muchipatara nekuti vanachiremba havatiteerere.

Uye ndiwo mudzi wedambudziko, chaizvo: kusada kuisa pakati pezviitiko nemanzwi evanhu d / Matsi

Asi, sekusarura vanorwara vese vakaremerwa, kuona kuwanikwa kwakaringana kwehutano kunoreva zvinopfuura kushanda padanho remunhu - {textend} yevarwere kana vanopa rubatsiro.

Nekuti paunenge uri wega zvese vanhu, matsi kana kunzwa, zvinogona kutungamira mukushushikana uye kuora mwoyo kune vakwegura, harisi dambudziko rinowedzerwa nekusanzwa. Asi, zvinowedzerwa nehurongwa hunoparadzanisa d / Matsi vanhu.

Ndicho chikonzero kuve nechokwadi chekuti nharaunda yedu inogona kugara yakabatana uye kutaurirana kwakakosha.

Panzvimbo pekuudza avo vane kurasikirwa kwekunzwa kuti vakatongerwa hupenyu hwekusurukirwa uye kupererwa kwepfungwa, isu tinofanirwa kunge tichivakurudzira kuti vasvike kune Matsi nzanga, nekudzidzisa nharaunda dzinonzwa kukoshesa kuwanikwa.

Kune vanononoka kunzwa, izvi zvinoreva kupa kuongororwa kwekunzwa uye tekinoroji yekubatsira senge yekunzwa zvinobatsira, uye kufambisa kutaurirana nemazita akavharwa uye nharaunda ASL makirasi.

Kana vanhu vakarega kupatsanura vakwegura matsi uye vakaoma-kunzwa-vanhu, vangadai vasina kusarudzika.

Zvichida tinogona kutanga nekutsanangudza zvakare zvazvinoreva kuva "wakanaka," uye tichifunga kuti masisitimu akaremerwa nevanhu akagadzira - {textend} kwete matsi pachayo - {textend} ndiwo mudzi wezvinhu izvi.

Dambudziko harisi rekuti isu d / Matsi vanhu hatinzwe. Ndezvekuti vanachiremba nenzanga havatiteerere.

Dzidzo chaiyo - {textend} yemunhu wese - {textend} nezvehunhu hwekusarura hwemasangano edu, uye nezve zvazvinoreva kuva d / Matsi, ndiyo mukana wedu wakanakisa pakugadzirisa zvinogara.

Sara Novi & cacute; ndiye munyori webhuku "Musikana paHondo" uye nebhuku rinouya risinganetsi "America Vapambi," vese kubva kuRandom House. Iye mubatsiri purofesa kuStockton University muNew Jersey, uye anogara muPhiladelphia. Mutsvage pa Twitter.