"Bachelor" Winner Whitney Bischoff Anotaura Zai Rinopisa

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Isu taive vakanaka kwazvo timu Whitney kubva pakuenda, muchidimbu nekuti aive akashinga kwazvo nezve basa rake semukoti wekubereka (zvimwe zvekushomeka kubva kubranchise inozivikanwa nekusarudza vakadzi vane mabasa senge "mutambo wehove anofarira," "imbwa mudiwa. ," uye "mweya wakasununguka."). Akatotora Bachelor Chris Soules kukiriniki kwaanoshanda, Aparent IVF, pazuva rekumusha kwake! Nai mazai echando ari kuwedzera, takakurukura naBischoff nezvechisarudzo chake chekuisa mazai ake se "inishuwarenzi," ndokubata Colleen Coughlin, embryologist uye director weAparent IVF, kune humwe hunyanzvi. Verenga pamusoro kuti uone izvo zvaunofanira kuziva nezve kutora kutonga kwako kubereka kubva mune ramangwana Mai Chris Soules! (Uyezve, ona zvinhu zvinomwe izvi zvakakosha zvekuziva nezvekuomesa mazai.)

Chimiro: Chii chakaita kuti mude kubatsira kuita vana kuti vawane chouviri?

Whitney Bischoff [WB]: Ndakagara ndichiziva kuti ndaida kuve amai. Sa mukoti wekubereka, ndine mukana mazuva ese kubatanidza dzidzo yangu semukoti uye kuda kwangu kwekuda kuve amai pachangu nekubatsira vamwe kuzadzisa izvo zviroto. Ini ndaigara ndichiziva kuti ndaida kuzove mukoti uye ndakaita kutsvaga kwakawanda pandakaenda kuburikidza nechikoro ndikatarisa munzvimbo dzakasiyana uye nekukurumidza ndakadzidza chikamu ichi chingave chakakodzera kwandiri. Ndinozvida chete. Inogara ichichinja; ibasa remushonga riri kuuya.

Chimiro: Iwe wakataura munguva pfupi yapfuura nezvekuti iwe wakave nemazai ako akaomeswa nechando (makore maviri apfuura) pa 27. Ndeipi nzira yako yekufunga yakatungamirira kusarudzo?

WB: Ndakazviita nekuti ndakave nemukana wekushanda mune zvese zvembereko, ndakashanda nevaviri vasina mbereko, asi ndakashandawo nezviitiko zvakanyanyisa apo varwere vakatoshandisa munhu wechitatu egg donor. Chinhu chandakanzwa vanhu vazhinji vachitaura ndechekuti, "Dai ndakaziva. Ndinoshuva kuti dai mumwe munhu angandiudza kuti ndaive nesarudzo yekumisa mazai angu." Izvo kwandiri kwandiri raive girobhu rinobuda mumusoro mangu. Ini ndaida kunyatso kuverengera hutano hwangu uye kuve mukutonga kweangu ega kubereka. Zvinonyanya kubatsira kuti ndakafamba hurukuro uye semukoti wandinogona kuudza varwere vangu ini ndanga ndiri kune rimwe divi. Izvo zvinobatsira mukutsanangura maitiro, ndinogona kupindura mibvunzo yavo kuburikidza nezvangu zvega ruzivo, uye ndinofungawo kuti zvinobatsira maererano nekunzwisisa izvo zvavakave vakapfuura nazvo.

Chimiro: Ndeipi iri zano rako remazai ako akaomeswa nechando zvawasangana naChris uye wagadzirira kutanga mhuri pamwe chete?

WB: Kwandiri, yaive inishuwarenzi; yaive yezve rugare rwepfungwa. Tariro ndeyokuti haufanirwe kuishandisa (uye unogona kubata pamuviri). Asi zvakanaka kuziva kuti varipo kana uchivada. Kana ndikasaashandisa, kana kuti kana murwere akasaashandisa, anogona kuzvipa kuti atsvakurudze, ozvipa kune vamwe vakaroorana, kana kuzvirasa. Ndinoronga kusiya yangu mudura.

Colleen Coughlin [CC]: Runako rwekuita mazai akaomeswa nechando ndechokuti pressure inobva. Zvinoshamisa kuti vakaroorana pamwe chete vanogona kuita sarudzo yavo yekupedzisira uye kuvaka mhuri dzavo kana vagadzirira, kwete nokuti biology yavamisa. Ini chaizvo handifunge kuti bhenefiti hombe yekuve nemazai echando ndeyemwana nhamba yekutanga. Huwandu hunoratidza kuti vakadzi vazhinji vanochata nekufamba kwenguva kuti vawane mwana wekutanga kana vakasarudza, asi handiro dambudziko guru. Chipingamupinyi chikuru ndechekushaya mbereko kwechipiri. Pamusoro pezvo, kana murwere akapedzisira ava nemwana anorwara angangoda imwe mhando yemupiro kubva kune imwe hama, iwo mazai ane hutano akaomeswa nechando anogona kunge ari machisi. Iyo $500 (kuchengeta mazai mudura) iinishuwarenzi yakakosha kusvika waziva sarudzo dzese dzinogona kuuya.

Chimiro: Ndezvipi vakadzi vezera rako vanonyanya kushamiswa nekuziva nezvekuomesa mazai?

WB: Shamwari dzangu dzinondibvunza mibvunzo yakawanda uye chinhu chavanonyanya kushamisika nezvazvo kungori nyore kwazvingaite. Kana iwe ukabvarura mativi acho, ivo vanokwanisa kuibata uye voisa misoro yavo kutenderedza. Izvo zvakakosha kuti utore izwi kunze uko pamusoro pekuti kuomeswa kwezai chii nekuti kunenge kuri kuita shanduko yemutambo. Nguva yakanakisa yekumisa mazai ako iri pakati pemakore makumi maviri nemashanu kusvika makumi matatu nemashanu. Vachaoma nechando munguva. Pamakore makumi maviri nemashanu kana makumi maviri nemanomwe, mumwe munhu anogona kufunga kuti "handikwanise" kana kuti "kushaya mbereko hakuzomboitika kwandiri," asi hauzive kuti hupenyu hunokanda nzira yako sei. Iye zvino ndiyo nguva yakanaka yekuzviita. Kana uri kufunga nezvazvo, ita proactive. Enda unotaura nemumwe munhu nezvazvo uye dzidza zvaunogona kuita. Dzidzo isimba. Kuwedzera kwevakadzi kudzidza nezvesarudzo yavo, sarudzo iri nani yavaizokwanisa kuita.

Chimiro: Wataura nemumwe wevakadzi pa Bachelor nezvazvo?

WB: Paive nezvakawanda zvaiitika pachiratidziro, asi pakanga paine husiku hushoma patakataura nezvazvo uye ini ndinofunga ndakawana vanhu vaviri muchikepe kuti vaome mazai avo!

Chimiro: Chii chakaita zuva rakajairika semukoti wekubereka rinotaridzika kwauri? Zvakaita sei izvozvi zvauri muLA naChris Kutamba neNyeredzi? Izvozvo zvichachinja here paunotamira kuArlington?

WB: Zuva rega rega rakasiyana, uye ndizvo zvinoita kuti rinakidze kwazvo. Asi kana iwe ukasvika pazviri, zuva rinosanganisira kudzidzisa varwere, kupindura mibvunzo yavo, uye kuve mumiriri wavo uye shamwari. Ndezvekuvabatsira kuzadzisa zviroto zvavo. Ndisati ndaenda kunoratidzwa, ini ndanga ndichishanda nevarwere vechitatu-bato (varwere vari kushandisa mupi wezai kana gestational surrogate) uye izvozvi ndiri kushanda nevarwere ve vitrification varwere (varwere vachifamba nenzira yezai inotonhora). Ndiri kukwanisa kuzviita zviri kure-semuenzaniso, kuratidza maitiro ekuita majekiseni pamusoro peSkype. Tekinoroji inoshamisa! Ndine shungu nazvo uye handina kuronga kusiya munda zvachose, uye ini zvechokwadi handina kuronga kusiya Aparent IVF. Ini ndakadzidziswa neakanakisa uye ndine mukana wakakwana wekupihwa uyu mukana wekushanda kure, kunyangwe kubva kuArlington. Kuchave nekufamba kwekuenda nekudzokera kuChicago sezvazvinodiwa.

CC: Izvo zvese ndezvekutsvaga iye chaiye munhu, uye iwe unotsvaga chero chaungaite kuti uchengete munhu akanaka. Hatisi kutendera Whitney kutiza kubva kwatiri kunyangwe chii chinotevera!

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